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"Honestly blow jobs. And know I’m not touting for offers when it’s safe. Just don’t get a lot of feeling from them " * No I’m not touting | |||
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"Impact play. Quite enjoyed the teasing beforehand but nothing more. E-Stim didn't do much for me either x" Not heard that term before. E-stim? | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all." Not heard of that before | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before " Area between sack and asshole. | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole." That has a name? New information. Someone needs to open and terminology thread | |||
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"Honestly blow jobs. And know I’m not touting for offers when it’s safe. Just don’t get a lot of feeling from them " same here i though it was just me | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole." Thanks for telling me lol | |||
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again. Katie." Not surprised you didn't like it if you were using ordinary wax | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol " Also known as the perineum | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol Also known as the perineum " Or chad. | |||
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"Honestly blow jobs. And know I’m not touting for offers when it’s safe. Just don’t get a lot of feeling from them " I'm similar here tbh. I think they might just be over-hyped. | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole." Props that you didn’t have it read properly | |||
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"Anal sex. Def not worth it at all. " This to me is a classic example of difference of opinions. Many love it and others don't like it. Probably similar to the differing opinions on blow jobs for men. We are all very different and like different things. And that's fine | |||
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"I tried this after watching it on a TV documentary. Nettle thrashing genitals. Never again.....lesson learned." Fair play, wouldn’t have the balls to even try tbh | |||
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"Another vote for blowjobs. That's not saying I find them all bad. I guess you just need someone who can find the right rhythm and style to suit you. " Agree | |||
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"Another vote for blowjobs. That's not saying I find them all bad. I guess you just need someone who can find the right rhythm and style to suit you. Agree " From both ends lol | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol Also known as the perineum Or chad." I thought it was your "tisint" Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0) | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol Also known as the perineum Or chad. I thought it was your "tisint" Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0)" Brilliant | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol Also known as the perineum Or chad. I thought it was your "tisint" Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0) Brilliant " Typical Dub | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. Thanks for telling me lol Also known as the perineum Or chad. I thought it was your "tisint" Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0) Brilliant Typical Dub " | |||
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"Another vote for blowjobs. That's not saying I find them all bad. I guess you just need someone who can find the right rhythm and style to suit you. " Another vote hear too. I can cum whilst having a blow job, but don't find them as erotic as some people seem to. I really enjoy BDSM, but I find the whole rope play thing too fiddly. | |||
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"Also known as the 'notcher'. i.e. It's notcher balls and it's notcher arse. " Double brilliant | |||
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"I tried this after watching it on a TV documentary. Nettle thrashing genitals. Never again.....lesson learned." Wow, that's sounds really grim. | |||
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"Being fisted, not a great feeling & being rimmed (love giving) again not for me plus I'm always scared I'm going to fart " Hahaha nearly spat my coffee out there feel free to give over here | |||
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"The ol' 69 position. I find it awkward and just plain silly, not sexy at all. " This is another one for me. Live giving oral, but I like to take my time with it and enjoy it, 69 I find distracting and a bit pointless | |||
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"Honestly blow jobs. And know I’m not touting for offers when it’s safe. Just don’t get a lot of feeling from them " I’m 100% the same mate! | |||
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again. Katie." Same here it hurt like hell. | |||
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"Have to say this is a really interesting thread. We tend to have preconceived ideas about sex. I’ve been surprised as to how many of you guys are fairly ’Meh’ about blow jobs. Not in a bad way, I guess I just presumed. Just goes to show the value of being able to talk openly and honestly in a relationship about your sexual needs. And not needs of course! V" This was exactly the point I was trying to make. Just cos we like different things, doesn't mean we can't discuss it and all be nice and supportive to each other. We see a lot of judging on forums, but look how this has brought out so many opinions and still remained respectful and positive. Veey refreshing to see. And I'm sure its helping a lot of people who many wonder if they are different or strange or whatever for their tastes and dislikes. | |||
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"The ol' 69 position. I find it awkward and just plain silly, not sexy at all. This is another one for me. Live giving oral, but I like to take my time with it and enjoy it, 69 I find distracting and a bit pointless" Well if you are licking pussy right the dick be like a limp themometer in her mouth anyway lmao | |||
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you. We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be. Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious. Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever." Thanks for starting this post. Its nice to not have any bitching on a post for once. | |||
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" This was exactly the point I was trying to make. Just cos we like different things, doesn't mean we can't discuss it and all be nice and supportive to each other. We see a lot of judging on forums, but look how this has brought out so many opinions and still remained respectful and positive. Veey refreshing to see. And I'm sure its helping a lot of people who many wonder if they are different or strange or whatever for their tastes and dislikes. " Absolutely! Thank you so much for posting the thread | |||
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie? " Nope. Bloejobs are ok to get me going and i have akways been thst way but laying there whilst she sucks your cock for 45mins is bloody boring asvid rather be eating her or fucking. | |||
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"I don’t like sitting on somebody’s face. There are better positions to receive oral. X" Another one I agree with! | |||
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"Sounding horrendously painful never again.. " Wasn't painful for me, just don't see the point. Did zero for me x | |||
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"I tried this after watching it on a TV documentary. Nettle thrashing genitals. Never again.....lesson learned." Eep | |||
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie? " I actually prefer the visual aspect of it to the feeling, so wouldn't necessarily skip it. | |||
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"Before I got with Mr, I avoided giving oral, as did nothing for me. Now, it's my favourite thing, maybe the guys who don't enjoy getting sucked just haven't found the right head giver? X" I have 3 women have made me cum. But its still not a priority for me sexwise. | |||
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie? I actually prefer the visual aspect of it to the feeling, so wouldn't necessarily skip it." My thoughts. Spot on buddy | |||
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you. We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be. Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious. Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever." Vigorous fingering...I hate it, especially when they don't ask first! | |||
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"Foreplay. Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. " Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? | |||
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"Foreplay. Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? " I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. | |||
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"I’m not that bothered about blow jobs. They’re nice enough foreplay, sure, but I’m happy to skip over them. I don’t share the common obsession with anal either. I don’t find it taboo so it’s not exciting on those grounds, it takes a lot of preparation, and it just doesn’t feel as good as vaginal sex. The big one for me, though – coming from a BDSM background – is rope. Firstly, it suffers from the Scalextric problem (by the time you’ve got it all set up, it’s time to put it away again); and secondly, it’s *boring*. The last time I was tied up at a play event, I fell asleep in the middle of it. Which is weird really, because I find being restrained and sexually used to be pretty fucking hot. Rope for rope’s sake, though? Zzz. " Rope play can be very relaxing though, that whole cocooned feeling. I've become sleepy being flogged while bent over a bench in a club - just too comfortable and a lovely feeling. Not sure if that's a thing or I'm just weird | |||
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"Before I got with Mr, I avoided giving oral, as did nothing for me. Now, it's my favourite thing, maybe the guys who don't enjoy getting sucked just haven't found the right head giver? X I have 3 women have made me cum. But its still not a priority for me sexwise. " I've been thinking really hard about this, and I can only remember it happening once. 2006 was quite a year. | |||
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"Foreplay. Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. " Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened. | |||
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"Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened." Blimey Ive had some rubbish blowjobs but that is next level! I'm less self-conscious now of telling a woman how to suck me and what I enjoy in the same way I hope she'll tell me. Communication is sexy af | |||
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"I don’t like sitting on somebody’s face. There are better positions to receive oral. X Another one I agree with!" Same! Face-sitting holds no appeal for me, it's not comfortable. | |||
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"Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened. Blimey Ive had some rubbish blowjobs but that is next level! I'm less self-conscious now of telling a woman how to suck me and what I enjoy in the same way I hope she'll tell me. Communication is sexy af" It was not a good experience on both. The A&E staff were great though on tbe bellend slicing | |||
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"Having my gooch rubbed. Didn't arouse me at all. Not heard of that before Area between sack and asshole. That has a name? New information. Someone needs to open and terminology thread " Perineum also | |||
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again. Katie." Cazz tried this in a club once, She stripped down naked in front of everyone and laid on a table while another member dripped hot wax on her back and front. It was amazing to watch | |||
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"Giving anal sex. Although always found its women that want it more than me. Even when discussed with my male friends it seems to be their partners that request it more. " ..but you have it as an interest in your Interests! | |||
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"Giving anal sex. Although always found its women that want it more than me. Even when discussed with my male friends it seems to be their partners that request it more. ..but you have it as an interest in your Interests! " Think I just ticked all those boxes lol But good point. | |||
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you. We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be. Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious. Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever." Being tied up & teased . Really didn’t do anything for me , but you’ve got to try different scenarios | |||
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"Used a Dyson ball cleaner once, that twat needs to be sued under the trades descriptions act, it didnt work wasnt comfortable and resulted in a visit to an A&E department to be cut free. " Did you put it on suck, blow or fondle? | |||
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"Foreplay. Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. " This made me LOL sorry! | |||
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"Playing with my nipples. I think because mine are pierced the assumption is, it's sexual thing. It's not, it's purely aesthetic. While I'm not against them being touched, kissed and licked it's not at all a turn on." Me neither.. | |||
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