FabSwingers.com forum: Playing in orgy rooms

By *ansue35 OP Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

How many times do you go into a couples room/ orgy room.

Start playing with someone and at the end of the night you still do not know there names.!

Happened to us at La Chambre Saturday night.

Plus why is it you to play with other couples.

So go into the couples room. (we where in the room with the little lights on the roof) and a couple come in start playing but you loss the nerve to ask if they want to play and they do not ask us either yet give that knowing look!

Ian

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

That's quite ordinary for us in clubs, couples/orgy rooms are where we always do quite a few casual swaps, particularly late on in the night. Who needs to know names, anyway?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We usually do the same thing in either room... one of us just reaches over while we are all playing and subtley touches the others, body language etc will tell you if they are up for it or not, then just gradually start playing more and more...

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By *ansue35 OP Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I know what you mean, a light touch and know but the main thing was that we told by the club owner that had to ask. Really nice guy and good advice but still next.

am sure we said that before

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

Its been ages since we last got to a club... damn it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were in a playroom last night!

Was sure that we recognised a couple, from talking to them on here...I went over to speak to them...and had to ahem interrupt and was very glad that it was them Lol

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By *ansue35 OP Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Well, Sue shyish so i always get the little push.

But am hoping Sue ask one day, maybe before we 65 LOL.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We are quite open to it... so for us its just a question of who is nearest!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We haven't tried random stranger playing in an orgy room it still makes us nervous !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask peoples nakms to be honest

If its someone i see semi regular in a club i may get to learn their name but i never ask someones name that im playing with

Infact ive dont private meets and gone home not knowing their name

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

"We haven't tried random stranger playing in an orgy room it still makes us nervous !"

You shouldnt, its good fun!! Try just starting out playing by yourselves and if you seem someone you fancy.... just start with a gentle touch. You may not have spoken to them before but generally everyone is really nice and respectful!

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

We are always nervous of asking incase get told No!!

Stupid isn't it, but we are a little insecure about how we look and hope by watching we get an invite!!

Sometimes we come away feeling frustrated in ourselves!

God feels like we are at a school disco…any help appreciated lol

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

Thats why I spend ages in the gym, to make sure im confident in my body!

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By *orthwalianMan
over a year ago

Bangor

Been in an orgy room in a couple of clubs just go with the flow, and if it's a no then respect their wishes

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

"Thats why I spend ages in the gym, to make sure im confident in my body!

Big help that

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"We are always nervous of asking incase get told No!!

Stupid isn't it, but we are a little insecure about how we look and hope by watching we get an invite!!

Sometimes we come away feeling frustrated in ourselves!

God feels like we are at a school disco…any help appreciated lol"

Just checked your public pictures, don't hold back next time as the bits i have seen of you look lovely

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

It's quite amusing in some ways reading this thread of how couples don't know when to join in, in an orgy room.

The same is true of many of the single guys whom go to clubs, where couples do want a guy to join in.

The guys hang off not knowing when to make a move, some go too early and spoil the occasion, others hang off and the couple leave because noone is joining in.

Mind you part of the fun is finding out who likes what, and subtle brushes on a bare arm or leg does seem to enable everyone to indicate what they want

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Just checked your public pictures, don't hold back next time as the bits i have seen of you look lovely

Thank you, that's nice to hear

I guess it's just a braver state of mind we have to develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite common to nit know names - and often it really doesn't matter lol

If chatting later in the evening it's a conversation starter when you ask after playing earlier !

As for feeling uncomfortable in an orgy / couples room - most clubs have lockable rooms for privacy and open rooms such as these for the braver . This doesn't automatically mean you just jump on folk already playing , but usually a look is enough to know it's ok - that's why we play in these rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say not really at ease with it. Sometimes watch and fancy a play but prefer home group fun where ground rules are clear and folks are hand-picked.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I'm not very good with names anyway, I was at tease on sat night for the social and I can't remember any of the people that I spoke to. X

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

We've done it a few times mrs f is a master at tha sly touch thing lol . Had some good times and not even found out names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great way to finish a club night. Always makes my heart beat that little bit quicker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask peoples names if I'm in a big room and there's lots of play taking place. Its not really the place to start conversations.

Yes of course asking is polite but in certain scenarios instinct and body language are more powerful than conversation.

We tend to play with each other in a big room and sometimes the person near us will stroke my arm. If I don't like them I'd slightly shift out of their grasp, if not then ill stroke their arm too, its a code for 'all is ok please continue'.

I've grabbed hold of guys hands if I'm having a good time and on the point of orgasm. Its nice to just hold hands with someone, people generally don't mind. A touch doesn't always mean a sexual encounter, its a feeling of comradship with other swingers.

Generally in swinging you have to learn to read and react to body language in certain situations.

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