FabSwingers.com forum: Never cummed through intercourse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all Louise has never orgasmed/cummed through intercourse it self, any other girls the same? Or any guys sure they could give her the orgasm she desires?

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Does she cum through foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does she cum through foreplay "

I think you are just supposed to volunteer to try to give her multiple orgasms rather than ask sensible questions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I never have either. I've never given it a thought really. Is it a problem for some people if a woman doesn't?

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Hello .

Thanks for posting . Orgasm recently popped up in a bored covid girls zoom chat and piqued my curiosity on a wider level

I’m lucky enough to orgasm via intercourse . My chap can make me orgasm multiply

In various positions . He’s sort of learnt what angles and pressures and pace makes it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really not a problem. Why make it one?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi all Louise has never orgasmed/cummed through intercourse it self, any other girls the same? Or any guys sure they could give her the orgasm she desires? "

‘Girls’ ?

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

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By *ord PrefectMan
over a year ago

Hinckley area

In my humble opinion its generally a case of getting to know someone and their likes and anticipate their wants thru their action and movement.. would no doubt be fun for her to have guys come to see if they could help out but would be like fishing in the dark .. although ya never know ..one could hit the spot

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Prof. Kontula found that in 2015, only 6 percent of women said that they always had an orgasm during penile-vaginal intercourse, 40 percent said they had an orgasm nearly always, 16 percent of women had an orgasm half the time, and 38 percent had one infrequently

Mystery solved

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By *heShyBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Same for the mrs. Only way she cums is with a vibrator on her clit or through oral, although I'm the only one who has made her cum through oral

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"In my humble opinion its generally a case of getting to know someone and their likes and anticipate their wants thru their action and movement.. would no doubt be fun for her to have guys come to see if they could help out but would be like fishing in the dark .. although ya never know ..one could hit the spot "

Sadly, no. I'm 53 now and have never cum through intercourse, no matter how well my partner knows me & "anticipates my wants".

Foreplay and/or toys - no problem.

Biologically, it's just not there.

OP, I hope she enjoys trying out other guys, but she shouldn't pin it all on that outcome. Just enjoy the ride! X

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Prof. Kontula found that in 2015, only 6 percent of women said that they always had an orgasm during penile-vaginal intercourse, 40 percent said they had an orgasm nearly always, 16 percent of women had an orgasm half the time, and 38 percent had one infrequently

Mystery solved"

Exactly!

The 6% are obviously all on FAB

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I never have either. I used to worry about it years and years ago. I thought there was something up with me,and then i watched this documentary that explained that it's usually because your clit is slightly too far away from your vagina. It made lots of sense. I couldn't give a stuff nowdays. If i feel like coming during sex then I'll dig my vibrator out.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

L here, I had never cum from intercourse until 18 months ago, and it completely took me by surprise! It’s not something I can do all the time, it happens every now and again and only in one position, which is missionary but legs interlocked so his body is pressing down on my clit while he is fucking me, even then it takes a long time and has to be a continuous and steady rhythm, maybe give it a try? Good luck xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It is quite common for women to need other forms of stimulation to make them otgasm

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Funnily i normally have an issue - I think there’s some deeper mental connection thing, but cumming during sex or oral at all is rare in itself.

So if you have special skills, let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awww great thanks all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never cum though sex but vibrator and oral no problem. Doesnt make me enjoy sex any less, my ex had an issue with it

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

First of all it's very common and perfectly normal for women to need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and not be able to from just vaginal penetration. It's doesn't mean you're broken or have a problem.

However, if you're interested in trying, you might be able to condition a physiological response that allows her to do so. For example, you could tease and edge her for as long as possible (through clitoral stimulation), avoiding any form or type of penetration, and upon the point of no return where she's just about to orgasm, that's when you insert yourself whilst maintaining the clitoral stimulation just as she cums.

Keep doing that and build it up so that you can eventually stop the clitoral stimulation at the point of no return and penetrate just before orgasm, and then once you're at that point you can start widening the timp gap between having to stop clitoral stimulation and penetrating, until the body is conditioned to orgasm as a response to being penetrated.

Might work, might not, but at least you'll have fun trying it, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's common get some toys rub her clit

It's more clit stimulation

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I've never came through penetration alone, I always need some clit stimulation.

That's just the way I'm wired. Unfortunately I've come across some guys who seem to take a dent in their ego if I help myself along or tell them to do it.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I've never came through penetration alone, I always need some clit stimulation.

That's just the way I'm wired. Unfortunately I've come across some guys who seem to take a dent in their ego if I help myself along or tell them to do it."

You can probably blame porn for that. As well as the fragility of the male ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angle ?? all about Angle .... and off course connection !

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By *ow are you ABCMan
over a year ago

Chester

Never had that problem. Women have always cum for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt till couple years ago. And geez was amazing. Only usually happens when I'm on top, but not often. But wand and fingers flood gates open

. And never been able to with oral

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Does she cum through foreplay

I think you are just supposed to volunteer to try to give her multiple orgasms rather than ask sensible questions."

That or it’s serious question.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Never had that problem. Women have always cum for me"

Are you sure?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Never had that problem. Women have always cum for me

Are you sure?

Me thinks he may be fibbing or they're were pretty good at faking it

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Myself included can only cum with my clit stimulated. And hate the guys who think they can make me squirt too, and jabb away with a finger or more. As I don't squirt either.

My fella has made me cum hands free. Although we've been in a deep bdsm zone at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all Louise has never orgasmed/cummed through intercourse it self, any other girls the same? Or any guys sure they could give her the orgasm she desires? "

I guess it's just finding what ticks Louise's boxes. Sometimes just intercourse isn't the answer and you need explore all options

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By *efthandMan
over a year ago

Halton, Cheshire

As long as you both and Louise are enjoying the whole build-up, experiences and pleasures of the play.

Then I wouldn't be too fixated with that specific end result as such.

As others have mentioned, these other pleasures (long foreplay, stimulation, toys etc.), Are all part of the experience to allow Louise find the different ways why to experiences orgasms.

Don't rush these naked pleasures, have fun trying different things throughout and move the 'focus' from needing that end delivery (which might out unintentional pressure on someone?).

To just enjoying the sexual journey wherever and however it takes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my ex for 15 years and think she only ever came once from penetrative sex alone, and that came as a big shock to her. Otherwise it was oral, or a bullet vibrator or gentle finger rubbing her clit during sex that tipped her over the edge.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Only if I'm on top must be the stimulation on the clit

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Only if I'm on top must be the stimulation on the clit "

Same , It is important as a mutual climax is surely what most want ?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Its completely normal, some women just can't have an oragasm with just penitration, I can't i have to have clitoral stimulation to.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Never had that problem. Women have always cum for me"

Its not you that should have that problem, and its not a problem anyway because its totally normal for some if not most women not to cum through penitration only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually have done this since I’ve joined fab, but it doesn’t really matter to me, if I don’t then I just diy after, I’ve found men like to watch

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I'm no expert but someone possibly mentioned it on here about a curved vibrator or penis that can sometimes hit the elusive g spot if you get the angle of insertion correct x though it could have possiblity been a d*unken chat with a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had two women orgasam by intercourse.one my exwife and other is jenny. Ex only orgasamed a few times that way. Jenny can most times if she is in the mood and turned on enough and the passion is just right also. Seems a very rare thing for women to cum that way indeed. Most cannot really explain what gets them off to orgasam that way, It just seems sometimes everything just slots in to place in the heat of the moment. John

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I've been with a few women before who have said they never cum from penetration but it's never proven to stay true, or they've all faked it to save my ego

I think it's more common than you'd think though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mystery solved

Exactly!

The 6% are obviously all on FAB

Haha

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