FabSwingers.com forum: Fun = Sex

By *allnlong OP Man
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

Why do people insist on being euphemistic and coy?

Pandemic aside this is a sex site, so whats to be gained by calling it “fun”, confused

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Why do people insist on being euphemistic and coy?

Pandemic aside this is a sex site, so whats to be gained by calling it “fun”, confused

Dunno. It is fun though, so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people insist on being euphemistic and coy?

Pandemic aside this is a sex site, so whats to be gained by calling it “fun”, confused

Myself I want to have "fun" and not just a shag. A meet is about more than just that, it's about enjoying the company of another person/persons.

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Because for me swinging encompasses a whole range of "fun" that goes beyond simply sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people insist on being euphemistic and coy?

Pandemic aside this is a sex site, so whats to be gained by calling it “fun”, confused

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its not a sex site its a swingers site....but all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because for me swinging encompasses a whole range of "fun" that goes beyond simply sex."

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I always find "looking for fun" pretty no descriptive.

I mean, my idea of fun and yours may be totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun" "play" "meets" are swinging terms , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the issue is the op misunderstanding that it’s swinging and not just sex

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By *allnlong OP Man
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"Perhaps the issue is the op misunderstanding that it’s swinging and not just sex "

I am well aware that this is a swinging site and been a part if the scene and community for over a decade

The reason I put sex specifically is that I curious why people use the word “fun” as a direct replacement for “sex”

Why not simply say they are looking for sex?

As another reply said, one persons idea of fun may not include sex, so why risk misunderstanding?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sex is easy to come by. Enjoying myself when I do isn't. I'm not just looking for sex. I'm far from coy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why but when fun is used it creeps me out a little, it's akin to messages with mmmmmm in them but maybe I'm just odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean.. there's a whole lot of fun involved apart from just the sex

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I was at a meet enjoying the attention of a very sexy woman aided and abetted by her husband, the door bell rang, hubby answers it, in walks a guy, he said hello, took off his trousers and underwear, put on a Durex, shagged the woman, said thank you and walked out.

I stayed and played with the couple and then joined them for a cup of coffee and a chat.

The guy that walked in had sex, I had fun.

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

"Don't know why but when fun is used it creeps me out a little, it's akin to messages with mmmmmm in them but maybe I'm just odd

100% agree with you

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't know why but I really dislike sex being called fun. If someone wanted to have some 'fun' with me I'd be expecting a day out at Alton Towers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know why but when fun is used it creeps me out a little, it's akin to messages with mmmmmm in them but maybe I'm just odd

Yhh it is weird depenging on how its used or when its used.

I would only really say it if it was more good vibes than good sex and only when im referring to the past.

I dont go rohnd saying im looking for fun thats weird to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You call it sex, others call it fun

Each to their own OP

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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think this is a really interesting point.

For me swinging is about sex, but it it is also about the social scene and meeting with likeminded people who want to have fun, through great sex!

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By *allnlong OP Man
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"Don't know why but when fun is used it creeps me out a little, it's akin to messages with mmmmmm in them but maybe I'm just odd

Exactly!

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By *allnlong OP Man
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"The guy that walked in had sex, I had fun."

But I bet you that guys profile said he was looking for fun

If people want no strings quickies good luck to them (not my thing), but dont call it fun. Chances are only one person will enjoy it anyway

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