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By *4ulLeah OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Reclaiming your Hot-wife question?

After reading many messages and points of views there is no clear answer to this.

After watching another guy enter your wife. lots think that your wife’s belongs to the last person to go inside her. Her pussy that is not her mind.

So after the guy leaves to reclaim your wife you need to follow him ASAP.

This is where things are split. Many say thats true regardless. Some say only if he went bare and other say only if he was to cum inside. The reclaiming is to wash away his cum

All very crude to write and i guess i could have written it nicer but you get my point.

So is it 1,2 or 3

1 just being inside you can reclaim even with a condom worn

2, has to be bare inside

3, has to cum inside

One letter i read said this

An aspect of Hotwifing that comes up from time to time is the ritual of reclaiming. After a Hot-wife has been ‘taken’ and ‘owned’ by a Bull, her Stag then ‘takes’ her back makes her his again. As it suggests, reclaiming is a way for a Stag husband to assert his alpha position over the Bull. Needless to say, Cuckolds don’t get to reclaim their Hotwives, so reclaiming is generally limited to the Stag/Vixen flavour of Hotwifing

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Reclaiming your Hot-wife question?

After reading many messages and points of views there is no clear answer to this.

After watching another guy enter your wife. lots think that your wife’s belongs to the last person to go inside her. Her pussy that is not her mind.

So after the guy leaves to reclaim your wife you need to follow him ASAP.

This is where things are split. Many say thats true regardless. Some say only if he went bare and other say only if he was to cum inside. The reclaiming is to wash away his cum

All very crude to write and i guess i could have written it nicer but you get my point.

So is it 1,2 or 3

1 just being inside you can reclaim even with a condom worn

2, has to be bare inside

3, has to cum inside

One letter i read said this

An aspect of Hotwifing that comes up from time to time is the ritual of reclaiming. After a Hot-wife has been ‘taken’ and ‘owned’ by a Bull, her Stag then ‘takes’ her back makes her his again. As it suggests, reclaiming is a way for a Stag husband to assert his alpha position over the Bull. Needless to say, Cuckolds don’t get to reclaim their Hotwives, so reclaiming is generally limited to the Stag/Vixen flavour of Hotwifing"

I would say that reclaiming the wife is something not true. The hotwife scenario is only carried out when all are happy for it to occur.

I would say its more like a stag & vixen lifestyle where the husband prefers to watch his wife / partner have sex....

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

I'm not so sure about the reclaiming thing, it seems to be a bit of a made up thing to simply say the husband/parter is excited by the idea of having sex with his partner after someone else has.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

There is no clear answer because there is no one true way to do Hot Wife.

People will add their own flairs to their dynamic.

Do what works for you.

Communicate with each other to determine what you both want.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

An alpha / Stag, does not need to reclaim his dominance over a bull. An Alpha is always in control. Claim back is to show his Vixen, that she has been "lent out" and has returned to the right place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't take the reclaim thing seriously as a hard and fast rule. But hubby will usually (not always) have sex with me after I've been with other men just from and excitement and for the fun of it. Most of the time the other men have cum inside me, if that helps with my answer xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We get it's a big part for many couples but it's never player any part for us. She never 'went' anywhere to be reclaimed, mentally were still connected during the meet. The mental separation is what I think many couples do so it's this reconnecting (reclaiming) that takes place.

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

more daft made up fab nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure about the reclaiming thing, it seems to be a bit of a made up thing to simply say the husband/parter is excited by the idea of having sex with his partner after someone else has."

This!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Reclaiming your Hot-wife question?

After reading many messages and points of views there is no clear answer to this.

After watching another guy enter your wife. lots think that your wife’s belongs to the last person to go inside her. Her pussy that is not her mind.

So after the guy leaves to reclaim your wife you need to follow him ASAP.

This is where things are split. Many say thats true regardless. Some say only if he went bare and other say only if he was to cum inside. The reclaiming is to wash away his cum

All very crude to write and i guess i could have written it nicer but you get my point.

So is it 1,2 or 3

1 just being inside you can reclaim even with a condom worn

2, has to be bare inside

3, has to cum inside

One letter i read said this

An aspect of Hotwifing that comes up from time to time is the ritual of reclaiming. After a Hot-wife has been ‘taken’ and ‘owned’ by a Bull, her Stag then ‘takes’ her back makes her his again. As it suggests, reclaiming is a way for a Stag husband to assert his alpha position over the Bull. Needless to say, Cuckolds don’t get to reclaim their Hotwives, so reclaiming is generally limited to the Stag/Vixen flavour of Hotwifing"

It sounds like you are taking this all very seriously.

Its not like a driving theory test there are no rules that you have to do or not do.

Each couples dynamics and kinks will vary slightly, even if they have rules they will not apply them ridgedly each and every time.

Do what works for you and don't be defined by what others say, that is just their own view on the kink they follow it is not the rule book for hotwifing or what ever label you wish to attach.

The important bit is to remember to have fun.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I'm not so sure about the reclaiming thing, it seems to be a bit of a made up thing to simply say the husband/parter is excited by the idea of having sex with his partner after someone else has."

I think this is very well put.

Also, most hotwives playing with some stranger off fab will practise safe sex (I hope) so that eliminates some of what you suggest.

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York


"We don't take the reclaim thing seriously as a hard and fast rule. But hubby will usually (not always) have sex with me after I've been with other men just from and excitement and for the fun of it. Most of the time the other men have cum inside me, if that helps with my answer xx"

We agree, don't get the whole reclaiming thing, We just love the feel and excitement of having guys cum inside Liz and Rob going in afterwards.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

if you had to go through a ritual every time anouther guy entered your wife be it with a condom or not , if he cum in her or not , just not done, at the end of the day its only about fun for all, its not about claiming she is yours as much she is not shouting from the roof tops that you are hers , its only about enjoyment and having sexy fun, so have the fun, fuck the reclaim bit,, enjoy her after yes, and let her enjoy you aswell

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"if you had to go through a ritual every time anouther guy entered your wife be it with a condom or not , if he cum in her or not , just not done, at the end of the day its only about fun for all, its not about claiming she is yours as much she is not shouting from the roof tops that you are hers , its only about enjoyment and having sexy fun, so have the fun, fuck the reclaim bit,, enjoy her after yes, and let her enjoy you aswell"

Well said

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I think it is also about coming back to your partner. Cuddles and talking about it are as important as the sex.

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry


"Reclaiming your Hot-wife question?

After reading many messages and points of views there is no clear answer to this.

After watching another guy enter your wife. lots think that your wife’s belongs to the last person to go inside her. Her pussy that is not her mind.

So after the guy leaves to reclaim your wife you need to follow him ASAP.

This is where things are split. Many say thats true regardless. Some say only if he went bare and other say only if he was to cum inside. The reclaiming is to wash away his cum

All very crude to write and i guess i could have written it nicer but you get my point.

So is it 1,2 or 3

1 just being inside you can reclaim even with a condom worn

2, has to be bare inside

3, has to cum inside

One letter i read said this

An aspect of Hotwifing that comes up from time to time is the ritual of reclaiming. After a Hot-wife has been ‘taken’ and ‘owned’ by a Bull, her Stag then ‘takes’ her back makes her his again. As it suggests, reclaiming is a way for a Stag husband to assert his alpha position over the Bull. Needless to say, Cuckolds don’t get to reclaim their Hotwives, so reclaiming is generally limited to the Stag/Vixen flavour of Hotwifing

It sounds like you are taking this all very seriously.

Its not like a driving theory test there are no rules that you have to do or not do.

Each couples dynamics and kinks will vary slightly, even if they have rules they will not apply them ridgedly each and every time.

Do what works for you and don't be defined by what others say, that is just their own view on the kink they follow it is not the rule book for hotwifing or what ever label you wish to attach.

The important bit is to remember to have fun. "

Well said it is all about the enjoyment for the couple and the 3rd party! Not about claiming anything!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Personally the idea of anyone "belonging" to another in the way you suggest sounds very outdated to me, and totally belies the concept that a "Hot Wife" is in control.

I get the concept of "reclaiming" (although am not a fan of the term) but see it as more two partners *both* re-asserting their feelings for one another after having sex with someone else, coupled with the heightened excitement of one, or both, of them having done so.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sorry OP but I think you are massively over thinking this.

For me it's just the excitement of Wifey having enjoyed some naughty fun.

She tells me all about it as we enjoy ourselves.

That's as much 'psychology' as there is about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me having sex with mrs after she has been with someone else is because it has both turned us on. I think the word “reclaim” should be replaced with “reconnect”. When your partner has sex with someone else you both are mentally in a different place. Reconnecting and having sex yourself afterwards is a way to make the experience about you both rather than her and another guy. I find the first time you have sex with her after she’s been with someone else is more loving and sensual while you reconnect. Later on you have more filthy sex while you both relive the experience in your minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure about the reclaiming thing, it seems to be a bit of a made up thing to simply say the husband/parter is excited by the idea of having sex with his partner after someone else has."

This

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I don't care what they call it, the sex with my hubby after I've been with others is Great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This does turn us both on immensely, she loves me reclaim her while she has another mans cum inside her especialy when I'm still wet from the woman I've just fucked!

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry


"For me having sex with mrs after she has been with someone else is because it has both turned us on. I think the word “reclaim” should be replaced with “reconnect”. When your partner has sex with someone else you both are mentally in a different place. Reconnecting and having sex yourself afterwards is a way to make the experience about you both rather than her and another guy. I find the first time you have sex with her after she’s been with someone else is more loving and sensual while you reconnect. Later on you have more filthy sex while you both relive the experience in your minds."

Completely agree as the 3rd party no one is trying to disconnect a couple simply all enjoy the night together and the activities that happen!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby loves the story after the event . And spose the “ reclaim “ .

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"I'm not so sure about the reclaiming thing, it seems to be a bit of a made up thing to simply say the husband/parter is excited by the idea of having sex with his partner after someone else has."

Def this xx

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By *hor and FreyaCouple
over a year ago

Asgard

We tried the whole reclaiming thing last weekend and set a challenge for Freya to have a guy over and leave her creampied before going to a bar with him.. I then collected her from the bar and with her pussy still soaking in his cum, took her home and reclaiming her as mine. The sex was amazing and loved the sloppy seconds….

Gang bang arranged so I can watch her being used by at least 10+ guys before I finish her off with my creamy load and my dick covered in their cum

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

as part of a cuckold couple we've never really got the reclaim sex thingy for one how do you ''reclaim'' when your cuck has a small limp dick but most importantly we do this together its what we want im going nowhere (apart for sex) we are married we are a couple we are madly in love and very together what is there to reclaim?? nothing ..

so for me (and cuck) reclaim is just not a part of our (OUR) cuckold lifestyle because to us (US) cuckolding is about getting better sex (much much better sex lol) with others and cuck agrees he want to hear about what ive done we rarely get to getting naked before hes shot jis load in his knickers anyway im happy hes happy ...maybe reclaim is more for those who role play ?? maybe

#justmyopinion

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

There are no rules!

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

i dont think its about reclaiming the wife, is it not about enjoying your wife and the fact you are also enjoying the contact she has had with another guy , if she has allowed the guy to cum in her and you enter her , you are fucking his semen deeper into her , licking her be it with cum or not , the thing is with cum in there its does taste so much better, the taste of a condom in her is not as nice

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By *unkymale65Man
over a year ago

Worksop

I guess everyone is different OP. I would say number 3. It's the feel warmth and wetness of her spunk filled pussy. She has his spunk inside her and you want to pump another load into her. It's amazing you have such an intense orgasm and afterwards you still feel horny for days knowing your wife has not just had 2 cocks but both their spunk. Simply wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the 'reclaim' is the deep connection we have, we tend to make love rather than just fuck.

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Mrs G likes to be used by other men and Mr G loves her coming back full of cum and sliding my cock in and feeling her used pussy, no simpler way to put it really

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