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By *lovebustyladies OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages"

It’s probably got less to do with taking offence or seeing it as a negative comment and more to do with the fact they’re not interested. If I’m interested in a profile that messages me a compliment I’ll give one back. If not, I ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice orange jacket

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Nice orange jacket "
nice hair xx

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages"

I wouldn’t respond to a photo saying ‘nice boobs’ there is plenty more on my profile that can be commented on.

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester


"Nice orange jacket nice hair xx"

Nice pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice orange jacket nice hair xx"

Nice torso

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice orange jacket nice hair xx

Nice pants "

Nice leggings

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Nice orange jacket nice hair xx

Nice torso "

Love your hair colour!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah I know mate, I grew them myself, good aren’t they? “Nice boobs” isn’t much of a compliment, I don’t reply to the men that grunt “nice tits love” at me on a night out either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice orange jacket nice hair xx

Nice torso

Love your hair colour!"

Love the sexy stockings

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By *p4u69Man
over a year ago

Guernsey


"Yeah I know mate, I grew them myself, good aren’t they? “Nice boobs” isn’t much of a compliment, I don’t reply to the men that grunt “nice tits love” at me on a night out either."

Nice emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages

I wouldn’t respond to a photo saying ‘nice boobs’ there is plenty more on my profile that can be commented on. "

although 9 out of 10 times i say thanks, it then ends up with them wanting to carry on the conversation when if they read my profile they will see they are not what im looking for.yes i have boobs (at the moment) as my profile pic but surely i can run my profile how i want?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeah I know mate, I grew them myself, good aren’t they? “Nice boobs” isn’t much of a compliment, I don’t reply to the men that grunt “nice tits love” at me on a night out either.

Nice emoji "

Lol thanks, it’s the only way to get an Apple emoji on here!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it?

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands

I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I wouldn’t respond to a photo saying ‘nice boobs’ there is plenty more on my profile that can be commented on. "

Exactly this; if the only thing that leaps out at you is from the photos, you're really not who we are looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? "

Nice car interior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? "
i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always say thank you if we get a compliment its just manners

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands


"we always say thank you if we get a compliment its just manners "

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over."

Women don’t have to respond .... if they’re interested they will. Lots of things make me interested abs lots of things put me off - any cock pics mean I won’t respond no matter what the message is.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops "

Noooo, never admit that you have self-esteem and like anything about yourself! You should sit there feeling ugly and be grateful for any suggestion that you’re not! Preferably show your gratitude with a blowjob

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops "

Hahahahahaha the best is

Then: nice boobs

Me: thanks

Them: fancy a fuck?

Me: no thanks

Then: you’re gross anyway

I mean what? You messaged me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops

Hahahahahaha the best is

Then: nice boobs

Me: thanks

Them: fancy a fuck?

Me: no thanks

Then: you’re gross anyway

I mean what? You messaged me "

yeah had loads of that too....you cant win sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops

Noooo, never admit that you have self-esteem and like anything about yourself! You should sit there feeling ugly and be grateful for any suggestion that you’re not! Preferably show your gratitude with a blowjob "

i will have to remember that next time ,silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops

Hahahahahaha the best is

Then: nice boobs

Me: thanks

Them: fancy a fuck?

Me: no thanks

Then: you’re gross anyway

I mean what? You messaged me "

Haha sorry to laugh!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages"

The pics might be posted in the hope of attracting the attention of suitable "suitors" and blocking the non compatible profiles is the quickest way to deal with those mails .

My experience is that when receiving a one sentence compliment like "love your pics" there's not much to go from there .

What reply do you think is appropriate if I'm not interested .

"Thanks but No thank you" ? You haven't asked

for anything ....So I might be jumping the gun a bit and you'll probably write back with a smart answer stating just that

”Thanks , happy fabbing " ? I guarantee you'll mail back and I'll have to use the thanks but no thanks.

Hence in my opinion the block button is an handy tool that saves everyone's time,

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over.

Women don’t have to respond .... if they’re interested they will. Lots of things make me interested abs lots of things put me off - any cock pics mean I won’t respond no matter what the message is. "

I agree with you, there is nothing saying you must respond...however why respond rudely to a genuine compliment. Before anyone gets on their soapbox....I read profiles fully! Any suggestion that even remotely hints that I'm not your type i will not message. Women are beautiful creatures and sometimes you need to take a compliment in the way it was meant...as a compliment!

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By *lovebustyladies OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

But this is a sex driven site so you will get sex driven messages we all do it showing penis, n pussys and tits we are wanting to attract the opposite sex, how many pictures to women show of a cock shoved up there arse lol it’s not that attractive lol

But I do love the points scores in the forums putting there righteousness on a subjects

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands


"But this is a sex driven site so you will get sex driven messages we all do it showing penis, n pussys and tits we are wanting to attract the opposite sex, how many pictures to women show of a cock shoved up there arse lol it’s not that attractive lol

But I do love the points scores in the forums putting there righteousness on a subjects

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over."

It’s kind of like fishing as I see it. I’ll post pictures to generate interest for my profile. When the messages start incoming thats people taking a nibble. I’ll have a look at their profile and see if I’m interested. If not I ‘throw them back’. I’ll always try and give a respectful thanks if they’re not acting like a Neanderthal but it’s not always possible with the amount of messages I get. What has always irked me is those demanding a reply no matter what. In my experience even if I do give a polite reply, 99% of the time they take that as an in and start badgering me, then become abusive when I don’t respond. Frustrating really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to the conclusion that if you say to a woman nice boobs or such like that it gets negative comment and usually a block lol now tbh don’t care but there must be a reason why that pic is the profile pic if there to attract somebody or some thing why put up a boob pic if you don’t want to get comments? If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages"

Face pics get more attention than others and a block just means they aren't interested in you

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over.

It’s kind of like fishing as I see it. I’ll post pictures to generate interest for my profile. When the messages start incoming thats people taking a nibble. I’ll have a look at their profile and see if I’m interested. If not I ‘throw them back’. I’ll always try and give a respectful thanks if they’re not acting like a Neanderthal but it’s not always possible with the amount of messages I get. What has always irked me is those demanding a reply no matter what. In my experience even if I do give a polite reply, 99% of the time they take that as an in and start badgering me, then become abusive when I don’t respond. Frustrating really "

Totally understand, its nice that at least you take the time to respond considering that you do not have to. In my opinion just take the compliment, smile or grimace and move on if you like what you see then by all means correspond.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"But this is a sex driven site so you will get sex driven messages we all do it showing penis, n pussys and tits we are wanting to attract the opposite sex, how many pictures to women show of a cock shoved up there arse lol it’s not that attractive lol

But I do love the points scores in the forums putting there righteousness on a subjects

"

So a woman saying she doesn’t much care for a pointless message that just says “nice tits” is point scoring and self-righteous then is it?

I’ve never once replied to “nice tits” or “nice arse” or any similar “compliment” like that, and I don’t imagine I ever will. I have sometimes replied to compliments on my lingerie or costumes, but even then not if I think it’s just an “in” to start pestering me for a meet. And that right there is the truth, and why you’re bitching about it, isn’t it? Your 0 effort “compliment” is just your way in, isn’t it? A genuine compliment is given without expecting anything back, but you expect a grateful response, and I’m sure you then expect to continue the conversation and will no doubt start pestering her for more. So a lot of women will just preemptively block so you can’t do any of that. Also a lot of men start with a “compliment” and when they don’t get a response, start harassing and abusing women for not responding, so a block avoids that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? i had a " nice boobs" message

I replied" i know"

And got told to fuck off ....oops "

Same...in fact i think it was "your'e a bit upself aint ya....

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I enver reject or ignore a compliment and alwayd send back a polite thank you.

What i dont like, is that seems to open a glood gate where every man seems to think im going to talk with him and meet him. If you want a meet, at least be up front about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enver reject or ignore a compliment and alwayd send back a polite thank you.

What i dont like, is that seems to open a glood gate where every man seems to think im going to talk with him and meet him. If you want a meet, at least be up front about it."

Sometimes men literally cannot win.

Why else do you think they're firing straight in with a compliment?

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If your already swamped with messages maybe put up a nice face pic or clothed pic then you may not get quiet so many messages"

That's enough of a red flag that I wouldn't blame anyone who blocks you right now.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"But this is a sex driven site so you will get sex driven messages we all do it showing penis, n pussys and tits we are wanting to attract the opposite sex, how many pictures to women show of a cock shoved up there arse lol it’s not that attractive lol

But I do love the points scores in the forums putting there righteousness on a subjects

"

I don't comment on the forums here to score any points because I'm not even in the same country so I've nothing to gain but if I get a message from a woman that is just a compliment about my pics I'll say thanks but it rarely goes beyond that.

I can do that because I only get a new message maybe once a month so it's not difficult to reply.

Those types of messages are usually seen as blowing smoke up your arse so many people don't respond.

I know women who get messages telling them how amazing they are and they are just what the guy is looking for but they know absolutely nothing about them so it's always taken with a pinch of salt.

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over."

Lovely vest! Handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But this is a sex driven site so you will get sex driven messages we all do it showing penis, n pussys and tits we are wanting to attract the opposite sex, how many pictures to women show of a cock shoved up there arse lol it’s not that attractive lol

But I do love the points scores in the forums putting there righteousness on a subjects

I don't comment on the forums here to score any points because I'm not even in the same country so I've nothing to gain but if I get a message from a woman that is just a compliment about my pics I'll say thanks but it rarely goes beyond that.

I can do that because I only get a new message maybe once a month so it's not difficult to reply.

Those types of messages are usually seen as blowing smoke up your arse so many people don't respond.

I know women who get messages telling them how amazing they are and they are just what the guy is looking for but they know absolutely nothing about them so it's always taken with a pinch of salt. "

(this)

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands


"I agree op i have complimented on many a pic. "Lovely pics, great pics, omg pic 3 is beautiful" no chat up lines no awkward messages....straight block or a rude negative message. If you don't like compliments don't post pics! Some of you ladies are just far too cheeky and rude. I'd rather a non reply! Needless to say I've stopped complimenting. As it seems you get annoyed at nasty messages and compliments alike...make your minds up ffs! Rant over.

Lovely vest! Handsome "

Thank you xx pic 3 is rocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it? "

Nice liner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because comments like " nice boobs" is so boring OP and women just don't need men sending such messages. It's not really a compliment is it?

Nice liner "

Nice ass

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Maybe it’s just because men and women think differently.

Possibly most men would be happy to receive a message saying “nice arse” or “gorgeous cock”

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always respond with a thank you but then many take that as a "ohh let's chat when obviously they haven't read the profile.

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