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"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at" | |||
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"I agree kissing kelly...as far as im concerned that first kiss and everyone after gets the juices going..." dam right | |||
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"We used to have a no kissing rule. But it didnt last long. " Same here. | |||
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"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at" Absolutely a huge must is a sensual snog! | |||
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"Very odd if you don't. How's tha work?" Would disagree with the word odd, different perhaps and each to their own etc ? Quite simple if the scenario or fantasy does not involve it eg. The lady wants to be pleasured by a 'stranger' and not see them .. | |||
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"I always kiss. No rules xx" | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X" We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule. | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule. " .....and amazed by the majority that claim they would never meet without kissing, yet no guy has ever refused to play with me when I tell them my preference is not to kiss other men. | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X We have a no kissing preference. We have never changed it. It's odd to me that other people use the word preferences to describe the things they like to do or not but when it's someone else not kissing apparently it's a rule. .....and amazed by the majority that claim they would never meet without kissing, yet no guy has ever refused to play with me when I tell them my preference is not to kiss other men. " We have also found this. Also no man has ever insisted I kiss him before giving him a blow job. | |||
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"At the moment this is what we do to. If we meet a couple the ladys can kiss as much as they want but male partners kiss there own ladys. It's just what we are comfortable with atm, and tbh we are not massive kissers anyway, yer we have a kiss during sex but our sex is more filthier than say passionate if that makes sense? I totally get why couples wanna meet couples who kiss as its what turns them on the more but it doesn't bother us. Maybe one day we will kiss others,but we prefer to take small steps rather than go all in , like our journey so far, we started of just seeking ffm but now we are ready to see each other fuck somebody else. " There isn't a wrong way to do this. As long as you're all in agreement it's fine. | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X" What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ? We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ? We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . " What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people. | |||
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"As ususal with kissing threads nobody has actually answered the question just declared that kissing is essential for them" Still no answers | |||
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"At the moment this is what we do to. If we meet a couple the ladys can kiss as much as they want but male partners kiss there own ladys. It's just what we are comfortable with atm, and tbh we are not massive kissers anyway, yer we have a kiss during sex but our sex is more filthier than say passionate if that makes sense? I totally get why couples wanna meet couples who kiss as its what turns them on the more but it doesn't bother us. Maybe one day we will kiss others,but we prefer to take small steps rather than go all in , like our journey so far, we started of just seeking ffm but now we are ready to see each other fuck somebody else. There isn't a wrong way to do this. As long as you're all in agreement it's fine. " That's it, its whatever you are BOTH comfortable with . A question for the couples who ONLY meet kissers . If you were in club setting, your speaking to a couple who you both want to fuck the socks of , but towards the end of the conversation they say ohh just the ladys can kiss as it's what we are comfortable with as we're still finding what works for us, would you turn them down? I highly doubt it. | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ? We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people. " No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ? | |||
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"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at" would love to kiss your bum, nice pic of you bent over x | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ? We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people. No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ? " You followed that by stating that "surely if there's a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it". That's why I replied that different things are right for different people | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X What’s the difference between kissing other women and kissing men. Surely if there’s a rule it should cover the whole lot not part of it. would the two guys be allowed to kiss ? We get that kissing can seem more intimate than sucking a cock and we had the rule for our first meet. But it soon goes out the window when you realise it helps create a sexier mood . First time we tried it was in a bar . She took turns in kissing me and then the other guy while we were having drinks. It soon led to a taxi being ordered . What's right for you isn't necessarily right for other people. No one said it was right or wrong. My question stands if there’s a rule of no kissing why is it different if the two women kiss ? " For the simple reason that for me kissing a man is associated with romance, and I don't want that. Kissing a woman is playful because I would never have a romantic relationship with a woman, just a sexual one. In all honesty it isn't necesaary to have to explain this, or for you to understand it. It's a preference and is there to be accepted not challenged. | |||
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"We think kissing is more intimate than fucking. It's a strange world." That's what we think as well. | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X" When we started down this path we had a no kissing rule. In my mind (John) we were here for the sex and that was it. Kissing seemed too intimate and ‘invasive’ of our own relationship. After a couple of meets we realised that it was hard to fully relax into a meet without kissing, in fact it’s one of the things that really turns Lily on. I just admit I was nervous the first time we met knowing a guy was going to be kissing Lily, but actually it feels natural and part of a relaxed and fun meet. - John | |||
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"Many people have rules about kissing - for example we don't kiss but mrs kisses other bi fems. If u did have a no kissing rule but then decided to change, what was the first kiss like? Were you both comfortable? X" I love kissing | |||
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"We kiss when we play..much more passionate " For you perhaps, but not for everyone. I have all the passion I need with my partner - I swing to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and that doesn't include passion with a stranger. | |||
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"Kissing is the ultimate fore-play, well for me it is... I couldn't have sex without the initial kisses. It just seems so cold... I'm aware it's mainly couples who have this rule and it makes me wonder why...apart from the obvious of they're being a stong sexual connection that kissing entails" I cant understand it. You are balls deep in his mrs pussy but kissing is more intermit. Cant get more intermit than fucking her i think anyway.But each cpl has their own boundries and have to respect them even if you do not understand why John | |||
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"Some couples like to keep something back for themselves. It might be penetration, or oral, or anal, and yes, shock and horror, it might even be kissing. It's rather lovely to keep something for themselves, don't you think?" Apparently not if it's something other people want... | |||
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"Some couples like to keep something back for themselves. It might be penetration, or oral, or anal, and yes, shock and horror, it might even be kissing. It's rather lovely to keep something for themselves, don't you think?" I think it's lush that they keep something sacred and massively respect it. | |||
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"In all my meetings we all always have kissed , i love kissing " We can confirm, she is a wonderful kisser! So sensual.. xx | |||
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"As ususal with kissing threads nobody has actually answered the question just declared that kissing is essential for them" ----------- I must have been lucky then..As I had a kissing post that peeps answered perfectly. But the Ops question probably does not happen very often to be honest I think. And people are just saying how much they love kissing anyway as I do. SO NICE. | |||
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"Clearly kissing is critical to some but for others its too intimate - which is weird given everything else that will be happening. Also quite a few people relax the rules after a while which is interesting... x" I don't believe that people thinking that kissing is too intimate is weird at all. For many intimacy, closeness, passion, cuddling are all things you share with a partner while in a loving relationship. Sex can be intimate in the same way, but it can also be raunchy, erotic, and fantasy fulfilling and it's for these things that people often swing. You can also have very satisfying raunchy sex with a vibrator but who kisses their vibrator before using it? | |||
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"We couldn't not kiss. Kissing is erotic and a precursor. You get the kissing right and more is likely to follow. Goes to that old baseball analogy. You can't go straight from the plate to 2nd or third without running the track around the previous bases first. Same for kissing and sex for us. " This. The thrill for me (V) when we’re meeting a couple (pre COVID) and I know things are about to kick off when I lean in to kiss the other female....Electric. Especially when Abby then does the same with the guy! | |||
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"I could never have a meet without kissing....its a big turn on.....and something i'm great at" Its happen twice to me.. I leaned in to kiss the female and he told me that it wasn't on the cards... Anyhow, the meet progressed as they do, in the end she wanted to swallow my load.. I found that strange that I couldn't kiss her but he was very happy for her to swallow... I need kissing too.. | |||
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"If a cpl do not kiss then we might have to think twice about meeting them. Kissing for me and jenny is a big part of the turn on. We would need this with others to set the mood and help the play progress. John" Couldn't agree more | |||
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"Like to kiss but respect the couples wishes " | |||
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"Clearly kissing is critical to some but for others its too intimate - which is weird given everything else that will be happening. Also quite a few people relax the rules after a while which is interesting... x I don't believe that people thinking that kissing is too intimate is weird at all. For many intimacy, closeness, passion, cuddling are all things you share with a partner while in a loving relationship. Sex can be intimate in the same way, but it can also be raunchy, erotic, and fantasy fulfilling and it's for these things that people often swing. You can also have very satisfying raunchy sex with a vibrator but who kisses their vibrator before using it?" What I find really weird is the number of people who consider themselves open minded, steadfastly refusing to accept that not everyone feels the same way about kissing. The accompanying implication that those of us who don't want to kiss are somehow not normal is insulting. It's almost as if people are afraid of those of us secure enough to stand in the minority. | |||
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"We have always done kissing, it’s sexual and arousing, always preferred to meet people that are happy to do so " Always done kissing, very arousing and important during foreplay. | |||
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"We have always done kissing, it’s sexual and arousing, always preferred to meet people that are happy to do so " Yeah baby | |||
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