FabSwingers.com forum: Females opinions on one way relationships (Kink)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im very curious about this. to describe it wouldn't necessarily be cuckolding but it would involve the guy being 100% faithful and the girl being able to see whoever she likes whenever. She would essentially have the sexual power in the relationship/arrangement. questions are.

- If you are with a guy would you expect you both to play or both be faithful etc?

- Does this idea excite you and would make you enjoy your fun more?

- Would you enjoy him watching or would you prefer to have your privacy and tell him about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the situation with my husband and I. I meet other people, he doesn't.

Me meeting others was his idea and he likes to hear about it later when we're together.

I don't have the power in our relationship though, we have our own power exchange dynamic in which he's in charge. I started swinging because he suggested it and it's his choice not to sleep with others.

Its not a cuckolding thing like there's no humiliation or anything like that, he just likes the idea of me fucking other people. They don't provide anything he doesn't, but he likes the reclaim sex afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats a really interesting side. its something that i would like to explore too. do you regularly play with others or only occasionally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in relationship with a guy met on here 2yrs ago. We have great sex. We both play solo and also have couple profile together, weve had mfm. Mfmf fun. Trust is main thing and talking about it. Works for us.

When we have mfm meets sometimes he just watch, join in or leaves us to it.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I wouldn’t be opposed to the idea, if he was happy with it.

My fwb only sees me, although I wouldn’t be opposed to him seeing others. He does like to hear about my meets, although atm I am not having any of course.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Im very curious about this. to describe it wouldn't necessarily be cuckolding but it would involve the guy being 100% faithful and the girl being able to see whoever she likes whenever. She would essentially have the sexual power in the relationship/arrangement. questions are.

- If you are with a guy would you expect you both to play or both be faithful etc?

- Does this idea excite you and would make you enjoy your fun more?

- Would you enjoy him watching or would you prefer to have your privacy and tell him about it?"

I am single so the question isn't aimed at me .

But if I wasn't and was in that sort of scenario, I couldn't have him watching at the end of the bed... it would literally freak me out. He's have to play or not be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be open to me playing with others outside of the relationship and him staying faithful.

I have quite a slutty side and feel I would get bored with just the one cock.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My relationship is completely open and we both meet other people. I'm not really interested in engaging in a monogamous relationship again but if I met a guy who was genuinely happy in the arrangement you describe and had no desire at all to meet others so it was entirely his own choice not to, then I would consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the attraction for all parties, if it’s genuinely enjoyable and people understand the other individual wants and boundaries, it’s pretty hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thats a really interesting side. its something that i would like to explore too. do you regularly play with others or only occasionally?"

I assume this was for me...

I only play at clubs so I obviously haven't been in a long time, around a year. But before covid I would go around 3 times per month.

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