FabSwingers.com forum: People that add you as a friend and never talk

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it strange that some people add you as a friend but never reply to your messages, any thoughts on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of it is to do with wanting to see their private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - really simple answer is pic collectors !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah right i see, i thought it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep - really simple answer is pic collectors !"

or they want to see what the pics are before taking things further

not everyones pic collectors,

alot gotta be people who look at the pics and think ok not for me then, i just think alot of people assume people are picture collecting when i think the amount of people that do are a very small minority

they are simply nosey pervs thats all haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep - really simple answer is pic collectors !

or they want to see what the pics are before taking things further

not everyones pic collectors,

they are simply nosey pervs thats all haha "

well im baffled to think anyone would want to look at mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think some are picture collectors, and because we do more artistic shots, people will think in our private gallery there are more explicit ones, but there isn't...so they must be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probs hoping to see clearer pictures of your face/body or cock / naked pics

if u keep getting zero response then consider whats on show there, are they your best pics you can show of yourself, as its a good tool to have as gives people a reason to show some form of interest if they add to see, even if they dont chat, some will if its what they looking for.

but just take it as someone looking into you a bit further and wanting a little more info about you to see if ur what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think some are picture collectors, and because we do more artistic shots, people will think in our private gallery there are more explicit ones, but there isn't...so they must be disappointed.

still they probs not downloading and collecting the pictures, i just think the majority are people looking at stuff on the site and fancy seeing more photos.

just people going the extra mile when it comes to perving and checkig people out.

like someone dont need much of a motive to check out your public pics, that dont make them picture collectors, so the private ones being viewed will be pretty much the same deal, but they will often think YES THESE ARE GOING TO BE THE JUICY PICS lol

of couse be some pic collectors but really peope dont have to mooch private photos if they want to collect peoples pics its easy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to us, but with women (before we took women off our looking for list of course).

I have often wondered if they were wanting to see the private pics and that's the only reason why.

In the end, I've decided that perhaps we got friended because we were a possible meet but now we're not seeking women, naturally there is no need to contact us for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has happened to us, but with women (before we took women off our looking for list of course).

I have often wondered if they were wanting to see the private pics and that's the only reason why.

In the end, I've decided that perhaps we got friended because we were a possible meet but now we're not seeking women, naturally there is no need to contact us for a meet."

its the women thats doing to me lol, but seen as im looking for women and couples it would be hard to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go with pic collectors.

Thats why i dont bother having any pics in private, so there is no motivation for them to friend request me.

The other reason might be, that single fems tend to get a lot of messages, so it could be that they are too busy to chit chat??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

down right rude we call it....... if they read two messages and cant be bothered to reply, we delete...... simples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That reminds me...need to have a look at my friends list!

Many are pic collectors, Others just don't take the time to learn about you. Either way, if you're not happy then part company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple thing to do send msg if no answer in 24 hrs and they've been online delete and block & move on

alot are just nosey and not interested in meets thats across the board fem cpls included

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

equally strange today is someone fabbing my pics and then blocking me .. whats that about.. I would understand if he was local but someone chexcked and he from scotland

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

we never accept friends requests from people who we have not chatted to

also we don't delete them as it stops them sending any more

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