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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find .

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes some people do it just to cause chaos and to annoy people

If it gets personal you can report them otherwise ignore so you dont get a forum ban

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Lots do this sadly and it can make for some bad feelings on the forums.

Some will try to excuse it as banter and others simply enjoy triggering people, quite pathetic really.

You shouldn't have to but learn to walk away from it if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach, a tale as old as time

I will stand my ground so far and then think 'sod this'

I have neither the energy nor the inclination to be drawn into a public disagreement with someone who means nothing to me, usually over something trivial

It really isn't worth the investment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find ."

Indeed I’ve found it to be very true and just because they enjoy the shit it brings.

To be fair the admin/mods have helped me enjoy the forums much more by putting me on the naughty step many many times and now I just stay away from certain posters and I enjoy the forums much more.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find ."

No your not

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

People who do this usually thrive on attention so dont play thier game and give them none. Ignoring them is usually more harmful and upsetting for them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Unfortunately, yes OP. X

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

I do turn the other cheek now but still notice the odd off the cuff remarks designed to antagonise or provoke me from some morons

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find ."

Yes they do. I just ignore these people now and will report them if they are being personal they are not worth my time. X

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I do turn the other cheek now but still notice the odd off the cuff remarks designed to antagonise or provoke me from some morons "

Unfortunately that will never stop, ignore them. X

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"I do turn the other cheek now but still notice the odd off the cuff remarks designed to antagonise or provoke me from some morons

Unfortunately that will never stop, ignore them. X"

Thing is it’s the same people over and over again. I have now learned to restrain myself see them for what they are laugh at them and avoid a forum bam xx

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find .

Indeed I’ve found it to be very true and just because they enjoy the shit it brings.

To be fair the admin/mods have helped me enjoy the forums much more by putting me on the naughty step many many times and now I just stay away from certain posters and I enjoy the forums much more.

T"

Yea and we all know who they are

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I do turn the other cheek now but still notice the odd off the cuff remarks designed to antagonise or provoke me from some morons

Unfortunately that will never stop, ignore them. X

Thing is it’s the same people over and over again. I have now learned to restrain myself see them for what they are laugh at them and avoid a forum bam xx"

Best way, my lovely! X

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I scroll past threads that are made by certain posters as I know it’s probably not going to end well.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find ."

Hehehe! There are some ‘characters’ in here always feeling the need to chip in something irrelevant waiting to see who bites...... When you recognise them, it’s more fun to bait them. Don’t get mad, get even......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons I've found it difficult to find enjoyment chatting in the forum.

Personally I don't need to mind read into wind ups or undercover nastiness

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find .

Hehehe! There are some ‘characters’ in here always feeling the need to chip in something irrelevant waiting to see who bites...... When you recognise them, it’s more fun to bait them. Don’t get mad, get even...... "

Lol truth be known i do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find .

Hehehe! There are some ‘characters’ in here always feeling the need to chip in something irrelevant waiting to see who bites...... When you recognise them, it’s more fun to bait them. Don’t get mad, get even......

Lol truth be known i do x "

... but that's like tormenting a cat, then wondering why you get scratched

As someone up there ^ said, don't give them their oxygen

They'll soon get fed up

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Do you think some people do this even in the nicest of threads ? I am having to learn to let a lot go over my head I find .

Hehehe! There are some ‘characters’ in here always feeling the need to chip in something irrelevant waiting to see who bites...... When you recognise them, it’s more fun to bait them. Don’t get mad, get even......

Lol truth be known i do x

... but that's like tormenting a cat, then wondering why you get scratched

As someone up there ^ said, don't give them their oxygen

They'll soon get fed up "

That’s true but they can be irritating I will behave I promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A lot more lately I’ve noticed than when we used to be on years ago. Boredom I suppose. If they aren’t correcting spellings and grammar they pick holes in everything asked especially when it was said light heartedly or as a fantasy.

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