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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Just wondering how long in between sex do you leave it before you can “go again”

I find if I haven’t ejaculated for a few days the time in between is shorter

In my younger days I would be able to keep going whilst cumming and keep going until I cum again!

I miss those days!!

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By *enusandmarsCouple
over a year ago

Buryish

I want about a weeks notice!

Seriously though, 20/30 minutes and I can bully it into round 2, seems most guys on here can just keep on going though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did try to keep going recently which I managed to do for a good 5 minutes but I wouldn’t say I was particularly enjoying it!!

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I've very rarely EVER been able to go again.

Once I've cum,Thats pretty much it for me. I can usually go again in the morning.

There has been the very rare occasion that ive been able to go again but this comes like once in a blue moon.

I know that some men are repeat cummers but this isnt the norm for the majority of us guys.

Once you've cum. You just don't feel aroused and or excited anymore. The brain just isn't interested .

Chemical reactions within the brain also makes most men sleepy. Its a known fact unfortunately

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By *9ben89Man
over a year ago

sheffield / northampton

I have cum twice from the same blowjob before that was quite hot!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

It's been quite some time since I last had the opportunity, but after I've cum the first time, how long before I'm ready to "go again" depends on the circumstances...

....as quickly as 10-15 mins if 'in a hurry', but 20-30 mins is probably about average during a less rushed meet...

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I want about a weeks notice!

Seriously though, 20/30 minutes and I can bully it into round 2, seems most guys on here can just keep on going though!"

Oh to be young... When coming was just a distraction before "all aboard" for round 2 or 3...how long now? Very dependent on circumstances and what else is going on... From memory at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 min I would say

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By *is_a_visMan
over a year ago

Cambridge/ London but often Herts/ East Anglia

I think it hugely depends on how recently you came before that point. Would be helpful if people shared that part in their replies too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally find it so hard to cum once sometimes I just can't its blessing and curse at the same time

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

When younger me and tinytits had sex 7-8 times a day. I can still cum for a second time when haveing a blowjob within 5 minutes and feels great when I do

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Mis my younger days too, cumming several times within a night of sex, cumming and able to say hard for at least 5mins after.. shooting multiple streams of cum which was good fun leaving splattered on the back of the works toilet door for the gorgeous female cleaner to find.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

My fwb can normally go 2 or 3 times, shortest one he just carried on but usually 5 to 10 mins if we're having a long sesh, best he's managed is 4 times x

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Im good for 2 rounds right of the back and then a third like 5/10 minutes later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel sorry for the pressure the men can be under sometimes with things like this.

It should be noted that from mine and a lot of women’s experience that it is the norm to require a degree of time between cumming and being ready for round two. That’s just biology but how many times do you see requests for repeat cummer’s or something similar.

If you are a repeat cummer then well done you, I’m happy for you but as a default position, I’d always expect a man to need time between sessions.

So guys, please don’t beat yourself up if you fall in this category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take my time and have a brew in-between. I can be reloaded and ready in 20-30 minutes for round 2, an hour for round 3 and a couple of hours for round 4. Its normally my muscles that need the recovery time and not my testicle.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Only time that ever happened to me was when I was 14 and I just hapoened to try on some stockings in the woods and played with myself, I cum twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it wonderful the first time and you don't need a second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 20 mins for me but the second time it’s not as thick or as heavy after a second time it takes a lot longer to cum again

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By *pun84Man
over a year ago

Doncaster


"My fwb can normally go 2 or 3 times, shortest one he just carried on but usually 5 to 10 mins if we're having a long sesh, best he's managed is 4 times x"

Defo see why with you babes x ??

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

K used to be one and done, then went twice without a break, then 3... His norm (with me) is now 5, though he has managed 7 before without stopping. It's quite incredible and I find it really hot, though I wouldn't expect it from others. We've built quite an explosive level between us and I don't imagine that would happen with others to the same extent, I don't know, maybe he's evolved

C

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

For me it would only be a couple of minutes. I would often just get a class of water for both of us cause she is still riding out her orgasm??

Then after like a few minute break of resting and drinking, back onto round 2

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By *ondon10inchMan
over a year ago

enfield

Just gone 6 rounds last night .. multiple squirts .. . Reading this .. I think I’m abnormal.. Lucky her so; wasn’t even nothing out the ordinary ... could have gone more .. sore pussy stop play ..

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Funny this should come up "no pun intended" I never thought about this until I cammed with a much younger female a couple of weeks ago who made a big thing of the fact I came, two minutes later started again and came a second time within twenty minutes, she was keeping track, it didn't enter my head it was unusual or impossible at my age as she put it and more amazed I didn't have any pills or a cock ring? I really didn't think I was any different but must have higher than normal levels of testosterone or something. Nice to be able to prove 56 isn't past sell by date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go twice without going down at all. Sometimes three times without stopping then usually after a minute or two I’m ready to go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the point for a man of cuming multiple times in a short period like a machine? I rather take my time for a good hour or two and cum once. If the night and the atmosphere leads to more that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the point for a man of cuming multiple times in a short period like a machine? I rather take my time for a good hour or two and cum once. If the night and the atmosphere leads to more that’s fine."

Sounds perfect to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex I would cum 6 to 8 times in a 3 hour Sunday morning sex session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally find it so hard to cum once sometimes I just can't its blessing and curse at the same time"

I am the same. But the plus is i can fuck for hrs and hrs. Better than shooting your bolt in 2mins i think. My mrs loves it but sometimes it pisses me off my mind wont connect to shoot. But to be fair jen rathers it i can go for ages so as long as she is pleased thats all that counts really. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always go twice without going down at all. Sometimes three times without stopping then usually after a minute or two I’m ready to go again "

Wait till you are older that soon stops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gone 6 rounds last night .. multiple squirts .. . Reading this .. I think I’m abnormal.. Lucky her so; wasn’t even nothing out the ordinary ... could have gone more .. sore pussy stop play .. "

Did you wake up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will cum relatively quickly and then will need 30 minutes chill time to go again but maynot cum a second time. Good 4 whoever I am with but also a little frustrating, no multiple orgasims 4 me!

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

10 to 15 mins normal. Although cumming a second time takes longer.

On a child free evening we will have sex a minimum of twice but often mucn much more.

Lost count of the most times we have fucked in a night but my dick is often a swollen mess by the morning lol

If i take a viagra it can be hard again in 2 to 5 minutes and have stayed hard and cum again a few times.

Also on viagra Babygirl can get me hard even when I'm telling her i can and dont want to go again.

She'll be playing with my cock saying "you say that but you dick is telling me he wants to fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half hour , but if I’m really horny or d*unk then 5mins or I’ll just lick till I’m hard again and that normally isn’t too long depends who I’m with and the situation

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Just gone 6 rounds last night .. multiple squirts .. . Reading this .. I think I’m abnormal.. Lucky her so; wasn’t even nothing out the ordinary ... could have gone more .. sore pussy stop play .. "

Meeting people during a pandemic and during a lockdown.

Im lost for fucking words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people here who really should consider a career in fiction writing

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Just gone 6 rounds last night .. multiple squirts .. . Reading this .. I think I’m abnormal.. Lucky her so; wasn’t even nothing out the ordinary ... could have gone more .. sore pussy stop play ..

Meeting people during a pandemic and during a lockdown.

Im lost for fucking words "

To be fair, it might have been someone in his 'bubble'...

....or, as someone else has already suggested, it might have been in his imagination...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have multiple mini orgasms anyway. So I can just keep on going. But when I do eventually have the big one. I generally need a good half hour or so to recover. I would say based on all the threads I've seen on here over time that if you are someone that can go again. Between half hour to an hour is a fairly standard response. But we are all different. It doesnt mean anything. And is not a reflection on someones performance or owt.

J

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By *ORPEDO COCKMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Same here,,on a private meet at a couples house I always like to cum twice else i dont feel like I'm doing my job an respect the invitation shall we say,,on a club night I'm very much the same,,getting lucky early on then relaxing,chillin/jacuzzi/sauna for around a hour before havin some more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour for a decent 2nd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that if i slowly keep going and then build up again i can repeat.

If he doesn't want to play that game though, its not normally longer than about 10 minutes.

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

When my hubby fks me for an hour or so playn suckn fkn whatever when i cum i want hin to cum and leave me alone so we dont really try but we will tonight. Debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But tbh, from my (kim) point of view...... If u wana know

If we're meeting as a couple or I'm going off alone to fuck. I don't care aslong as they kiss, love oral both ways and either can fuck hard and slow for hours and only cum once, maybe twice give me a nice big warm gooey mess Or pound the fuck into me balls deep and give me a nice sticky load and can re load and fire again repeatedly either way i get pleasure as do they x

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By *intage74Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Mrs as hotwife, has a friend who will fuck her and always deposit 3 loads for me to add to when she comes home xx Wonderful feeling and she loves it

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Never have a problem staying hard and cumming again. Sometimes, just stay hard after cumming, carry on and cum again.

It's surprised a few ladies I've been with - in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can stay hard. Always love round 2 even more but it can take an age to cum the second time meaning a very hot and sweaty man in the bed.

Good workout for all though!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I tend to be able to stay hard quite a while and repeat quite quickly (20 mins) but there have been times when either I really struggle to cum or I just can’t get it hard again after the first time so my answer to the question is - I have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally find it so hard to cum once sometimes I just can't its blessing and curse at the same time

I am the same. But the plus is i can fuck for hrs and hrs. Better than shooting your bolt in 2mins i think. My mrs loves it but sometimes it pisses me off my mind wont connect to shoot. But to be fair jen rathers it i can go for ages so as long as she is pleased thats all that counts really. J"

I find it easier to cum in the morning tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally find it so hard to cum once sometimes I just can't its blessing and curse at the same time

I am the same. But the plus is i can fuck for hrs and hrs. Better than shooting your bolt in 2mins i think. My mrs loves it but sometimes it pisses me off my mind wont connect to shoot. But to be fair jen rathers it i can go for ages so as long as she is pleased thats all that counts really. J

I find it easier to cum in the morning tho "

Afternoon for me. John

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

This reminds me of monty pythons 4 Yorkshiremen sketch.

I come 4 times before I get up in the morning and then another 5 at lunch time while waiting for my pot noodle finish off with 6 by supper....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Just wondering how long in between sex do you leave it before you can “go again”

I find if I haven’t ejaculated for a few days the time in between is shorter

In my younger days I would be able to keep going whilst cumming and keep going until I cum again!

I miss those days!!"

Honestly? Depends on the woman.

Usually 15/20 mins these days.

Used to be 2/3 mins, but those days are gone with most of my youth. However, I’ve also gained a lot in return so very happy with the current state of affairs.

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

To be honest I been lucky that I can cum and carry on fucking for a while, but also a good stayer and that’s with experience.

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By *omethingDifferentMan
over a year ago

In the Wilderness of Beyond

I’ve no problem staying hard after cumming, but the desire disappears pretty quickly.

If she’s still into it and we keep playing I can be persuaded to go again.

Things tend to be a bit tender after the 2nd go though ??

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be with a guy, who I think is on fab actually so I'll tread carefully lol, he used to cum and I'd give him a slow 10 to 1 count down and by the time I reached 1 he had to be back inside me again. He quite enjoyed the pressure I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes takes 10 - 20 minutes before I can go again. Second load is more watery and messy, but the feeling is much nicer and lasts longer. I used to jerk off half an hour before sex just so I could enjoy the second load with her.

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By *omethingDifferentMan
over a year ago

In the Wilderness of Beyond


"I used to be with a guy, who I think is on fab actually so I'll tread carefully lol, he used to cum and I'd give him a slow 10 to 1 count down and by the time I reached 1 he had to be back inside me again. He quite enjoyed the pressure I think lol"

That’s hot as fuck!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be with a guy, who I think is on fab actually so I'll tread carefully lol, he used to cum and I'd give him a slow 10 to 1 count down and by the time I reached 1 he had to be back inside me again. He quite enjoyed the pressure I think lol"

I’d love to play that game with you!

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By *ncubus XMan
over a year ago

midlands - glasgow - islands

I can usually cum 3-4 times and carry on, Iv cum on my OH face then in her pussy and on her tits it’s great to fuck while she smells of cum and has it all over her. I need to have a break from sex for 3-4 days prior to a session like this but is worth the wait as is amazing, I like to cover her face then lay next to her and fuck her while I can see my cum. Last week I cum 3 times on her tits then once on her face with no break she was covered but I hadn’t had sex or cum for about a week prior!

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

The situation generally has bearing on it, if it's a particularly horny session as opposed to something more vanilla then it's likely to take longer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally around half an hour. Mainly because it takes me absolutely ages to cum. Even more so if I'm enjoying the sex

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