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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No judgement, but how do most fellas feel about bj's from other fellas?

90% of private messages I seem to get are from gay, bi or sometimes straight fellas offering me a suck... Many seem shocked when I say "no thanks I'm straight", and some try to convince me that a mouth is a mouth regardless so why don't I want to participate?

Don't get me wrong, who doesn't love a BJ! But the thought of another bloke doing it does nothing for me.

How do other straight fellas feel about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same messages. I normally reply “thanks, but I’m not gay” to which they reply “neither am I.... I just like sucking cock now and then”

It’s quite confusing. I think it’s the bi curious guys who really enjoy it but can’t admit they’re bi to themselves.

It doesn’t do anything for me either. I like the smoothness of a women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get the same messages. I normally reply “thanks, but I’m not gay” to which they reply “neither am I.... I just like sucking cock now and then”

It’s quite confusing. "

Guessed it wasn't just me! I was told by a bi friend on here that she reckons theres no such thing as straight or gay, just a sliding scale of Bisexuality. This does sound plausible... But I'd still think any straight bloke who enjoys sucking cock is definitely bi, same being said for straight blokes who enjoy other blokes sucking them! Good luck to them though, whatever they enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck or be sucked is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suck or be sucked is fine by me. "

Fair enough mate, but seeing as your bi you get the best of both Worlds I guess!

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

Have only recently tried letting a guy suck me off to see what it's like, it feels good and guys know how to suck cock. However, as you say, can't beat the sensual touch of a woman sucking you off. Life is short, so best try most things I'd say and who cares what label others want to give you, after all, there's men, women and everything inbetween

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hopefully going to try it

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London


"No judgement, but how do most fellas feel about bj's from other fellas?

90% of private messages I seem to get are from gay, bi or sometimes straight fellas offering me a suck... Many seem shocked when I say "no thanks I'm straight", and some try to convince me that a mouth is a mouth regardless so why don't I want to participate?

Don't get me wrong, who doesn't love a BJ! But the thought of another bloke doing it does nothing for me.

How do other straight fellas feel about this? "

"A mouth is a mouth"

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By *iving for todayMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Have only recently tried letting a guy suck me off to see what it's like, it feels good and guys know how to suck cock. However, as you say, can't beat the sensual touch of a woman sucking you off. Life is short, so best try most things I'd say and who cares what label others want to give you, after all, there's men, women and everything inbetween "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have only recently tried letting a guy suck me off to see what it's like, it feels good and guys know how to suck cock. However, as you say, can't beat the sensual touch of a woman sucking you off. Life is short, so best try most things I'd say and who cares what label others want to give you, after all, there's men, women and everything inbetween

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This is a topic that has been discussed on here a lot..

I am a cocksucker and the majority of guys who visit identify as straight or bi-whatever..I have no problem with this as I believe guys should be allowed to identify however they want...As a younger man I strongly identified with the 'gay' tag but felt pigeon holed by it..

I do think some of us whether gay/bi or straight can switch off with gender and sexual preferences and simply enjoy 'a mouth is a mouth/ hole is a hole and enjoy the sexual release, especially with the anonymous/darkroom scenario where you just use your imagination..

I like the feeling of putting my cock into a warm mouth...

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I (m) give a great BJ

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By *ebedy_XMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"No judgement, but how do most fellas feel about bj's from other fellas?

90% of private messages I seem to get are from gay, bi or sometimes straight fellas offering me a suck... Many seem shocked when I say "no thanks I'm straight", and some try to convince me that a mouth is a mouth regardless so why don't I want to participate?

Don't get me wrong, who doesn't love a BJ! But the thought of another bloke doing it does nothing for me.

How do other straight fellas feel about this? "

I'm straight but have wondered about a bj from a guy. I can't see what difference it would make thinking about it as a glory hole situation and you wouldn't know who was sucking

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

No, not for me. I’m happy and comfortable with close proximity with other men during threesomes and foursomes but I’m certainly not bi or even ‘fab straight’.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, not for me. I’m happy and comfortable with close proximity with other men during threesomes and foursomes but I’m certainly not bi or even ‘fab straight’. "

I've yet to have a threesome so still abit unsure about how I'd be in that situation too! Definitely wouldn't be keen on the other bloke getting involved with me physically, though in my mind any threesome would be for the benefit of a greedy woman getting well and truly spoilt!

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

No not for me.

Have no problem at all with bring in close proximity to other guys when playing with Kaz, but as for a guy doing anything to me then no.

Has happend once or twice before when playing in a threesome or group play when I've been touched and knew straight away it wasnt a female. Swift removal follows. Does absolutely nothing for me,

Del

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Most messages I receive are from straight guys just wanting quick relief. I guess some think 'a bj is a bj' and don't mind who it's from. It's not a big deal to me how they identify

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