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"What's an old school gent? Your profile seems ok to me. Do you feel it represents you well?" Old school gent, like opening doors for ladies, standing up when they enter a room etc. I think my profile represents me, just lacking the experience.... | |||
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"using manners and respect classes me as an old school gent " That’s exactly me but no luck on my side. How about you? | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will" Should it? | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will" Unfortunately not... | |||
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"Your profile suggests you're married If that IS the case, the old school gent approach will only carry so far Your photos are pretty average and they suggest that whilst you might be a nice guy to hang around with, they aren't gonna get you shagged" Not married Bussy....any suggestions on improving? | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not..." Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? " You're* | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? " Exactly Like being able to string while sentences together and show interest in others | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty" Me neither so I’m guessing it’s going home to Mrs Palmer in the evenings  | |||
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"Can only ever be yourself and be patient. No point in being anything else. You'll be found eventually. " Cheers for that, I ain’t intending on changing.. | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? " Agreed but, how does one show if you can’t even get a social in? Sad isn’t it? | |||
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"Excellent change of status mate "Thought I’d quickly change that...cheers for the heads up... | |||
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"Your profile suggests you're married If that IS the case, the old school gent approach will only carry so far Your photos are pretty average and they suggest that whilst you might be a nice guy to hang around with, they aren't gonna get you shagged Not married Bussy....any suggestions on improving?" You don't have to explain it, but not accomodating is seen by many as a red flag That coupled with the line about 'something lacking' in your life suggests you're playing away (can't remember your exact terminology, but it was along those lines) So maybe state why you don't or can't accom and think of a better way round the wording what's lacking It's a minefield here for single blokes, there is no one correct approach Taking a look at 'successful' male profiles might help too, although when I did that, my only conclusion was to drop 5 stones and 15 years, oh and grow 6 inches  | |||
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"Your profile suggests you're married If that IS the case, the old school gent approach will only carry so far Your photos are pretty average and they suggest that whilst you might be a nice guy to hang around with, they aren't gonna get you shagged Not married Bussy....any suggestions on improving? You don't have to explain it, but not accomodating is seen by many as a red flag That coupled with the line about 'something lacking' in your life suggests you're playing away (can't remember your exact terminology, but it was along those lines) So maybe state why you don't or can't accom and think of a better way round the wording what's lacking It's a minefield here for single blokes, there is no one correct approach Taking a look at 'successful' male profiles might help too, although when I did that, my only conclusion was to drop 5 stones and 15 years, oh and grow 6 inches "Haha...excellent! Your advice is under advisement. Oh & I’m a WIP with dropping a few stones.. | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? Agreed but, how does one show if you can’t even get a social in? Sad isn’t it? "Well being a true gent should just be the normal to one, not a selling point? If you're here to meet people for a sexual relationship of any form maybe being a true gent isn't the focus | |||
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"Seems like being a gentleman doesn’t seem to attract here....any suggestions ladies on the approach or sprucing up my profile?" Baz with all due respect you only joined FAB 6 weeks ago. What with Covid especially and Xmas most people are not arranging meets. My advice (with years of experience) is play the long game. Expect nothing and you will not be disappointed. Take your time, chat and get to know people. Patience is a virtue my friend. | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... l" IMHO being honest, genuine, respectful, opening doors etc aren’t the markers of an “old school gentleman” they’re just markers of being a respectful person of any gender towards any gender. I’m a bit concerned at the idea that if you’re not “an old school gentleman” you’re a rude, disrespectful person. That’s not true at all. You can be polite to any gender without being a “gentleman”. I find the phrase “old school gentleman” conjures up an image of someone who is perhaps a bit paternalistic, older, wouldn’t be comfortable with me wanting to buy a round of drinks etc, so wouldn’t be for me. I try to be polite and respectful without needing to be a gentleman. | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... l IMHO being honest, genuine, respectful, opening doors etc aren’t the markers of an “old school gentleman” they’re just markers of being a respectful person of any gender towards any gender. I’m a bit concerned at the idea that if you’re not “an old school gentleman” you’re a rude, disrespectful person. That’s not true at all. You can be polite to any gender without being a “gentleman”. I find the phrase “old school gentleman” conjures up an image of someone who is perhaps a bit paternalistic, older, wouldn’t be comfortable with me wanting to buy a round of drinks etc, so wouldn’t be for me. I try to be polite and respectful without needing to be a gentleman. " Awesome, thx for your insight...will definitely keep this in mind. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with your profile especially as you are showing your face and they look unfiltered. That allows any woman a chance to see if she fancies you or not. As others have said, currently the wrong time to join the site, so get yourself seen on here, contribute to the forums or chat / cam and allow your ‘Gent’ status to be seen more and properly judged by the ladies on here. "Thx for that, Steph.. | |||
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"Patience is definitely the key on fab. If you rush people it may come across as desperation which is a major turn off for anyone " Haha...I’ve been patient all my life! | |||
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"Seems like being a gentleman doesn’t seem to attract here....any suggestions ladies on the approach or sprucing up my profile? Baz with all due respect you only joined FAB 6 weeks ago. What with Covid especially and Xmas most people are not arranging meets. My advice (with years of experience) is play the long game. Expect nothing and you will not be disappointed. Take your time, chat and get to know people. Patience is a virtue my friend. " I’m up for the long game... I didn’t expect much when I joined (no offence to anyone) ...cheers for your advice.. | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? Agreed but, how does one show if you can’t even get a social in? Sad isn’t it?
Well being a true gent should just be the normal to one, not a selling point? If you're here to meet people for a sexual relationship of any form maybe being a true gent isn't the focus "Got you... | |||
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"You've only been here 6 weeks and all of that during some very difficult Covid times. What isn't happening that you think ought to have by now? Remember you're on a site crammed with guys to it's never going to be easy to get noticed let alone much more. It takes time." Appreciate that flirty couple...be honest, would you meet me for a social if I asked, based on my profile? Hypothetically speaking... | |||
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"I doubt very much "an old school gent" would be on a swinging site,let alone brag about it "Why not? Thought it would be fun way to meet new people & to experiment...tbh, haven’t had a great sexual life, in fact very boring... | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty" Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? " Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part. | |||
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"I don't know being a true gentleman will come across on a profile ... that only shows itself when your actually with people? It doesn't actually need saying but just is? " This! | |||
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"Patience is definitely the key on fab. If you rush people it may come across as desperation which is a major turn off for anyone Haha...I’ve been patient all my life! "Me too Baz | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part." Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part." Of course looks play a huge part, so does age. I'm a perfect lady, some would say old-fashioned, a lot would actually  but I'm way older than most people's upper age range and my looks don't appeal to everyone. I don't expect people to meet me because I'm a lady and I'm certainly not going to change who I am to attract more people. I don't think you should either.
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... l IMHO being honest, genuine, respectful, opening doors etc aren’t the markers of an “old school gentleman” they’re just markers of being a respectful person of any gender towards any gender. I’m a bit concerned at the idea that if you’re not “an old school gentleman” you’re a rude, disrespectful person. That’s not true at all. You can be polite to any gender without being a “gentleman”. I find the phrase “old school gentleman” conjures up an image of someone who is perhaps a bit paternalistic, older, wouldn’t be comfortable with me wanting to buy a round of drinks etc, so wouldn’t be for me. I try to be polite and respectful without needing to be a gentleman. " Pretty much agree with this. Sure the OP is a nice guy but describing himself in this way wouldn't excite my interest, not that he might want to anyway!  | |||
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". Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill " I love your posts! | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part. Of course looks play a huge part, so does age. I'm a perfect lady, some would say old-fashioned, a lot would actually but I'm way older than most people's upper age range and my looks don't appeal to everyone. I don't expect people to meet me because I'm a lady and I'm certainly not going to change who I am to attract more people. I don't think you should either.
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... l IMHO being honest, genuine, respectful, opening doors etc aren’t the markers of an “old school gentleman” they’re just markers of being a respectful person of any gender towards any gender. I’m a bit concerned at the idea that if you’re not “an old school gentleman” you’re a rude, disrespectful person. That’s not true at all. You can be polite to any gender without being a “gentleman”. I find the phrase “old school gentleman” conjures up an image of someone who is perhaps a bit paternalistic, older, wouldn’t be comfortable with me wanting to buy a round of drinks etc, so wouldn’t be for me. I try to be polite and respectful without needing to be a gentleman. Pretty much agree with this. Sure the OP is a nice guy but describing himself in this way wouldn't excite my interest, not that he might want to anyway! "How would you suggest I describe myself to spark some interest then? Tbh, I would want to try & do a social with you if you were closer.. | |||
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"Seems like being a gentleman doesn’t seem to attract here....any suggestions ladies on the approach or sprucing up my profile?" Problem is there are lots and lots of men on Fab so women can pick and choose. Best just be you and hope you make friends OP. | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. " I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg...." In your profile name what are you curious about? | |||
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"Always stick to your values and morals - I love a real gent! But it's not about luck at all, you only joined 6 weeks ago and there is a global pandemic out there and we aren't supposed to meet strangers! Maybe just be happy to chat to ladies until it's safe to meet x" That’s also the point, I can’t even get a response for a chat..haha  | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part. Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill " I would dare treat a lady disrespectfully...not in me to do that...that’s it, I’m going for a face change...George clooney lookalike, here I come.  | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part. Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill I would dare treat a lady disrespectfully...not in me to do that...that’s it, I’m going for a face change...George clooney lookalike, here I come. "Think that should read “wouldn’t dare” as by saying would dare means you will treat them disrespectfully | |||
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". Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill I love your posts! "Thanking you kindly | |||
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"I hope this doesn't come across wrong, but I'd change your profile pic to the one with glasses on and you've had a shave. IMO it puts across more of the 'gentleman' image you seem to want to portray "I’ll try that, thank you ?? | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about?" Curious what this site has to offer... | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer..." Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious. | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer... Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious." That’s how I took it to be honest | |||
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"Right, you're gonna struggle to spark interest at the best of times due to many factors, thw main one being you're a bloke and without sounding cunty, a small fish in not just a large pond, but a motherfucking ocean. That's how massive the ratio is between men and women on here. Those women will have preferences, age, height, hair colour, dress sense, even down to things like taste in music as daft as that may sound. I want someone who's gonna enjoy the same music as me rather than it being all awkward coz they ain't enjoying my ambience. This shit matters! For an awful lot of people it's an experience, not just a fuck. 6 weeks is fuck all, I'm not talking a little bit if fuck all, but a mammoth fuck all. Add to all of the above that the world is properly fucked right now. Stress is a huge part of people's lives at the minute and a massive mojo killer. People don't wanna make plans with others, they could be covid dead within the next few weeks anyway. So... take a breath, chill yer beans and wait for organised group socials to be back up and running. You'll be able to get yourself across in person and not be reliant on a profile that barely anyone will see anyway." I appreciate that, chill pill taken  | |||
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"Being honest, genuine, respectful and polite doesn't seem to guarantee any interest these days... Will Unfortunately not... Totally agree, if that’s the case I will be waiting forever as I cannot do disrespectful or nasty Are you suggesting that you need to be disrespectful or nasty to be successful on fab? Or that all that's required to guarantee meets is to say that you're a gentleman? Not at all but I’m leaning towards ‘bad boy’ approach seems to have a better success rate here....don’t quote me on that. There is no guarantee of a meeting either way...unfortunately, it is what it is...you either get fancied or not & I think looks plays a huge part. Looks will play a large part, however if someone I fund attractive tries the "bad boy" shit on me, he's losing his gonads. I've been taken for a cunt one too many times and deserve to be treated like a decent human.... not a hole they want to fill I would dare treat a lady disrespectfully...not in me to do that...that’s it, I’m going for a face change...George clooney lookalike, here I come.
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"I'd say that your profile is all about you and largely what you don't want. Having been on here for a log time now I'd also hazard a guess that you are not single. And nothing in the profile or pictures seems to match your username "Nooo, I am single....please elaborate on matching profile with pics...all critiques welcome. | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer... Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious. That’s how I took it to be honest " Any suggestions?... as I’m not bi | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer... Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious. That’s how I took it to be honest Any suggestions?... as I’m not bi " Other than changing your name not really. People, rightly or wrongly will make that instant assumption, as that's generally what curious means on here. | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer... Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious. That’s how I took it to be honest Any suggestions?... as I’m not bi Other than changing your name not really. People, rightly or wrongly will make that instant assumption, as that's generally what curious means on here." Appreciate that and excuse my ignorance for not picking that up...thank you. | |||
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"I think most ladies like a gentleman with manners, and I'd suggest that the reason you're not having much 'luck' is due to the minor issue of a global pandemic and not that you need to start going all 'bad boy' or be disrespectful. Probably not the most fruitful time to be looking to meet people as I'd like to think that the majority of women are abiding by government guidelines. I appreciate the fact that we are in a global pandemic and I won’t go all ‘bad boy’ etc. I just think that there might be an issue with my approach / opening msg.... In your profile name what are you curious about? Curious what this site has to offer... Many will take "curious" as in bi-curious. That’s how I took it to be honest Any suggestions?... as I’m not bi Other than changing your name not really. People, rightly or wrongly will make that instant assumption, as that's generally what curious means on here. Appreciate that and excuse my ignorance for not picking that up...thank you." It's one of those things you'd not realise or know automatically, don't sweat it. | |||
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