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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unpopular opinion: as a guy, fucking pussy feels better. Anal, for the giver, is no more enjoyable.

I understand why it gets the reciever off, but why do so many guys seem to pester the partner for it?

(Disclaimer: I wrote this as an outwardly straight bloke but tried to keep the pronouns neutral - this is 2020, stay woke people )

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Unpopular opinion: as a guy, fucking pussy feels better. Anal, for the giver, is no more enjoyable.

I understand why it gets the reciever off, but why do so many guys seem to pester the partner for it?

(Disclaimer: I wrote this as an outwardly straight bloke but tried to keep the pronouns neutral - this is 2020, stay woke people ) "

I like the idea, however in reality we've never had much success with it. A vibrating butt plug for Ruby is about as fun as it gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as a man, one extra hole which doesn't have any natural lubricant intrigues him to explore ,so it's a territory which normally used for one way activity only and they want to see what it feels inside .

On personal level ,I am not that keen on it although love rimming a fine bum hole if it pleasures the woman.

Sanj x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont pester jenny for it. We enjoy all aspects of sex that pleasure her. If it did not give her pleasure we would not do it. I have never pestered a woman for anal ever. But the ones i had anal with all enjoyed the experience. John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I am happy to do it, as I know anal can give certain women incredible orgasms.

I was just wondering why lots of women I have met outside of fab seem to think men are always trying to slip it in lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2nded - rimming is a huge love of mine too! Your wife looks delicious

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

It's not something I would ask for as I know many aren't into it, talking as a straight man and sex with a female, but if it's offered then I would accept.

When I first tried it, I did wonder what all the fuss was about, other than the fact it can be classed as 'naughty and dirty' to many.

The first time I gave anal to a woman was in front of her husband, after a couple of years playing with them. It was always her husband's privilege, but turned him on highly when she said she wanted to try it with me.

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Think it’s to do with the fact it’s very much a taboo thing, dirty and naughty. Men get off on that and want it.

We have dabbled in many things but sometimes sit and discuss it yes we do certain things for pleasure but as porn glorifies anal, cum over face, etc etc it’s all designed for men to dominate women and aimed to please men.

We have tried anal and it doesn’t appeal to us anymore because to gain pleasure at the expense of causing discomfort to the wife isn’t worth it.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It is your opinion, there are plenty of people out there who enjoy giving or receiving anal or both.

The same applies as for any sex act- if the partner is not into it, don't pester them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion: as a guy, fucking pussy feels better. Anal, for the giver, is no more enjoyable.

I understand why it gets the reciever off, but why do so many guys seem to pester the partner for it?

(Disclaimer: I wrote this as an outwardly straight bloke but tried to keep the pronouns neutral - this is 2020, stay woke people ) "

I guess it is taboo but also it is tighter. Some prefer it some don’t

As for the receiver I think the popular opinion is that it hurts .. especially if one isn’t used to it

(Also to whoever said about that it doesn’t lubricate, that’s what lubes are made for!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like it, and I guess partners I've been with can see how much I'm enjoying it so they get enjoyment from that. Plus I guess it's tighter? And it's not something I offer everyone every time, so I guess some men view it as a naughty treat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not overrated but I think it is over hyped if that makes sense

Not everyone is going to enjoy it and I think it become a thing that people want to try or feel pressured to when in fact if you’re not both getting enjoyment from it then what’s the point?

Anal just feels different for me and I enjoy both but it’s not the be all and end all

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

Maybe because I was introduced very early to Anal, receiving, I find it as enjoyable, both ways,as any other form of sex. Having been bisexual all my sexual life, Anal has always been something that I have participated in. I would not do it with someone who didn't want to or found it uncomfortable.

Each to their own, I don't particularly enjoy being sucked. I have hardly ever cum from receiving oral. But I love sucking others.

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By *aughty sex50Couple
over a year ago

Berks

We have sex sessions where H craves anal sex

Depends how into the sex zone we are

After being licked out and vibing being fingered and fucked in the arse gives her a huge orgasm

And yes the fact it’s considered dirty porno sex makes it even more erotic for us both

She wants a cock to suck same time to give her even more of a turn on

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


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I was just wondering why lots of women I have met outside of fab seem to think men are always trying to slip it in lol"

Sadly, it’s because most men *are* always trying. A man who doesn’t is a rare and pretty special thing in my experience.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Unpopular opinion: as a guy, fucking pussy feels better. Anal, for the giver, is no more enjoyable.

I understand why it gets the reciever off, but why do so many guys seem to pester the partner for it?

(Disclaimer: I wrote this as an outwardly straight bloke but tried to keep the pronouns neutral - this is 2020, stay woke people ) "

Good point. Ive always wondered this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, I get a different kind of orgasam, and DP is defintly on my bucket list. P X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill happily give if she wants it but if she didnt ask i wouldnt try to be honest.

I prefer the feeling of a vagina.

After popping through into the ass itself i dont really feel great once inside it lacks the ribs and contrasted bumps etc of the vagina.

It just feels like 2 finger widths of tightness followed by not alot.

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