FabSwingers.com forum: That age old question

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Ao u have increasingly seen posts from people stating how good bareback is. I think we can all agree it feels much better, thats not the debate here.

What really gets to me is 90% of the people saying they prefer bareback and hardly use protection, are also claiming safe sex on their profile.

Why lie? Just be honest! Its not like youre alone...

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I wouldn't trust anything you read on forum one couple posted looking for bareback meets one guy commented calling them dirty disease spreaders turned out he had met them twice on a previous profile both bareback meets some folks will say anything they think people want to hear to get a meet

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I wouldn't trust anything you read on forum one couple posted looking for bareback meets one guy commented calling them dirty disease spreaders turned out he had met them twice on a previous profile both bareback meets some folks will say anything they think people want to hear to get a meet "

I wouldnt say thats true for everyone but i have seen my fair share of this. Such a shame too. I much prefer the honest and open approach

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By *hunkyfunkycplCouple
over a year ago

london

Some people won’t meet with anyone who has played bareback in the past. If someone was to play bare and then get tested to check they are clean then surely it would be fine!?

Like I said some people will leave as soon as they see bareback so I’m guessing people hid it and only reveal if they can get away with it.

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Some people won’t meet with anyone who has played bareback in the past. If someone was to play bare and then get tested to check they are clean then surely it would be fine!?

Like I said some people will leave as soon as they see bareback so I’m guessing people hid it and only reveal if they can get away with it."

Im no expert in tests but i do believe some can take a while to show up? This wouldn't be enough for me. If they lied about bb, then surely they could also lie about beinf tested at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many people do it to "keep their options open", to try to appeal to those that'll only play safe, but actually go bareback on meets. That appears the norm actually. It annoys me tbh, just be honest, there plenty of people on here happy to play bare, you don't need to lie to get a meet. My profile states bare only and I'll happily tell people about my recent sexual history and test results if they ask, we're adults that can make our own decisions. Xx

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I think many people do it to "keep their options open", to try to appeal to those that'll only play safe, but actually go bareback on meets. That appears the norm actually. It annoys me tbh, just be honest, there plenty of people on here happy to play bare, you don't need to lie to get a meet. My profile states bare only and I'll happily tell people about my recent sexual history and test results if they ask, we're adults that can make our own decisions. Xx"

It doesnt bother me at all when they are honest. I know people have their preferences but personally i look for safe sex and those who practice this regularly. It gives me peace of mind in a world full of so many risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

People lie about all sorts, and not only on here. For us that means we have to make very careful judgements about those we meet and then get to know. It's why (covid apart) we rarely meet anyone from Fab. Also please bare in mind that safe sex isnt safe, just safer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want"

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Ao u have increasingly seen posts from people stating how good bareback is. I think we can all agree it feels much better, thats not the debate here.

What really gets to me is 90% of the people saying they prefer bareback and hardly use protection, are also claiming safe sex on their profile.

Why lie? Just be honest! Its not like youre alone..."

Maybe they sometimes have safe sex?

I mean it may say anal or watersports or separate room but guess it doesn't mean its compulsory to do that with them everytime they meet?

Perhaps they need a bareback tick box as well to indicate they are happy to do both.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of all the meets I've had over the years, only a couple brought their own condoms.

I don't trust anyone. I assume they are infected with sti's & covid, married, age discrepancy, etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People lie about all sorts, and not only on here. For us that means we have to make very careful judgements about those we meet and then get to know. It's why (covid apart) we rarely meet anyone from Fab.

***Also please bare in mind that safe sex isnt safe, just safer.*** "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I have practiced safe sex for the past ten months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx"

So you still went bareback? Or you have condoms with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx

So you still went bareback? Or you have condoms with you?"

They had a condom they used. I don't have any xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx

So you still went bareback? Or you have condoms with you?

They had a condom they used. I don't have any xx"

So you do or would go bareback? God it sounds so judgemental lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx

So you still went bareback? Or you have condoms with you?

They had a condom they used. I don't have any xx

So you do or would go bareback? God it sounds so judgemental lol"

I always do. It's on my profile and I've said in this thread... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say most profiles are probably 90% trueful, im not saying people are lying but maybe saying the right thing to get what they want

90% of the people I've met off here have had safe sex ticked, and over half of them state safe sex only in their bio somewhere. I've had a condom used once...

Many people are not truthful about BB. Xx

So you still went bareback? Or you have condoms with you?

They had a condom they used. I don't have any xx

So you do or would go bareback? God it sounds so judgemental lol

I always do. It's on my profile and I've said in this thread... Xx"

Sorry I read it has 90% safe leaving 10% not and used condom once....

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s that long since I didn’t use a condom I’ve forgotten lol.

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