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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on a post from earlier and a couple of other threads I’ve been reading what would the feeling be if a male wrote...

Size king, if your vagina is bigger than average (not sure what average is) or your boobs too small/big don’t message me.

It seems acceptable for woman to be “size queens” but reading previous threads if men use the word skinny or large bodies then they are jumped on.

I’m not looking for insults but believe in parity, so if it’s deemed okay and acceptable for woman to give a statement of size of a body part then surely it’s okay for men as well

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Equal rights and all that so I guess that would ab acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is also a difference between saying what you DO like "I like larger women"

and what you DON'T like "No fat girl please"

Get what I mean?

My profile says I have a thing for older, larger men, but thats not the same as saying "If you are young or skinny, don't message me"

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

sauce for the goose as they say, fully agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here goes lol

Penis size is what you have,you can't change it....but you can lose weight or gain weight

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Following on a post from earlier and a couple of other threads I’ve been reading what would the feeling be if a male wrote...

Size king, if your vagina is bigger than average (not sure what average is) or your boobs too small/big don’t message me.

People are free (within reason) to state their preference. Nobody is forced to read them or respond.

It seems acceptable for woman to be “size queens” but reading previous threads if men use the word skinny or large bodies then they are jumped on.

I’m not looking for insults but believe in parity, so if it’s deemed okay and acceptable for woman to give a statement of size of a body part then surely it’s okay for men as well "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size queens is referring to cock size obviously. It's not a statement about body type. There are plenty of threads about dad bods etc which we dont necessarily agree with either. The labelling of such things, is a totally different scenario though to a statement about sexual body parts.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the right to excercise their personal preference as long as it’s not done malicious it’s no one else’s business and people shouldn’t take things personal. I’m a plus size larger lady and if I seen slimmer ladies only even no fat ppl I wouldn’t bat an eye lid, Id scroll on. This is a sex site and no one owes anyone and explanation as to why or what they like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per size queen, I state I prefer size but it doesn’t define my meets it’s a preference not a deal breaker. The thing where men get insulted or take it personal and say things like what if we asked only for tight pussys! If that’s your preference so be it! Thing is,how you gonna know is there an indicator somehow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As my thread asks it’s not just weight but there’s lots of posts and peoples profiles stating cock size which seems acceptable. All I am asking, as means of creating a discussion, is how would a someone looking at a mans profile feel if he quoted specifics on the size of their vagina or breasts?

Yes it’s your profile and you can create whatever you want but I am intrigued as woman seem to be more worried about the size of a penis then men do about the size of woman’s sex organs.

As I say it’s just a question to engage, hopefully, good conversation and see it from all sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my thread asks it’s not just weight but there’s lots of posts and peoples profiles stating cock size which seems acceptable. All I am asking, as means of creating a discussion, is how would a someone looking at a mans profile feel if he quoted specifics on the size of their vagina or breasts?

Yes it’s your profile and you can create whatever you want but I am intrigued as woman seem to be more worried about the size of a penis then men do about the size of woman’s sex organs.

As I say it’s just a question to engage, hopefully, good conversation and see it from all sides "

I guess VWE guys won’t have to worry about woman’s vaginal size as it would feel close for regardless.but if a man wasn’t so big maybe he would like to request a woman who is tighter, I get what you are saying how could you ask for that in an acceptable manner without coming across derogatory or rude. Just unfortunate that VWE BBC BWC categories are very popular kinks xx

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’d be interested to know how you think vaginas should be measured? Mine will vary even during a session, never mind the rest of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d be interested to know how you think vaginas should be measured? Mine will vary even during a session, never mind the rest of the time."

As I said I’m not sure what average is deemed as and if there is such a thing whereas however with a penis there is

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I’d be interested to know how you think vaginas should be measured? Mine will vary even during a session, never mind the rest of the time."

Some sort of step drill contraction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As my thread asks it’s not just weight but there’s lots of posts and peoples profiles stating cock size which seems acceptable. All I am asking, as means of creating a discussion, is how would a someone looking at a mans profile feel if he quoted specifics on the size of their vagina or breasts?

Yes it’s your profile and you can create whatever you want but I am intrigued as woman seem to be more worried about the size of a penis then men do about the size of woman’s sex organs.

As I say it’s just a question to engage, hopefully, good conversation and see it from all sides

I guess VWE guys won’t have to worry about woman’s vaginal size as it would feel close for regardless.but if a man wasn’t so big maybe he would like to request a woman who is tighter, I get what you are saying how could you ask for that in an acceptable manner without coming across derogatory or rude. Just unfortunate that VWE BBC BWC categories are very popular kinks xx "

It’s exactly this that the terminology to judge a mans appendage but is it even correct to judge a woman on breast size as someone said earlier we are all dealing with what we were given unless we decide to surgically change it. It just seems more acceptable to judge a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can put whatever they want in their profile,it's their shop window,their sex life.

Wether they get much response is another matter

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Loads of blokes have 'big tits' as a requirement. I don't meet it so don't bother.

It's no skin off my nose in the slightest, that's what they want sexually *shrugs*

People like different things, that's life.

Vag size can be a difficult one to quantify, the same way a man wang is built to engorge and grow when aroused, a womans vag is built to relax and get a wide on to accommodate the incoming pork sword.

Some are tiny though, and even with the right stimulation don't resemble a wide mouthed frog, there are plenty about who state big members ain't for them.

So yeah, I don't think it's rude, it's just honest which is better for everyone surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just supply and demand in action. Women are in big demand so they can be more selective. If a woman wants a big cock, or a tall guy, or the man from atlantis, she can ask for it and get a ton of messages (often from guys who don't actually have what she's looking for, but that's another debate altogether).

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

OP, I’ve seen male profiles specifying the body type they want. I’ve seen male profiles stating they only want tight, bald pussies. And I’ve seen plenty who only want big tits. But the honest truth is, most male profiles (where they can be bothered to write one) read more like “I like older women but I’m happy to meet my age or younger. I like all shapes and sizes” etc etc. They don’t come across particularly fussy most of the time.

As for the point about vagina size - I’ve just had a google and there don’t seem to have been many meaningful studies, and those there have been aren’t really conclusive as to an average size. Plus most of them seem to only talk about unaroused vaginas. I’d like to think most men would prefer an aroused vagina over an unaroused one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t take you too long around here to see people expressing their preference for certain size breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think they are judging them I just think people have different preferences, as my profile states I prefer a larger size, but Iv still had mindblowing sex with smaller men it’s not the be all and end all for me but those who do specifically request certain requirements have their reasons , I don’t think they think less of people who don’t meet that criteria. That would be like judging someone because they liked different types of food from you and only asked for the meal they liked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As per size queen, I state I prefer size but it doesn’t define my meets it’s a preference not a deal breaker. The thing where men get insulted or take it personal and say things like what if we asked only for tight pussys! If that’s your preference so be it! Thing is,how you gonna know is there an indicator somehow "

The good old how many fingers indicator you mean that some guys ask lmao john

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As per size queen, I state I prefer size but it doesn’t define my meets it’s a preference not a deal breaker. The thing where men get insulted or take it personal and say things like what if we asked only for tight pussys! If that’s your preference so be it! Thing is,how you gonna know is there an indicator somehow

The good old how many fingers indicator you mean that some guys ask lmao john"

Depends on who’s hands and how aroused I am that’s a shit method

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men like curvy ladies as I do myself, but then I don't want someone who's bordering on being obese either. Quite a few monstrosities on here that still seem to be very picky because "they can" and because a lot of men will fuck anything with a pulse. Men should start being more picky too which will level they playing field a bit and out the undesirables

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much for all your replies. As I said I never wanted to be contentious, that’s not me, but it is good to see it from both sides. I am happy to admit, as advised in other threads, to look at male profiles, especially the more successful ones to see how to script a profile. That said I have never seen any “size” requirement, but, that may also explain why they are more successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think they are judging them I just think people have different preferences, as my profile states I prefer a larger size, but Iv still had mindblowing sex with smaller men it’s not the be all and end all for me but those who do specifically request certain requirements have their reasons , I don’t think they think less of people who don’t meet that criteria. That would be like judging someone because they liked different types of food from you and only asked for the meal they liked. "

Good comment there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you very much for all your replies. As I said I never wanted to be contentious, that’s not me, but it is good to see it from both sides. I am happy to admit, as advised in other threads, to look at male profiles, especially the more successful ones to see how to script a profile. That said I have never seen any “size” requirement, but, that may also explain why they are more successful.

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What do you class as successful? Lots of veris? People get loads when they visit clubs and some men have loads because they have no standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gets me if men request a certain type of woman, which I think is acceptable, but then contact me and I don't meet there preferences, I usually point this out and met with, but I would like to meet you, I usually give a body swerve, I prefer to be blunt and up front, I don't change my preferences just on the of chance I will be having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you very much for all your replies. As I said I never wanted to be contentious, that’s not me, but it is good to see it from both sides. I am happy to admit, as advised in other threads, to look at male profiles, especially the more successful ones to see how to script a profile. That said I have never seen any “size” requirement, but, that may also explain why they are more successful.

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It’s not what you say it’s how you say it. A well written profile goes a long long way! Xx

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"As my thread asks it’s not just weight but there’s lots of posts and peoples profiles stating cock size which seems acceptable. All I am asking, as means of creating a discussion, is how would a someone looking at a mans profile feel if he quoted specifics on the size of their vagina or breasts?

Yes it’s your profile and you can create whatever you want but I am intrigued as woman seem to be more worried about the size of a penis then men do about the size of woman’s sex organs.

As I say it’s just a question to engage, hopefully, good conversation and see it from all sides

I guess VWE guys won’t have to worry about woman’s vaginal size as it would feel close for regardless.but if a man wasn’t so big maybe he would like to request a woman who is tighter, I get what you are saying how could you ask for that in an acceptable manner without coming across derogatory or rude. Just unfortunate that VWE BBC BWC categories are very popular kinks xx

It’s exactly this that the terminology to judge a mans appendage but is it even correct to judge a woman on breast size as someone said earlier we are all dealing with what we were given unless we decide to surgically change it. It just seems more acceptable to judge a man"

.

You're having a laugh surely,

constant get "love your big tits" kind of messages and....

If that isn't judging by size I don't know what is

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