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Why am I still getting messages saying, want to meet today?

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah just new members thinking its "message a person for a Fuck straight away"

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Some people think that if you are on the site or flirting on the chat that you are "free for a fuck" ... complete bollocks. This pandemic and the public health issues demand discipline and diligence. We politely remind people that we are not meeting until the circumstances allow.

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By *ungblackbullMan
over a year ago

scotland

What surprises me is some people are openly looking for a meet in their profile status. I am just reporting anyone I see doing that.

Maybe a bit of code required by the site owners to search for keywords in status. "Looking" and "meet" and "today" or "now". Then, a simple "delete account" button for admin to use...

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think maybe you're so hot they get over excited and forget themselves

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Both I think

Maybe the have a kink for play in hazmed suits

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not just been new members tho. There’s been established forumites with accounts that are years old openly asking people to meet. I think I’ve seen it 3 times now where someone supposedly ‘experienced’ on fab has posted a thread about ‘meeting’ now.

What’s hilarious is that all of them, without exception, immediately start back tracking when they’re challenged. ‘Oh it was just for a socially distanced meet’ was a recent good one....... 3 posts after trying to arrange a spit roasting with a VWE male

If you’re going to try and lie your way out of the shit, at least remember what you’ve written down 3 minutes earlier

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By *efthandMan
over a year ago

Halton, Cheshire


"Nah just new members thinking its "message a person for a Fuck straight away" "

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These same people will be in the forums complaining a couple of weeks later about what are they doing wrong? and how crap the site is.

Back to the OP.

Just a huge level of stupidity.

Yes I get it... After 9 months and the dark winter time the majority of us are missing the various pleasures we seek from the site. It's frustrating.

For the (hopefully) sake of several more months, just don't be a dick about the situation and control your urges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people think that if you are on the site or flirting on the chat that you are "free for a fuck" ... complete bollocks. This pandemic and the public health issues demand discipline and diligence. We politely remind people that we are not meeting until the circumstances allow. "

It’s not just the pandemic it’s idiots who have heard about the site and think all they have to do is say they are free and there will be a que of ladies lining up with their knickers down .. it’s frustrating and sad that this is where the site is nowadays .. don’t let it get you down op just delete those messages and move on I’m sure you will find the diamonds you are seeking

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

Covidiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid, desperate, and instantly blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peanut shell heads

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

My profile says not meeting and I still get offers every day, Even when you say no they keep asking

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By *aucy sausageMan
over a year ago

Gentleshaw

Ive had 3 offers to “pop round and suck your cock”

Tw@ts

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

Fantasists I suspect. Time wasters that have no real intention of turning up.

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By *ricky09Man
over a year ago

Gloucester/Cyprus

stupid & desperate,

I would block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's difficult for some people to grasp that they can't meet a single person from here for a quick hook up, yet you can go to the crowded retail parks and spend as much time as you like there.

Same as in the bingo halls and casinos - you can eat, drink and meet up with friends. The rules are not well thought out.

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By *ungblackbullMan
over a year ago

scotland


"I think it's difficult for some people to grasp that they can't meet a single person from here for a quick hook up, yet you can go to the crowded retail parks and spend as much time as you like there.

Same as in the bingo halls and casinos - you can eat, drink and meet up with friends. The rules are not well thought out."

What are your alternatives? Close retail / bingo but allow random hookups? There is no perfect solution here and whilst you think the rules haven't been thought out, they are based on science and understanding of transmission that you and I have absolutely no understanding of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's difficult for some people to grasp that they can't meet a single person from here for a quick hook up, yet you can go to the crowded retail parks and spend as much time as you like there.

Same as in the bingo halls and casinos - you can eat, drink and meet up with friends. The rules are not well thought out.

What are your alternatives? Close retail / bingo but allow random hookups? There is no perfect solution here and whilst you think the rules haven't been thought out, they are based on science and understanding of transmission that you and I have absolutely no understanding of."

I wasnt suggesting alternatives, nor questioning the reasoning behind the decisions, I was merely answering the op's question.

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By *issy and GingeCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We are still getting them generally single guys chancing their arm, despite saying we aren’t meeting or interested in single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insane

Fab should block them off for a week.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Fantasists I suspect. Time wasters that have no real intention of turning up. "

Oh they do. They have veris which prove it, meets displayed as webcam veris to get around the fact meet veris are not being displayed. There's loads of them.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I wouldn't be at all surprised if the site's admins hate me by now - in the week leading up to Christmas I personally reported between 250-300 profiles (mostly single males) which had statuses openly seeking meets...

....the really scary part was that a lot of them were in areas which were already in Tier 4, or about to be - worryingly, despite having been reported, I saw a number of the same ones on successive days still actively seeking meets...

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

Dear OP

Think you asked the question and then gave yourself the answer.

Stupid....yes

Desperate ....yes

You could have also said they don't care about themselves or others. Especially those that may end of caring for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate? "

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I just report anyone still trying to get me to meet,

I had covid a few weeks ago and didn't exhibit symptoms at the time I tested positive.

I appreciate its frustrating for single people, but it's just not worth the risk of a sex meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Covidiots."

If carlsberg did insults haha thats made me smile for the day lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way."

I didn't mean it in a nasty way.

You asked a question and I answered.

You are calling people stupid yet they were reading your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way.

I didn't mean it in a nasty way.

You asked a question and I answered.

You are calling people stupid yet they were reading your profile. "

Yet again I disagree with you. It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now. It shouldn’t need spelling out to people who use the site. They’re supposed to be adults. I’ve not changed my profile for covid because I shouldn’t need to. If I do get people asking for a meet I advise them to stop trying to arrange meets during covid 1) because it’s illegal still and 2) there are plenty of other people on here who will quite happily report folk. It’s usually taken in good spirit too and I never hear from them again.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would say both of your stated suggestions OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What must be going through some people's head

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Selfish morons

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

They are so pathologically selfish that they don't care that their actions will lead to the death of other people.

It's that simple.

They would rather let other people die than be even slightly inconvenienced.

I personally have started taking people's attitudes to the pandemic as an insight into their sexual health practices. I now assume that anyone I see out without a mask would bareback a total stranger, and that the people who don't give a shit about spreading COVID would behave exactly the same if they had untreated HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be at all surprised if the site's admins hate me by now - in the week leading up to Christmas I personally reported between 250-300 profiles (mostly single males) which had statuses openly seeking meets...

....the really scary part was that a lot of them were in areas which were already in Tier 4, or about to be - worryingly, despite having been reported, I saw a number of the same ones on successive days still actively seeking meets... "

You do realise that all that effort was in vain right?

All fab do is block you from seeing the users you report. Those using fab status to arrange meets and web cam veris to leave detailed physical meet feedback e.g. amazing hotel group session etc are left free to continue meeting and potentially spreading the virus.

Enough of us either have friends who can still see the reported profile after been blocked from it or in the case of couples account they can still see the offending profile via their singles account.

The cat has been out of the bag on this for a while now and many posters are finally speaking up.

It's funny though some of the most ardent rule following posters who will destroy someone for evening thinking of meeting an extra person at Xmas (more than was allowed) won't dare say a word against fab on the issue of turning a blind eye to all the meets. Likely for fear of been banned themselves.

Sadly many of these users still meeting are also site supporters so its not in fabs interest to loose the revenue.

You can put in any postcode in the country and search the local status updates and find a minimum of 10 users looking to meet now. In urban areas the number is far higher.

The sad truth we have come to realise is the people against physical meeting on fab are in the minority

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said a few times, but admin need to remove the status feature.

It's full of people adverting for a meet which would generate interest.

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I’ve reported a fair few.. either get I ain’t got no covid or we can both wear a mask and do doggie... erm no thankyou il pass and stick to my wand for the time being

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Birds of a feather...people are going to meet! People who don't see themselves in the danger demographic/covid is a hoax/enough already etc group are carrying on regardless with their life.

All we can do is not entertain them and look out for ourselves and our loved ones.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I've just changed my status as over the last 4 days I've had 15 messages from men wanting to meet or worse telling me what they're going to do to me when we meet! Block and delete - I have weekly COVID tests due to my job and had it back in March/April so don't want it again plus like someone else mentioned if they are do blase about a pandemic and they going to care about their sexual health?!

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’ve reported a fair few.. either get I ain’t got no covid or we can both wear a mask and do doggie... erm no thankyou il pass and stick to my wand for the time being"

My wand has been a godsend during the pandemic! It has been recharged multiple times lol x

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Way too many muppets who want to meet, no wonder this virus keeps going round in circles ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a healthcare professional too but think we need to get past calling people idiots and looking at why they believe what they do. 70000 people have died from this virus so it’s effect is beyond debate, but why do some people not get it? Are they just mega-horny and not actually intending to meet or is there something else? I think it’s important. Calling a significant proportion of the public stupid isn’t very progressive.

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Mine plugs into the wall so I don’t have to wait for it to power back up, just glad it’s not stopped working on me yet

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Some people think that if you are on the site or flirting on the chat that you are "free for a fuck" ... complete bollocks. This pandemic and the public health issues demand discipline and diligence. We politely remind people that we are not meeting until the circumstances allow. "
that's true,seems to be a few that are asking for meets ,

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Both I think

Maybe the have a kink for play in hazmed suits "
now that's a thing,I never thought of that

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've seen a few debates about bareback on here recently...

Surely its a similar risk? Yet people are so defensive of ADULT'S who choose to go bareback in the lifestyle.

Ps we don't do bareback or meet during the pandemic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What surprises me is some people are openly looking for a meet in their profile status. I am just reporting anyone I see doing that.

Maybe a bit of code required by the site owners to search for keywords in status. "Looking" and "meet" and "today" or "now". Then, a simple "delete account" button for admin to use..."
. The owners are not looking to delete accounts. They want members and money to run the site. They simply block you from seeing the profile you complain about

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"Ive had 3 offers to “pop round and suck your cock”

Tw@ts"
I'm getting slot of TV/ts msg me they must be desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very surprised admin have not blocked this post, they did mine a few weeks ago.

I don’t know about anyone else, but if someone messages me even hinting about a meet I report them, but they do not get deleted, they are just blocked from you. I wouldn’t meet anyone in the future who has been actively looking for meets in all this, if they don’t care about their health now then it gives me a nasty linger about them.

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By *nnejohn469Couple
over a year ago

Wanstead, London


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

Yes we get the same even though it is obvious now is not the time to be meeting .... hard cocks no discipline ... we just report them to admin

Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Covidiots."

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

On Christmas day someone messaged me what I'm doing later and if I want to meet cause "he hadn't emptied his sack yet". I specifically say in my profile I don't want cock pics, but got a few of those attached too. I assume they just message a few dozen people at the time hoping someone will say yes? Madness..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a healthcare professional too but think we need to get past calling people idiots and looking at why they believe what they do. 70000 people have died from this virus so it’s effect is beyond debate, but why do some people not get it? Are they just mega-horny and not actually intending to meet or is there something else? I think it’s important. Calling a significant proportion of the public stupid isn’t very progressive. "

What would be a better a word / words than stupid?

impetuously negligent?

What do you think the answer is genuinely curious?..

Sadly I think those not meeting might actually be below 50% making us technically the minority now.

More on more people in my life are sick and deciding to hell with some of the rules.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few that think it’s a hoax of course, so maybe these people belong to that viewpoint.

For us, we’re more than happy to wait.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

It is very simple, simple people have no regards for their own health and even less regard for the health of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if they desperate to meet then whoever meets them deserves each other....pretty sure people who meet up now have been doing so and probably with lots of others and not just single guys...I know 3 single females who are looking to meet,I cant be bothered to report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest why is it any different meeting someone off here to all the dating sites that are still open and promoting socialy distance meeting even tv dating programs are still working and people are meeting for dates, on naked atraction they were hugging that's not very socialy distance then you get all the non dating people having house parties ect how many on here met up indoors with others over Xmas even if they werent allowed, who popped round to family and friends to drop presents off and ended up going in for a brew, no one breaking the rules is right but there won't be many people left in the UK who can truly say they have stuck to the rules 100%

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"there won't be many people left in the UK who can truly say they have stuck to the rules 100%"

I have been in isolation for 298 days. I haven't left the house except for groceries, innoculations and post since March. No socialising, no physical contact, nothing.

Because it's the right thing to do.

The wrong thing doesn't become right just because a lot of people are doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there won't be many people left in the UK who can truly say they have stuck to the rules 100%

I have been in isolation for 298 days. I haven't left the house except for groceries, innoculations and post since March. No socialising, no physical contact, nothing.

Because it's the right thing to do.

The wrong thing doesn't become right just because a lot of people are doing it. "
298 days without leaving the house that's abit extreme can still meet people and go for a walk just don't go near them.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"there won't be many people left in the UK who can truly say they have stuck to the rules 100%

I have been in isolation for 298 days. I haven't left the house except for groceries, innoculations and post since March. No socialising, no physical contact, nothing.

Because it's the right thing to do.

The wrong thing doesn't become right just because a lot of people are doing it. 298 days without leaving the house that's abit extreme can still meet people and go for a walk just don't go near them. "

Without wanting to go into too many specifics, it's exceptionally difficult to leave my home without immediately walking face-first into a flock of maskless twats aggressively refusing to stay two metres away.

Since I don't drive, I'm limited to where I can walk in the very small hours when there are fewer rabid coronazombies trying to murder me.

Unfortunately, since almost all of the people who'd want to see me live a two-hour-plus train ride away, it's alone time for me until the pandemic is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its on their status asking to meet etc. They then should be banned for a period of time. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on the top of my profile that I'm not meeting and STILL get meet requests... It's just insane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Within a minute of posting in this thread I've had 2 messages saying leave the site then if you're not happy.... some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its on their status asking to meet etc. They then should be banned for a period of time. Simple. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Within a minute of posting in this thread I've had 2 messages saying leave the site then if you're not happy.... some people."

Sad isnt it?

There are some very stupid people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way.

I didn't mean it in a nasty way.

You asked a question and I answered.

You are calling people stupid yet they were reading your profile.

Yet again I disagree with you. It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now. It shouldn’t need spelling out to people who use the site. They’re supposed to be adults. I’ve not changed my profile for covid because I shouldn’t need to. If I do get people asking for a meet I advise them to stop trying to arrange meets during covid 1) because it’s illegal still and 2) there are plenty of other people on here who will quite happily report folk. It’s usually taken in good spirit too and I never hear from them again. "

"It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now"

That's not true. People are meeting.

Fair enough re 1 & 2 points

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Just ignore or block same as people you dont want to meet in "normal" times

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Within a minute of posting in this thread I've had 2 messages saying leave the site then if you're not happy.... some people."

They are probably just feeling guilty because they are meeting.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have it on the top of my profile that I'm not meeting and STILL get meet requests... It's just insane. "

Me too. First line of my profile says not meeting but I get 4 or 5 messages daily. These are not people asking for socially distanced meets either they are asking outright for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way.

I didn't mean it in a nasty way.

You asked a question and I answered.

You are calling people stupid yet they were reading your profile.

Yet again I disagree with you. It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now. It shouldn’t need spelling out to people who use the site. They’re supposed to be adults. I’ve not changed my profile for covid because I shouldn’t need to. If I do get people asking for a meet I advise them to stop trying to arrange meets during covid 1) because it’s illegal still and 2) there are plenty of other people on here who will quite happily report folk. It’s usually taken in good spirit too and I never hear from them again.

"It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now"

That's not true. People are meeting.

Fair enough re 1 & 2 points "

I should’ve worded it better - it should go without saying that people shouldn’t be meeting. Because it’s illegal. Plus trying to arrange meets through fab is putting the site at risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

Because you're s fox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Your profile says you are looking for men and MM couples.

"Looking to meet"

They have read your profile that says you are looking to meet.

You are looking for men and MM couples.

Who is stupid or desperate?

If that is the impression I am giving then I will change that. I just haven't done anything with my profile, but thanks, even though you meant it in a nasty way.

I didn't mean it in a nasty way.

You asked a question and I answered.

You are calling people stupid yet they were reading your profile.

Yet again I disagree with you. It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now. It shouldn’t need spelling out to people who use the site. They’re supposed to be adults. I’ve not changed my profile for covid because I shouldn’t need to. If I do get people asking for a meet I advise them to stop trying to arrange meets during covid 1) because it’s illegal still and 2) there are plenty of other people on here who will quite happily report folk. It’s usually taken in good spirit too and I never hear from them again.

"It goes without saying that nobody is meeting now"

That's not true. People are meeting.

Fair enough re 1 & 2 points

I should’ve worded it better - it should go without saying that people shouldn’t be meeting. Because it’s illegal. Plus trying to arrange meets through fab is putting the site at risk "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's difficult for some people to grasp that they can't meet a single person from here for a quick hook up, yet you can go to the crowded retail parks and spend as much time as you like there.

Same as in the bingo halls and casinos - you can eat, drink and meet up with friends. The rules are not well thought out."

I think you're either being incredibly generous or incredibly naive. We're in a 6 week lockdown here. None of the things you mention are allowed. No household mixing is allowed outwith the permitted bubbles. There is an 8pm - 6am curfew. None of that is confusing or difficult to understand. And yet still people are looking to meet and holding parties and get togethers.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"What surprises me is some people are openly looking for a meet in their profile status. I am just reporting anyone I see doing that.

Maybe a bit of code required by the site owners to search for keywords in status. "Looking" and "meet" and "today" or "now". Then, a simple "delete account" button for admin to use..."

Only one problem with that is what if those words are used in a different context like for example “looking forward to today” that doesn’t even suggest that you are looking for a meet but your account would be deleted

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Wow. Within a minute of posting in this thread I've had 2 messages saying leave the site then if you're not happy.... some people."

Probably from people who are still trying to get meets during a pandemic!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Just scanned through 11 pages of 'Women Online Now' - two statuses openly seeking meets...

....and in 11 pages of 'Men Online Now' - about 20, including a couple with "before Tier 4 starts" lines...

....just saying...

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

More fool them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen profiles who have verified each other through webcam but testing the veri they clearly met.... wow. Just wow. Surely this isn't right and needs to be stopped

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"You do realise that all that effort was in vain right?

All fab do is block you from seeing the users you report. Those using fab status to arrange meets and web cam veris to leave detailed physical meet feedback e.g. amazing hotel group session etc are left free to continue meeting and potentially spreading the virus.

Enough of us either have friends who can still see the reported profile after been blocked from it or in the case of couples account they can still see the offending profile via their singles account.

The cat has been out of the bag on this for a while now and many posters are finally speaking up.

It's funny though some of the most ardent rule following posters who will destroy someone for evening thinking of meeting an extra person at Xmas (more than was allowed) won't dare say a word against fab on the issue of turning a blind eye to all the meets. Likely for fear of been banned themselves.

Sadly many of these users still meeting are also site supporters so its not in fabs interest to loose the revenue.

You can put in any postcode in the country and search the local status updates and find a minimum of 10 users looking to meet now. In urban areas the number is far higher.

The sad truth we have come to realise is the people against physical meeting on fab are in the minority

KJ"

Looking through the 'Men Online Now' lists a few times over the past couple of days, it sadly seems you're correct...

....there are numerous profiles that I've previously reported still with 'meet now' type statuses, so clearly they are getting away with it...

....there have even been a few clearly 'advertising' NYE parties - and one from a couple looking to "fill one last space" for a gangbang this Friday night...

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

This site is just full of sad desperate dicks and desperate fanny fuckers

Who dont give a shit about this current pandemic

Full of impatient dickheads who just go shaggin any sad shit on here

Get a life

Think of ur health

Or prob not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do realise that all that effort was in vain right?

All fab do is block you from seeing the users you report. Those using fab status to arrange meets and web cam veris to leave detailed physical meet feedback e.g. amazing hotel group session etc are left free to continue meeting and potentially spreading the virus.

Enough of us either have friends who can still see the reported profile after been blocked from it or in the case of couples account they can still see the offending profile via their singles account.

The cat has been out of the bag on this for a while now and many posters are finally speaking up.

It's funny though some of the most ardent rule following posters who will destroy someone for evening thinking of meeting an extra person at Xmas (more than was allowed) won't dare say a word against fab on the issue of turning a blind eye to all the meets. Likely for fear of been banned themselves.

Sadly many of these users still meeting are also site supporters so its not in fabs interest to loose the revenue.

You can put in any postcode in the country and search the local status updates and find a minimum of 10 users looking to meet now. In urban areas the number is far higher.

The sad truth we have come to realise is the people against physical meeting on fab are in the minority

KJ

Looking through the 'Men Online Now' lists a few times over the past couple of days, it sadly seems you're correct...

....there are numerous profiles that I've previously reported still with 'meet now' type statuses, so clearly they are getting away with it...

....there have even been a few clearly 'advertising' NYE parties - and one from a couple looking to "fill one last space" for a gangbang this Friday night... "
any details on if the space got filled....asking for a freind lol.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Uneducated morons who have no respect or morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have reported two so far tonight , but they just block you from seeing them , there’s loads by me eg private glory hole , cocks needed now or another one straight cocks needed now for blow job , can travel for shag , crazy people putting life’s at risk for a meet

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both?

Covidiots."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So good to see more and more people feeling brave enough to post about this issue now.

Fab need to remove the status update feature from ALL users users until this pandemic is under control.

If Fab Admin remove Status Updates as an option then in one fell swoop they will remove the option for those looking to meet ability to advertise for meets to the people geographically local to them.

I challenge anyone to put almost any UK postcode as your location then check the local updates (relevant to the current postcode) to see all the sex meet requests. By doing that you will soon see just how widespread and the sheer number of people using this facility to meet.

KJ

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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk area

Like others I've seen verifications for webcams which are nothing of the sort....plainly face to face (or skin to skin) meetings.

Have long been an advocate for people requiring a licence to breed, and this sort of behaviour does nothing to lessen my views!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sitting here condemning people isn't going to change what others do, people will do what they choose to do, all the finger pointing in the world won't change that. A huge amount of people have had enough, if it wasn't politicians going against their own rules, it's the constant changes in tactics, open, not open, a bit open, nope closed almost all the way but with a little bit of lube this time, play out, eat out, oi get back in, youre eating out killed Ethel! Businesses that have been open hundreds of years gone, swallowed up by the vulture called amazon. Small businesses crushed like they weren't ever there, people losing their homes, struggling to feed their children, can't pop round to see their parents to get some comfort while everything is falling apart, not even to lend some money for the kids coco pops.

Judge all you want, look down on others, well done for having the tolerance for the shafting the handling of this whole thing is giving you. Pat yourself on the back for staying in this long arse detention. Great job at holding onto the boris yoyo as flings you back and forth.

Some just simply had enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sitting here condemning people isn't going to change what others do, people will do what they choose to do, all the finger pointing in the world won't change that. A huge amount of people have had enough, if it wasn't politicians going against their own rules, it's the constant changes in tactics, open, not open, a bit open, nope closed almost all the way but with a little bit of lube this time, play out, eat out, oi get back in, youre eating out killed Ethel! Businesses that have been open hundreds of years gone, swallowed up by the vulture called amazon. Small businesses crushed like they weren't ever there, people losing their homes, struggling to feed their children, can't pop round to see their parents to get some comfort while everything is falling apart, not even to lend some money for the kids coco pops.

Judge all you want, look down on others, well done for having the tolerance for the shafting the handling of this whole thing is giving you. Pat yourself on the back for staying in this long arse detention. Great job at holding onto the boris yoyo as flings you back and forth.

Some just simply had enough. "

Strong but fair

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Sitting here condemning people isn't going to change what others do, people will do what they choose to do, all the finger pointing in the world won't change that. A huge amount of people have had enough, if it wasn't politicians going against their own rules, it's the constant changes in tactics, open, not open, a bit open, nope closed almost all the way but with a little bit of lube this time, play out, eat out, oi get back in, youre eating out killed Ethel! Businesses that have been open hundreds of years gone, swallowed up by the vulture called amazon. Small businesses crushed like they weren't ever there, people losing their homes, struggling to feed their children, can't pop round to see their parents to get some comfort while everything is falling apart, not even to lend some money for the kids coco pops.

Judge all you want, look down on others, well done for having the tolerance for the shafting the handling of this whole thing is giving you. Pat yourself on the back for staying in this long arse detention. Great job at holding onto the boris yoyo as flings you back and forth.

Some just simply had enough. "

Tell me a government who would of handled things differently?, its a pandemic, a pandemic needs required action at the right times, so instead of juggling 2 very serious situations about (economy & covid) should boris have shut everything down since last April?....surly if your talking economic that would be a disaster??? Yes its not been perfect but as far as im concerned mate if me being in detention has saved lifes...ill pat my self on the back.

Happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely missed the point of the post didn't you? Maybe in detention you should work on your reading and comprehension.

Well done for toeing the line, just don't expect that because you have tolerated it that others will

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sitting here condemning people isn't going to change what others do, people will do what they choose to do, all the finger pointing in the world won't change that. A huge amount of people have had enough, if it wasn't politicians going against their own rules, it's the constant changes in tactics, open, not open, a bit open, nope closed almost all the way but with a little bit of lube this time, play out, eat out, oi get back in, youre eating out killed Ethel! Businesses that have been open hundreds of years gone, swallowed up by the vulture called amazon. Small businesses crushed like they weren't ever there, people losing their homes, struggling to feed their children, can't pop round to see their parents to get some comfort while everything is falling apart, not even to lend some money for the kids coco pops.

Judge all you want, look down on others, well done for having the tolerance for the shafting the handling of this whole thing is giving you. Pat yourself on the back for staying in this long arse detention. Great job at holding onto the boris yoyo as flings you back and forth.

Some just simply had enough. "

I understand many of your frustrations as a key worker who's worked throughout 2020 I have seen a lot of damaged caused by the lockdowns right at the coal face. I've worked with people to get them back into employment quickly so they don't get into to much debt and risk the family home after their business folded. I have worked with foodbanks and our social care team to get emergency food to the most isolated and vulnerable and sadly a number of clients on our caseloads have committed suicide this year due to just not been able to cope with 2020 and all this pandemic has meant.

Regardless of all that posts like this are heartbreaking -

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/virus/1106696

Many of the people who are meeting on fab for casual sex don't need to do this and I am sorry but if the site takes action to remove status updates it will quickly remove people's ability to advertise for local meets. Will its stop them all no. Will it stop a lot very probably and its the right thing to do.

The numbers of daily positive tests and death rates are frightening. The numbers now are worse the the height of the first wave. Almost a thousand have died each day for 2 days and 55,000 new infections per day. The NHS can only take so much.

If we don't pull together as a country I genuinely think the Jan and Feb 2021 will enact a terrible toll.

KJ

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Sitting here condemning people isn't going to change what others do, people will do what they choose to do, all the finger pointing in the world won't change that. A huge amount of people have had enough, if it wasn't politicians going against their own rules, it's the constant changes in tactics, open, not open, a bit open, nope closed almost all the way but with a little bit of lube this time, play out, eat out, oi get back in, youre eating out killed Ethel! Businesses that have been open hundreds of years gone, swallowed up by the vulture called amazon. Small businesses crushed like they weren't ever there, people losing their homes, struggling to feed their children, can't pop round to see their parents to get some comfort while everything is falling apart, not even to lend some money for the kids coco pops.

Judge all you want, look down on others, well done for having the tolerance for the shafting the handling of this whole thing is giving you. Pat yourself on the back for staying in this long arse detention. Great job at holding onto the boris yoyo as flings you back and forth.

Some just simply had enough. "

Exactly this! X

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Completely missed the point of the post didn't you? Maybe in detention you should work on your reading and comprehension.

Well done for toeing the line, just don't expect that because you have tolerated it that others will"

Educate me ??? Exactly what point have I missed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These aren't our frustrations, simply putting across the opposite view point to those who condemn others actions. Like I said, regardless of all the talk and finger pointing, a lot of people have had enough. Shouting about them won't convince them otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That shouting and pointing fingers at people who are meeting for whatever their reasons are will not change their minds. They have their reasons, whether you agree of not, and they will still carry on. When you have had enough of the fucking about that our leaders have put us through, then you've had enough. Simple. The constant changing of plans and tactics has convinced many that the whole thing is a fucking joke. Had there been consistency, they would more than likely feel different

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"These aren't our frustrations, simply putting across the opposite view point to those who condemn others actions. Like I said, regardless of all the talk and finger pointing, a lot of people have had enough. Shouting about them won't convince them otherwise. "

55,000 new cases today, nearly 1000 deaths NHS on its knees, do these people who have "had enough" think that everybody WORLDWIDE havnt had enough? That the people playing by the rules are enjoying the situation we are in at the moment!. Mate its life or death we are talking here. I understand everyone has there views but I've "had enough" dont cut it im afraid.

Let's hope these people who have "had enough" don't lose a loved one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Chinese government seemed to do very well. I think the swedes did too, or whichever Scandinavian country it was that didn't lockdown whatsoever. So do all the third world countries that should be getting absolutely decimated by this virus due to lower standards in health care services, medical staff and sanitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's your view, you are entitled to it. They just don't agree. They see it as control, like their lives are being toyed with by people that don't give a fuck if you're alive or not. You could write a series of novels about the deaths the conservatives have caused directly and indirectly and yet people expect everyone to just blindly trust their motives after the fucking about and indecisiveness they've shown this year? Like i said. Many have had enough. And the enough started before this pandemic and won't change now

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"The Chinese government seemed to do very well. I think the swedes did too, or whichever Scandinavian country it was that didn't lockdown whatsoever. So do all the third world countries that should be getting absolutely decimated by this virus due to lower standards in health care services, medical staff and sanitation. "

We could carry on all night , anyway happy new year & have a nice evening mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We probably could I wasn't arguing my own personal view point, just showing that many have been disenfranchised by the very people that are meant to lead us. Happy New year! Here's to the next one not being an absolute clusterfuck

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"That's your view, you are entitled to it. They just don't agree. They see it as control, like their lives are being toyed with by people that don't give a fuck if you're alive or not. You could write a series of novels about the deaths the conservatives have caused directly and indirectly and yet people expect everyone to just blindly trust their motives after the fucking about and indecisiveness they've shown this year? Like i said. Many have had enough. And the enough started before this pandemic and won't change now"

Starmer wouldnt of done any better mate if we're going political, not saying he would do worse either.

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"What surprises me is some people are openly looking for a meet in their profile status. I am just reporting anyone I see doing that.

Maybe a bit of code required by the site owners to search for keywords in status. "Looking" and "meet" and "today" or "now". Then, a simple "delete account" button for admin to use..."

Agree 100% I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If you’re willing to risk giving me covid then fuck knows what else you could give me.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"We probably could I wasn't arguing my own personal view point, just showing that many have been disenfranchised by the very people that are meant to lead us. Happy New year! Here's to the next one not being an absolute clusterfuck "

A little debate is good mate...esp at 20:42 on NYE lol, rock & roll a

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"The Chinese government seemed to do very well. I think the swedes did too, or whichever Scandinavian country it was that didn't lockdown whatsoever. So do all the third world countries that should be getting absolutely decimated by this virus due to lower standards in health care services, medical staff and sanitation. "

My wife's cousin lives in Sweden - works in a school and goes in every day terrified...

....the average Swede certainly doesn't think their government's done very well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What surprises me is some people are openly looking for a meet in their profile status. I am just reporting anyone I see doing that.

Maybe a bit of code required by the site owners to search for keywords in status. "Looking" and "meet" and "today" or "now". Then, a simple "delete account" button for admin to use...

Agree 100% I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If you’re willing to risk giving me covid then fuck knows what else you could give me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made it quiet clear in my profile that meets are out until I feel safe.

I don't feel the need to put my health at risk even though I joined in the pandemic.

I'm just enjoying the forum. Well worth a fiver a time in my book.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

You’re all right .never thought to check local updates . Amazing .18 requests to actually meet out of 150 . Done with references to various drugs available thrown into the bargain

Quite eye opening .mainly men but a few couples too

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Its a bit like the aids spredders back in the day.

Because they got Covid they wish to share it with you.

????

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Because they are fuckwits

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By *enuine Gent 4 funMan
over a year ago

norwich

I'm sorry but some people are so inconsiderate, this was a local update

Could well do a gangbang tonight. But only 45years old and over please. Xx 4 min

Are these people mad or just trying to infect more ?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

This begs the question... Why have I not received any offers to meet?! Only kidding... Those offers should all go fuck themselves, literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re all right .never thought to check local updates . Amazing .18 requests to actually meet out of 150 . Done with references to various drugs available thrown into the bargain

Quite eye opening .mainly men but a few couples too "

I’m shocked at how many drugs are being sold or asked for on here , dealers are taking over this site ,

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"You’re all right .never thought to check local updates . Amazing .18 requests to actually meet out of 150 . Done with references to various drugs available thrown into the bargain

Quite eye opening .mainly men but a few couples too

I’m shocked at how many drugs are being sold or asked for on here , dealers are taking over this site , "

I'm also amazed at how easy it is to buy underwear. Most of it it used but I bought most of my family their pants for Christmas frkm Fab. My nephew said he didn't like frilly stuff but he's just fussy af.

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"

I’m shocked at how many drugs are being sold or asked for on here , dealers are taking over this site , "

The biggest lie I was ever told at school was how often and how easy drugs would be to get.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

just had one a this morning wanting to travel 100+miles to skeggy we in 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re all right .never thought to check local updates . Amazing .18 requests to actually meet out of 150 . Done with references to various drugs available thrown into the bargain

Quite eye opening .mainly men but a few couples too

I’m shocked at how many drugs are being sold or asked for on here , dealers are taking over this site , "
there is a women local to me who posts a status saying "who wants to party" every week she then swaps sex for drugs she has a lot of verifications.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

They can advertise away! But tbh I'm sure they wont get meets? As I said they come into in box daily just ignore or as I do politely decline! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always get people wanting to meet....its then upto you to decide if you want to

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "
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I see loads of profiles daily asking for a meet. This includes men, women, and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re all right .never thought to check local updates . Amazing .18 requests to actually meet out of 150 . Done with references to various drugs available thrown into the bargain

Quite eye opening .mainly men but a few couples too

I’m shocked at how many drugs are being sold or asked for on here , dealers are taking over this site ,

I'm also amazed at how easy it is to buy underwear. Most of it it used but I bought most of my family their pants for Christmas frkm Fab. My nephew said he didn't like frilly stuff but he's just fussy af. "

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

According to the admin less than 1% of fab members use the forum. Despite that, we see regular posts from people complaining they cannot get a meet and asking what they are doing wrong.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I had the old classic the other night. Message from a couple asking if I had cocaine and if I did I could come to meet them. Blocked.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"This site is just full of sad desperate dicks and desperate fanny fuckers

Who dont give a shit about this current pandemic

Full of impatient dickheads who just go shaggin any sad shit on here

Get a life

Think of ur health

Or prob not

"

I agree.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"That's your view, you are entitled to it. They just don't agree. They see it as control, like their lives are being toyed with by people that don't give a fuck if you're alive or not. You could write a series of novels about the deaths the conservatives have caused directly and indirectly and yet people expect everyone to just blindly trust their motives after the fucking about and indecisiveness they've shown this year? Like i said. Many have had enough. And the enough started before this pandemic and won't change now

Starmer wouldnt of done any better mate if we're going political, not saying he would do worse either."

Well considering he wasn’t in position of even opposition leader until 3 months into the pandemic, and even then clearly without access to the information the government would have had, any supposition as to how he would have done is clearly impossible to make.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I love some men on the forum complaining that they can't get a meet but they joined in the last couple of months then they start insulting all women for not wanting to meet a stranger for sex during a global pandemic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love some men on the forum complaining that they can't get a meet but they joined in the last couple of months then they start insulting all women for not wanting to meet a stranger for sex during a global pandemic "

Oh yes, I've had a couple of those. And, despite being an ICU nurse, a few who have tried to explain to me why Covid is no worse than a cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having the same issue and also reporting them, there’s a time and place to hand me around, but not atm !

BG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the old classic the other night. Message from a couple asking if I had cocaine and if I did I could come to meet them. Blocked. "

I had a woman ask to meet and could I bring some sniff.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love some men on the forum complaining that they can't get a meet but they joined in the last couple of months then they start insulting all women for not wanting to meet a stranger for sex during a global pandemic "

How dare you ladies not do that!!!! Joking of course x

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I love some men on the forum complaining that they can't get a meet but they joined in the last couple of months then they start insulting all women for not wanting to meet a stranger for sex during a global pandemic "

Just yesterday I had a guy asking what the 'trick' was on here to get meets - seems he's not getting answers to any messages...

....I looked at his profile - only been here three weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the men who would normally be out and about pulling have found there way onto this site thinking its replacing there Saturday night pull....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are tons of people trying to meet every day on here - most of them couples from what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the men who would normally be out and about pulling have found there way onto this site thinking its replacing there Saturday night pull...."

They will be sadly mistaken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite having a warning in big letters at the top of my profile, it's "I'm free tonight" from way too many people. They get an immediate block, no warning.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I was reading this thinking "surely people can't really be that stupid???", and then sure enough we got a message requesting to meet today.

- Amy. x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"I think the men who would normally be out and about pulling have found there way onto this site thinking its replacing there Saturday night pull....

They will be sadly mistaken. "

Saturday night tug perhaps

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Either desperate or ones that don't give a fuck about anything but themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

With more and more people hopefully getting the vaccine over the next few months it will be interesting to see how attitudes change. Will people be more willing to meet but only if they can see proof of vaccination. The problem is vaccinated people can still spread it. There won't be an overnight change, only a gradual decline in cases so I can see this becoming a hot topic over the coming year.

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

At least it makes the idiots easier to spot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one yesterday.. shameless!! Just stupid

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By *neoclockgunMan
over a year ago

London

Look at the status updates... there are people trying to get gangbangs together.

Maniacs.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Desperation has no bounds. It must be horrendous and such a burden to be so popular

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Can you remember when a good hard slap on the top of you’re TV set worked to get the picture? I think the same applies to these idiots good hard slap for them to get the picture

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Selfish twats....have no moral compass and a lack of disregard for their or anyone else's wellbeing!

Still I suppose it makes it easier to know who to block.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I love some men on the forum complaining that they can't get a meet but they joined in the last couple of months then they start insulting all women for not wanting to meet a stranger for sex during a global pandemic

Oh yes, I've had a couple of those. And, despite being an ICU nurse, a few who have tried to explain to me why Covid is no worse than a cold "

I point out to them that I've had it and, as you know, it's much, much worse than just a cold and a cold doesn't have after effects that are still ongoing!

You do such an amazing job, thank you x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Best one I've seen yet....

Tested negative...looking for a f*ck tonight!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Theyre horny and don't care

2. Virus isn't real and its all a conspiracy (definitely not my view)

3. They're timewasters and only after wank material on the laptop or phone

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By *akey2somCouple
over a year ago

wakefield


"It’s not just been new members tho. There’s been established forumites with accounts that are years old openly asking people to meet. I think I’ve seen it 3 times now where someone supposedly ‘experienced’ on fab has posted a thread about ‘meeting’ now.

What’s hilarious is that all of them, without exception, immediately start back tracking when they’re challenged. ‘Oh it was just for a socially distanced meet’ was a recent good one....... 3 posts after trying to arrange a spit roasting with a VWE male

If you’re going to try and lie your way out of the shit, at least remember what you’ve written down 3 minutes earlier "

We have had plenty of the same messages, there is one couple on here that’s been looking for meets all the way through since March. Keep sending us messages and friends of ours.

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By *enuine Gent 4 funMan
over a year ago

norwich

Fancy a laugh ?

Taken from the lounge newest post !!

Start again as nosey arse holes report for no reason any way.....

Looking for a guy to join me and female friend in a 3 sum (WHEN ITS SAFE TO DO SO) WHEN SAFE TO DO SO!!!!!!!!! IVE NOT SAID NOW IN FUTURE JEEZ.

REQUIERMENTS .

DONT BE A DICK JUST HAVE A BIG ONE!

MESSAGE ME DIRECT IF ENTERESTED SEND ONE FAC PIC N BODY PICS ILL SHOW HER FOR HER TO DECIDE.

AGAIN JUST LOKING FOR A GUY RIGHT NOW NOT TO MEET NOW!!!!!!!!!!

When will these people get the message ????

I'm so lonely but I still wouldn't consider a meet, I can't see anything going ahead till 2022 personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed the introductions page is turning into a classifieds and wanted section

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury


"Are they stupid, desperate, or both? "

All the above, some will never learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence? "

Two more messages since I posted this trying to plan a meet this week. Madness

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence?

Two more messages since I posted this trying to plan a meet this week. Madness "

Not sure anything much happens tbh. People aren't even trying to be subtle about it anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence?

Two more messages since I posted this trying to plan a meet this week. Madness

Not sure anything much happens tbh. People aren't even trying to be subtle about it anymore. "

Guy told me today he could fuck me with a mask on

Thick as shit, and twice as stupid

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence? "

I don't think anything does happen! I've given up reporting them I'm getting so many meet requests

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I gave up myself, especially after some formers felt I should get a life and mind my own business which was charming I thought. But in the name of research I have just reported two profiles with explicit statuses indicating they've either just had a meet or they're after one. Will wait and see what happens I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave up myself, especially after some formers felt I should get a life and mind my own business which was charming I thought. But in the name of research I have just reported two profiles with explicit statuses indicating they've either just had a meet or they're after one. Will wait and see what happens I guess. "

Its everyones business

Nurses and doctors are flogging their guts out to keep people alive

While sad wankers on here are STILL pleasing themselves

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Cos they are just sad desperate fuckin dicks n desperate fanny fuckers

Who dont give a shit about their own health n just go round askin everyone n any

Hey wat you doin now?

Fancy meetin for a shag now ?

Talk about desperate or wat

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"I gave up myself, especially after some formers felt I should get a life and mind my own business which was charming I thought. But in the name of research I have just reported two profiles with explicit statuses indicating they've either just had a meet or they're after one. Will wait and see what happens I guess.

Its everyones business

Nurses and doctors are flogging their guts out to keep people alive

While sad wankers on here are STILL pleasing themselves

"

One of the past profiles I reported was a care/health worker.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ive had 3 offers to “pop round and suck your cock”

Tw@ts"

Dude I get 4-5 a day some from the same people just a Week1-2 Later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reported any status I’ve seen and then they have been removed

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence? "

It appears not a lot - as I posted earlier on this thread, and also on a similar one, quite a few profiles I've reported in the past fortnight have remained online or re-appeared with identical or similar statuses, still clearly seeking meets...


"Reported any status I’ve seen and then they have been removed "

Not necessarily - you and they have simply been mutually blocked from viewing each other; as above, it doesn't mean they've been removed...

....I can no longer view the vast majority of those I've reported - though there are some where I still can, which suggests that the system's not working as it should...

Just scanned through the 'Men Online Now' pages, and seen about a dozen statuses openly seeking meets - including at least two that I've previously reported...

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Wasting your time reporting anything..

Quick to remind you your site supporter is running out though ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question - what happens if you report someone for trying to arrange a meet and can provide evidence? "

Nothing by the looks of it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Reported any status I’ve seen and then they have been removed "

Really? Reported one asking for a meet tonight, nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reported any status I’ve seen and then they have been removed

Really? Reported one asking for a meet tonight, nothing."

I wonder if it depends which mod picks it up? I've reported some and they've been removed - others have not been removed. Sometimes I wonder if it's just not possible for the mods to go through all the reports

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Just looked through the 'Men Online Now' pages again, and saw another dozen or so statuses looking for meets...

....including a guy in London apparently hosting a "gangbang tonight", and another with "great threesome last night, who's free tonight?"...

Site supporters or not, Admin should be deleting or at least suspending these profiles immediately - by failing to take action, the site owners could be considered complicit in illegal activities...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we have suffered lockdown for nearly a year now, and the virus is more widespread than before lockdowns

So lockdowns don’t work

Make your own assessment of risk

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By *ubeeStarrXoXTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I get asked for meets daily (even tho it says on my profile I’m not meeting)

I’ve even been told I shouldn’t be on the site as I’m not meeting

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Well, we have suffered lockdown for nearly a year now, and the virus is more widespread than before lockdowns

So lockdowns don’t work

Make your own assessment of risk "

Make your own assessment of risk? See, that's the problem, people are making selfish assessments to themselves and probably don't get personally affected but pass it on unknowingly, that's not alright. Do you think a death has occurred indirectly from a fab meet during the pandemic? I know my answer.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Well, we have suffered lockdown for nearly a year now, and the virus is more widespread than before lockdowns

So lockdowns don’t work

Make your own assessment of risk "

Unsurprisingly lockdowns don't work when people think and behave in this manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same reason that there are currently 18-20 'meet today' status updates in my local area

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