FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys unfairly looked on

By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

So I know this has been said before but why is it bi females go to the front of everyone’s que, where bi guys are snubbed to the point, that many many guys put they are straight, for fear of being ignored!! Do couples where the guy is straight think the bi guy might try it on with him, or is he worried to show his Mrs a nice cock turns him on lol, I would love to hear from females and couples who say no bi guys WHY they put that, I know it’s each to their own and personal choice but what could be the other reasons? I would love to know. Thank you in advance

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's a long standing mystery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am thinking of setting up a Fab lepper commune

Bi guys and the women that like them

It's free entry

All you have to do is give us a hand every now n then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am thinking of setting up a Fab lepper commune

Bi guys and the women that like them

It's free entry

All you have to do is give us a hand every now n then"

I’m in!

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

It’s the opposite for us if it says straight on a guy’s profile we are not interested

But this is only for MMF fun, when we meet couples if the guy is straight then Ben will play straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ve straight on my profile but I ve played with Men in group suitation - ie meeting cpls

If it happened it happens - bi play

But for me I love meeting people but if I put bi curious it severely limits the amount of messages I get and people I get to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ve straight on my profile but I ve played with Men in group suitation - ie meeting cpls

If it happened it happens - bi play

But for me I love meeting people but if I put bi curious it severely limits the amount of messages I get and people I get to meet"

Same happens for us bi cpls it limits who will meet us. But we know what we like and are looking for so if it limits us to meeting only a few bi cpls regularly then so be it. Although we can both play straight and have played with straight people when we were both singles.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think I have good luck with me posting bi-curious on my profile for years now. So I don't know of any unfair action taken against me because of that. I think the opposite actually. I have met and enjoyed alot more couples that would otherwise would have never connected with. Enjoy that person socially and sexually because who they are not his/her sexual orientation.. Thats me... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have good luck with me posting bi-curious on my profile for years now. So I don't know of any unfair action taken against me because of that. I think the opposite actually. I have met and enjoyed alot more couples that would otherwise would have never connected with. Enjoy that person socially and sexually because who they are not his/her sexual orientation.. Thats me... lol "

Very well thought out reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn’t apply for everyone, I love a bi guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ve straight on my profile but I ve played with Men in group suitation - ie meeting cpls

If it happened it happens - bi play

But for me I love meeting people but if I put bi curious it severely limits the amount of messages I get and people I get to meet"

When I get messaged by guys with straight on their profile but they say they’re bi, I usually don’t respond. I get enough messages from men who are openly bi so I’m a bit wary of people who conceal it.

That said I do hate that bi men are treated badly by some. It’s old fashioned biphobia. Yes there are preferences but those aren’t formed in a vacuum; I think it’s partially a hangover from the idea that bi men spread STIs to the straight community; and also the idea that men who like men are less “manly”?? I don’t know really.

I’m straight myself but I love bi men, in the same way many straight men love bi women.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

It’s not as big a problem as it used to be. Seems most people who don’t want to meet bi guys are generally of the older generation now. And quote that bi guys are more likely to be infected.

And those that worry about me touching up a straight guy when meeting a couple shouldn’t worry, as with most normal people I don’t touch anyone that hasn’t asked to be touched .

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We get that from straight guys I'm bi really tend to ignore tho I do feel for the genuine bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not as big a problem as it used to be. Seems most people who don’t want to meet bi guys are generally of the older generation now. And quote that bi guys are more likely to be infected.

And those that worry about me touching up a straight guy when meeting a couple shouldn’t worry, as with most normal people I don’t touch anyone that hasn’t asked to be touched . "

I definitely think that younger millennials and generation Z are more open about bisexuality, pansexuality and general sexual fluidity! Fingers crossed that those attitudes prevail!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been quite shocked by some attitudes on here, I figure it doesn’t matter; seems to some it does.

For a community that you would think should be open and inclusive, there are some very dated attitudes around.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

"It’s not as big a problem as it used to be. Seems most people who don’t want to meet bi guys are generally of the older generation now. And quote that bi guys are more likely to be infected.

And those that worry about me touching up a straight guy when meeting a couple shouldn’t worry, as with most normal people I don’t touch anyone that hasn’t asked to be touched .

I definitely think that younger millennials and generation Z are more open about bisexuality, pansexuality and general sexual fluidity! Fingers crossed that those attitudes prevail!! "

It’s common place on TV shows and films now. You only have to go in the gay bars to see that they are full off young happy people of all genders. It’s only 10 years ago that gay bars had blocked out windows and were hidden away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want to be naked and having sex in a room where a person that was sexually interested in me but I wasnt interested in them was involved. So I respect and agree with my Husbands wishes to not meet Bi guys if he is wanting to play on that occasion.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It happens and will continue but I think there’s a lot more ‘bi friendly’ women and couples on this site than the opposite.

Plenty of Tgirls on this site also trying to meet women but there’s a lot of ignorance over what it would be like to date or meet one of us. As if we spend most of our time mincing around the place dressed up. Just like any hobby, dressing is something I do occasionally not all the time and only show feminine traits when dressed. Luckily I’m not actively seeking women on this site, my preference is for couples but I do feel for the Tgirls who are and would make great FWB’s.

Hopefully things are improving certainly amongst the women and couples, who regularly post on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day when we used to swap with couples we always sought out straight couples like ourselves. This was because we were of the _iew that if our sexual interests were aligned, no-one was going to be disappointed with the absence of bi play. Now that we only look for guys, we'll generally choose a straight guy over a bi guy for the same reason. Nothing to do with fear of bi or homophobia.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Because all straight men believe that all straight women are bisexual. Porn has taught them this. The narrow minded have also been convinced that all bisexual men are in fact gay and all gay men are HIV positive. The fact is that can we 100% believe all profiles on here are factual? Just because the profile states straight/bi etc is it true? Are people lying just to get a shag? It’s a minefield. Ultimately everything is a choice. Do we meet or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt want to be naked and having sex in a room where a person that was sexually interested in me but I wasnt interested in them was involved. So I respect and agree with my Husbands wishes to not meet Bi guys if he is wanting to play on that occasion.

I can totally respect your husband but I think it’s a mistake to think all bi men want to fuck all men. I’m straight and not interested in women at all but I’m willing to be in a room where there are women, assuming (I’m sure correctly!) that they will respect my “no thank you”.

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

As soon as a guy backtracks on his profession of being straight and says he's bi, we're finished! Dishonesty is not a good start to any kind of friendship , let alone a swinging one.

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By *irtyfuxCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk! NOT

We feel it's best to be open. We say we are bi friendly and put our sexuality down as bisexual as we have no prejudice against those that are. We connect and are attracted to the person(s) regardless of age, colour, gender or sexuality. In the past we played with a straight guy from a couple that was so anti bi, saying that bi guys are gay. Lots of people require educating. We didn't let on we had both played bi in many meets. The fact we had dvp he seemed fine with the cock on cock in the pussy action! The fact I played with his wife and he was totally fine with that obviously knowing neither myself or his wife are gay!

People need to just go with the flow be open to same sex fun. Man on man makes you no less of a man. I feel sad for those that narrow their sexuality and experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I get what you are saying but we have had a meet where the other guy spent more time looking at my husband than me. He was meant to be straight too!

As with most things on here. A few men on fab spoil it for the rest.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am a bi guy and when I was looking to meet I would look for bi couples and females who state they were looking to meet bi guys and leave the others be...

They have their reason and that is personal to them and none of my business.

That being said, I have seen a few that state no bi guys and I have sucked the male in a gay sauna, but again, that is his business, not mine.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I get what you are saying but we have had a meet where the other guy spent more time looking at my husband than me. He was meant to be straight too!

As with most things on here. A few men on fab spoil it for the rest."

Genuine bi guys wouldn’t try and touch your husband up if you had said not to before hand. Your problem lies with someone who has already lied to you by saying they were straight.

I’ve met hundreds of times and never once felt the need to touch up a straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I get what you are saying but we have had a meet where the other guy spent more time looking at my husband than me. He was meant to be straight too!

As with most things on here. A few men on fab spoil it for the rest."

Not all bi guys are like that. I have loads of straight mates and i never eye then up at all. Also as a single i hsve played with straight cpls and did not eye up the guy at all. If people are straight then you respect that and just help the guy out pleasing his mrs as thats why they invited you there in the first place. I can understand though as most of us have found out ourselves that some people have no idea when it comes to boundries. Its always the few who spoil it for the rest.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Very well thought out reply.

Thanks but that is truly how I feel. If people like what they read/_iew on a profile. Start up a conversation and see where it goes.. Most of the time no where but when it goes right, it goes right.. lol Now don't forget to write me all you openminded couples and singles...

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Sometimes they don't help themselves.

If you're Bi or Gay, say it. Dont piss around hiding behind the "Oh im straight Bullshit" and then start asking straight men would they like to be sucked off.

That seriously annoys the crap out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I get what you are saying but we have had a meet where the other guy spent more time looking at my husband than me. He was meant to be straight too!

As with most things on here. A few men on fab spoil it for the rest."

If he was meant to be straight then that’s definitely more of a problem than him being openly bi but playing straight!

I’m not super comfortable with the idea of women staring at me but as long as people are respectful and don’t cross boundaries I’m willing to dea with it (I’m going to have a terrible time in clubs if I can’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a bi guy and when I was looking to meet I would look for bi couples and females who state they were looking to meet bi guys and leave the others be...

They have their reason and that is personal to them and none of my business.

That being said, I have seen a few that state no bi guys and I have sucked the male in a gay sauna, but again, that is his business, not mine."

There are a lot of cpls who have straight where the female does mot know her man is meeting other guys for bi sex fun. Met a cpl where the female said i had to play straight as her man was. When i got there the look of horror on his face as i recognised him from a threesome with another guy i had only 2mths before i met them. She did not have a clue about his bisexuality. There must be thousands of women out there who do not know their men play with guys behind their back. Me and jenny are both bisexual and we opened up to each other about this early on in the relationship. Id never play with a guy behind her back as she would rather watch it herself

. Dont tar all us bi guys with the same brush. Most are open about it with their partners and dont cheat with guys behind their wives/partners backs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I get what you are saying but we have had a meet where the other guy spent more time looking at my husband than me. He was meant to be straight too!

As with most things on here. A few men on fab spoil it for the rest.

Genuine bi guys wouldn’t try and touch your husband up if you had said not to before hand. Your problem lies with someone who has already lied to you by saying they were straight.

I’ve met hundreds of times and never once felt the need to touch up a straight guy "

Sane here. I hace never eyed up or tried to touch a straight male partner of the cpl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one poster already said it is generally the older generation that goes against bi guys, when you was raised in a culture and society that was very anti gay/bi among the males its hard at times to accept them especially in a sexual scenario when you aren't attracted to men especially. There is always that fear or nervousness the guy is there for the male not female. We socialise regularly with gay and bi males but don't play with them. No problem being naked or near naked in the same room in a social dress down club area either and have some good male friends who are gay/bi . Just male on male does nothing sexually for us so generally will not look or interact with bi males in a sexual way even for mfm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens and will continue but I think there’s a lot more ‘bi friendly’ women and couples on this site than the opposite.

Hopefully things are improving certainly amongst the women and couples, who regularly post on the forums

Nothing wrong with tv/ts girls. I met a few in my time. And if we decide to meet a guy for a threesome it will be a tv the first time for us both to enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens and will continue but I think there’s a lot more ‘bi friendly’ women and couples on this site than the opposite.

Hopefully things are improving certainly amongst the women and couples, who regularly post on the forums

As I’m straight I’d happily meet a Tboy

Not gonna lie I’ve never considered dating a Tgirl as I’m not interested in women or feminine-ness. But maybe I’d change my mind if I met a Tgirl in a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We feel it's best to be open. We say we are bi friendly and put our sexuality down as bisexual as we have no prejudice against those that are. We connect and are attracted to the person(s) regardless of age, colour, gender or sexuality. In the past we played with a straight guy from a couple that was so anti bi, saying that bi guys are gay. Lots of people require educating. We didn't let on we had both played bi in many meets. The fact we had dvp he seemed fine with the cock on cock in the pussy action! The fact I played with his wife and he was totally fine with that obviously knowing neither myself or his wife are gay!

People need to just go with the flow be open to same sex fun. Man on man makes you no less of a man. I feel sad for those that narrow their sexuality and experiences x"

Could not of put a better reply myself. John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is women are more relaxed about men being bi for me if it says bi then I ain't interested no matter if you play straight what ever that means your still bi you could turn up wrapped in a massive condom your still bi so not for me and I ain't interested if she's smoking hot she's still with a big guy as said just be honest and you will find more are interested in you yes it might limit some things but opens doors to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha should say bi not big

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"As one poster already said it is generally the older generation that goes against bi guys, when you was raised in a culture and society that was very anti gay/bi among the males its hard at times to accept them especially in a sexual scenario when you aren't attracted to men especially. There is always that fear or nervousness the guy is there for the male not female. We socialise regularly with gay and bi males but don't play with them. No problem being naked or near naked in the same room in a social dress down club area either and have some good male friends who are gay/bi . Just male on male does nothing sexually for us so generally will not look or interact with bi males in a sexual way even for mfm."

I think the older one gets the more openminded one gets, at least in this lifestyle... I enjoy both sexes in a 3sum as well..

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I have been openly bi since my teens and the one assumption I face over and over again is that I must want to fuck all men.

Strangely enough, I need there to be an attraction, I don’t swoon over every phallus I see.

Mr.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

"I have been openly bi since my teens and the one assumption I face over and over again is that I must want to fuck all men.

Strangely enough, I need there to be an attraction, I don’t swoon over every phallus I see.

Mr. "

Totally agree, there’s very few guys I fancy . And just seeing a Dick does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been openly bi since my teens and the one assumption I face over and over again is that I must want to fuck all men.

Strangely enough, I need there to be an attraction, I don’t swoon over every phallus I see.

Mr.

Totally agree, there’s very few guys I fancy . And just seeing a Dick does nothing for me. "

Agree. I have mostly straight mates. Not once have i thought id love to play with any of them. Attaction has to be there the same as if you want sex with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s the opposite for us if it says straight on a guy’s profile we are not interested

But this is only for MMF fun, when we meet couples if the guy is straight then Ben will play straight "

Same for us

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we don't mind any bi guys around xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

As a non bi bloke I always see bi guys wanted on profiles that look at me or I perv locally

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Or maybe your husband is so Smokin hot that all men want to shag him

I’m straight and don’t expect all women to want to jump my bones

And in the same vain... despite being straight I don’t necessarily want to shag every men in the room either

Still happy to get naked amongst everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am thinking of setting up a Fab lepper commune

Bi guys and the women that like them

It's free entry

All you have to do is give us a hand every now n then"

I’m in!

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By *heShyBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In real life I've found it really turns women on seeing two men play with eachother. I only see it a little bit on here really stating 'no bi men ew gross,' as if all bi men shag other men unprotected and carry every disease possible.

Funny thing is, there are a lot more secretly bi men on this site that genuine straight men, so the people who have only met 'straight' men have most likely unknowingly slept with a bi man.

Anyway, no limits all round bi play is great.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Not anti bi men or women but we are straight and have had 3 messages from men today wanting to play with us both. When we say we are straight all of the answers were along the lines of "thats ok I just want to suck his cock" or "you have to try it you'll never be straight again". This is why we avoid bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever been interested in having sex with someone who really fancies me, so those that don’t are of no concern to me whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found that when we talk to couples/single guys they are listed as straight but once chatting say the at bi/curious.

We would like a regular bi guy/couple for friendship and fun.

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By *ormalguy8Man
over a year ago

oldham

People need to just go with the flow be open to same sex fun. Man on man makes you no less of a man. I feel sad for those that narrow their sexuality and experiences x"
This

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"There is always that fear or nervousness the guy is there for the male not female."

The irony of that of course is that if the guy was after man-on-man fun, he could almost certainly get it with ease.

If he’s managed to find a couple, chances are he’s mainly going to be interested in her!

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

Same here, couples with bi male straight to the front of the queue! Single bi males also much preferred.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Same here, couples with bi male straight to the front of the queue! Single bi males also much preferred."

Lots of bi males available for non pushy fun. Leeds area here as well....

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have an interest in bi guys so I personally don't understand the point made in this thread.

I love nothing more than playing with a man or men who enjoy each others company and aren't afraid to show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the bi love

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I am thinking of setting up a Fab lepper commune

Bi guys and the women that like them

It's free entry

All you have to do is give us a hand every now n then"

Pick me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing is any bi or gay male knows that 99% of his man on man meets are with "straight" guys

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By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

Wow I didn’t expect that many replies lots of reading done, just to confirm if the Male half is totally straight I would have no intention of doing anything with them, we all have boundaries and they should be respected by all parties

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We look rather favourably on bi guys.

True bi guys that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look rather favourably on bi guys.

True bi guys that is. "

Oh that's the Oubilette in your profile..sexy place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi or at least bi curious guy, I do not expect to get a lot of messages. The few I have had however have all been very friendly and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look favourably on bi guys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lot of female friends who prefer a bi guy, I myself don’t mind either

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By *elshyXOMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

As an openly bi-curious male I can honestly say ive had a mixture of responses on here from being fetishised to rejected instantly. At first it stings but after a while it becomes water off a ducks back

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

Is true, bi guys, get dunked on by bi girls all cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its unlikely that any one above the age of 30 will have that type of open mind set...but we keep trying breaking new ground.

Funny thing is....most the guys that I have played with have been straight married men ...who dont admit it .

As I said ...the new generation will be more open...

Its always good to be truthful rather than mislead .

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"So I know this has been said before but why is it bi females go to the front of everyone’s que, where bi guys are snubbed to the point, that many many guys put they are straight, for fear of being ignored!! Do couples where the guy is straight think the bi guy might try it on with him, or is he worried to show his Mrs a nice cock turns him on lol, I would love to hear from females and couples who say no bi guys WHY they put that, I know it’s each to their own and personal choice but what could be the other reasons? I would love to know. Thank you in advance"

We're happy to play with a bi guy as long as he's willing to play totally straight. However in clubs we have had a several experiences of guys grabbing at my partner's cock despite knowing our boundaries. It's an immediate end to any play: it's a betrayal of trust, it's a total turn off for both of us, and there is nothing that is guaranteed to kill my partners erection faster. If couples are wary of bi guys it might well be that they have had similar experiences. Perhaps ask the bi guys why they do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your partner does have a yummy cock

Oops sorry ...stone the bi guy x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"In real life I've found it really turns women on seeing two men play with eachother. I only see it a little bit on here really stating 'no bi men ew gross,' as if all bi men shag other men unprotected and carry every disease possible.

Funny thing is, there are a lot more secretly bi men on this site that genuine straight men, so the people who have only met 'straight' men have most likely unknowingly slept with a bi man.

Anyway, no limits all round bi play is great."

Gotta agree that comment

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I meet bi people but I do understand and have some _iews as to why others may avoid.

When you go to the gum clinic to get tested they ask you if you've had sexual contact with bisexual men. They then inform you that bi men have higher risk of hep (can't remember which letter it is) and offer you the jab.

I've had two courses of the jab and I couldn't retain antibodies either time.

Anywho, just the increased risk may be enough to put people off, and that's fine. It's their choice.

What I don't think is OK is putting straight on your profile if you do engage in bi play. That's a cunt move as it's removing peoples choice.

That really isn't fair whether you agree with their preferences/choices or not. It's selfish as fuck actually.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

I’m all the years I’ve been going to clubs alone and with my partner I’ve never experienced guys groping other guys when it wasn’t asked for. It’s very very rare (except in no clubs ) that any man on man action ever occurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet bi people but I do understand and have some _iews as to why others may avoid.

I've had two courses of the jab and I couldn't retain antibodies either time.

Anywho, just the increased risk may be enough to put people off, and that's fine. It's their choice.

What I don't think is OK is putting straight on your profile if you do engage in bi play. That's a cunt move as it's removing peoples choice.

That really isn't fair whether you agree with their preferences/choices or not. It's selfish as fuck actually."

Yup agree.. so many straight married men suck cock just ask any gay guy..

I prefer to be honest and then at least you can make up your mind ...its all about informed choices

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I meet bi people but I do understand and have some _iews as to why others may avoid.

I've had two courses of the jab and I couldn't retain antibodies either time.

Anywho, just the increased risk may be enough to put people off, and that's fine. It's their choice.

What I don't think is OK is putting straight on your profile if you do engage in bi play. That's a cunt move as it's removing peoples choice.

That really isn't fair whether you agree with their preferences/choices or not. It's selfish as fuck actually.

Yup agree.. so many straight married men suck cock just ask any gay guy..

I prefer to be honest and then at least you can make up your mind ...its all about informed choices "

Agree completely... to be honest is best

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I meet bi people but I do understand and have some _iews as to why others may avoid.

I've had two courses of the jab and I couldn't retain antibodies either time.

Anywho, just the increased risk may be enough to put people off, and that's fine. It's their choice.

What I don't think is OK is putting straight on your profile if you do engage in bi play. That's a cunt move as it's removing peoples choice.

That really isn't fair whether you agree with their preferences/choices or not. It's selfish as fuck actually.

Yup agree.. so many straight married men suck cock just ask any gay guy..

I prefer to be honest and then at least you can make up your mind ...its all about informed choices "

Exactly. Anything else is a betrayal of trust and that shit fucks me off.

If you know someone won't meet ya if you tell the truth then you ain't compatible! It really is that simple. Lying to get them into bed is something manipulators do, ESPECIALLY when it comes as a hard line no. That's low and bang out of order. That's the kind of thing that will have people leaving the scene as their trust in others to be decent humans gets destroyed and they ain't prepared to take another chance.

People have their own personal reasons and it ain't for us to question, merely for us to accept.