We’ve been to a few clubs on nights where single men are allowed.
Although we generally look for other couples and women we’re more than happy to have a chat, as long as you’re respectful and normal how you would be in a bar then that’s fine with us. Granted we are there to play so providing you take a hint if we politely move on then that’s great.
It may lead to some soft play on our side but that would absolutely be instigated by us.
Worst experience was when we attended with a lady friend of ours, and a single guy latched onto us assuming that he was now her date as we’d spoken for about 5 minutes. He got a bit touchy and ended up being escorted out by a very vigilant owner.
We don’t think it’s weird to go as a single male though, and wouldn’t judge you as out of place.
Anecdotes aside our tips would be.
Don’t be a creep peering out from the shadows, say hello, nod, anything just to demonstrate your a human not a psychopath. Any guy we’ve done anything with in a club, is somebody we remember being polite and friendly early in the night.
Don’t force yourself on a couple, maybe eye contact and a smile, and say hello if you’re nearby. For us, if we’re happy to chat we’ll let you know, if not you’ll get the hint as we’ll go to the bar or wander off.
If we’re playing, don’t come and sit right next to us, nearby and watch fine, maybe ask if you can watch if you want to get closer, but announcing your presence with a cock slap on D’s elbow will likely lead to it getting slapped off.
Most importantly, relax and be friendly, act how you would in a normal bar and be polite. No need for nerves, we know that we’re naked and know that we’re having sex in front of you, just enjoy it for what it is, but don’t try and jump on! |
great memory i have with her from last year at Quest
