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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I am very much in the category of quality vs quantity. I am not looking to sleep with everyone on the site, but find a couple of men i connect with and we enjoy the same things.

I know many say quality but really dont mean it at all...

What side do you sit on?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Id like both

But I have neither

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm exceptionally picky about who I share my time with.

I need to know we're on the same humour level as well as the same respect level.

It's more than sex for me, I'm not meaning I want a relationship with these people, however I need to know we will get on outside of the bedroom.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Quality over quantity or quantity with quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% quality.

I go through long periods of getting no "action" but that's probably due to;

A) Being fussy

B) Not having a queue of women queueing to shag me

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By *aul349Man
over a year ago

Newcastle area

Variety is the spice of Life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS. No-one will admit to quantity being priority!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's one of those things that, when stated, almost sounds like it's putting others down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beggers cant be choosers lol

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I think it's one of those things that, when stated, almost sounds like it's putting others down "

Not at all. Everyone likes different things and i respect that. Just curious how many want the single meets vs the fwb sort of arrangement

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By *nna WulfWoman
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Both please.

I would happily fuck my way through the site if I could.

Finding one man, let alone a multitude, was impossible even before covid though so I'm happy to chat with the few not the many.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd prioritise quality, but I would be very happy with both.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I got pulled in another thread last year for discussing this term.

My pov is that yes I use the term on my profile but it has nothing to do with sex and more to do with those I choose to chat to or meet.

I've no interest in meeting just for the sake of it and much prefer to take the time to get to know people first.

Therefore when I say quality over quantity it means those I connect with and have something in common with and once that is established then the quality of sex is usually a given.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think a few of us would like the time for quantity, but are equally happy with quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been about quantity, quality don't matter.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I want quality and I want it often. And that is why I’m looking with a FWB situation so I can have that quality connection but have ideally have it frequently rather than a one off hot night or multiple shit shags!

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

2 schools of thought for me.

Meets arranged on here - quality every time. Would rather go without than invest time and effort for something not worth it.

Going to a club - all bets are off. Not saying I'm easy, but I definitely won't be taking as much time to get to know you!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We like quality but also variety is the spice of life, so we don't mind sharing. Quantity as in the number of people at one time in an orgy would be great fun.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quantity with quality. Wouldnt just meet anyone to add numbers but I’d say 90% of my meets are quality and really happy to have met some and keep meeting some

I do get a bit bored tho if I was restricted to one-two guys. I guess variety is good and keeps things horny when u meet regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very much in the category of quality vs quantity. I am not looking to sleep with everyone on the site, but find a couple of men i connect with and we enjoy the same things.

I know many say quality but really dont mean it at all...

What side do you sit on?"

Quality mostly, trouble is there are a few things I’d like to experience so I have no bar to which to set that quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love seeing that statement on someone's profile....followed by a raft of sexual verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really thought about it.

Anyone I've met, I've met because I've wanted to. Some it's gone no further than a coffee others it has.

Some people I'd have liked to see more than I was able to but that's just how it goes.

Now though it's unlikely I'll meet anyone on here because I'm focusing on looking for something more than just fun

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By *4damMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Quality with a sprinkle of variety. Because variety is the spice of life and I like it spicy. ?? ??

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Quality with a great sarcastic sense of humour. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you define as quality?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I meet guys who I fancy (for intimacy) and who I sense that he probably genuinely fancies me back.

Attraction differs from one to another and one man's meat may be another's poison.

One might think they are choosing based on quality but others may look at the verifications and think, you met 'him/her'?

So, as one poster rightfully asked, what is quality?

With time, definitely the number of people you meet will increase.

So, if someone has tens of meets over 10 years, does that make them someone who sleep with everybody?

So the whole quantity thing is a bit pointless as well.

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