FabSwingers.com forum: Discrete

By *ntcov OP Man
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

I think we all like discretion when meeting and if we bump into people in the outside world (when outside world was a thing) but has anyone ever had discretion problems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really to be honest.

Except a friend of mine had a habit of turning up dressed to pick me up which used to put me on edge quite a bit.

But dont really care now

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Its never been an issue

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

No not yet but have heard some others have had horror stories with people who lack it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

One of the first guys I chatted to on her I was gullible and gave out a little bit too much info he came back with a few numbers one of which was my boss and told me if I didn't meet him for sex then he'd ring all these numbers as he thought one at least was where I worked. Obviously refused and pointed out that maybe trying to force a woman to meet when she'd end up in close contact with your cock may not be the most intelligent idea he had he backed off rapidly and left the site almost immediately he is probably back on tho but he never rang them and I moved jobs shortly after anyhow. But it taught me a valuable lesson don't give out info unless you know someone really well and have met them.

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

No, bit we do tend to be exceptionally careful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a couple id met in a local shopping centre , we both looked the other way ..always been discreet its just common sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw a couple id met in a local shopping centre , we both looked the other way ..always been discreet its just common sense "

See I'd find that weird

Acknowledging each other isn't indiscreet

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We have bumped into people we have met always just been a polite hello never an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than someone threatening me on Kik, no, never any problems with discretion.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We consider ourselves discreet and value our privacy but failed miserably when we arranged our first meet. We hadn’t given our full names or real location but I forgot one of the bags I had brought had our hometown printed on it and when we switched the TV on to play some music it welcomed us with with my full name on the screen

. Thankfully we didn’t meet a lunatic.

Lou x

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I consider myself discrete and trust the majority of those that actually meet are too.

I've met people in the street that I have had liaisons with and if they are with someone I wouldn't speak to them, maybe just smile. If they are on their own I may say hello the same as anyone else would.

I've also met children of people I have played with or their friends. Just been introduced as a friend, which I guess I am. They have trusted me enough to be introduced, so the last thing I would do is be indiscrete.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"We consider ourselves discreet and value our privacy but failed miserably when we arranged our first meet. We hadn’t given our full names or real location but I forgot one of the bags I had brought had our hometown printed on it and when we switched the TV on to play some music it welcomed us with with my full name on the screen

. Thankfully we didn’t meet a lunatic.

Lou x "

I should have said we were meeting in a hotel .. I don’t have my name on my own TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet a guy one Monday went shopping on the Wednesday and bump in to him and his wife

Stopped to talk to me didn’t know he was married felt so sorry for the wife

Wife asked how you new me and he sed ooo we work to gether sometimes

And was going on about how grate it was working with me Monday I played along for his wife’s sake and as soon as I got home I blocked him and never meet him ever again

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I've had a few guys on another platform threaten me when I refused their advances and claimed they would hunt me down along with a load of other crap as well but they soon start to worry when you remind them that I have seen their face and they would have no idea what I looked like until I was stood in front of them and that there are ways they can be found so their wives might end up finding out too.

It does pay to be a little aware of what some people can be like and keep things to yourself until you feel sure of the other person.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Meet a guy one Monday went shopping on the Wednesday and bump in to him and his wife

Stopped to talk to me didn’t know he was married felt so sorry for the wife

Wife asked how you new me and he sed ooo we work to gether sometimes

And was going on about how grate it was working with me Monday I played along for his wife’s sake and as soon as I got home I blocked him and never meet him ever again "

He sounds like a proper dick. As you say, you’ve got to feel for his wife.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O yes nearly lost a lot few yrs ago had to get the police involved before I went to far I moved not long after still people asked why I moved not a nice feeling

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The only problem I have is people using the word discrete when they actually mean discreet...

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