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By *hades Of Grey OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

What is the fundamental difference between being Bi-curious and Bisexual? And how many shades are there in-between?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex "

Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more"

This is me...fem. x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more

This is me...fem. x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x "

Explains me very well . Thanks Mrs P

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By *aTraCouple
over a year ago

london

For us Bi Curious means trying it a few times to see if you get into as a way of life or just put it down to a horney experiment.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I class myself as bi curious because I’ve had limited bi experience, but enjoyed it and I’m curious to try more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !"

Totally understand this and were the same. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !"

Same as I don’t want the guy to turn up then say not for him

Makes me feel like I am not sexy anuff for them

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I class myself as bi curious because I’ve had limited bi experience, but enjoyed it and I’m curious to try more.."

I’d say if you’ve tried it, liked it and want to try more you are bisexual.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x "

That’s an interesting take. So far from my personal experience I’d describe them differently personally

Bicurious; I like the look of your other half’s cock, I’d gladly cross swords in an MMF, feel his shaft against mine in DVP and enjoy making a mess with both of our cum all over your gorgeous body.

However I wouldn’t kiss him, I wouldn’t fuck him, I wouldn’t let him fuck me and I’m not sure on oral.

That’s how I view bi/curious but I guess it is interpreted by the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x

That’s an interesting take. So far from my personal experience I’d describe them differently personally

Bicurious; I like the look of your other half’s cock, I’d gladly cross swords in an MMF, feel his shaft against mine in DVP and enjoy making a mess with both of our cum all over your gorgeous body.

However I wouldn’t kiss him, I wouldn’t fuck him, I wouldn’t let him fuck me and I’m not sure on oral.

That’s how I view bi/curious but I guess it is interpreted by the individual. "

Thanks for the compliments. My husband is straight but wouldn’t care if your cocks were close during mmf, that’s par for the course. He wouldn’t entertain any 1:1 touching/kissing/oral at all though so definitely not bi-curious.

And I suppose this is why it’s good to chat and have a social meet, communication is key.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh. I get confused evertime a photo of my cock gets liked by a guys profile marked as straight.

Im guessing its blind photo-like-bombing? Or they are not as straight as they claim?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol"

He’s just in denial! Or you haven’t done enough to convince him.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !"

^this

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows:

Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him

Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom

Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference

Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows:

Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him

Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom

Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference

Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap

"

Done both bisexual and fully bisexual meets. Met guys in groups also many years ago. ( no fems present). How far you go depends on the people present and their boundries.

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
over a year ago

bristol

I was bicurious a long time ago.

After that I was definitely bisexual and still am.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !"

One of the reasons I updated my profile to be more specific!

(Nice profile pics _kon).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “

"

Gotta be careful you don't catch the ghey

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

I'm about 25 shades past the curious stage on the bi-o-meter.

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By *ungapotamus27Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Bi-curious = curious, experimenting but haven’t decided

Bi-sexual = decided you like both

Buy-sexual = you like to pay for sex

I would say I’m bi-playful, I like playing with guys but don’t actually fancy them....perhaps just sexmad then

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"Bi curious . We don’t meet them

Bisexual we do

There’s the difference !

One of the reasons I updated my profile to be more specific!

(Nice profile pics _kon)."

Thank you kindly x

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Jesus we are confused. My status says bi curious but i love playing with girls and love them playing with me. I though bisexual was always plays with same sex i can play straight if needs be that was my silly idead. So help my hubby will play with men and let men play with him though he wont go as far as anal. Whats he. ?

STRANGE ???? HELP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men.

To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it.

Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too.

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
over a year ago

bristol

After my first taste of cock, wasn’t actually a taste as the guy fucked me and I never touched played/sucked his cock. He did rim (so good) and finger me, getting me ready for his covered cock, after the initial pain, the pleasure was intense, he fucked me for a minute before I blew all over the forest floor, but I digress.

I didn’t fancy him, or any guy I met, was purely sex and his cock or they’re cocks if I was lucky was all I was interested in. By then I’d sucked, wanked a few in readiness, was about their pleasure and the buildup to a good fuck which usually meant I’d cum hard as they fucked (safe only) my ass. No need to play with my cock, just being fucked and possibly some nipple play was all that was needed.

Over the years, I’ve grown to appreciate guys more, have fucked and rimmed some nice asses. Even kissing has been involved.

There’s even been a few I’ve fancied.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows:

Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him

Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom

Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference

Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap

"

That nail must have a rather sore head right now

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows:

Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him

Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom

Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference

Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap

That nail must have a rather sore head right now "

Ah ! You’ve been there as well !

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
over a year ago

bristol

I’ve been lucky enough to meet a mf couple and it’s been truly fab. A married couple, I played safe but got to 69 her, whilst they fucked doggy, got my first cream pie. Another time I was fucking her when he decided to fuck me, that was an experience. Never did get to fuck him, but great cock to suck and share with her, he was hung, bigger than me.

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By *estgalwayguyMan
over a year ago

Galway

Different between did it touch it or is it in lol

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m bi sexual and find that bi curious means , do you fancy a chat and have you pics to send

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By *ream of Sum Yung Gai2Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Bi curious- you want to suck cock

Bi sexual- you have sucked cock.

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"For us Bi Curious means trying it a few times to see if you get into as a way of life or just put it down to a horney experiment."
I tried it ,just to put a tick in the bucket list of things to do,saying that,I'll do it again,a great experience

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Tbh. I get confused evertime a photo of my cock gets liked by a guys profile marked as straight.

Im guessing its blind photo-like-bombing? Or they are not as straight as they claim?"

judging by profiles on here these lockdowns are changing a lot of people's thoughts,or just edging their bets

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington


"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men.

Aggree with you. X

To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it.

Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too. "

Aggree with that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have made up my mind that i like both but it does surprise me that straight profiles are looking to meet tv s and also contact me as a single looking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, assuming you're already into people of the opposite sex:

Bi curious = the clue is in the name, you're curious about some kind of play with someone of the same sex.

Bisexual = you've done some kind of play with someone of the same sex and enjoyed it, and want to do it again.

Some people equate sexual orientation with choice in romantic partners, personally I don't. You can be bisexual and choose to have romantic partnwes of only one sex. (this doesn't apply to me, but still).

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Is there a real difference I ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact is the labels are a guide and mean different things to different people.

There's a gender bias. If women play with women once or twice and aren't too fussed about it, but had loads of fun and might do it again, but also might not, nobody bats an eyelid. If a guy does his sexuality immediately and irrevocably changes.

Personally I think you can identify as a straight man and like a bit of cock occasionally, but it's not a popular opinion.

While we're here; the assumption that all bisexual (or gay for that matter) men have anal sex really winds me up. It just isn't true.

Sorry for going off piste here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi-curious people are trainee bisexuals. There's a cut-off point - say two years - after that they're either bisexual or they've failed the course and are to be considered straight. The exam's a lot of fun though.

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is the answer about 5 pints?

Or about 5 minutes

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

For me Bi Curious was when I thought "I wouldnt mind having a go" and then when I went back for more it became "Bisexual"

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Depending how the profile is worded, we take bi-curious to be bi-playful. Bi-sexual to mean enjoys both sexes equally. They're just labels though.

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By *urboTongue21Man
over a year ago

Walsall

What about bi-selfish? Willing to have done to them but not give back...thinking of guys who don't mind having their cock sucked by a male but would not reciprocate or women having a pussy licking by a woman but again not returning the favour.

Thoughts?

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By *W-LycraCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Gloucester

An honest answer? A couple of pints.... True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol

He’s just in denial! Or you haven’t done enough to convince him.

Lou x "

Hahahaa hes not curious when he's topped me for the 5 years hahahaha he's too lazy to change his status or too scared

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x "

I like the phrase 'bi playful'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I’m confused

I’ve always considered myself as bi-curious.

I enjoy watching, and I wank to, bi porn, tv-ts porn and sometimes gay porn.

I enjoy chatting to guys, tv-ts and bi couples here and on kik.

In the last 5 years I guess, I’ve invited on separate occasions, 3 different guys over where we’ve enjoyed mutual wanking and sucking but no more. I’ve had many offers of more meets with guys, but have been hesitant.

No real offers from a bi MF couple but I’d be more keen to meet in that situation. And, in a group setting with lots of cocks and pussys, I’d be open to an ‘anything goes’ policy.

I had a very genuine offer from a MM couple who are very local to me but I didn’t follow it through.

I don’t really fancy guys (although can recognise who I consider to be an attractive guy) and I haven’t even considered kissing guys but, I enjoy cock, I’ve enjoyed sucking cock and having guys suck me, and I’d like to experience fucking a guys sexy arse and having a hard cock in my arse....but think I’d be more comfortable doing this in a bi MMF situation rather than a guy on guy situation??? But then again.......would I? Or would I be comfortable doing more in a one on one? Rhetorical question as the only way I’ll know is to actually do it!!

I have very limited experience with guys but am now wondering, after reading this thread, if I should identify as bi-sexual as I have had some experience with guys, enjoyed it and think that I want more

Definitely confused.com and welcoming your thoughts/views/opinions/invitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I’m confused

I’ve always considered myself as bi-curious.

I enjoy watching, and I wank to, bi porn, tv-ts porn and sometimes gay porn.

I enjoy chatting to guys, tv-ts and bi couples here and on kik.

In the last 5 years I guess, I’ve invited on separate occasions, 3 different guys over where we’ve enjoyed mutual wanking and sucking but no more. I’ve had many offers of more meets with guys, but have been hesitant.

No real offers from a bi MF couple but I’d be more keen to meet in that situation. And, in a group setting with lots of cocks and pussys, I’d be open to an ‘anything goes’ policy.

I had a very genuine offer from a MM couple who are very local to me but I didn’t follow it through.

I don’t really fancy guys (although can recognise who I consider to be an attractive guy) and I haven’t even considered kissing guys but, I enjoy cock, I’ve enjoyed sucking cock and having guys suck me, and I’d like to experience fucking a guys sexy arse and having a hard cock in my arse....but think I’d be more comfortable doing this in a bi MMF situation rather than a guy on guy situation??? But then again.......would I? Or would I be comfortable doing more in a one on one? Rhetorical question as the only way I’ll know is to actually do it!!

I have very limited experience with guys but am now wondering, after reading this thread, if I should identify as bi-sexual as I have had some experience with guys, enjoyed it and think that I want more

Definitely confused.com and welcoming your thoughts/views/opinions/invitations "

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual "

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I’m confused

I’ve always considered myself as bi-curious.

I enjoy watching, and I wank to, bi porn, tv-ts porn and sometimes gay porn.

I enjoy chatting to guys, tv-ts and bi couples here and on kik.

In the last 5 years I guess, I’ve invited on separate occasions, 3 different guys over where we’ve enjoyed mutual wanking and sucking but no more. I’ve had many offers of more meets with guys, but have been hesitant.

No real offers from a bi MF couple but I’d be more keen to meet in that situation. And, in a group setting with lots of cocks and pussys, I’d be open to an ‘anything goes’ policy.

I had a very genuine offer from a MM couple who are very local to me but I didn’t follow it through.

I don’t really fancy guys (although can recognise who I consider to be an attractive guy) and I haven’t even considered kissing guys but, I enjoy cock, I’ve enjoyed sucking cock and having guys suck me, and I’d like to experience fucking a guys sexy arse and having a hard cock in my arse....but think I’d be more comfortable doing this in a bi MMF situation rather than a guy on guy situation??? But then again.......would I? Or would I be comfortable doing more in a one on one? Rhetorical question as the only way I’ll know is to actually do it!!

I have very limited experience with guys but am now wondering, after reading this thread, if I should identify as bi-sexual as I have had some experience with guys, enjoyed it and think that I want more

Definitely confused.com and welcoming your thoughts/views/opinions/invitations

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual "

After reading the thread, this is what I’m thinking. I’m definitely keen to explore further and have enjoyed the little experience I’ve had!

‘Hello, I’m G and I’m bi sexual’

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By *hades Of Grey OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further.

You're absolutely bisexual!

"

This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual?

I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further.

You're absolutely bisexual!

This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual?

I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey."

This

I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun.

I like the idea of shades of bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a difficult one and one of the reasons I’m not keen on labels. I’ve been with a few women and I enjoyed it very much but I much prefer men. If I never went with a woman again it wouldn’t really bother me so I’ve put bi curious on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a difficult one and one of the reasons I’m not keen on labels. I’ve been with a few women and I enjoyed it very much but I much prefer men. If I never went with a woman again it wouldn’t really bother me so I’ve put bi curious on mine. "

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

As far as fabs concerned for us, if a profile is bisexual then the meet will be better and he's more likely to turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure bi curious if you think you might like it - bi sexual if you don’t it AND you liked it!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"So, assuming you're already into people of the opposite sex:

Bi curious = the clue is in the name, you're curious about some kind of play with someone of the same sex.

Bisexual = you've done some kind of play with someone of the same sex and enjoyed it, and want to do it again.

Some people equate sexual orientation with choice in romantic partners, personally I don't. You can be bisexual and choose to have romantic partnwes of only one sex. (this doesn't apply to me, but still)."

This is me, I find both sexes attractive and have sex with both, however I've only ever dated men

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol"

Some guys don’t put bicurious or bisexual on their profiles because they think that it will turn some people off. However it does make it difficult to make first contact - you have to rely on them to make the first move.

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By *ennysouthMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've always wondered what the difference is and where I fit but reading this, I guess I'm pansexual as I like who I like and treat people as people.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Does it matter do we need to label everything

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"This is my take on it:

Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet.

Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not.

If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight.

I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue.

Lou x

Explains me very well . Thanks Mrs P"

This is me too! K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further.

You're absolutely bisexual!

This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual?

I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey.

This

I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun.

I like the idea of shades of bi"

This is me also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter do we need to label everything "

I'm many ways, this thread proves that it does matter as people are choosing who to chat with / meet with based on these labels that mean different things to different people.

This thread has also made it even less clear what label to use, but I do like the term Bi-playful.

My situation is :

* I don't fancy men at all.

* Any Anal play (with anyone) is a huge turn off.

* I'm not into any body hair, especially pubic.

But I do love to play with and suck a nice smooth cock, mainly in a MMF scenario.

It's no suprise given the above that I particularly enjoy meeting smooth TV/TS or couples. I have never met a man alone but would certainly be open to it.

Am I bicurious? Not really - I know what I like.

Am I bisexual? No. I don't fancy men at all.

Am I straight? Yes, (BUT I like playing with a cock, so not fully)

So I'm going with Bi-Playful. Thanks for the heads up!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Seen more than a few of these bi/bi-curious thread and never seen a consensus reached lol

Bi playful is a much better description for many on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter do we need to label everything

I'm many ways, this thread proves that it does matter as people are choosing who to chat with / meet with based on these labels that mean different things to different people.

This thread has also made it even less clear what label to use, but I do like the term Bi-playful.

My situation is :

* I don't fancy men at all.

* Any Anal play (with anyone) is a huge turn off.

* I'm not into any body hair, especially pubic.

But I do love to play with and suck a nice smooth cock, mainly in a MMF scenario.

It's no suprise given the above that I particularly enjoy meeting smooth TV/TS or couples. I have never met a man alone but would certainly be open to it.

Am I bicurious? Not really - I know what I like.

Am I bisexual? No. I don't fancy men at all.

Am I straight? Yes, (BUT I like playing with a cock, so not fully)

So I'm going with Bi-Playful. Thanks for the heads up!

"

That’s a great way to put it! Bi-Playful

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

F here is bi sexual and bi enthusiastic !!

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I love girls, pussy tits etc, I'm married and have had 3 extra marital experiences with girls. However I have sucked loads of cocks over the last 20 years and I love spunk over my face. But I have NO INTEREST in a relationship with guys. Purely oral sex . So I would say BI CURIOUS

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

We’d do more with bi playfull

Don’t mind fun in the bedroom but wouldn’t fancy a fella for relationship but the first to call one a looker if they are but that doesn’t make me gay either

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By *eed AttentionMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Need to taste more fruit I think.

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

This

I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun.

I like the idea of shades of bi"

Ditto. It's just sex, not romance.

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I have bi curious as I've played orally and loved it.

Have yet to try other things but want to. If I enjoy them ill change to bi.

I'm never going to fancy men like I do women but I'm open minded and enjoy playing with them

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men.

To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it.

Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too. "

This

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex

Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more"

I need to change my profile then ??

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By *sturjackMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men.

To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it.

Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too.

This "

This for me too

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By *ike hock 400Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

That sounds about right

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I like having fun with guys but don't fancy them. Just fancy some cock fun now and again. So if that makes me Bisexual then so be it.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

I'm just a greedy girl bi playful should definitely be an option

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

So both LOVE Bi play esp as a couple

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