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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been a Hotwife for four years and adored this lifestyle. You get the best of both worlds a loving submissive husband and also the electricity of incredible men who can sexually satisfy you and thrill you. It’s honestly an immense freedom that adds so so much to your relationship
My advice for the girls.....
- Embrace an incredible level of new found freedom.
- Even if your man doesn’t satisfy you sexually love him emotionally and respect him
- If you do catch feelings make sure your husband is still your number one and knows that. Maybe not sexually but emotionally.......and that’s totally ok
- Always remember life is short and you live it once. Go wild and thrill yourself as often as you can
- Do what works for you both you write the rules because there are no rules
- I recommend having a few bfs it’s such a thrill but make sure that they know the rules and understand cuck dynamic
- Be super clear on your profile. Mine is probably overkill buttt it is so so so clear
- Ensure men know that your time is restricted you need them to be respectful gents classy well dressed trimmed hygienic open minded, understand cuckold dynamic, friendly, funny, able to laugh.
- Every dynamic is different. My husband is ok with me catching feelings once he’s number one (which I’m very capable of doing), my husband is ok with my bfs being in the house and cuddling up to them even when he is there and it works. It will not work for everyone
For guys
- Understand cuckoldry
- Understand the dynamic your couple need
- Be classy, well dressed, friendly, easygoing, chill, hygienic, trimmed, funny.
- No girl wants a man who writes one liners free tonight
- Do not be all about sex. Talk about other things eg about you, hobbies etc
- Have decent grammar and wrote more than three lines
That’s my advice. Honestly this life has given me an incredible amount of happiness and my marriage has really really thrived. For anyone iffy and starting out.....I say open your mind don’t over think it and just go for it. It’s an incredible life that actually strengthens your relationship (provided your both capable of all the above not everyone will be).
A cuckold relationship never has lies, deceit, cheating, disrespect or unsatisfaction. Arguments are almost nil and the thrills are high and permanent. You learn how to do this with time. If you’re partner is capable, Chill don’t overthink, never feel guilty, have fun, laugh and just do and dive into a world of ecstasy.
Also btw your body confidence goes through the roof"
You are confusing cuckoldery with hotwife. Sounds like you and tje hubby are more a cuckold relationship than a hotwife. And as for catching feelings in a hotwife that is also a no no. You are very confused on the sinario you have with your hubby and your fellas you meet. |
So true. 