Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Swingers Chat |
Jump to newest |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" I'm up for more than just meets...I'm single!! Good to chat | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely makes for more fun " Hi guys x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"That's called regular fuck buddies" Lol | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"I’m single so the thread isn’t aimed at me but I have met quite a few couples that became such good friends with playfriends that they’ve also socialised “vanilla style” at summer bbq’s , birthday parties etc ... " NICE ONE X | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" Looks impossible to be honest but maybe it's just us | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"No, that's not for us. We like to dip in and out when we want and the gaps can be long, switching off from swinging is important to us so any type of commitment isn't for us. Don't get me wrong when we're meeting it's all in on our part but when we leave our time is done till the desire to play next kicks in, the friendship/commitment in between doesn't appeal at all." This sounds similar to us. We already have lots of vanilla friends who are great company. We swing for extra excitement and to fulfill our sexual fantasies, part of which is anonymous sex with strangers. Having said that we do occasionally have repeat meets with one or two people we can get on with. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"No, that's not for us. We like to dip in and out when we want and the gaps can be long, switching off from swinging is important to us so any type of commitment isn't for us. Don't get me wrong when we're meeting it's all in on our part but when we leave our time is done till the desire to play next kicks in, the friendship/commitment in between doesn't appeal at all. This sounds similar to us. We already have lots of vanilla friends who are great company. We swing for extra excitement and to fulfill our sexual fantasies, part of which is anonymous sex with strangers. Having said that we do occasionally have repeat meets with one or two people we can get on with." We totally get this. We too have repeat meets and they understand. It feels odd to us when we're not even thinking of meets to be engaging in play talk, we're doing normal family, friends and couple stuff to be interested. However, when the play gene kicks in we're engaged, ready to talk and commit the week or two beforehand, play then break. It works for us very well. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" I have some very dear long-time friends on here who have moved into Facebook friends as well. Some I've not actually had sex with so go figure... | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" We prefer to have friends that we play with rather than one off meets, We find getting to know people is a great way of being able to push boundaries. And it's not just about the sex sometimes it's nice to just meet up for a drink and a chat, maybe a little flirting . | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Yes we are...When safe to meet again" | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship? I'm up for more than just meets...I'm single!! Good to chat " I'm deffinately up for a long term friendship | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" Yup totally us! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"With couples that is definitely what we prefer. Really enjoy a night out with like minded people where we all get on well and have lots of laughs. If it ends with us all ending up in the bedroom together even better Kx" Our thoughts exactly. Its not all about the sex. You all have to get on, have a laugh and then if you decide to have sex if will be fun. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We perfer a social first. Then if we all click arrange a night to have fun . Xx " This is what we will be doing. No point playing id you cannot click when chatting. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship? Yes we are, always. Makes for better sex. X " Totally agree x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" That is indeed what we are looking for but the fit has to be just right for my wife. T | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"The idea of friends is great but I'm not sure how horny it would be discussing each others jobs, kids, homelife. Sat in the hottub in a swingers club listening to people chat about the school run is not sexy!" We had 2 fellas like that in a hot tub just waffling on about lawn mowers | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"The idea of friends is great but I'm not sure how horny it would be discussing each others jobs, kids, homelife. Sat in the hottub in a swingers club listening to people chat about the school run is not sexy!" Well that depends how sexy your school run is! I often have a naughty smile on my face standing in the school yard, knowing just 10 mins earlier I was having a little play while talking to a fab friend | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"The idea of friends is great but I'm not sure how horny it would be discussing each others jobs, kids, homelife. Sat in the hottub in a swingers club listening to people chat about the school run is not sexy! We had 2 fellas like that in a hot tub just waffling on about lawn mowers " Boring friends are ex-friends - we tend to have interesting, engaging and fun conversations with our friends! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"I think we may be looking for the holy grail. A fully bi couple to be friends with that are all happy to meet in every possible permutation. Meet for a coffee as 1, 2, 3 or 4 or dinner etc etc. And then the same for the sexy fun." That’s the same as where looking for. We do have some very good straight or bi fem friends with benefits. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Ideally we'd like a select group of fab friends we can get together with for socials as well as filth. Post-covid will see how that pans out. C" | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"I’m single so the thread isn’t aimed at me but I have met quite a few couples that became such good friends with playfriends that they’ve also socialised “vanilla style” at summer bbq’s , birthday parties etc ... " This is us, even went to a swingers wedding a couple of years ago and were on a table with 4 other naughty couples x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Ideally that’s what we’re looking for. Another couple that we click with socially as well as sexually, where the 4-way sex just flows without any hang ups. Nights out at restaurants and pubs, with the sexual undercurrent providing knowing glances and careless touches. As well as attending ‘clubs’ together and having fun while others watch us." Sounds fun | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"I think we may be looking for the holy grail. A fully bi couple to be friends with that are all happy to meet in every possible permutation. Meet for a coffee as 1, 2, 3 or 4 or dinner etc etc. And then the same for the sexy fun." Now that would be rare. We would only play as a cpl as most would. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We've made some great friends along the way but I think the dream like some have said is to have bff's that you could be naughty with aswell isn't it. " We have made very good frinds, we go to party's and clubs together, even been on holiday all together (3 couples) but have made loads for very good frinds that we see a lot of in normal time xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We've made some great friends along the way but I think the dream like some have said is to have bff's that you could be naughty with aswell isn't it. We have made very good frinds, we go to party's and clubs together, even been on holiday all together (3 couples) but have made loads for very good frinds that we see a lot of in normal time xx" wish more people were like you guys and appreciate the social side of swinging is just as much fun x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" I'd love to get along and make new friends on here for more social things to do together. I'm single and horny, but also want a pint or coffee, dinner,movies.with good company | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"This is what we aspire but very hard to establish ." Agreed. Fingers crossed we might manage it one day. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We are looking for great reliable friend/fun ships with couples or to join small parties/groups, also happy to travel around the north " Hello guys x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We tend to only swing with couples we are friendly/friends with, rather than complete strangers. We've made so many friends swinging, We've had them at our wedding, been on holidays and are just as happy at a family bbq as we are doing something a little less vanilla. Xx" VERY COOL GUYS VERY COOL GUYS X | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" Be great to go for a beer at the moment, and have a laugh. We enjoy it online too. A few people on here like quick chat and that’s it at mo. Strange times. We love to chat as it shows people can hold a conversation out side sex and flirting. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"We would love to make friends with people. We can't guarantee the sex bit though. It'd just be nice to have mates who wouldn't go all awkward and quiet if you talk about sex or start an argument if you sit next to their husband and start flirting." Sounds good to us | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship? Be great to go for a beer at the moment, and have a laugh. We enjoy it online too. A few people on here like quick chat and that’s it at mo. Strange times. We love to chat as it shows people can hold a conversation out side sex and flirting. " We miss Scarborough There are some lovely places around there and plenty of secluded areas | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"The biggest problem is finding couples that are close enough. We have a few far away friends that we are missing very much,but it would be great to find swinging friends closer to home for when it's safe to meet xx" Finding cpls close enough you click with and would love to hang out with and have good sex with is the hardest bit. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"For us, It’s nice to meet similar couples for a drink and a good laugh and if anything happens after that it’s a bonus" Exactly what we want. Nights/days out ect. And unplanned sex is even better if you all feel horny and fancy a play later on | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" Yes, that's definitely us. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship? Yes we are, always. Makes for better sex. X " This x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship? Be great to go for a beer at the moment, and have a laugh. We enjoy it online too. A few people on here like quick chat and that’s it at mo. Strange times. We love to chat as it shows people can hold a conversation out side sex and flirting. We miss Scarborough There are some lovely places around there and plenty of secluded areas " That it does | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"For us, It’s nice to meet similar couples for a drink and a good laugh and if anything happens after that it’s a bonus" | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Always better to build up over a few meets." Indeed | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" Always looking for friendship, have made some wonderful friends on fab over our time on here | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" We prefer to build a relationship with couples and ladies. We find as the friendship progresses, and everyone gets to know one another, the fun in the bedroom gets better. Plus it’s just nice at times to just meet up have a fun night without sex. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Any couples here who not just after sex meets and also prefer long term friendship?" For us the friendship is at least as important as the sex. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Majority of our very good friends we met from this lifestyle x" same here | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
"Yes this is exactly what we are looking for. Ideally a couple we can socialise with have nice dinners play games etc and on occasion jump into bed and get filthy " Agree. We are looking for this also. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) |
Reply privately |
back to top |