FabSwingers.com forum: Has swinging ruined strip clubs?

By *utForAdventure26 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Neots

Some time ago (pre pandemic) hubby and I visited Sophisticats in London. I was surprised that we found ourselves quickly bored; the concept of looking but not touching feeling a tad odd for swingers.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Yep. It’s pretty pointless. Felt sorry for the punters. We went and left not long after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I saw a stripper was at EmpireX porno cinema in Huddersfield. The girl was young and pretty with nicely shaved cunt and she happily spread her legs wide to make sure every one could see. Most of the guys were openly wanking and she didn't mind... It was just the norm I understand.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Think the punters are wanna be swingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are totally different experiences.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I blame internet pornography

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

For your experience or in general?

I think sex is more freely available and people more promiscuous today, and meeting people is way easier with the internet meaning the bit of titillation you used to get at the strip club isn't needed or the thrill it might have been.

I've not been in one for years, I do love some good pole work, rather watch that than a lapdance.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Yeh the lap dance scene was pretty dead, pub and stag do strippers seem out of date.

Male strippers seemed quite popular.

I personally love burlesque nights and clubs, get some nice curvy lasses and I find it more erotic, plus the costumes are crazy cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been to one. Never seen the point. Didn't do owt for me. I dont see how swinging has ruined them any more than alleged dating sites. Etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years (and before I discovered swinging) I was dragged to a few by mates - stag dos etc. I always found them boring and seedy. The girls are only wanting your money and you can't touch so what is the point? I preferred the Amsterdam live sec shows which weren't necessarily erotic but they weren't seedy either - they were a bit tongue in cheek which made it more relaxed.

Personally I'd prefer a nightclub to a strip club as at least you have chance of something more and I'm always going to have more fun if I'm on the podium

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We'd much rather watch Ladies dancing, stripping and having fun in a swinging club. They're much sexier than pole dancers

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

"We'd much rather watch Ladies dancing, stripping and having fun in a swinging club. They're much sexier than pole dancers

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totally agree swingers clubs for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last strip/lap dancing club I went to, when one of the girls came over I said that I swung and the whole lap dance with no interaction felt strange. We ended up chatting for ages and had a great laugh, when her co-workers came over, she told them and I chatted with them (a couple swing themselves). I think I got more attention than the rest of the stag party who were throwing money at them all night.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Some time ago (pre pandemic) hubby and I visited Sophisticats in London. I was surprised that we found ourselves quickly bored; the concept of looking but not touching feeling a tad odd for swingers.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?"

Best strip club I went to was with a male friend.

Turned out the woman was bi, on fab, and we rather liked each other.

We had a few private dances where my friend wasn’t allowed to touch - but the lady and I kissed and had some ‘top half only’ play. It was highly erotic.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Has anyone else had a similar experience?"

I’ve only been to one, it was in Milton Keynes. It was great for the experience, they had some fantastically hot girls in there, who were really chatty, and one even let me feel her boobs as she was so proud of her recent ‘enhancement’ (she kept an eye on the bouncers and told me to have a feel when she said “go” lol). Will never forget the black girl who whispered in my ear “Would you like to see what’s black on the outside, and pink on the inside?” She was quite correct lol.....

Overall, it was a fun night, we all had a great time, but I came out of the place as horny and frustrated as I cannot describe, and would have fucked a crack in a wall!

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We’ll visit one occasionally on a vanilla night out, just nice to have a drink and chat with other nice looking women in lingerie around.

Completely different to swinging experience.

Although we did fuck in the champagne room of a club in Amsterdam while a gorgeous Eastern European lady poured said champagne over us. We didn’t do anything with her other than some very light touching, however was a good night.

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