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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

I'm not sure but just wanted to say lovely pics and is there any room in that hot tub for a single one? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so annoyed by this?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

For me, that’s part of the fun of taking part in the forum! I’ve had some great sideways conversations from it, and some people don’t like to post in public

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We just go with the flow and never ever take anything seriously on fabberoooswingersXxxmerry xmas eve eveXxxxxM&HXxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just started using the forum as it was recommended as a good place to start.

Since posting though, PM's have gone through the roof!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

I would agree OP, especially as all the messages I get are from guys who aren't even in the same country as me...

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?"

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation "

Ach wheres the harm

People are often advised to join the forum to get to know people

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation

Ach wheres the harm

People are often advised to join the forum to get to know people "

I've had meets from forum pm's......

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!"

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I have occasionally responded to a forum post by DM. But I do keep relevant to the post and not use it as a sideways attempt to contact them. Many are well outside of my preferred distance anyway. The reason for the DM, is because I have something relevant to say that I might not want to put on a public forum.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

If its to do with forum post or a comment you make on forum it can get annoying but if they have noticed us on forum and are what we looking for it doesn't bother us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation

Ach wheres the harm

People are often advised to join the forum to get to know people "

And people say the forum is friendly...... hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to hit reply privately by mistake. It's also easy to politely reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not bothered by people PM’ing. As others have said I’ve had some brilliant conversations that way. Only time it’s ever bothered me is on a thread about men becoming abusive when rejected. Literally as the thread was filling up I had someone doing exactly what we were talking about in a PM exchange. But it’s so easy to just block and report so not exactly a nightmare.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

Why does this bother you so much?

It can be a great way to make new friends and has lead to interesting discussions.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation

Ach wheres the harm

People are often advised to join the forum to get to know people

And people say the forum is friendly...... hmmmmm

"

That’s a glass of wine snorted through my nose I won’t get back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wonderful world of fab...talk in forums get to know people...that’s the advice you’re given...message them as you like their profile and/or their view on a forum topic and get blocked

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Because its an open forum, not a private conversation

Ach wheres the harm

People are often advised to join the forum to get to know people

And people say the forum is friendly...... hmmmmm

"

I'm not being unfriendly, just asking a question, I'm always happy to help people in anyway I can, just a bit sick of getting off topic messages, normally with a dick pick attached

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

"

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply"

Was more thinking of all the off topic messages, that just say do you want a fuck,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply

Was more thinking of all the off topic messages, that just say do you want a fuck, "

In fairness your original post said about not answering in the topic didn’t mention sending dick pics or off topic messages.

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply

Was more thinking of all the off topic messages, that just say do you want a fuck,

In fairness your original post said about not answering in the topic didn’t mention sending dick pics or off topic messages. "

And that's what made me think there is no need at all to pm someone just put it on the forum, we get loads of messages at the best of times that we cannot always ancer,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all"

Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it "

From single guys?

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it

From single guys?"

No couples

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it

From single guys?

No couples "

So what if a really nice couple messaged you from the forums. You liked them and you had a good chat. Would you block them or would you continue chatting?

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

Could be an accident. I PMd someone the other day when replying to a thread by accident.

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it

From single guys?

No couples

So what if a really nice couple messaged you from the forums. You liked them and you had a good chat. Would you block them or would you continue chatting? "

We would ask them why, they didn't just message on forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?"

Exactly. Why get so sensitive that someone messaged you? Is it's a compliment, say thank you and if it's creepy just delete and move on.

People like to interact here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I agree...what happens in forums stays in forums, by all means look at profiles but thats all Can you believe iv had 2 messages about it

From single guys?

No couples "

If you expect messages from cpls then use filters to block single guys .

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?"

Yeah it honestly boggles the mind why people get so annoyed by this it could be possible that they wanted to respond to you privately rather than publicly. I’ve had a few do it to me I either engage with them or don’t.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Single men seem to do this to us when we've posted on the forums mostly telling us how many things they'd like to do to val

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to receive PM's. Box is open all the time xx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us "

Errr. Is that a subliminal advert for "pm us please?"

Surprised it exercises you so much but little you can do about it other than don't post in the fora, or block messages I guess. Keep smiling though.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Single men seem to do this to us when we've posted on the forums mostly telling us how many things they'd like to do to val "

Single men do have a bad reputation for doing that though so I do get your point but some of us don’t

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Single men seem to do this to us when we've posted on the forums mostly telling us how many things they'd like to do to val

Single men do have a bad reputation for doing that though so I do get your point but some of us don’t "

I think it's single women pretending to be single men. They live among us.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met from a pm off the back of a forum thread.

Good things can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do this all the time, men, women and couples. It isn't gender specific.

I get messages from all sorts of people, which is fine, it's a public website for contacting people - the very essence of why the site exists is for strangers to message each other, and ultimately meet.

What's the problem? Just set your filters and get on with it like the rest of us.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"We met from a pm off the back of a forum thread.

Good things can happen "

Well that and there's a bloody great button labelled "reply privately" so I guess it's designed to facilitate such appalling behaviour. How very dare they.

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich


"Why do people get so annoyed by this?

Exactly. Why get so sensitive that someone messaged you? Is it's a compliment, say thank you and if it's creepy just delete and move on.

People like to interact here . "

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By *ensual massagerMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Tbf, I've had pm's from posts I've replied to. A few have been in agreement with what I've put and we've had a few good conversations and that's fine. However, I certainly object to others who feel they can message me to say such nasty things and think it's ok. By all means reply on thread if you've a different opinion but not to come direct and be nasty and aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men seem to do this to us when we've posted on the forums mostly telling us how many things they'd like to do to val "

You makes their day

We all love appreciation and single guys do lift up our spirits here considering how cpls stay away from messaging other cpls here.

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

Errr. Is that a subliminal advert for "pm us please?"

Surprised it exercises you so much but little you can do about it other than don't post in the fora, or block messages I guess. Keep smiling though. "

No we get loads of messages a day, and messages that should have been put on the forum just waste our time and there's, as we have limeted time to ancer the ones we like

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

47 friend requests in last 12 hours absolute crazy.. Must be the season xx

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"47 friend requests in last 12 hours absolute crazy.. Must be the season xx"

Yes it's gone mad, most of them will be gone off the site by Monday lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply

Was more thinking of all the off topic messages, that just say do you want a fuck, "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

I do reply privately if i just want to tell them they made me laugh. Feel free to block me!

You didn't message, you seid it on here the right way

This time because i was adding to the conversation but if all I want to do is thank someone for making me laugh pm is better but I don't expect a reply

Was more thinking of all the off topic messages, that just say do you want a fuck, "

Oh fair enough you will never get one of those from me.I thought you just hated any pms. We are on the same page now

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Tbf, I've had pm's from posts I've replied to. A few have been in agreement with what I've put and we've had a few good conversations and that's fine. However, I certainly object to others who feel they can message me to say such nasty things and think it's ok. By all means reply on thread if you've a different opinion but not to come direct and be nasty and aggressive "

I hope you report them. Noone should be subjected to anything horrible. If people don't agree, they should just roll their eyes and move on. Life is too short people. Please be nice people, life is hard enough as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

Errr. Is that a subliminal advert for "pm us please?"

Surprised it exercises you so much but little you can do about it other than don't post in the fora, or block messages I guess. Keep smiling though.

No we get loads of messages a day, and messages that should have been put on the forum just waste our time and there's, as we have limeted time to ancer the ones we like "

Merry Christmas OP

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By * AND R 777 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Why do people think its OK to PM you, when you post on a forum thread and not just ancer you on the thread just a block form us

Errr. Is that a subliminal advert for "pm us please?"

Surprised it exercises you so much but little you can do about it other than don't post in the fora, or block messages I guess. Keep smiling though.

No we get loads of messages a day, and messages that should have been put on the forum just waste our time and there's, as we have limeted time to ancer the ones we like

Merry Christmas OP"

Thank you very much, and a merry Xmas and a happy New year to you. And everyone else xxx

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

I find the forum quite hard to navigate, to be honest. Probably because I’m used to Facebook telling me when someone has commented, replied or liked. I have commented on the forum and never known if that person has seen my comment, or gone back to a thread and found that someone commented days ago.

If it’s relevant and considerate, I don’t think a PM is out of order at all, and I’ve done it several times. It’s just another function of the site, and if your filters are open, then you’re going to get messages.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Depends on the message, we got one off a right pair of grotbags last week, we made a joke on the forum and they messaged us directly slating our profile and saying we would be banned, we told them to jog on and have fun as they were missing humour and they sent a nasty message back and blocked us lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Depends on the message, we got one off a right pair of grotbags last week, we made a joke on the forum and they messaged us directly slating our profile and saying we would be banned, we told them to jog on and have fun as they were missing humour and they sent a nasty message back and blocked us lol "

Hope they don't ban your profile. Your pictures are just stunning and I'm sure keep many of us entertained!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pm'd a lady that replied to one of our threads, to be fair if was asking who was turned on by a fantasy and she replied very enthusiastically, we pm'd her because at the very least it would be nice to chat about it seen as how we both had the interest, she could accept if she wanted to, or not as the case may have been. Turned out she was extremely interested, had already sent a wink and replied within seconds, she is now a planned meet!

Sometimes you just have to take the shot

However, her professing her interest got her swamped by hundreds of other messages too so, you know, swings and roundabouts

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