FabSwingers.com forum: manners

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is it wrong for women to ask for photos before replying then soon as you send them they delete you or block you ? we are all adults who spend time sending mail and photos just to be deleted and they say men are bad ladies look in the mirror and be polite one day you will be deleted and start crying manners don't cost nothing

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The average woman on here gets dozens of messages every day, they may not have time to reply to every one of them.

They ask for photos as there’s no point replying to someone they don’t fancy, it saves both of you time and effort.

Plus fab rules state if you don’t get a reply it’s a no. If you can’t take rejection or being ignored this probably isn’t the site for you.

And I’m being pedantic but you’re wrong, manners do cost nothing.

Stick with it, for every woman on here there are probably 1000 men, women can afford to be very picky.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong for women to ask for photos before replying then soon as you send them they delete you or block you ? we are all adults who spend time sending mail and photos just to be deleted and they say men are bad ladies look in the mirror and be polite one day you will be deleted and start crying manners don't cost nothing "

Don't send your photos,that'll teach them

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Depends who made contact first in our book. If you sent the first message, op, you should send the first face pic and not expect one or even a reply in return especially if they're not interested, what's the point? I'm not keen but out of politeness I'm going to send you a face pic. Who's going to do that?

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By *chilles and RavenCouple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We dont ask people for photos, we have a policy of if you do not have pictures on your profile we will not meet you. We feel if we make an effort with our profile, they should to.

We get loads of requests from people who have not ( i know you have already guessed it) not read our profile. We simply reply no pictures, no effort, no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not unreasonable. Unless theres an initial attraction. Theres no real point in continuing the conversation. And from past experiences on here. Not saying you are one of them of course. But then even a polite no thank you, you arent our type can provoke either abuse, questions like, why not? You wouldnt be disappointed....blah blah blah. And blocking you simply means that you both cant do that or accidentally forget you've already messaged someone and then message them again another day. So it's kind of a positive for you in the long run.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It seems like every thread you start is to complain about how rude and awful the women on here are. Are you sure the problem isn’t in your approach?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

....says the man with no public photos on his profile...

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

So if you were to send me a photo and I wasn’t physically attracted to you ... I would reply saying sorry not for me and block you ... just to save any repeat messages ... if I’m not attracted to you physically then I’m afraid there’s no lint carrying on the contact and messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are so sensitive.

Didn’t like your pictures - so what.

Last thing I care about on here is manners.

1. Good face

2. Good body

3. Good blowjob

4. Wet soaked pussy

5. Good chat

398. Manners

That’s me about done

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're right op, manners don't cost anything.

Women do not owe you anything though and it's bad manners to suggest they do in my personal opinion.

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By *wingpaulMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Women and couples or anyone for that matter owe us fellas nothing but as a rule of thumb perhaps if they have asked for details and photos etc. it would only be manners to reply with "no thanks good luck" and a smile surely that can't hurt

Personally I've several times had messages from couple/ladies asking for more pictures information etc even though I think my profile is quite comprehensive and when I do no response

On the other hand they're are genuine people I guess it's a supply demand thing but could be a little more courteous certainly if we desire equality lol xx

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

"The average woman on here gets dozens of messages every day, they may not have time to reply to every one of them.

They ask for photos as there’s no point replying to someone they don’t fancy, it saves both of you time and effort.

Plus fab rules state if you don’t get a reply it’s a no. If you can’t take rejection or being ignored this probably isn’t the site for you.

And I’m being pedantic but you’re wrong, manners do cost nothing.

Stick with it, for every woman on here there are probably 1000 men, women can afford to be very picky.

Lou x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no public photos, so maybe when you send one you're obviously not for them? Perhaps you should try not being a silhouette, as guys with no profile pic seem to be hiding something? My gf gets inundated with messages, she shows me the funny ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We women don't cry when we get deleted, there's plenty more men to choose from. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is..

Suck it up buttercup!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Accepting defeat is something else and moving forward it's nothing to complain about because we may not be a match for everyone but might be for others take it on the chin as a polite no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow, don't feed the trolls.

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