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"Question for the single women on here! Are you mainly seeking a regular fuck buddy or are you looking for lots of experiences with different people more ? " Can it be a mixture? I’m looking for regular meets with one or many guys. Maybe some will be one offs if we don’t click. I’m also looking for men to go to clubs or parties with if they ever reopen. I’m also not averse to finding a relationship. That said, obviously right now I’m not meeting anyone!  | |||
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"Question for the single women on here! Are you mainly seeking a regular fuck buddy or are you looking for lots of experiences with different people more ? Can it be a mixture? I’m looking for regular meets with one or many guys. Maybe some will be one offs if we don’t click. I’m also looking for men to go to clubs or parties with if they ever reopen. I’m also not averse to finding a relationship. That said, obviously right now I’m not meeting anyone! "It’s just good to get the views of singles of the opposite sex so thank you | |||
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"Question for the single women on here! Are you mainly seeking a regular fuck buddy or are you looking for lots of experiences with different people more ? Can it be a mixture? I’m looking for regular meets with one or many guys. Maybe some will be one offs if we don’t click. I’m also looking for men to go to clubs or parties with if they ever reopen. I’m also not averse to finding a relationship. That said, obviously right now I’m not meeting anyone!
It’s just good to get the views of singles of the opposite sex so thank you "I’m also not looking to meet MF couples and have zero interest in women, so tbh I have no idea how I’ll get on at clubs etc Guess I’ll find out when they eventually reopen. | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest." Why the distrust? | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust?" All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy  , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag. | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag."Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag.
Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx"Issue is, I'm put off now. I would be a shit girlfriend coz I know I'd be all FBI and stuff. 2 people I gave my heart and trust to abused it massively and I won't allow that to happen again. Only way to guarantee it from happening is to not allow anyone that close again. Yes it's shit, but that's why I'm so vocal when it comes to cheating and lying etc. It really does change people and how they experience the world from that point on.  | |||
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"I’d like to meet/have a fwb (or 2) but after the experiences of this year, observing ppls behaviour and getting know myself better, i’m feeling put off from wanting to get involved with anyone. Clubs seem like the right spot for my current mind set. " A right eye opener of a year eh?  | |||
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"I’d like to meet/have a fwb (or 2) but after the experiences of this year, observing ppls behaviour and getting know myself better, i’m feeling put off from wanting to get involved with anyone. Clubs seem like the right spot for my current mind set. " Sad to hear negative experiences from you ladies ! Is it all bad ? | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest." I think you would be a fun woman to have fun with a cpl. | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag.
Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx
Issue is, I'm put off now.
I would be a shit girlfriend coz I know I'd be all FBI and stuff. 2 people I gave my heart and trust to abused it massively and I won't allow that to happen again. Only way to guarantee it from happening is to not allow anyone that close again.
Yes it's shit, but that's why I'm so vocal when it comes to cheating and lying etc. It really does change people and how they experience the world from that point on. "I understand how you feel. My ex fucked loads of guys when we split for a few months. That hurt deeply and knocked my trust in women bigtime. | |||
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"I’d like to meet/have a fwb (or 2) but after the experiences of this year, observing ppls behaviour and getting know myself better, i’m feeling put off from wanting to get involved with anyone. Clubs seem like the right spot for my current mind set. A right eye opener of a year eh? "Very much so. Its not all negative as I've learned some interesting, positive things about others and myself. I’ll not bore the thread with my issues but that hope and new meet trust i normally have for people isnt there anymore. | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag.
Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx
Issue is, I'm put off now.
I would be a shit girlfriend coz I know I'd be all FBI and stuff. 2 people I gave my heart and trust to abused it massively and I won't allow that to happen again. Only way to guarantee it from happening is to not allow anyone that close again.
Yes it's shit, but that's why I'm so vocal when it comes to cheating and lying etc. It really does change people and how they experience the world from that point on.
I understand how you feel. My ex fucked loads of guys when we split for a few months. That hurt deeply and knocked my trust in women bigtime. "Worst bit is, my recent ex knew what I'd been through regarding the abusive cheating ex. I suffered a full on mental breakdown 15 months after the abusive relationship ended and had no idea I had CPTSD until that point. I was off work for 9 months, my brain was fried to the max. I had to work REALLY fucking hard to recover. I did have trust issues of course after that but only in a relationship capacity really. Clubs were my safe place and the only place I could go to without freaking out. To me meeting people from here or at clubs there was no need for lies, in my eyes people told the truth that way they met people they were compatible with. Seemed simple enough logic. My safe place is now not that safe at all, and that's hugely disappointing. | |||
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"I originally was looking for a small network of fwbs and then meet couples and make genuine friendships. However having had some new experiences I’m now quite keen to meet someone and focus on a solid relationship with them and then maybe one day come back to here. For now that’s not happened so just sticking with my fwbs and couples x x " Good luck xxx . Beautiful photos btw xx | |||
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"Personally just one offs " This is me too. My situation and reason for being here almost precludes a regular FWB type of setup so it has to be one offs for me | |||
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"Personally just one offs This is me too. My situation and reason for being here almost precludes a regular FWB type of setup so it has to be one offs for me " When you find a good one are you not tempted to repeat? | |||
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"When you find a good one are you not tempted to repeat?" There was one couple that I had such a good time with that made me wish I was still in touch with but in the whole I’m not too worried | |||
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Your work is exceptional. If only closer. I think all women hope that they can connect with someone in the hope it can allow us to explore things we have long wished to try. Unfortunately the reality is disappointing one offs xx | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag.
Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx
Issue is, I'm put off now.
I would be a shit girlfriend coz I know I'd be all FBI and stuff. 2 people I gave my heart and trust to abused it massively and I won't allow that to happen again. Only way to guarantee it from happening is to not allow anyone that close again.
Yes it's shit, but that's why I'm so vocal when it comes to cheating and lying etc. It really does change people and how they experience the world from that point on.
I understand how you feel. My ex fucked loads of guys when we split for a few months. That hurt deeply and knocked my trust in women bigtime.
Worst bit is, my recent ex knew what I'd been through regarding the abusive cheating ex. I suffered a full on mental breakdown 15 months after the abusive relationship ended and had no idea I had CPTSD until that point. I was off work for 9 months, my brain was fried to the max. I had to work REALLY fucking hard to recover.
I did have trust issues of course after that but only in a relationship capacity really.
Clubs were my safe place and the only place I could go to without freaking out. To me meeting people from here or at clubs there was no need for lies, in my eyes people told the truth that way they met people they were compatible with. Seemed simple enough logic.
My safe place is now not that safe at all, and that's hugely disappointing.
"I understand. Fab has a lot of cheating partners on here. My take is if its that shit they need tp cheat just be honest with them and leave. Do not fuck others behind their backs as the emotinal Trauma and heartache that brings when they find out which one day they will no matter how careful at lying you are in unrepairable. Virtual hugs peachy,i know how you felt  | |||
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"I find it interesting you ask. I have long admired yiu dedication to the service of women .
Your work is exceptional. If only closer. I think all women hope that they can connect with someone in the hope it can allow us to explore things we have long wished to try. Unfortunately the reality is disappointing one offs xx"Thankyou for the nice comments. I do aim to please Yes distance is a real barrier to fun sometimes | |||
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"A FWB ,... just the one .... House parties are the only place I do multiples of anything on a one off basis. "Have you got a FWB? | |||
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"I'm not looking for anything at the moment really. I'm not sure what I want so suppose it's a case of waiting and seeing where I feel I fit. I'll likely meet couples to start with or head back to clubs once they open. My lack of trust is certainly impacting my desire to meet single men, although there are a few that have piqued my interest. Why the distrust? All you have to do is read my profile (I say that like it's easy , it's a fair read)
I've seen so much bullshit, enough to last a lifetime and I witness it daily on the forums alone.
Basically I met a dude, we were together almost 2 years. Had a couples profile, saw each other as and when we could. Had a holiday planned. He had met my son, my workmates, my friends.
Lockdown part 1 happened and it became apparent he wasn't separated at all.
My other serious relationship before that one the dude was an abusive cheat.
I know I can't tar everyone with the same brush, and have no intention of it, however I don't wanna get caught up in any more lies, cheating or shit that could hurt other people or myself, even for a one off shag.
Sorry to hear you have had some bad experiences. I’m sure you will find someone more worthy.xxx
Issue is, I'm put off now.
I would be a shit girlfriend coz I know I'd be all FBI and stuff. 2 people I gave my heart and trust to abused it massively and I won't allow that to happen again. Only way to guarantee it from happening is to not allow anyone that close again.
Yes it's shit, but that's why I'm so vocal when it comes to cheating and lying etc. It really does change people and how they experience the world from that point on. "I feel the same too. My ex lied about a 19 year history of domestic abuse charges and I've been told he cheated on my not so long after I had our daughter. My ex, coupled with the amount of liars and cheats on here means I couldn't trust a man. It does leave me feeling guilty for tarring all men with the same brush but I'm yet to meet anyone who could prove otherwise. I'm here purely for great sex whether it be with one offs or something more regular. | |||
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"Question for the single women on here! Are you mainly seeking a regular fuck buddy or are you looking for lots of experiences with different people more ? " I would like one or two regular fuck buddies who are willing to have mmfs etc with me(best of both worlds) | |||
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"A FWB ,... just the one .... House parties are the only place I do multiples of anything on a one off basis.
Have you got a FWB?"No ... I’m fussy, still searching ... | |||
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"A FWB ,... just the one .... House parties are the only place I do multiples of anything on a one off basis.
Have you got a FWB?
No ... I’m fussy, still searching ... "I will imagine you are spoilt for choice | |||
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"A FWB ,... just the one .... House parties are the only place I do multiples of anything on a one off basis.
Have you got a FWB?
No ... I’m fussy, still searching ...
I will imagine you are spoilt for choice "No, not true...... | |||
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