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"As in you will have to try them over a 4 week period, to see if you have that side effect or not..unfortunately that family of meds does.. " thanks julie, thats what ive heard! ooh the OH WILL be pleased!! However from what I remember, I wont give a rats arse (well not while im on the meds!!) | |||
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"Citalopram will not affect your sex drive, i was proscribed a course a few years back for PTSD, it's was all fine in the sex department. " It is though different for everyone, and I know it has affected someone's sex drive. Sertraline is one of the best I know of to not affect your ability... | |||
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"does seroxat (paroxetine) affect sex drive then?" not sure if it is under the SSRI's of drugs? As julie said, that type of antidepressant can affect your libido/ability to orgasm | |||
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"does seroxat (paroxetine) affect sex drive then?" Yes that is an SSRI. | |||
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"does seroxat (paroxetine) affect sex drive then? not sure if it is under the SSRI's of drugs? As julie said, that type of antidepressant can affect your libido/ability to orgasm" Yep, Citalopran is an SSRI. Been there for 14 months and started coming off it now. Happily, my separation cured my anxiety, depression, and erectile dysfunction! The last 5 months have been verrrry satisfactory - thanks Fab! Not certain if the good effects were pharmacological or psychological, but it worked. Best of Luck with yours X | |||
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"Citalopram will not affect your sex drive, i was proscribed a course a few years back for PTSD, it's was all fine in the sex department. " Affected mine big time. couldnt orgasm had no sexual desire or feeling affected my son the same way.. not the same for everyone obviously.. | |||
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"I wanted to pick the forumites brains... My job has suddenly gotten very stressful due to a new boss who has just taken over and is being bullying and unapproachable. Im not especially depressed, more anxious. Im finding I dont sleep very well (can get off to sleep but keep waking up) And keep feeling sick, due to nerves. Especially sunday nights/monday mornings. Im seeing my GP tomorrow, and have a feeling he may put me on citalopram (an antidepressant) which ive been on before many years ago. It works really well (you stop getting upset about the shit happenning around you!! lol) I will talk to the GP about the side effects, but i dont want to make a big deal about how it may/will effect my sex drive. As you guys know how important a girl's sex drive is to swinging......could i have some advice/ experiences from you guys? PS i know i should really be dealing with how the boss is behaving, that is something im trying to do. He behaves like this with all the other staff as well. So its not just me getting shit!" Frankly I find this post unbelievable. Don't you have any self respect? Why are you tolerating this kind of treatment? Join a union and stand up for yourself with their support against this bully! | |||
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"Have you considered trying St Johns Wart and getting your doctor to refer you for councelling rather than going straight for antidepressants? " This is better than sodium based inhibitants. Fresh St Johns Wort as opposed to synthetic often found in the high shops, make tea with it. Alternatively bi carb soda will definately help your anxiety. Too many people reach for the tablets which often cause more problems or just numb them. There are of course a lot of people that find them helpful but the body is not meant to intake half of these shite chemicals. Natural remedies everytime. If you want some professional help feel free to contact us and we'll put you onto someone. Many people are becoming increasingly dubious over big pharma solutions and rightly so. | |||
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"have been taking citalopram a long time now and yes maybe it takes longer to climax,but my oh my,when i do,its a belter hehe xx ps,everyone different and i hopeyou feel better soon xx " +1 it is the same for me x | |||
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"I wanted to pick the forumites brains... My job has suddenly gotten very stressful due to a new boss who has just taken over and is being bullying and unapproachable. Im not especially depressed, more anxious. Im finding I dont sleep very well (can get off to sleep but keep waking up) And keep feeling sick, due to nerves. Especially sunday nights/monday mornings. Im seeing my GP tomorrow, and have a feeling he may put me on citalopram (an antidepressant) which ive been on before many years ago. It works really well (you stop getting upset about the shit happenning around you!! lol) I will talk to the GP about the side effects, but i dont want to make a big deal about how it may/will effect my sex drive. As you guys know how important a girl's sex drive is to swinging......could i have some advice/ experiences from you guys? PS i know i should really be dealing with how the boss is behaving, that is something im trying to do. He behaves like this with all the other staff as well. So its not just me getting shit! Frankly I find this post unbelievable. Don't you have any self respect? Why are you tolerating this kind of treatment? Join a union and stand up for yourself with their support against this bully! " "no self resect" you sound like you have never been in this situation,when you are depessed your self respect totally goes. unions are a total waste of time. I tried standing up to the boss who was bulling me,just made matters worse tbh.In the end decided to just shut up and get over it with gp and families help.as for medication effecting erections and orgasms,yep it does. | |||
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"used to be on citalopram and i lost my sex drive all together. on fluoxetine and had no problems at all. As others have said, each person will reacdifferentnt, so see how you get on but speak to your doctor as thats why he put me on fluovetine " I too was on fluoxetine for 18 months and it totally killed any desire for sex. We tried and I actually couldn't 'feel' anything. I weaned myself off them and now sex is Fab...pardon the pun. | |||
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"Thank you guys for all your kind words and advice. I will grow some balls and be upfront with the GP tomorrow!!! " | |||
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"Thank you guys for all your kind words and advice. I will grow some balls and be upfront with the GP tomorrow!!! " | |||
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"Thank you guys for all your kind words and advice. I will grow some balls and be upfront with the GP tomorrow!!! " and xxx | |||
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"I wanted to pick the forumites brains... My job has suddenly gotten very stressful due to a new boss who has just taken over and is being bullying and unapproachable. Im not especially depressed, more anxious. Im finding I dont sleep very well (can get off to sleep but keep waking up) And keep feeling sick, due to nerves. Especially sunday nights/monday mornings. Im seeing my GP tomorrow, and have a feeling he may put me on citalopram (an antidepressant) which ive been on before many years ago. It works really well (you stop getting upset about the shit happenning around you!! lol) I will talk to the GP about the side effects, but i dont want to make a big deal about how it may/will effect my sex drive. As you guys know how important a girl's sex drive is to swinging......could i have some advice/ experiences from you guys? PS i know i should really be dealing with how the boss is behaving, that is something im trying to do. He behaves like this with all the other staff as well. So its not just me getting shit!" im sorry i dont think you should be loking to take pills, i really think you should be reporting your boss for bullying and harassment, no job is really worth your health over | |||
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"I wanted to pick the forumites brains... My job has suddenly gotten very stressful due to a new boss who has just taken over and is being bullying and unapproachable. Im not especially depressed, more anxious. Im finding I dont sleep very well (can get off to sleep but keep waking up) And keep feeling sick, due to nerves. Especially sunday nights/monday mornings. Im seeing my GP tomorrow, and have a feeling he may put me on citalopram (an antidepressant) which ive been on before many years ago. It works really well (you stop getting upset about the shit happenning around you!! lol) I will talk to the GP about the side effects, but i dont want to make a big deal about how it may/will effect my sex drive. As you guys know how important a girl's sex drive is to swinging......could i have some advice/ experiences from you guys? PS i know i should really be dealing with how the boss is behaving, that is something im trying to do. He behaves like this with all the other staff as well. So its not just me getting shit! im sorry i dont think you should be loking to take pills, i really think you should be reporting your boss for bullying and harassment, no job is really worth your health over" While I don't condone taking pills to resolve the issue, it may help the OP in short term. It's not that easy to file a complaint about your boss or in fact anyone. It's a very serious matter and sometimes it's just hard to prove the bullying. When you realise what is actually happening you probably need to get new examples with the exact happenings as you can't remember the details from before. Bullying can be so subtle. And then some companies are small and such complaints are even more difficult. It's all about politics. It's not all that easy, been there and done that. | |||
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"Thank you guys for all your kind words and advice. I will grow some balls and be upfront with the GP tomorrow!!! " Good for you... If you read this before you go to see the Doc.. Speak to him/her about Hypericum (St Johns Wort). It is the most orescribed "medicine" for mild depression in Germany and can be bought over the counter in the UK.. Yes it is a herbal medicine, but I found it really worked well.. Reason for talking to the doc? Just to make sure it doesn't affect anything you may be taking or he/she may prescribe.. It does give a mild light sensitivity in some and can affect those taking medicine for heart issues.. Good luck with soerting it and that bastard of a boss xxxx | |||
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"If you can cope with a low dose it might be fine. But if Citalopram works well for you on other levels then I'd stick with it." I on that to stable a un stable heart beat apparently it works for that coz of how it sorts out anxiety. Anyway it makes me feel very very sick and flat I don't feel high or low just flat and though I have never been able to come easy before its almost impossible now well that depends on how willing the man is to try lol but I still really enjoy sex and have accepted orgasms are a rare thing but to be honest when they happen they a lot more intense since on meds. So good and bad as far as orgasm goes. Not as many but bloody hell loads better when happen lol. You know what's important to you and even if most posts say not orgasm since been on it that don't mean you won't does it | |||
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"The worst problem with anti depressants are the withdrawal symptoms. You may only need them for a few weeks, it could take you many months to wean yourself back off them" ** I have been on / off them for years .. and this last time I probably had two years on..7 mths on the 40 mg stopped a few weeks back without any probs..so again I guess you cannot generalise | |||
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"i cant comment on the drugs issue as i have noe experience of it but i can comment on teh workplace issue. i am an employer who owns his own company and if i found out any manager of mine was bullying or intimidating any of my staff they would be on the sharp end of some very serious disciplinary action. obviously we dont know the full details of your workplace or its structure but you need to take this up with is boss, if he has one. you have to nip this in the bud, if he is allowed to carry on without challenge it will only get worse. You need to cataloge any incident that you feel constitues bullying. times places, what was said and also names of anyone else present at that time. Then you ask for an appointment to see him and you tell him you wish to have a third party present. You confront him with your issues and advise him that if he fails to stop and starts to treat you as a proper employee you will have no option but to report it to a higher authority. if he refuses, then you file an official grievance complaint, with the relevant person in the command structure, outlining your attempt to address the situation informally. make a written diary of anything you feel is wrong. If he is the big boss then get in touch with ACAS and discuss this with them and they will advise you. Also talk to your colleagues because if they are being treated the same then the more people involved the stronger the case. in my company the staff are my biggest asset and any employer worth his salt should see that good luck but you need to solve the problem not mask the symptoms." Kenny that was excatly my point, its pretty bad when a manager whatever the reasons are, is getting his subordinate in such a state that there having to resolve it by going to the doctors, and how on earth can they be productive when there dreading going into work, some people baffled me, i was allways taught to treat people how you would want to be treated yourself, because you never know when you might meet or need them on the way down | |||
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