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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Kisses are very important for me, it gets me going having a good kisser and triggers so much of the sensual times ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to kiss but respect the couples wishes

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I have yet to have a mmf....have chatted about it with several couples...so allow it some dont....i am a big time kisser but would respect their wishes...it would be tough cause its so sexual and natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

We used to have a no kissing rule. But it didnt last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a cpl do not kiss then we might have to think twice about meeting them. Kissing for me and jenny is a big part of the turn on. We would need this with others to set the mood and help the play progress. John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One unbreakable rule: must involve kissing.

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I agree kissing kelly...as far as im concerned that first kiss and everyone after gets the juices going...

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree kissing kelly...as far as im concerned that first kiss and everyone after gets the juices going..."
dam right

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Kissing kelly...you look like so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to have a no kissing rule. But it didnt last long. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what made you ditch the no kissing rule? X

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Tbh we never ever discussed whether we would kiss or not, if we were going to be very intimate we probably both assumed missing is integral to that..

Respect not everyone's view..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very odd if you don't.

How's tha work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at"

Absolutely a huge must is a sensual snog!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Very odd if you don't.

How's tha work?"

Would disagree with the word odd, different perhaps and each to their own etc ?

Quite simple if the scenario or fantasy does not involve it eg. The lady wants to be pleasured by a 'stranger' and not see them ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing kelly...you look like so much fun"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always kiss. No rules xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to have kissing just wouldn't work for me with out

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

In all my meetings we all always have kissed , i love kissing

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Each to there own..but not for us, it's integral to the pleasure as others have said..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could never understand about No kissing rule tbh but ok with bifem kissing .

It just means somewhere someone feels insecure or jealous. Without kissing , sex would be robotic but each to their own .

We don't meet people who don't kiss .

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

For us it just happened.

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

I had a couple invite me one time to play...i wasnt allowed to kiss or eat her pussy...even as a horny guy i declined lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we’re a bit strange, if we meet in a four way with another couple kissing is fine , but if we invite a single or borrow a husband then it’s a no kissing policy

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By *ouge and blueCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Kissing is essential for us. It sets the tone for everything that follows.

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I always kiss. No rules xx"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X"

We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

As ususal with kissing threads nobody has actually answered the question just declared that kissing is essential for them

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule. "

.....and amazed by the majority that claim they would never meet without kissing, yet no guy has ever refused to play with me when I tell them my preference is not to kiss other men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule.

.....and amazed by the majority that claim they would never meet without kissing, yet no guy has ever refused to play with me when I tell them my preference is not to kiss other men. "

We have also found this. Also no man has ever insisted I kiss him before giving him a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment this is what we do to. If we meet a couple the ladys can kiss as much as they want but male partners kiss there own ladys. It's just what we are comfortable with atm, and tbh we are not massive kissers anyway, yer we have a kiss during sex but our sex is more filthier than say passionate if that makes sense?

I totally get why couples wanna meet couples who kiss as its what turns them on the more but it doesn't bother us. Maybe one day we will kiss others,but we prefer to take small steps rather than go all in , like our journey so far, we started of just seeking ffm but now we are ready to see each other fuck somebody else.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kissing is very important

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"At the moment this is what we do to. If we meet a couple the ladys can kiss as much as they want but male partners kiss there own ladys. It's just what we are comfortable with atm, and tbh we are not massive kissers anyway, yer we have a kiss during sex but our sex is more filthier than say passionate if that makes sense?

I totally get why couples wanna meet couples who kiss as its what turns them on the more but it doesn't bother us. Maybe one day we will kiss others,but we prefer to take small steps rather than go all in , like our journey so far, we started of just seeking ffm but now we are ready to see each other fuck somebody else. "

There isn't a wrong way to do this. As long as you're all in agreement it's fine.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X"

What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ?

We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ?

We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . "

What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"As ususal with kissing threads nobody has actually answered the question just declared that kissing is essential for them"

Still no answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment this is what we do to. If we meet a couple the ladys can kiss as much as they want but male partners kiss there own ladys. It's just what we are comfortable with atm, and tbh we are not massive kissers anyway, yer we have a kiss during sex but our sex is more filthier than say passionate if that makes sense?

I totally get why couples wanna meet couples who kiss as its what turns them on the more but it doesn't bother us. Maybe one day we will kiss others,but we prefer to take small steps rather than go all in , like our journey so far, we started of just seeking ffm but now we are ready to see each other fuck somebody else.

There isn't a wrong way to do this. As long as you're all in agreement it's fine. "

That's it, its whatever you are BOTH comfortable with . A question for the couples who ONLY meet kissers . If you were in club setting, your speaking to a couple who you both want to fuck the socks of , but towards the end of the conversation they say ohh just the ladys can kiss as it's what we are comfortable with as we're still finding what works for us, would you turn them down? I highly doubt it.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ?

We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered .

What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people. "

No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ?

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at"
would love to kiss your bum, nice pic of you bent over x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ?

We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered .

What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people.

No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ? "

You followed that by stating that "surely if there's a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it". That's why I replied that different things are right for different people

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By *irtyfuxCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk! NOT

We think kissing is more intimate than fucking. It's a strange world.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X

What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ?

We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered .

What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people.

No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ? "

For the simple reason that for me kissing a man is associated with romance, and I don't want that. Kissing a woman is playful because I would never have a romantic relationship with a woman, just a sexual one. In all honesty it isn't necesaary to have to explain this, or for you to understand it. It's a preference and is there to be accepted not challenged.

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By *im and her 123Couple
over a year ago

near Selby


"We think kissing is more intimate than fucking. It's a strange world."

That's what we think as well.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X"

When we started down this path we had a no kissing rule. In my mind (John) we were here for the sex and that was it. Kissing seemed too intimate and ‘invasive’ of our own relationship.

After a couple of meets we realised that it was hard to fully relax into a meet without kissing, in fact it’s one of the things that really turns Lily on.

I just admit I was nervous the first time we met knowing a guy was going to be kissing Lily, but actually it feels natural and part of a relaxed and fun meet.

- John

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd love to, but it messes up my make up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems.

If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X"

I love kissing

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We wouldn't meet another couple that didn't kiss.

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By *unboy69888ABCMan
over a year ago

fleetwood

Depends if i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good kiss is so important, it gets the senses working overtime, the passion (or lack of it) can give you a good idea of what's coming next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kiss when we play..much more passionate

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We kiss when we play..much more passionate "

For you perhaps, but not for everyone. I have all the passion I need with my partner - I swing to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and that doesn't include passion with a stranger.

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By *usciouslips201Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

I (her) absolutely love kissing and couldn't imagine playing without having a good old snog whilst letting my hands wander all over a sexy body

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I miss kissing ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the ultimate fore-play, well for me it is... I couldn't have sex without the initial kisses. It just seems so cold... I'm aware it's mainly couples who have this rule and it makes me wonder why...apart from the obvious of they're being a stong sexual connection that kissing entails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is the ultimate fore-play, well for me it is... I couldn't have sex without the initial kisses. It just seems so cold... I'm aware it's mainly couples who have this rule and it makes me wonder why...apart from the obvious of they're being a stong sexual connection that kissing entails"

I cant understand it. You are balls deep in his mrs pussy but kissing is more intermit. Cant get more intermit than fucking her i think anyway.But each cpl has their own boundries and have to respect them even if you do not understand why John

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Totally depends for me, it's a yes a good majority of the time, but sometimes I don't want that intimacy just the sex

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

Big part of sex for me, even if just a ONS, no kissing, meh I walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be kissing, wouldn't feel right without

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By *ifePleaserXXMan
over a year ago

near you

When I’m involved with a married couple then for me kissing is an extremely important part of seeing the erotic scene. Usually the husband is really turned on from watching his wife opening up to another guy and for me kissing is all about real passion so it’s turning all three of us on. Certainly kissing a wife in front of her husband always immediately gets me hard.

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Kissing is an absolute essential for any meet for me.

Never feel "natural" without....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples like to keep something back for themselves. It might be penetration, or oral, or anal, and yes, shock and horror, it might even be kissing.

It's rather lovely to keep something for themselves, don't you think?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some couples like to keep something back for themselves. It might be penetration, or oral, or anal, and yes, shock and horror, it might even be kissing.

It's rather lovely to keep something for themselves, don't you think?"

Apparently not if it's something other people want...

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Kissing, kissing and more kissing for us! We love it, and couldn’t imagine an ffm without it xx

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By *exycouple68Couple
over a year ago

herefordshire

We met a couple once with a no kissing rule it was so awkward

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We couldn't not kiss. Kissing is erotic and a precursor. You get the kissing right and more is likely to follow. Goes to that old baseball analogy. You can't go straight from the plate to 2nd or third without running the track around the previous bases first. Same for kissing and sex for us.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Some couples like to keep something back for themselves. It might be penetration, or oral, or anal, and yes, shock and horror, it might even be kissing.

It's rather lovely to keep something for themselves, don't you think?"

I think it's lush that they keep something sacred and massively respect it.

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York


"In all my meetings we all always have kissed , i love kissing "

We can confirm, she is a wonderful kisser! So sensual.. xx

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By *R coupleCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

Completely respect couples who don’t want to but for us it’s a must. Have been with couples who don’t before and it does feel a bit mechanical.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Kissing xx

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I respect couples wishes however kissing adds so much to the meet

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From the first kiss to a hot kiss during to that kiss strait after all different all special.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

We have no kissing on lips anywhere else is ok

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ruby doesn’t kiss other man, she will kiss woman. She will let me kiss other woman.

I do wonder what the other man thinks, as kissing is a big part of sex for me. And I would struggle not to do it

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"As ususal with kissing threads nobody has actually answered the question just declared that kissing is essential for them"

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I must have been lucky then..As I had a kissing post that peeps answered perfectly.

But the Ops question probably does not happen very often to be honest I think.

And people are just saying how much they love kissing anyway as I do.

SO NICE.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I once met a couple who didn't allow kissingand to be honest it all felt a bit flat to me, she had a nice body etc but... Funnily enough at the time I was organising and hosting a lot of GBs at the time and a day or so after our meet the husband contacted me and said he would like an invite without his wife knowing. I thought it all reeked of hypocrisy and though I never said anything to his wife I never invited him to one.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Only met 1 couple who didn’t want me kissing the wife, all other couples have enjoyed it, I just respect their wishes and stick to the requirements so all have a fun meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fiance is totally against kissing which kind of spoils it a little.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Personally I enjoy kissing a lot but understand that it's too intimate an act for some

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Kissing is very erotic but there's plenty of other areas to kiss not just the lips. I respect peoples boundaries which is why talking about them beforehand is so important for meets.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I ,ove to kiss, but it's also about respecting other people's rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clearly kissing is critical to some but for others its too intimate - which is weird given everything else that will be happening. Also quite a few people relax the rules after a while which is interesting... x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Clearly kissing is critical to some but for others its too intimate - which is weird given everything else that will be happening. Also quite a few people relax the rules after a while which is interesting... x"

I don't believe that people thinking that kissing is too intimate is weird at all. For many intimacy, closeness, passion, cuddling are all things you share with a partner while in a loving relationship. Sex can be intimate in the same way, but it can also be raunchy, erotic, and fantasy fulfilling and it's for these things that people often swing. You can also have very satisfying raunchy sex with a vibrator but who kisses their vibrator before using it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We couldn't not kiss. Kissing is erotic and a precursor. You get the kissing right and more is likely to follow. Goes to that old baseball analogy. You can't go straight from the plate to 2nd or third without running the track around the previous bases first. Same for kissing and sex for us. "

This. The thrill for me (V) when we’re meeting a couple (pre COVID) and I know things are about to kick off when I lean in to kiss the other female....Electric. Especially when Abby then does the same with the guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta have some kissing! Builds the arousal...a good kiss gets the blood pumping

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

I miss kissing, my favourite thing to do

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love passionately kissing whilst our hands explore each other xx

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at"

Its happen twice to me.. I leaned in to kiss the female and he told me that it wasn't on the cards... Anyhow, the meet progressed as they do, in the end she wanted to swallow my load.. I found that strange that I couldn't kiss her but he was very happy for her to swallow... I need kissing too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a cpl do not kiss then we might have to think twice about meeting them. Kissing for me and jenny is a big part of the turn on. We would need this with others to set the mood and help the play progress. John"

Couldn't agree more

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Like to kiss but respect the couples wishes "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Clearly kissing is critical to some but for others its too intimate - which is weird given everything else that will be happening. Also quite a few people relax the rules after a while which is interesting... x

I don't believe that people thinking that kissing is too intimate is weird at all. For many intimacy, closeness, passion, cuddling are all things you share with a partner while in a loving relationship. Sex can be intimate in the same way, but it can also be raunchy, erotic, and fantasy fulfilling and it's for these things that people often swing. You can also have very satisfying raunchy sex with a vibrator but who kisses their vibrator before using it?"

What I find really weird is the number of people who consider themselves open minded, steadfastly refusing to accept that not everyone feels the same way about kissing. The accompanying implication that those of us who don't want to kiss are somehow not normal is insulting. It's almost as if people are afraid of those of us secure enough to stand in the minority.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have always done kissing, it’s sexual and arousing, always preferred to meet people that are happy to do so

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We have always done kissing, it’s sexual and arousing, always preferred to meet people that are happy to do so "

Always done kissing, very arousing and important during foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have always done kissing, it’s sexual and arousing, always preferred to meet people that are happy to do so "

Yeah baby

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