FabSwingers.com forum: It’s hard on here for us guys ??

By *aster666999 OP Man
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been loads of posts on this recently. Read the other posts. J

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By *heelsmanMan
over a year ago

Staines

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

Search the forum on the subject, there are probably 2 or 3 posts like yours EVERY day.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I'm a woman trying to hook up with a woman also. I have not had 1 opportunity. I must write really boring messages

Admittedly covid hasn't helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!

Chin up op and best of luck.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

Most people check profiles before replying if that helps.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!

Chin up op and best of luck.

Saving the world? Easy peasy.

Curing Covid? Did it twice before breakfast.

A single guy getting a meet on her at the moment?

Less chance than a snowball in hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To 'get a girl'....charming! I think see the problem.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

Seriously though.

Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say they have a " hard -on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads like a horny teenager needing a quick shag, and theres no pics for anyone to make judgement oh and get photo verified too. The way it is now we wouldnt bother and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??

Seriously though.

Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help."

Very poor profile.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??

Seriously though.

Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help."

Oh! Forgot to add you are looking for a girl. Maybe a dating site would be better.

Discreet? Most on here translate that as married guy playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aware my profile isn't the best (and I am very open to suggestions about how to improve it)...but I like to think it's light years ahead of yours.

And therein lieth your problem. No picture, hardly any text, and what there is points to someone who just wants to meet and fuck.

Seriously...how many women do you actually think are going to go full on knicker flood for someone who doesn't even hint at wanting to get to know them?

Invest in your profile, add at least a facial picture, write some well thought through text and you might get some interest.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

No profile pics

Poor profile text

Can’t accommodate

Just some of the reasons you’re unlikely to hit the jackpot.

Plus you’ve spelt discreet wrong, your version has a different meaning.

Put some effort in and you may reap the rewards.

Lou x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!

Chin up op and best of luck.

Loving ‘hunt for cunt’

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!

Chin up op and best of luck.

Loving ‘hunt for cunt’

Lou x "

I’m thinking of copyrighting it but I’m a sharing kind of guy!!!!!

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T said I had to come and look at this post, now I see why.

If you don't understand why no one is interacting with you, you're already done.

Even tinder wants pics and a level of detail you haven't made.

Personally, lazy single guys make my blood boil. I was one for years, and the lazy ones made it tougher. Now as a couple, why would we think you'd enhance our experience when you can't even focus long enough to sort your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pandemic means no one should be meeting .

Plus your profile is lazy and has no photos. Why would anyone be drawn to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of them are non committal, log here for a wank . When it comes to real talking ,they chicken out giving kindergarten excuses .lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

The best tip I can give is

Many ladies are not particularly interested in men who need tips on seduction, interaction or profile writing

Think creativity for yourself!!!!

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By *uncpl70Couple
over a year ago

Durham

And you've spelled spelt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

You've had a meet within the last 2 months, what's the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero photos , people really do not want to meet or message faceless profiles , reads like your with someone but just want sex

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

I suspect your fantastic in depth profile and pictures are scaring them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not hard for us guys at all, it's hard for certain types of guys. The ones who pester people, bombard them with dick pics and generally act horribly towards people when they don't get their way.

Meeting people is not hard work, it's a simple process.

All you have to do is not be an abhorrent pain in the arse (I don't mean you personally OP), treat people the way you would want to be treated, and you'll find people who want to meet you.

Having a short profile with no information does not help your cause.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s hard but there’s plenty of ways to make it easier but moaning about it isn’t one.

Put pics up on your profile - creative one that intrigue

Add detail to your profile - theres thousands of men so you have to stand out. At the moment you sound like a horny teenager.

Can’t accommodate and wanting someone to be discreet? If you are married, be honest...that way someone can decide whether they want to go down that route.

Write engaging messages, not copy and paste types...

Have all the above you have every chance of success on here.

Or you can just be the standard guy that moans about not getting a meet and doing nothing about it.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

You should try being a couple with a bi wife !

So many dynamics that going into making sure everyone is happy

Not easy to find 4 that are all on the same page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

Simple: don’t push matters, always have a picture, always read the profile and DONT ask for meets whilst most sensible people are complying with the C19 rules. Block those that aren’t

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"And you've spelled spelt

I assume you’re trying to have a pop at the person who pointed out the error with discrete/discreet. Spelt is perfectly correct in British English.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"And you've spelled spelt

I assume you’re trying to have a pop at the person who pointed out the error with discrete/discreet. Spelt is perfectly correct in British English."

Thank you!

Lou x

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

To be honest, I don't think your profile bio will do you any favours

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Nobody said it was going to be easy.

My advise to guys based on my personal experience is not to take this site too seriously and personally.

It fucks with your head and can serious put you on a massive downer if all you get is a barrage of rejection. Its definitely tough.

So please don't take it personally. Expect nothing and treat every message and meet as an unexpected bonus

Good luck

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Yes it’s very hard

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By *haggynMuffCouple
over a year ago

Kidlington oxtord

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

Sort your profile out. As a couple we get loads of winks and messages from men. Any profiles that have little information or no pictures just get an instant delete. Yours would get an instant delete.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"

No public photos

Cannot accommodate

Joined 3 months ago (in a pandemic)

Very little effort in a profile

Smoker

"Get a girl"...really?

All seems a bit naff. With the effort you've made on your profile I imagine your messages aren't that amazing either.

Just because you are on a swinger's site doesnt necessarily means women will sleep with you. You are up against serious competition with other single men that make a serious effort.

If you were a single woman, would you sleep with you, based on that profile?

Start reading the other threads on this, it might give you some ideas.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!

Chin up op and best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile reads like a horny teenager needing a quick shag, and theres no pics for anyone to make judgement oh and get photo verified too. The way it is now we wouldnt bother and move on "

What they said

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