FabSwingers.com forum: Curvy v Fat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion

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By *he RizzlerMan
over a year ago

People can call themselves whatever they want. Most are attracted to a good personality, good chat and an element of common ground anyway so the labels of fat, thin, curvy etc aren't required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

Surely this will depend on the height of the person although the word fat is never good to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"
your perfect size ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? "
i have no perfect size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? i have no perfect size "
sorry my perfect sign came out as a question mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought 'curvy' was rather ambiguous. Everyone has curves, we're not angular.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I'm a size 12-14, but deffo curvy! Tiny waist, big boobs and big bum.

I prefer curvy to being called fat, I own my curves and have learned to love them, and I haven't had any complaints yet

Own it ladies, we've got this. Its all about confidence and dressing to our bodies, no matter if you are a size 6 to 36. We are all beautiful in our own unique ways, and perfect the way we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

At the end of they day, they are just words. We all have our own ideas of what fat and curvy are. Pointless to discuss.

"One mans junk is another mans treasure". Same rules apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? i have no perfect size sorry my perfect sign came out as a question mark."
haha oh right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

Surely it's self defining?

36 24 36....curvy...

40 40 40....not curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proportions probably, still an hourglass like figure even if bigger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term Voluptuous. However in reality I look in the mirror and see fat.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Near Okehampton.

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

Think you may also need to clarify of meaning of Fit as f**k, Are you taking as in Gym or exercise fit or as it what some would say totally sexy and shagable.

Some see that as confusing as the Curvy question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called curvy... Mostly by blokes that want sex... I am not, I am fat, for my waist size my legs, bum n boobs are not in proportion. I am ok with it, mostly.

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By *hisiswhonowWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I'd say curvy is a shape, fat more describes a size? I might use curvy to describe myself, but certainly not in isolation - wouldn't want people to be under any illusions about my size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat, but my girlfriend says she loves my "dad bod"

Personally I think I'm way past a dad bod, but hey, I'm happy! So I think it's self defining really.

Advantage is I'm also harder to throw in the back of a van.

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Some wear there weight better than others, and confidence is a big boost with this, but really what does it matter?

Everyone has there own tastes and preferences, and often actual dress size makes little difference to if a woman gets a double take or not.

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By *tp1664Man
over a year ago

b64

It's the person inside that counts not the size or looks.

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By *unpetexyzaMan
over a year ago

Northant,Leicestershire, Warwickshire borders

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?

Think you may also need to clarify of meaning of Fit as f**k, Are you taking as in Gym or exercise fit or as it what some would say totally sexy and shagable.

Some see that as confusing as the Curvy question."

In your case totally sexy and shagable!

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By *efthandMan
over a year ago

Halton, Cheshire

Is it a case of 'politeness / respect' as well?

"Love your photos, they really show off your gorgeous curves"

"Love your photos, they really show off how gorgeously fat you are"

Even if a person's profile mentions they describe themselves as fat, I personally wouldn't call that out as it feels such a negative description towards someone.

It's a funny one, as it's very subjective and as much as we shouldn't be driven or influenced by 'labels' to an extent we are as it's part of the choices we choose when creating our profiles.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

While I accept the fact that I am fat, hearing the term always makes me feel down and I get quite body conscious. My waist is smaller but there is still quite a lot of me. Either way I don’t think anyone would feel good with someone calling them fat.

Lily

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

For me the difference between the two is hanging skin.

Frame and skin can be classed as curvy even on why could be called the larger size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the person inside that counts not the size or looks."

There is no real definition of what counts.

A bit of everything is needed we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy when someone likes me and fat when they don't. Same goes for my own view of it I suppose, some days I'm highlighting every curve and others I'm practically wearing a tent to hide any lump and bump. So, basically, perception is the difference.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide

Surely the point is one can be curvy, curvy and fat, curvy and slim, curvy and any other body type if there are well.... "curves"....

As for the little belly of which you speak ? I've inspected your pictures very closely, (you may not have felt it.. I was very gentle)... If only my belly were as little as yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely fat

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm curvy when someone likes me and fat when they don't. Same goes for my own view of it I suppose, some days I'm highlighting every curve and others I'm practically wearing a tent to hide any lump and bump. So, basically, perception is the difference. "

Same here. I describe myself as "ample" on here, as I no longer have a tiny waist. Because of that I say I'm FAT, rather than CURVY.

Lovely people on here call me curvy - which is rather good to hear.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Fat is still curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa. "

Fupa?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Fat is still curvy. "

It is indeed. I just feel that people should know I have a fat belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I have been fat, I have been athletic, I can now describe myself as “curvy”.

In my own personal case, I could have described myself “fit as fuck” when I could run comfortably at 5:00min/km. Not anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While I accept the fact that I am fat, hearing the term always makes me feel down and I get quite body conscious. My waist is smaller but there is still quite a lot of me. Either way I don’t think anyone would feel good with someone calling them fat.

Lily "

You have a fab figure. You are not over weight at all lady!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I am what I am

I don't want praise, I don't want pity

I bang my own drum

Some think it's noise, I think it's pretty

And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle?

Why not try to see things from a different angle?

Your life is a sham till you can shout out

"I am what I am"

I am what I am

And what I am needs no excuses

I deal my own deck

Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces

It's one life and there's no return and no deposit

One life so it's time to open up your closet

Life's not worth a damn till you can shout out

"I am what I am"

I am what I am

And what I am needs no excuses

I deal my own deck

Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces

It's one life and there's no return and no deposit

One life so it's time to open up your closet

Life's not worth a damn till you can shout out

"I am what I am"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "

I thought you'd just typed gut wrong there, I've never heard of a gunt before. Every day's a school day on Fab!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "

I have a hunt. Therefore, as I've already said, I'm fat

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

When I set my profile up, a friend that told me about fab (women) I was going to put fat but she told me to put athletic, I said but I’m certainly not athletic anymore but she said to me your not fat so suppose it’s about the opinion you have of yourself as well as other people’s opinion of you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am rotund...haha...fat and curvy...voluptuous....

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

"I am rotund...haha...fat and curvy...voluptuous...."
you look perfect to me.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

I'm curvy...if humans were built of Lego they would be square and angular. But I also have fat, far too much of it.

But I don't let either term define me.

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape not a dress size surely??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat.

I thought you'd just typed gut wrong there, I've never heard of a gunt before. Every day's a school day on Fab!"

I've never heard of the word Gunt either!!

It's awful lol...

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By *hatever works for USCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield/Sunderland

Curvy is a shape just like sexy is an attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh the fat vs curvy debate

It's in the eye of the beholder.

For me I'm curvy at a size 16 or below and fat over.

At the moment I'm fat.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I was a fat guy, and never had an issue with the word of used as a description rather than as an insult.

It's the context that is important to me.

I'd have disliked it more if people called me curvy

I wonder if there is a nice alternative of fat for guys?

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

Curvy or fat?

I have curves (most people do as humans were not designed using a ruler and with straight lines in mind) but I am also fat, very fat, obese would be the medical term.

I used to be very curvy with big natural breasts, small waist and nice biggish bum. Pregnancy, breastfeeding for 2 1/2 years and not going out much due to family issues “helped” the extra fat and my tummy stay. Depression just made things worse.

I get called curvy, BBW, etc. all the time but I always mention being fat as I do not want to mislead anyone.

What anyone else calls themselves is their prerogative. I call myself MySweetLady

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "

Im definitely fat then but never considered myself curvy anyway

( never heard of the word either and had to google it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say does it really matter as it's the person that counts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself curvy because I do have a nipped in waist compared to my bust and hips and I have been told I carry my weight well.

Fat is just not a pleasant word especially to describe someone for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "

I have one of those whether I am fat or not, now... It's just more skin n less fat when I am lighter

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Fat but also curvy here, hourglass figure with lumps ahoy! Some that don't disappear even when I'm lighter

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

I've seen more fat on a butchers pencil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 shape curvy

O shape fat

It’s down to curvature I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 shape curvy

O shape fat

It’s down to curvature I guess"

I would be an O if I was shorter.. I would probably look like a bumble bee just less stripey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 shape curvy

O shape fat

It’s down to curvature I guess

I would be an O if I was shorter.. I would probably look like a bumble bee just less stripey

Haha, can’t tell from your pics but sexy all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat always have been but I go in at my waist so have some curves however how people describe me is entirely up to them

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I'm fat but hubby loves me, so I am happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy and fat here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.

Fupa? "

Fat upper pussy area xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.

Fupa?

Fat upper pussy area xx"

Never heard that term either

, so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.

Fupa?

Fat upper pussy area xx

Never heard that term either

, so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang? "

I'd never heard of gunt either but yes think they are pretty much the same thing xx

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m curvy and fat. It’s perfectly possible to be both. And I’ve been told on here I’m one or the other more times than I can count. I selected curvy as my body type because I am, but I also describe myself in more detail in the text, and don’t hide anything in my photos so people can form their own opinion.

Equally though, what does “athletic” mean? A professional prop forward or a shot putter are athletic because they are athletes, but they are often also fat.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Whatever you call it, that's the kind of lady I go for. I don't know why they just excite me.

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By *iss_innocent1000Woman
over a year ago

london

I’m definitely fat x

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I simply love all types of sexy women....i think an hour glass figure...no matter its size is sexy....its what gets the juices going all that matters

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Ladies are curvy (unless he tells otherwise) , men are fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am both.

Definitely overweight and need to be fitter/healthier (work in progress), but luckily I’m taller than average which helps.

I think ‘curves’ refers to proportions really. I have a huge bum, big boobs, tiny waist, and small shoulders, which I think are curvy.

Sadly though, my tummy is not in proportion, and unsupported my boobs are seriously heavy and go a lot further south than they used to lol.

Hubby loves my body. Anybody else isn’t being forced to look lol

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Mrs rosie pumpkin....just looked at your pics... all i can say is mmmmmm

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I love this thread so many hot ladies commenting.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

There’s no doubt about it, I’m fat. It’s all very wobbly and jiggly. I’d feel more comfortable and confident if I lost some weight so that’s the plan, again.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate looking at my body thinking I was fat, but now know all natural unique in our own right and love my curves

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

I call myself curvy when dressed in female clothes and fat when dressed in male clothes.

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By *hisiswhonowWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I can call myself fat (because I'm overweight) or curvy (because of my shape), but anyone else can call just call me curvy. Anyone calling me fat is getting a swift block or being told to fuck off ha. A matter of politeness!

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I find both curvy & fat women sexy, as long as they are happy with their body & want to share it

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By *rMrsB.Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I’m not curvy and I’m not fat. I HAVE fat, it doesn’t define me. But I do like potential new meets to know that I am of a larger build so there’s no surprises or cat fishing pictures

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By *bonybbwWoman
over a year ago

London

Curvy or fat it's nice to hear some appreciation from guys who enjoy us.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

You'll do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ... "

this im a size 8 and i consider myself curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can call themselves whatever they want. Most are attracted to a good personality, good chat and an element of common ground anyway so the labels of fat, thin, curvy etc aren't required "

Very well said.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm a bit underheight for my weight

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’m fat. I’m ok with that (mostly). I’m very honest about my body. Some people like it, some people love it, some people hate it - and have no qualms about about telling me so.

I’m not arsed. I’ve got some hot as fuck Fab friends who I know I can turn on, and can enjoy me and my body as much as I enjoy them. That’s what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All real women and admire the true form

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By *laric-DomMan
over a year ago

Chapelhall

Curvy or fat .. iprefer sexy ..

But to me it's the mind that gets me .. if she is open minded .. willing to try new things ( or do things she lives) then oh happy days ......

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Very well said. OP what is the point of your question?

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

It's curvy then voluptuous for me. Fat is not one my favourite terms or labels.

When someone can't move then voluptuous looses its appeal and heads to obese.

I've always loved the curvy/ voluptuous lady, definitely very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a curvy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the larger lady

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

My tummy is round, that makes me curvy

Curvy can be a size 8 or a size 22. It's the shape of a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U look fantastic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called sexy and curvy by the same guys that call me fat if I turn down their advances

Thankfully its a small number of mean spirited men. Most are great.

As for the size thing I classify myself as curvy but truthfully I'm also fat. Doesn't stop me having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great profile pic xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm a size 18/20 I'm fat.... But my body shape is curvy in the sense that I have an hourglass figure, boobs,nipped in waist and hips and bum.

It's all personal perception really

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman."
exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur v sexy and horny looking xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way

Beautiful.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

I'm chubby lol

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me to as many curves as possible. If I'm being blunt. Until it becomes too difficult lol.

No offence intended

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

I’ve been told for years since I was 15 after an operation that I’m fat as I ballooned

And I am fat few years ago I was at my biggest n worked really hard to loose 8 stone and get down to 14 stone!

Only to be told by a group of women on my celebratory New Year’s Eve night out that I was a fat C#@t and they didn’t want me talking to their friend who I was getting on well with

Even when I loose weight I’m still a 49 1/2 inch chest just for a sort of gauge

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

It's a pointless distinction.

People are so often keen to put others into categories, and sometimes that can be helpful, but it really isn't in this case.

You're either going to be attracted to someone or not. Whether they can be defined as curvy or fat shouldn't be the point at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the wrong kinda fat

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Others may call me fat but I'm rubensque - plump & voluptuous and squidgy in all the right places for the people that matter.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I liked the word curvy, and I think it was used to not cause offense when describing us bigger girls. However, I think the word has been hijacked by the slimmer girls, who yes, obviously have curves, everyone does. Now, I like 'voluptuous' or 'rubenesque'. Each to there own. Dont really care what you call me just don't call me late for dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curvy, I am fat but only I get to call myself fat!

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By *urvywhirlyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Im officially fat. According to the NHS guidelines I'm obese. But I definitely prefer curvy. Thank you!

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By *rincess1973Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm classed as ample on my couple profile but do call myself voluptuous and bbw I am large and have a serious gunt from weight loss and kids

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Gunt??

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Gunt??"

I guess the female version of a gock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"

This, so much this... It's all proportional. Not numbers.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Despite popular belief, curvy does NOT mean fat. Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips, and butt with a comparatively small waist.

Thin women CAN be curvy, and fat women CAN be curveLESS. It is a body SHAPE, not a body SIZE.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Gunt??"

Where a stomach (gut) and pubic area (cunt) merge.

Lou x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Luckily we can all be whatever we want to be ..

I’ve just dieted and lost 3 stone..

First time I’ve ever needed to..

But clothes didn’t fit right , I didn’t like myself.

So I changed it ..

Anyone can with the right state of mind ..

Unfortunately being overweight is a mental state and because we’re unhappy we eat more ..

A vicious circle..

And we make up excuses why we are overweight..

But anyone can change it if they want..

Just be happy..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Curvy is a polite description of body shape that could be incredibly healthy, or reflective of some surplus weight. Calling someone fat is not necessary, as it's likely to hurt many people and doesn't help - including calling ourselves fat.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Curvy is a polite description of body shape that could be incredibly healthy, or reflective of some surplus weight. Calling someone fat is not necessary, as it's likely to hurt many people and doesn't help - including calling ourselves fat. "

Absolutely spot on comment

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide

You have a belly? Don't see on eon your pics. Where is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the shape not the weight...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

I'm fat,and proud of it

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?

I'm fat,and proud of it

And you wear it well ..

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?

I'm fat,and proud of it

Hippy bathday

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful "

Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful

Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt."

If we're being pedantic - fat is a shape if you're describing us as such. . . more simply a shape can be defined as the form of an object or person. So yes fat is a shape

If you don't like fat, curvy, voluptuous or any other larger descriptions of a lady or even like a larger lady in real life that's fine but you do sound rather disrespectful

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful

Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt.

If we're being pedantic - fat is a shape if you're describing us as such. . . more simply a shape can be defined as the form of an object or person. So yes fat is a shape

If you don't like fat, curvy, voluptuous or any other larger descriptions of a lady or even like a larger lady in real life that's fine but you do sound rather disrespectful "

If you're referring to me... Apologies I don't mean to sound disrespectful at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really this shouldn't be an issue unless the size is unpractical for sex. There's so much more to someone than figure. If said curvy/fat (whatever term you like to use. I prefer curvy) is confident, uninhibited, chilled and well into the sexual experience. What's size got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ... "

im a size 8 sometimes a 6 but my curves are still there i still have a curvy ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely fat

Gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x"

I love me ladies curvy too

never been attracted to a skinny lady.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ...

im a size 8 sometimes a 6 but my curves are still there i still have a curvy ass"

I think we need more photos to confirm that! Very sexy curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think curvy is most definitely a shape and can vary to person to person. Regardless of their weight or dress size.

I'm not a fan of referring to people as fat. I was called "fat" by kids at school when I was growing up. Then also "skinny" in later years. There are far more flattering words to use to describe someone.

However, when I think "fat", I think overweight or obese.

I've got friends my age who are healthy weights/bmi and refer to themselves as fat because they carry weight on their belly or bum.

On the other hand, I've got a friend who's a size 24, who refers to herself as "fat and proud".

It's all subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being called fat is derogatory. It's a harsh word to hurt someone's feelings. Curvy could cover a multitude of different body times right through mesomorphic to endomorphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact even some ectomorphic people could be called curvey if their body shape dictates it

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

been a size 30/32... that was fat.

now a size 18/20 some might say that is still fat, but I no longer feel as fat as I once did

guess it's relative to opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Academic, you either find someones shape attractive or not. Try not to hang labels I've got enough of my own hangups without inflicting some on others

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By *laction manMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It’s about proportions basically if she goes in at the waist she’s curvy. If she doesn’t she’s fat, simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x

I love me ladies curvy too

never been attracted to a skinny lady.

I love yours too welcome to my hotlist lol x

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"So what's everyone think is the difference ?

Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck

But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "

I think it's proportions in regards to height and weight. We all carry it differently.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I consider myself fat as in I’m overweight and have body fat I don’t need unless I’m living in the snowy tundra. But I’m also curvy because I am not a straight line. Simples.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fat and this means curves....round curves lol

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"

I'd definitely say fantastic and definitely in fantastic proportion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your classed as fat when you poke your thigh and your chin wobbles

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion

I'd definitely say fantastic and definitely in fantastic proportion xx"

The beauty of our language... When a word can have many meanings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The categories on here are useless....slim and curvy are body shapes. Fat is more about body composition, athletic is probably as well. Fat is not even a category on here anyway. Large and normal compared to what....what even is normal, and is everything else abnormal?!! Ultimately the terms like fat and curvy are all subjective and essentially meaningless....you like the look of someone’s body or you don’t.

Tabitha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The categories on here are useless....slim and curvy are body shapes. Fat is more about body composition, athletic is probably as well. Fat is not even a category on here anyway. Large and normal compared to what....what even is normal, and is everything else abnormal?!! Ultimately the terms like fat and curvy are all subjective and essentially meaningless....you like the look of someone’s body or you don’t.

Tabitha x"

^^ This

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Tabitha x"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I would say your classed as fat when you poke your thigh and your chin wobbles "

Oh good. I'm officially not fat

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By *uck-Fuddy XxXMan
over a year ago

chester'ish

"At the end of they day, they are just words. We all have our own ideas of what fat and curvy are. Pointless to discuss.

"One mans junk is another mans treasure". Same rules

apply."

True that. ???????? Slim and skinny just words.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxXMan
over a year ago

chester'ish

Didn't mean the question marks.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

About a stone ago I called myself curvy, now I'm just fat

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm fat, as my profile pic shows.

I've labelled myself "ample" rather than "curvy" as I no longer have a small waist. Lovely people on here refer to me as curvy, though. Which is rather sweet x

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By *orthAngusCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Angus

I'm fat but I'm also happy x

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm fat but I'm also happy x"
this

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I think it depends how it's being said. Fat is often used as a derogatory term to imply that a person is overweight. I was called fat when I was a teenager. How I wish I was that weight now.

I tend to refer to myself as fat, because that's how I see myself. As others have said, on here, I've been referred to a beautiful. (I still don't see that one myself)

It depends how far is being used. If it's said to illicit a negative response, then don't use it. If you're simply stating a fact, well, things are what they are. Whatever you call someone who has a poor self image they could take it the wrong way.

I'm curvy, it's just my curves are nearer to the full 360 degrees than others...

As others have said - beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it wouldn't do for everyone to like the same thing.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I think it depends how it's being said. Fat is often used as a derogatory term to imply that a person is overweight. I was called fat when I was a teenager. How I wish I was that weight now.

I tend to refer to myself as fat, because that's how I see myself. As others have said, on here, I've been referred to a beautiful. (I still don't see that one myself)

I'm curvy, it's just my curves are nearer to the full 360 degrees than others...

As others have said - beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it wouldn't do for everyone to like the same thing."

Well said! I call ME fat, but wouldn't dream of calling anyone else fat. If I had to describe them, I'd say Rubenesque or fuller figured, if they had big boobs too.

Ooh, what about voluptuous? I like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "

Wrong.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.

Fupa?

Fat upper pussy area xx

Never heard that term either

, so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang? "

No but people often use it as thd sake. A FUPA is a fat mons pubis or the fat pad that covers the public bone.

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By *reeneyedminxWoman
over a year ago

near you

Curvy...every single person has curves. Both men and women! We have bums, we have waists and legs and boobs!

Fat....is something you have, whether you have more than some or less than some. Fat should not be used as a descriptive word as it is wrong. Voluptuous is a nice way of wording it, I personally prefer that than BBW. Everyone is different in sizes.

We could turn the tables and say...Cock size...what is Small and what is big? To some people 4 inches is small, to some it’s big cause of past experiences. Where as to others 7 may be small.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Curvy...every single person has curves. Both men and women! We have bums, we have waists and legs and boobs!

We could turn the tables and say...Cock size...what is Small and what is big? To some people 4 inches is small, to some it’s big cause of past experiences. Where as to others 7 may be small. "

Well in fairness cock size is one of the more straight forward criteria.. Question... "how bigs your cock?" answer... Slightly smaller than A lynx deoderant can... Or 6 inches...

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By *haz and CatCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

if i put my arms around the waist and the fingertips dont touch ..fat..lol

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I have piled on 2 stone since stopping smoking...finding it hard to get rid of it...now just over 11 stone and a size 12 and it's all around my waist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have piled on 2 stone since stopping smoking...finding it hard to get rid of it...now just over 11 stone and a size 12 and it's all around my waist...

My doctor told me to only smoke after meals...I'm down to 15 meals a day now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have already said you don’t need to be fat to be curvy, it’s about the proportions of the curves relative to the test of your body...

But I’m more interested in those who are fat women or some would call themselves obese. For all of you, being curvy or fat is on the mindset. Accepting them, feeling comfortable with them and realising many of of us love your curves would make you feel curvy and sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely fat

Your definitely hot xx

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm here

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I likes em big

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