FabSwingers.com forum: Fist time anal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right girls I need advice!

I’ve had the odd finger inside but nothing more, we’re going to try and see what happens

So How do you prepare yourself for anal?

What is your build up to it?

What do you do to I guess open yourself up?

Soph x

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Start slow he uses tongue girst

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Not a girl but I do anal a lot. All I can say is start small with lots of lube and take it very slow until you're comfortable, it takes a lot of practice for some

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Take your time, relax and lube, and some more lube and that might not be enough, plenty of play and plenty of stretching, you might not need it but go gentle the first time and be relaxed, get it wrong first time and it will be off putting and you will be tense in future.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Just remember not to suck or lick his cock after wards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start slow plenty off lube if you feel any pain or discomfort at all stop

Maybe a small butt plug would help a little to loosen thinks up before hand to relax

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Just remember not to suck or lick his cock after wards

Some people like that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start slow plenty off lube if you feel any pain or discomfort at all stop

Maybe a small butt plug would help a little to loosen thinks up before hand to relax "

Fogot the prep

douche first. No one wants a mess.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Douche first as if theres a mess it might put you off trying again. Use a butt plug to open you up a bit, lots of lube and he needs to go slow whilst you try to relax your muscles. I would also say make sure its someone you trust that will go slow and will stop if you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start slow plenty off lube if you feel any pain or discomfort at all stop

Maybe a small butt plug would help a little to loosen thinks up before hand to relax

Fogot the prep

douche first. No one wants a mess. "

Ha ha yes I did thanks i always for get that in tips just think it’s normal a mandatory thing x

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

London

I've given and received anal so I've experienced both sides. I'd had fingers and dildos up there before penetration, so to some extent I knew what to expect when I first did it. Some tips

1. Douche. Neither me nor my partners have found it necessary as long as you've had a bowel movement earlier in the day.

2. Lube. Very helpful but don't overdo it, can get too slippery.

3. Condom. Wear one and put in a tissue without looking, avoids any mess.

4. Relax. The anus has plenty of nerve endings and anal sex can be pleasurable. Be open to it rather than think it'll hurt and you're on the way to enjoying it.

5. Foreplay. Part of relaxing and getting ready, have an orgasm (or two!) before anal.

6. Go slow. Gentle thrusts work best to start, feel the cock against your sphincter. Allow hard pounding only when you feel ready.

7. Position. Doggy is probably easiest to penetrate. But if you're new to anal, spoons with your knees bent up is probably more comfortable, or try woman on top when you can control the pace.

8. Variety. I find it's nice to switch around instead of continuous anal, mix with oral, vaginal etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka helps too....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My boyfriend and i years ago pracised with a starbar. I must have a hot arse as it melted and made a hell of a mess.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Working another area at the same time helps too. Clit, neck kisses. Boobs and nipples. If you're relaxed and enjoying the sensations you will open up easier.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Fingers it’s all about fingers and lube

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Just remember not to suck or lick his cock after wards

Or progress to pussy as there will be bacteria on his cock. Unless you've got the douching routine sorted, then use a condom or wash his cock after anal.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Probably wouldn't aim for a fist right off the bat...

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Take your time. Plenty relaxation foreplay. ... lube. Relax. More lube. ... don’t use a numbing cream ... use a trusted partner. ... relax. When it comes to the initial push. Try to make on like your having a dump ... it eases the pressure and did we say relax and lube. ??? Can’t have toooo much. Go slow and enjoy it. .... Shaun Connery style. ( Here Endeth the lesson. ).

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some good tips. I'd add that it gets easier not to start from cold - when you have been physically engaged, your body is warmer, blood and hormones are engaged and flowing etc. Being turned on also changes how we perceive things to be feeling. It's definitely better to start your trip when you are turned on as much as possible.

It's not a race, so you can progress in stages, in the same session or pn other days. You may find it incredibly easy, just explore and see how it goes.

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By *ampag69Man
over a year ago

manchester

Be relaxed and gentle

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Assuming they're clean: (all puns intended)

Tongue: stimulates the mood

Finger outside: generates trust

Lube and finger: generates pathfinder status

Cock: slowwwwwwer than asked for, as teasing works wonders

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