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"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex " Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more | |||
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"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more" This is me...fem. x | |||
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"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more This is me...fem. x " | |||
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"This is my take on it: Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet. Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not. If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight. I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue. Lou x " Explains me very well . Thanks Mrs P | |||
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"Bi curious . We don’t meet them Bisexual we do There’s the difference !" Totally understand this and were the same. X | |||
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"Bi curious . We don’t meet them Bisexual we do There’s the difference !" Same as I don’t want the guy to turn up then say not for him Makes me feel like I am not sexy anuff for them | |||
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"I class myself as bi curious because I’ve had limited bi experience, but enjoyed it and I’m curious to try more.." I’d say if you’ve tried it, liked it and want to try more you are bisexual. Lou x | |||
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"This is my take on it: Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet. Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not. If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight. I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue. Lou x " That’s an interesting take. So far from my personal experience I’d describe them differently personally Bicurious; I like the look of your other half’s cock, I’d gladly cross swords in an MMF, feel his shaft against mine in DVP and enjoy making a mess with both of our cum all over your gorgeous body. However I wouldn’t kiss him, I wouldn’t fuck him, I wouldn’t let him fuck me and I’m not sure on oral. That’s how I view bi/curious but I guess it is interpreted by the individual. | |||
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"This is my take on it: Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet. Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not. If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight. I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue. Lou x That’s an interesting take. So far from my personal experience I’d describe them differently personally Bicurious; I like the look of your other half’s cock, I’d gladly cross swords in an MMF, feel his shaft against mine in DVP and enjoy making a mess with both of our cum all over your gorgeous body. However I wouldn’t kiss him, I wouldn’t fuck him, I wouldn’t let him fuck me and I’m not sure on oral. That’s how I view bi/curious but I guess it is interpreted by the individual. " Thanks for the compliments. My husband is straight but wouldn’t care if your cocks were close during mmf, that’s par for the course. He wouldn’t entertain any 1:1 touching/kissing/oral at all though so definitely not bi-curious. And I suppose this is why it’s good to chat and have a social meet, communication is key. Lou x | |||
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"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol" He’s just in denial! Or you haven’t done enough to convince him. Lou x | |||
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"Bi curious . We don’t meet them Bisexual we do There’s the difference !" ^this | |||
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"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows: Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap " Done both bisexual and fully bisexual meets. Met guys in groups also many years ago. ( no fems present). How far you go depends on the people present and their boundries. | |||
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"Bi curious . We don’t meet them Bisexual we do There’s the difference !" One of the reasons I updated my profile to be more specific! (Nice profile pics _kon). | |||
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" Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ " Gotta be careful you don't catch the ghey | |||
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"Bi curious . We don’t meet them Bisexual we do There’s the difference ! One of the reasons I updated my profile to be more specific! (Nice profile pics _kon)." Thank you kindly x | |||
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"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows: Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap " That nail must have a rather sore head right now | |||
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"To expand on my previous brief reply . The Fab difference between straight / bi curious / bisexual is as follows: Straight guys are men who claim to be bi in a frantic attempt to do me up my botty hoping we’ll say “ oh go on then “ when we’ve taken rare free together time and much effort to meet him Bi curious guys are men who’ll let your chap suck his cock with thief eyes closed whilst reciting silently “ I’m not gay , I’m not gay “ in the hope that they’ll get to shag me up the bottom Bisexual guys are men who want to do most things with both of you without preference Fully bisexual men - I know this isn’t a fab category but bear with me - are men who’ll happily meet your chap alone as he videos it for you and will cheerfully do you both up the botty as I kneel on top of my chap That nail must have a rather sore head right now " Ah ! You’ve been there as well ! | |||
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"For us Bi Curious means trying it a few times to see if you get into as a way of life or just put it down to a horney experiment." I tried it ,just to put a tick in the bucket list of things to do,saying that,I'll do it again,a great experience | |||
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"Tbh. I get confused evertime a photo of my cock gets liked by a guys profile marked as straight. Im guessing its blind photo-like-bombing? Or they are not as straight as they claim?" judging by profiles on here these lockdowns are changing a lot of people's thoughts,or just edging their bets | |||
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"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men. Aggree with you. X To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it. Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too. " Aggree with that x | |||
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"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol He’s just in denial! Or you haven’t done enough to convince him. Lou x " Hahahaa hes not curious when he's topped me for the 5 years hahahaha he's too lazy to change his status or too scared | |||
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"This is my take on it: Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet. Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not. If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight. I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue. Lou x " I like the phrase 'bi playful' | |||
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"Now I’m confused I’ve always considered myself as bi-curious. I enjoy watching, and I wank to, bi porn, tv-ts porn and sometimes gay porn. I enjoy chatting to guys, tv-ts and bi couples here and on kik. In the last 5 years I guess, I’ve invited on separate occasions, 3 different guys over where we’ve enjoyed mutual wanking and sucking but no more. I’ve had many offers of more meets with guys, but have been hesitant. No real offers from a bi MF couple but I’d be more keen to meet in that situation. And, in a group setting with lots of cocks and pussys, I’d be open to an ‘anything goes’ policy. I had a very genuine offer from a MM couple who are very local to me but I didn’t follow it through. I don’t really fancy guys (although can recognise who I consider to be an attractive guy) and I haven’t even considered kissing guys but, I enjoy cock, I’ve enjoyed sucking cock and having guys suck me, and I’d like to experience fucking a guys sexy arse and having a hard cock in my arse....but think I’d be more comfortable doing this in a bi MMF situation rather than a guy on guy situation??? But then again.......would I? Or would I be comfortable doing more in a one on one? Rhetorical question as the only way I’ll know is to actually do it!! I have very limited experience with guys but am now wondering, after reading this thread, if I should identify as bi-sexual as I have had some experience with guys, enjoyed it and think that I want more Definitely confused.com and welcoming your thoughts/views/opinions/invitations " You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual | |||
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" You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual " Really? | |||
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"Now I’m confused I’ve always considered myself as bi-curious. I enjoy watching, and I wank to, bi porn, tv-ts porn and sometimes gay porn. I enjoy chatting to guys, tv-ts and bi couples here and on kik. In the last 5 years I guess, I’ve invited on separate occasions, 3 different guys over where we’ve enjoyed mutual wanking and sucking but no more. I’ve had many offers of more meets with guys, but have been hesitant. No real offers from a bi MF couple but I’d be more keen to meet in that situation. And, in a group setting with lots of cocks and pussys, I’d be open to an ‘anything goes’ policy. I had a very genuine offer from a MM couple who are very local to me but I didn’t follow it through. I don’t really fancy guys (although can recognise who I consider to be an attractive guy) and I haven’t even considered kissing guys but, I enjoy cock, I’ve enjoyed sucking cock and having guys suck me, and I’d like to experience fucking a guys sexy arse and having a hard cock in my arse....but think I’d be more comfortable doing this in a bi MMF situation rather than a guy on guy situation??? But then again.......would I? Or would I be comfortable doing more in a one on one? Rhetorical question as the only way I’ll know is to actually do it!! I have very limited experience with guys but am now wondering, after reading this thread, if I should identify as bi-sexual as I have had some experience with guys, enjoyed it and think that I want more Definitely confused.com and welcoming your thoughts/views/opinions/invitations You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual " After reading the thread, this is what I’m thinking. I’m definitely keen to explore further and have enjoyed the little experience I’ve had! ‘Hello, I’m G and I’m bi sexual’ | |||
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" You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual! " This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual? I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey. | |||
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" You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual! This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual? I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey." This I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun. I like the idea of shades of bi | |||
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"It’s a difficult one and one of the reasons I’m not keen on labels. I’ve been with a few women and I enjoyed it very much but I much prefer men. If I never went with a woman again it wouldn’t really bother me so I’ve put bi curious on mine. " | |||
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"So, assuming you're already into people of the opposite sex: Bi curious = the clue is in the name, you're curious about some kind of play with someone of the same sex. Bisexual = you've done some kind of play with someone of the same sex and enjoyed it, and want to do it again. Some people equate sexual orientation with choice in romantic partners, personally I don't. You can be bisexual and choose to have romantic partnwes of only one sex. (this doesn't apply to me, but still)." This is me, I find both sexes attractive and have sex with both, however I've only ever dated men | |||
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"A guy I've met for more than 5 years still has bi curious as his status lol" Some guys don’t put bicurious or bisexual on their profiles because they think that it will turn some people off. However it does make it difficult to make first contact - you have to rely on them to make the first move. | |||
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"This is my take on it: Bi-curious means you’re wondering about it, you’re not quite sure you’re bisexual and haven’t tried it yet. Bisexual means you know you’re interested in both sexes, whether you’ve tried it or not. If you were curious, tried it and didn’t like it or don’t want to repeat it you’re straight. I’m straight but consider myself bi-playful. I’m not curious any more as I’ve tried it but I’m not bisexual as I have no interest in women for 1:1 but I won’t rule out a bit of soft play during a group situation. Just to confuse the issue. Lou x Explains me very well . Thanks Mrs P" This is me too! K x | |||
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" You've enjoyed sex acts with men and want to take it further. You're absolutely bisexual! This is the point of the initial question. "how many shades of 'bi' are there", and where on the scale are you?. Does enjoying sex with someone of the same sex make you fully bi-sexual? I enjoy sex with men, but I don't fancy them like I would a woman. I'd put myself at around 40 on the 50 _hades of grey. This I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun. I like the idea of shades of bi" This is me also. | |||
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"Does it matter do we need to label everything " I'm many ways, this thread proves that it does matter as people are choosing who to chat with / meet with based on these labels that mean different things to different people. This thread has also made it even less clear what label to use, but I do like the term Bi-playful. My situation is : * I don't fancy men at all. * Any Anal play (with anyone) is a huge turn off. * I'm not into any body hair, especially pubic. But I do love to play with and suck a nice smooth cock, mainly in a MMF scenario. It's no suprise given the above that I particularly enjoy meeting smooth TV/TS or couples. I have never met a man alone but would certainly be open to it. Am I bicurious? Not really - I know what I like. Am I bisexual? No. I don't fancy men at all. Am I straight? Yes, (BUT I like playing with a cock, so not fully) So I'm going with Bi-Playful. Thanks for the heads up! | |||
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"Does it matter do we need to label everything I'm many ways, this thread proves that it does matter as people are choosing who to chat with / meet with based on these labels that mean different things to different people. This thread has also made it even less clear what label to use, but I do like the term Bi-playful. My situation is : * I don't fancy men at all. * Any Anal play (with anyone) is a huge turn off. * I'm not into any body hair, especially pubic. But I do love to play with and suck a nice smooth cock, mainly in a MMF scenario. It's no suprise given the above that I particularly enjoy meeting smooth TV/TS or couples. I have never met a man alone but would certainly be open to it. Am I bicurious? Not really - I know what I like. Am I bisexual? No. I don't fancy men at all. Am I straight? Yes, (BUT I like playing with a cock, so not fully) So I'm going with Bi-Playful. Thanks for the heads up! " That’s a great way to put it! Bi-Playful | |||
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" This I’ve enjoyed the cock fun I’ve had and want to explore more but, I don’t ‘fancy’ guys and don’t think that I’d get into a relationship with a guy, I’m just keen for cock fun. I like the idea of shades of bi" Ditto. It's just sex, not romance. | |||
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"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men. To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it. Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too. " This | |||
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"Bi-curious Means that you got thoughts off playing with the same sex but never played with them so not shour if you would like it but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual means you all ready worked out you like playing with the same sex but also like to play with the opposite sex Bisexual also means you have tasted the fruit and now know you want more" I need to change my profile then ?? | |||
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"Fab should allow you to express being bi on a scale. I class my self as sexually fluid, not fully bisexual but not bi-curious either. I enjoy mff threesomes when i have them but the other 75% of the time i prefer men. To answer the OP: bi-curious = curious/ dabbling/ experimenting with someone the same gender as them. Still not 100% about it. Bisexual = will date/ love/ marry/ have sex with a male or female. Their attraction is to men and women. And theyre fully sure about it too. This " This for me too | |||
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