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Should I change to straight?

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Do what feels right for you, even with a straight profile you'll still get guys messaging you.

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Do what feels right for you, even with a straight profile you'll still get guys messaging you. "

Sadly yeah everyone taking a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I ask what gynesexual is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?"

I think you say more about your sexuality here than you do on your profile

It won't stop all messages from guys (or couples), but you do need to spell it out for some people

Subtlety breeds chancers

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?

I think you say more about your sexuality here than you do on your profile

It won't stop all messages from guys (or couples), but you do need to spell it out for some people

Subtlety breeds chancers "

Thanks I’ll be more clear . Should I use more caps?

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"May I ask what gynesexual is? "

Someone who is gynesexual identifies as being attracted to femininity or the female anatomy, regardless of whether the object of one's affection identifies as a woman

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?

I think you say more about your sexuality here than you do on your profile

It won't stop all messages from guys (or couples), but you do need to spell it out for some people

Subtlety breeds chancers

Thanks I’ll be more clear . Should I use more caps?"

I think caps sound aggressive

You don't need aggression, just clear & concise bullet points where the reader is left in no doubt whether or not you would be interested in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just block men from messaging you? You can always message them if they take your fancy!

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?

I think you say more about your sexuality here than you do on your profile

It won't stop all messages from guys (or couples), but you do need to spell it out for some people

Subtlety breeds chancers

Thanks I’ll be more clear . Should I use more caps?

I think caps sound aggressive

You don't need aggression, just clear & concise bullet points where the reader is left in no doubt whether or not you would be interested in them "

Okay will do thanks for the advice

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe just block men from messaging you? You can always message them if they take your fancy!"

That’s hard due to Sometimes get nice and real straight That just want to have chats most of the times.

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By *lymDrewMan
over a year ago

plymouth


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?"

So much gets written about this subject, it's like a little battle of labels, someone will label themselves as something and someone else decides they've miss labelled themselves and seeks to relabel the other person.

Who gets the labelling rights?

I'm pretty similar to yourself in that I'm mainly attracted to femininity be that in a male or female.

You have Tgirls seeking straight men, they want a man who loves their femininity, others asking why straight men would contact them, and not to bother if they're listed as straight... Bi Guys listed as straight, which upsets the straight guys when a guy messages just to check lol Occasionally Bi guys listing as straight, so as not to alienate straight couples, and hugely reduce their chances of meeting a straight couple. There are many reasons to label yourself one way or the other, some genuine others a little deceitful and trying improve their odds.

What ever way you go, someone will find a problem with your labelling system... Labels are specific, defined. Peoples sexuality isn't, boundaries are blurred, and constantly shifting and we're all different...

All you can really do is be specific in your profile text and ignore those that ignore that...

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?

So much gets written about this subject, it's like a little battle of labels, someone will label themselves as something and someone else decides they've miss labelled themselves and seeks to relabel the other person.

Who gets the labelling rights?

I'm pretty similar to yourself in that I'm mainly attracted to femininity be that in a male or female.

You have Tgirls seeking straight men, they want a man who loves their femininity, others asking why straight men would contact them, and not to bother if they're listed as straight... Bi Guys listed as straight, which upsets the straight guys when a guy messages just to check lol Occasionally Bi guys listing as straight, so as not to alienate straight couples, and hugely reduce their chances of meeting a straight couple. There are many reasons to label yourself one way or the other, some genuine others a little deceitful and trying improve their odds.

What ever way you go, someone will find a problem with your labelling system... Labels are specific, defined. Peoples sexuality isn't, boundaries are blurred, and constantly shifting and we're all different...

All you can really do is be specific in your profile text and ignore those that ignore that... "

Enjoyed the read to see that there many similar to me here , the struggle is real but I felt in real life as well mainly most the abuse are from girls that here I like tv or have been with a male(femboy) and I get called gay and blocked or verbal abuse. I’ll just put straight and move on thanks for the help.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Hey I am gynesexual , but due to keeping my bio on bi I get a lot of guys and couple wanting me to be with there Male half’s contacting me.

Would it be better to switch to straight to reduce these messages?

I do t want to block all men due to having good conversations and nice people I meant in general.

What’s your take?"

I prefer if you maintain your bi status.

No one can accuse you of being a deceiver or a liar (whether they know gynesexual or not).

However it is up to you.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Put straight don’t give yourself a label and if you want a guy you message them

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