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"Well thanks op I take that as a complement lol x" That’s exactly how it was meant | |||
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"If you can form an orderly queue, we'll be available to sign autographs presently " Where do I bring a pen abs is there anything you wouldn’t mind singing ? Lol | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been pondering whether or not to post this as I don’t want to risk alienating anyone who has taken the time to say nice things here. There are so many definitions out there these days that it easy to get confused and I know it’s a struggle to keep up with them all so well done for even trying, it a great step. This is more of an FYI thing for you in case you want to learn more and help your chances of appealing to the transwomen you may be looking to connect with. Whereas terms such as cross dresser, transvestite, Tgirls and transgender may refer to those who identify mainly as male or even gender fluid but to some degree present as female, the term “transwomen” is generally reserved for those that fully identify as female and have chosen to live their lives this way (either with or without medical intervention) As such they will probably see themselves as nothing other female and if you are male and are interested in transwomen you will do well to treat them as you would any other women I.e. without any references to yourself being homo or bi sexual. I hope this doesn’t come across as a “dig”, it’s honestly not meant to at all and like I say I know it’s a complete minefield of terms, just hoping to help those on the lookout. " I think you have explained it very well. X | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been pondering whether or not to post this as I don’t want to risk alienating anyone who has taken the time to say nice things here. There are so many definitions out there these days that it easy to get confused and I know it’s a struggle to keep up with them all so well done for even trying, it a great step. This is more of an FYI thing for you in case you want to learn more and help your chances of appealing to the transwomen you may be looking to connect with. Whereas terms such as cross dresser, transvestite, Tgirls and transgender may refer to those who identify mainly as male or even gender fluid but to some degree present as female, the term “transwomen” is generally reserved for those that fully identify as female and have chosen to live their lives this way (either with or without medical intervention) As such they will probably see themselves as nothing other female and if you are male and are interested in transwomen you will do well to treat them as you would any other women I.e. without any references to yourself being homo or bi sexual. I hope this doesn’t come across as a “dig”, it’s honestly not meant to at all and like I say I know it’s a complete minefield of terms, just hoping to help those on the lookout. " What she said | |||
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"'Convincing' " I get the objection/dislike for the word but in the world of cross dressers, many are pleased to be considered convincing. Many have a girl mode and guy mode. This shouldn’t be confused with trans women who aren’t trying to convince anyone. They simply are women who’ve been through a lot. | |||
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"I'm a woman was always a woman " You sure were and sure am xx | |||
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"I'm a woman was always a woman You sure were and sure am xx" | |||
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"I can’t help but notice some of the trans women and very convincing dressers on here looking amazing. Like incredibly beautiful and sexy! Just an observation wondered who if anyone else had noticed... " Oh yes | |||
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"As a (hopefully convincing) dresser, I fully support trans women and their allies " And as a trans woman, I fully support you too | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been pondering whether or not to post this as I don’t want to risk alienating anyone who has taken the time to say nice things here. There are so many definitions out there these days that it easy to get confused and I know it’s a struggle to keep up with them all so well done for even trying, it a great step. This is more of an FYI thing for you in case you want to learn more and help your chances of appealing to the transwomen you may be looking to connect with. Whereas terms such as cross dresser, transvestite, Tgirls and transgender may refer to those who identify mainly as male or even gender fluid but to some degree present as female, the term “transwomen” is generally reserved for those that fully identify as female and have chosen to live their lives this way (either with or without medical intervention) As such they will probably see themselves as nothing other female and if you are male and are interested in transwomen you will do well to treat them as you would any other women I.e. without any references to yourself being homo or bi sexual. I hope this doesn’t come across as a “dig”, it’s honestly not meant to at all and like I say I know it’s a complete minefield of terms, just hoping to help those on the lookout. " Not at all I’m open to be educated. I didn’t intend to cause anyone any discomfort or negativity with my post it was purely a post of appreciation. Noting and commenting on how beautiful and gorgeous people are looking. I’m fairly new to all this so not well versed. I’m finding attraction in nee places and old. Someone’s genitals suddenly seem unimportant to me and that’s the point i was hoping to make. Unsure if that means I have a label or not myself. Apologies to anyone if I got this wrong in anyway. | |||
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"I can’t help but notice some of the trans women and very convincing dressers on here looking amazing. Like incredibly beautiful and sexy! Just an observation wondered who if anyone else had noticed... " Yes and I'm so bloody jealous! | |||
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"'Convincing' " Sorry if this has been misunderstood or more likely miscommunicated by me. I was attempting to say I love the feminine look Of some of the people who I have seen. Bloody minefield this. | |||
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"As a (hopefully convincing) dresser, I fully support trans women and their allies " I’m convinced | |||
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"'Convincing' Sorry if this has been misunderstood or more likely miscommunicated by me. I was attempting to say I love the feminine look Of some of the people who I have seen. Bloody minefield this." It is at that Don’t worry, you’re doing fine. I hate to be seen as “correcting” anyone especially when it’s obvious they mean well and want to try as you clearly do, intentions mean far more than words I just hate to see a well intentioned person striking out and maybe not knowing why, hopefully you’ll have the ammo now to help your chances | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been pondering whether or not to post this as I don’t want to risk alienating anyone who has taken the time to say nice things here. There are so many definitions out there these days that it easy to get confused and I know it’s a struggle to keep up with them all so well done for even trying, it a great step. This is more of an FYI thing for you in case you want to learn more and help your chances of appealing to the transwomen you may be looking to connect with. Whereas terms such as cross dresser, transvestite, Tgirls and transgender may refer to those who identify mainly as male or even gender fluid but to some degree present as female, the term “transwomen” is generally reserved for those that fully identify as female and have chosen to live their lives this way (either with or without medical intervention) As such they will probably see themselves as nothing other female and if you are male and are interested in transwomen you will do well to treat them as you would any other women I.e. without any references to yourself being homo or bi sexual. I hope this doesn’t come across as a “dig”, it’s honestly not meant to at all and like I say I know it’s a complete minefield of terms, just hoping to help those on the lookout. " Nicely put glad you posted. | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been pondering whether or not to post this as I don’t want to risk alienating anyone who has taken the time to say nice things here. There are so many definitions out there these days that it easy to get confused and I know it’s a struggle to keep up with them all so well done for even trying, it a great step. This is more of an FYI thing for you in case you want to learn more and help your chances of appealing to the transwomen you may be looking to connect with. Whereas terms such as cross dresser, transvestite, Tgirls and transgender may refer to those who identify mainly as male or even gender fluid but to some degree present as female, the term “transwomen” is generally reserved for those that fully identify as female and have chosen to live their lives this way (either with or without medical intervention) As such they will probably see themselves as nothing other female and if you are male and are interested in transwomen you will do well to treat them as you would any other women I.e. without any references to yourself being homo or bi sexual. I hope this doesn’t come across as a “dig”, it’s honestly not meant to at all and like I say I know it’s a complete minefield of terms, just hoping to help those on the lookout. " Absolutely agree | |||
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"'Convincing' I get the objection/dislike for the word but in the world of cross dressers, many are pleased to be considered convincing. Many have a girl mode and guy mode. This shouldn’t be confused with trans women who aren’t trying to convince anyone. They simply are women who’ve been through a lot. " I hate the use of the word but you've given a different and positive slant on it, thank you. I mean that. | |||
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"'Convincing' Sorry if this has been misunderstood or more likely miscommunicated by me. I was attempting to say I love the feminine look Of some of the people who I have seen. Bloody minefield this." No it's the word I don't like, not your use of it. Didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable, sorry. You didn't come across in a bad way. | |||
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"'Convincing' I get the objection/dislike for the word but in the world of cross dressers, many are pleased to be considered convincing. Many have a girl mode and guy mode. This shouldn’t be confused with trans women who aren’t trying to convince anyone. They simply are women who’ve been through a lot. I hate the use of the word but you've given a different and positive slant on it, thank you. I mean that." You’re welcome. Glad to have been off some help xx | |||
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"'Convincing' Sorry if this has been misunderstood or more likely miscommunicated by me. I was attempting to say I love the feminine look Of some of the people who I have seen. Bloody minefield this. No it's the word I don't like, not your use of it. Didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable, sorry. You didn't come across in a bad way." Phewwww ! Thanks but to be fair. After re reading it doesn’t sound quite correct | |||
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"'Convincing' Sorry if this has been misunderstood or more likely miscommunicated by me. I was attempting to say I love the feminine look Of some of the people who I have seen. Bloody minefield this. It is at that Don’t worry, you’re doing fine. I hate to be seen as “correcting” anyone especially when it’s obvious they mean well and want to try as you clearly do, intentions mean far more than words I just hate to see a well intentioned person striking out and maybe not knowing why, hopefully you’ll have the ammo now to help your chances " I’ve not even ventured into messaging anyone as yet. But thank you. I am however accepting messages with no problem! May be easier to be the recipient until I get comfortable with the lingo. Perhaps my inbox will soon be flooded eh! All jokes aside thank you. | |||
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"I can’t help but notice some of the trans women and very convincing dressers on here looking amazing. Like incredibly beautiful and sexy! Just an observation wondered who if anyone else had noticed... " The only person I have thought this about is Miss Y Exotica, but I know what you mean. Luke | |||
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"I’m not bi and have ever only been with a woman. Though looking through the hot pics today there was a hot looking lady with great tits. I couldn’t believe when I looked down and saw the cock. Did make me question as to what I’d let happen. " Most guys do wonder, but won't admit it. Doesn't mean you're bi, but just a bit worried you might be losing out on something. Even if it happens once is an experience. If you keep going back for more that's bi. | |||
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"I can’t help but notice some of the trans women and very convincing dressers on here looking amazing. Like incredibly beautiful and sexy! Just an observation wondered who if anyone else had noticed... The only person I have thought this about is Miss Y Exotica, but I know what you mean. Luke " Xxxxxx | |||
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