FabSwingers.com forum: Respect - old fashioned notion ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just because we are on a SEX DATING site is having respect for someone on here to old fashioned a notion ?

Females/Couples

Are you getting fed up of people still messaging you after they read your profile and clearly show that they/him/her are NOT your type

Guys

Same question really but also are you getting stupid requests from people well outside of your area but expecting you to travel to them ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not on a sex dating site

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Totally agree with what's been said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nor me im happily married dont need to date anyone

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Sex dating site" oops that's the one bit I didn't agree with but forgot to say! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me its; the fact that some peole will look at me more than once; so i sort of take that has an indication that they might like what they read; so if i am in thier age range etc - i will message them; then odd occasions get a snooty reply back grrrrrrr

Or worse still having a really nice single fem look at you a few times who clealry says she not looking for men - that puzzles me lol

Or am i just odd one out here ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I stand corrected

SEX SWINGERS SITE - which might turn into a sex date if your luck

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I ignore those that are disrespectful,they don't even register with me

They are few and far between though

The respect I get from people on here,whatever you want to call the site by far outweighs any disrespect from people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore those that are disrespectful,they don't even register with me

They are few and far between though

The respect I get from people on here,whatever you want to call the site by far outweighs any disrespect from people "

nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was only last night in a chatroom a guy was saying its a sex site why cant we all just have sex???

Its that simple?

We need to realise we are all different and are here for different things, single women have the right to choose and want to be attracted to someone before they open their legs. Some men (and its stated on some profiles before i get my ear chewed off) they will have sex with anyone and do anything!

We all need to respect each others likes and dislikes there is no need for nasty comments and sly digs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"was only last night in a chatroom a guy was saying its a sex site why cant we all just have sex???

Its that simple?

We all need to respect each others likes and dislikes there is no need for nasty comments and sly digs

again another response nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how being a gobshite on here will get you anywhere. Same goes for when you are out and about during the day.

If its a night out and you gob off to someone then be prepared to get a swift reply back.

The anonymity of the internet does not have this check on people so its usually a free for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It still makes me laugh how many messages we still get even though it's clear that we are NOT meeting ATM and even when we do start meeting again we are NOT looking for any new playmates.

I don't mind the friendly messages saying i know your not playing or looking but I love your pics. It shows they have read profile and Re just being friendly so I always respond.

When the message is " fancy a shag sometime" I just block and delete message. I can't waste time being polite of the other person can't be bothered to read profile.

I still occassionally have a look at other profiles even if I'm not looking for playmates. Someone just cause I have a look doesn't mean I'm interested it just means I'm nosy

This is Mercedes btw Benz rarely on site lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you have plenty of stock in the car showroom then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you have plenty of stock in the car showroom then?

Well I have enough stock to keep me plenty happy. I prefer quality to quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you have plenty of stock in the car showroom then?

Well I have enough stock to keep me plenty happy. I prefer quality to quantity

Thats ok, I prefer Audi's

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

"For me its; the fact that some peole will look at me more than once; so i sort of take that has an indication that they might like what they read; so if i am in thier age range etc - i will message them; then odd occasions get a snooty reply back grrrrrrr

Or worse still having a really nice single fem look at you a few times who clealry says she not looking for men - that puzzles me lol

Or am i just odd one out here ???

This is why I now perv and stalk in stealth mode!! Privacy settings are a blessing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We treat people the way we like to be treated. And too be honest not had many rude or ignorant people, and the ones we have had, well there's a block for that.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

respect is such an individual thing, though.

one persons respect is anothers backwards.

some people think that being forward is the way, others like to chat and take time, but for some the latter is a waste of time.

you have to properly read a profile to figure out which level of contact is applicable to each 'target', and then you will keep everyone happy and stop getting blocked or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not on a sex dating site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the other question we have had mainly positive results on this SWINGING site. We blocked single males and newbies after a few let downs and have rarely experienced insistent couples.

We love it on here and think it is generally better than other swinging sites we have looked at or tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because we are on a SEX DATING site is having respect for someone on here to old fashioned a notion ?

Females/Couples

Are you getting fed up of people still messaging you after they read your profile and clearly show that they/him/her are NOT your type

Guys

Same question really but also are you getting stupid requests from people well outside of your area but expecting you to travel to them ?

Some people don't bother reading profiles and just message anyone online.

Some people at the opposite end of the country think it's ok to ask someone to travel to meet them.

I think respect is a dying breed in all walks of life, not just on here.

It does get a bit tedious sometimes (as per your comments) and when I'm in a bad mood it pisses me off no end.

But when I'm in a good mood I just think ohhhh well.

Today I'm in a good mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand corrected

SEX SWINGERS SITE - which might turn into a sex date if your luck

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as opposed to a Children's Park swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stand corrected

SEX SWINGERS SITE - which might turn into a sex date if your luck

as opposed to a Children's Park swingers site?"

lost me on that one fella ??

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