FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rude or not rude?

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I like winks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would they be rude?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't know, just wondered what people thought

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in

Not rude, I think they are a simple way to initiate a contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve no problem with people winking me. It’s a good little heads up for people that like me or would like to talk to me.

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Everyone has their own preference.. some people reciprocate them, some people don’t bother checking them.

I personally use them, if one is returned I usually follow up with message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's how I see them as being used. Wink away

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Why would they be rude? "

Not rude at all in my personal opinion.

However some might get offended if they receive from groups they don't fancy.

They can solve this by managing their filter.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

I love to wink and recieve so wink away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love winks but much prefer a cheeky message

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really like winks, good way of initiating contact with people of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude or not rude? "

I would not mind a wink so long as they then do not demand a response

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I like them

Shows interest

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I don’t usually respond to winks however I’ve just winked everyone on my friends list for fun...

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By *R coupleCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

Quite happy to get winks but always prefer a message. Not sure why single guys bother sending them to us though when it says on our profile we’re not interested in them. I mean if you want to try and change our minds that’s fair enough but surely you realise it would take a lot more than a wink! We would still never consider it rude though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink breaks the ice and can create interest.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I like winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can break the ice so to speak

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont pay attention to them personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like one wink.. not a game of wink tennis

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

i never wink or even msg but if they wink and their profile is interesting and appealing so i will msg back , as mentioned above winks are way of breaking the ice

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We quite enjoy receiving them.

It lets us see if there’s anyone locally that’s interested in us but has escaped our attention.

If the person is outside our area we just take it as a compliment that they liked our profile or our pics.

We very rarely wink at others though, if we’re interested we’ll just message.

- John

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really sure how we stand with winks. We've had winks and winked back and then nothing.

For us, if you send a wink you're interested therefore if you get a wink back isn't it up to you to initiate contact with a message???? After all, you winked first. If you then don't message, isn't that just rude?

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Winks are great. Love the idea of what they represent.

Unfortunately I only seem to recieve them from guys rather than women and couples

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Not really sure how we stand with winks. We've had winks and winked back and then nothing.

This

What's all that about. Too many adopt this policy which is frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really sure how we stand with winks. We've had winks and winked back and then nothing.

Thats always been my thinking... its like an initial declaration of interest.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Like them but rarely get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a message xx

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By *idsTonyMan
over a year ago

RUGBY

I don’t mind them. Quick easy way to show interest but if they express in the profile they don’t like them then I’ll send a message instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to be winked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as a way of letting them know you like them

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We like winks.

It’s shows interest and can be the start of fun things.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

They’re better than some messages I get.

What I would suggest however is that your profile needs to be interesting enough to warrant further interest from whoever gets the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Nothing wrong with a wink, we enjoy receiving them

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

I like a wink

I use a to show interest/attraction

If I want to message someone I'll wink first aswell a lot of the time , if I get a wink back I'll message

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Like winks from couples or very girth men

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By *olmeguyMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

wink first if not reply then not interested.,saves a message of nowt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them as they show a little, if not a lot of, interest

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We like and send winks to show that we are interested and like the profile we send it to.....

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By *ohnnyGentMan
over a year ago

london

Love a wink

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"Like winks from couples or very girth men"

Any single ladies looking for genuine fun aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although rare it is nice to receive them. I sometimes send them to express my interest or to show my appreciation

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I like getting winks off sexy ladies and couples...

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We love a cheeky wink, always disappointing though when the person is 100 plus miles away.

Lily

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I think there fun

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I prefer a wink to a how you doing message.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We look at all our winks. We'd rather receive a wink than a crap message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please wink me I’m so new I feel invisible

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like giving and receiving winks, good way to break the ice/show of interest

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Yeah i much prefer a wink opposed to a half assed message like having much luck on here, usually check out the profiles behind the wink and then send a wink or message back if its mutual

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Rude or not rude? "

Not rude at all! Usually taken as a token of appreciation, or an invitation to message someone who is too shy to make a first message

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By *teven2021Man
over a year ago

manchester

If I wink it’s just my way of saying view my profile

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Wink away guysXxx

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