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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Not us for sure way more important things we look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

This lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few have the bottle.to turn up.but there are some good ones out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profiles, some say it's because husband takes pleasure from that, some say the lady enjoys it, and sometimes both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think a lot of people want brad Pitt to be on fab and want to fuck their Mrs

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

I bloody well hope not, otherwise I may as well get my coat!

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

Ditto

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Not us. Well, girth yes but length no, 6 to 7 inches tops is just right, any longer and Babygirl girl just finds it hammers her cervix and is more pain than pleasure.

She can take 8inches anally but we are not looking for anal only meets.

Guys who send us pics of their 9inch dongs tend to just get deleted.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Not necessarily for us

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking.

Ditto"

Ditto again. Clean and friendly

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Not an issue as softswing only, but she likes girth and heavy cummers. They understand we are not into cuckolding! Far more important they are fun not posers and like to play not bi or weird and show up!

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Some say vwe, some don't say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think single women and couples are frankly spoilt for choice when it comes to getting single men as supply is greater than demand. So might as well go for vwe if it's purely a choice based on physique Xx

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Ruby been running wild on here recently but honestly she's looking at thighs rather than cock size. As long as it's average she's happy.

Saying that though, she did say the other day "if you're offered a slice of a pizza or the whole pizza, you'd take the whole thing wouldn't you?"

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Ruby been running wild on here recently but honestly she's looking at thighs rather than cock size. As long as it's average she's happy.

Saying that though, she did say the other day "if you're offered a slice of a pizza or the whole pizza, you'd take the whole thing wouldn't you?""

However average fab Vs average real life are two very different things I've noticed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of good genuine guys on fabs rarely had any problems with them! Always after a hot ones!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

Probably because the husband isn’t vwe and the wife wants it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During the good ole times of swinging, when one was feeling greedy I would borrow someone’s husband ( with permission)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During the good ole times of swinging, when one was feeling greedy I would borrow someone’s husband ( with permission) "

Good idea we must borrow some hot guys for Xmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

Not us male doesn't mind but female not interested in vwe guys...

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Good thread, I’ve noticed that quite a few say 8 inch plus or we vwe etc.

Saying that if he had a wife to share on here I’d want a massive cock for her lol, be a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During the good ole times of swinging, when one was feeling greedy I would borrow someone’s husband ( with permission)

Good idea we must borrow some hot guys for Xmas!"

A hot guy is not just for Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message from a couple saying "hi, we've selected you to meet us, send us a photo of your dick with tape measure beside before we continue". It's an important issue apparently

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"I received a message from a couple saying "hi, we've selected you to meet us, send us a photo of your dick with tape measure beside before we continue". It's an important issue apparently "

Haha that's pretty self confident of them, how did they know you were even interested in them?

Sounds like a single male dick pic collected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a message from a couple saying "hi, we've selected you to meet us, send us a photo of your dick with tape measure beside before we continue". It's an important issue apparently

Haha that's pretty self confident of them, how did they know you were even interested in them?

Sounds like a single male dick pic collected?

"

I got the impression it was the bloke messaging but who knows, it was deleted with no reply

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

I (mrs) run, post and message on our profile.

Nothing to do with my husband, he just makes sure I'm safe.

I will only meet men, that are nice, clean and polite, being VWE has some benefits however most men I've know are smaller but know how to use it.

Love to you all and stay safe

Xxxx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A personality and good character is way more important than cock size - says us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hoping that in 2021 there are couples out there who just like an average, pretty normal and getting on a bit chap?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Mrs is only interested in meeting well endowed guys, with the emphasis been on girth over length

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Pretty sure saying I'm married on the profile does not do any favours. Couples seem to immediately focus on you as a couple and we don't always want to mingle together

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Manners, etiquette, personality, sense of humour, style and ability all come before size for us.

There’s a tendency for some vwe guys to just be reliant on their cock and have none of the above, normally evident with the first message...

Relentless pounding does nothing except bruise.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"Not us. Well, girth yes but length no, 6 to 7 inches tops is just right, any longer and Babygirl girl just finds it hammers her cervix and is more pain than pleasure.

She can take 8inches anally but we are not looking for anal only meets.

Guys who send us pics of their 9inch dongs tend to just get deleted.

"

I’m with Babygirl on this, 6 or 7 with nice girth. Anything bigger and it starts to feel uncomfortable. That said it also depends on the guy, we met a guy who was bigger but would pay attention to how I reacted thus not hurting me. Those who have minster cocks we also tend to pass on by.

Lily

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am hoping that in 2021 there are couples out there who just like an average, pretty normal and getting on a bit chap? "

Good luck with that......

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Not us. Well, girth yes but length no, 6 to 7 inches tops is just right, any longer and Babygirl girl just finds it hammers her cervix and is more pain than pleasure.

She can take 8inches anally but we are not looking for anal only meets.

Guys who send us pics of their 9inch dongs tend to just get deleted.

I’m with Babygirl on this, 6 or 7 with nice girth. Anything bigger and it starts to feel uncomfortable. That said it also depends on the guy, we met a guy who was bigger but would pay attention to how I reacted thus not hurting me. Those who have minster cocks we also tend to pass on by.

Lily "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough couples want btm or more submissive guys

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"A personality and good character is way more important than cock size - says us both. "

I bloodly hope so.

As for well endowed are we talking sky remote or link spray can?.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'll get me coat

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Regular reminder that the vast, overwhelming majority of guys on here tell hilariously transparent lies about the size of their dicks, and then people who are rubbish at eye-measuring stuff just parrot them as if they're gospel.

If they're not measuring properly in the photo or in front of you, take two to four inches off whatever figure they quote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular reminder that the vast, overwhelming majority of guys on here tell hilariously transparent lies about the size of their dicks, and then people who are rubbish at eye-measuring stuff just parrot them as if they're gospel.

If they're not measuring properly in the photo or in front of you, take two to four inches off whatever figure they quote. "

2 to 4 inches, some guys might be in negative numbers by your calculations

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Regular reminder that the vast, overwhelming majority of guys on here tell hilariously transparent lies about the size of their dicks, and then people who are rubbish at eye-measuring stuff just parrot them as if they're gospel.

If they're not measuring properly in the photo or in front of you, take two to four inches off whatever figure they quote.

2 to 4 inches, some guys might be in negative numbers by your calculations "

Yeah me.

Is that really a thing where you'd have some bloke measure his cock to verify before any sort of fun? Strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular reminder that the vast, overwhelming majority of guys on here tell hilariously transparent lies about the size of their dicks, and then people who are rubbish at eye-measuring stuff just parrot them as if they're gospel.

If they're not measuring properly in the photo or in front of you, take two to four inches off whatever figure they quote.

2 to 4 inches, some guys might be in negative numbers by your calculations

Yeah me.

Is that really a thing where you'd have some bloke measure his cock to verify before any sort of fun? Strange"

Vast majority, ironically that’s an exaggeration I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size is unimportant. Attraction and connection are far more important to us.

J

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"I received a message from a couple saying "hi, we've selected you to meet us, send us a photo of your dick with tape measure beside before we continue". It's an important issue apparently "

I would have sent them a photo of my fist instead. I've got large hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I under measure because I find it's better to see a woman pleased than disappointed, start on a positive and hope it gets better

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Very few have the bottle.to turn up.but there are some good ones out there. "

Not sure why anyone wouldn't turn up. I don't meet often but I turn up when I say that I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular reminder that the vast, overwhelming majority of guys on here tell hilariously transparent lies about the size of their dicks, and then people who are rubbish at eye-measuring stuff just parrot them as if they're gospel.

If they're not measuring properly in the photo or in front of you, take two to four inches off whatever figure they quote. "

just ask to pose with a tape measurer, simple...if size really matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A personality and good character is way more important than cock size - says us both. "

how come I don't get any messages then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure many will say that or mention it, but chemistry and normality would be at least as, if not more, important, surely?

And I’m sure the skewered gender mix, for example a lot more single men, creates the feeling for some couples that they might as well ask for what they feel they want, alongside the fact that there are so many men that they feel they can. Though it does create a strange situation as in some ways there’s less value in interaction due to the complications of it all.

I’ve mainly experienced requests for face pics rather than pictures of anything else, but some couples / women clearly just copy and paste, or have one word messages.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I’m sure many will say that or mention it, but chemistry and normality would be at least as, if not more, important, surely?

And I’m sure the skewered gender mix, for example a lot more single men, creates the feeling for some couples that they might as well ask for what they feel they want, alongside the fact that there are so many men that they feel they can. Though it does create a strange situation as in some ways there’s less value in interaction due to the complications of it all.

I’ve mainly experienced requests for face pics rather than pictures of anything else, but some couples / women clearly just copy and paste, or have one word messages. "

And don't they just spoil it for the good ones.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are not looking to meet single guys on your profile?

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I've been asked my cock size and I've never known how to measure. Side, top, bottom, all would give different measurements.

From the couples I have met, with the odd exception, I have been told it's large. I think girth rather than length. I've seen larger and I've seen smaller.

I always imagine those looking for 8", 9" and especially those looking for 10" are actually looking in quite a small pond. I've often wondered how serious they are in actually meeting. Very few with 10" I imagine. Not that I browse men's profiles.

I do also think in a heightened state of arousal, for the couple, a cock may sometimes look larger than it actually is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lola would much prefer average size on someone with good craic than a big dick attached to a bigger dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a couple have to gel with the single guy on a mental aspect.

If there laughs and banter after the first few ice breaker messages then I think the situation works.

I have seen it a few times when a shy or none active vwe guy comes along to a multiple meet and it is the most arkward meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 8, 6 round

But it means sod all if you have the personality of a fridge door

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Nope, everyday average.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I would prefer someone with a smaller cock to husband .We are not into the whole measuring dicks or anything just looking for someone who has a nice looking average size and gets on with both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with couples and putting my cock on offer for it

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here

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By *en ukMan
over a year ago

harrow London

Yes couple wanting single guy, I love MMF

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

For a couple looking for single guys Fabs is good because there are so many too choose from.However that can cause problems if the guy doesn’t turn up or just doesn’t gel with the couple. I generally have met couples at a club or spa and if we all get on we either take it further or arrange something for a future date.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Our last few meets were single guys & not once did size come into it, she picks on overall attraction. I have zero say in who she meets

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I like to play with couples.

Never had any problems.

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Size is unimportant. Attraction and connection are far more important to us.

J "

This xx face more important to me xx J

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here"

Nice to hear someone that actually gets it.

Even the strongest couple is placing a huge amount of trust in the single guy joining them.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Size is unimportant. Attraction and connection are far more important to us.

J "

Same here. It's not something I ask about and we've met men before where I haven't even seen a pic of their cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love joining couples and have had various results, very good to not so good but I go in with an open mind, however much we chat before hand if they change their mind then it's fine i walk away no problem whatsoever because I'm not there to ruin a relationship I'm there to enhance, we are all in it together and me as a 3rd party has to fit in

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Not always wife does like a well endowed guy sometimes but certainly if we both planning on playing with him a bi guy we would not be looking for bigger than average but size is definitely not top of things we look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

This for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

Do they? Oh well ill be alone alot in the new year....just me and my tiddler lol

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

For us the attraction is to the person, not just their cock size.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Personality is massively more important for us as a couple when looking for single guys. There has to be an all round respect for everyone. Be able to be comfortable and friendly, in and out the bedroom. Attraction is obviously needed, but tbh, Mr Racer satisfies me enough penis wise... so size isn't an issue for any extras

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of any couples are looking in my area please inbox me

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By *neamigoMan
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it


"Personality is massively more important for us as a couple when looking for single guys. There has to be an all round respect for everyone. Be able to be comfortable and friendly, in and out the bedroom. Attraction is obviously needed, but tbh, Mr Racer satisfies me enough penis wise... so size isn't an issue for any extras "

Absolutely agree . For it to be an enjoyable experience for all everyone needs to be at ease ... not the size of your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting myself out there for couples let’s chat till where out of tier 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting myself out there for couples let’s chat till where out of tier 4 "

Or you mean out of tiers altogether ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting myself out there for couples let’s chat till where out of tier 4

Or you mean out of tiers altogether ?"

When it’s all over

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Putting myself out there for couples let’s chat till where out of tier 4 "

This isn’t what the OP asked in the original question. You’re taking over the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very few have the bottle.to turn up.but there are some good ones out there. "
but your profile says your not looking for single guys , maybe that's why the good guys dont get in touch ?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Not us. Well, girth yes but length no, 6 to 7 inches tops is just right, any longer and Babygirl girl just finds it hammers her cervix and is more pain than pleasure.

She can take 8inches anally but we are not looking for anal only meets.

Guys who send us pics of their 9inch dongs tend to just get deleted.

I’m with Babygirl on this, 6 or 7 with nice girth. Anything bigger and it starts to feel uncomfortable. That said it also depends on the guy, we met a guy who was bigger but would pay attention to how I reacted thus not hurting me. Those who have minster cocks we also tend to pass on by.

Lily "

My kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking.

This lol . "

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

Good luck with that on this site

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Used to regularly meet couples, along with a male friend.

Most of the ladies wanted to entertain two or three men simultaneously, so being well endowed would not be an advantage.

But if it is a 1-2-1, with the husband watching, I see that it might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find chemistry more important when meeting cpls

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


" but your profile says your not looking for single guys , maybe that's why the good guys dont get in touch ?"

This is probably because if you tick the box that you are looking for single guys, you will get flooded.

We sometimes only look for the men.

But our preference typically are the guys around our age or a few years older. We are not after ample or gym heroes.

And we are a couple who does not want VWE guys.

I hope that it breaks OP concerns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size isn't overly important.

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

Yes, fair enough. Shame the weirdos give us a bad name.

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there

Probably because the husband isn’t vwe and the wife wants it......"
at last an honest answer

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here"
this is

Refreshing, as the first single guy to understand that when a couple invites you to their most intimate moments that it's a privilege and should be respected as such

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I so agree

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

A big willy is always nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not looking for single guys at the moment just cpls and maybe fems. If we do look for a guy in the future for a threesome his dick will not be over 7.5" as mrs cannot handle any longer. Having a big cock is not the main attraction for most cpls. The guy having respect for women is tops along with respecting boundries, not excluding the male half in the play and listening to both halves of the cpl during the meet. John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for larger than average. Simply because hubby is larger than average.

And we can vouch that every one of the WE men we've met also had a nice body and a lovely personality.

So there you go, you can get it all in one package

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A big willy is always nice "

I thought the same, but then Kama told me “there is no pleasure if it is too big”.

And I do not think, mine is small or big. I think it is average.

Would you choose huge and thin or short and thick ? I think this is also personal preference.

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By *enusandmarsCouple
over a year ago

Buryish

As a couple we prefer average but probably the bigger end of average. Im the male half and would prefer her to take bigger than mine (6 1/2), mainly so i can see whats going on though! I like to see it going in, and as a threesome is an occasional treat i want to see her feeling something.

Id quite like to see her take on a huge monster cock but shes not into meeting to just pleasure the guy, and she wouldnt even attempt to sit on a big 'un

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Let's be honest, guys are generally way more worried about cock size than most (not all) ladies. Its hopefully the person and mind behind the penis that fills fantasies?

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here this is

Refreshing, as the first single guy to understand that when a couple invites you to their most intimate moments that it's a privilege and should be respected as such "

I’m glad you think so, it’s easy to understand why blokes get a little giddy at the thought of joining a couple but the realities of it all are often too much for them and that’s why, at least I think, so many bottle it. If you, as a single guy, understand that you’re there FOR them rather than them being for you, you’ll probably fare better.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here

Nice to hear someone that actually gets it.

Even the strongest couple is placing a huge amount of trust in the single guy joining them. "

You’re welcome, most single blokes on here don’t seem to understand this dynamic which is often why they struggle with meets with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to meet a single guy that hits the following buttons.

-stocky build

-relaxed and respectful

-honest

-good hygiene

-not fussed about cock size

-build trust with for regular fun.

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

Couples I have met are more interested in me being a nice respectful guy who dosent mess them around x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed about size. Just want someone who’s not a goddamn weirdo when we do go looking. "

Could you put a value on the weirdo / normal ratio?

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

Liz likes a big cock, mine is average so I love to see her enjoying a big guy, but if he can't last more than a couple of minutes then what's the point? We'd both rather have a guy with an average size join us who can pleasure Liz for a long time...

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here

Nice to hear someone that actually gets it.

Even the strongest couple is placing a huge amount of trust in the single guy joining them.

You’re welcome, most single blokes on here don’t seem to understand this dynamic which is often why they struggle with meets with couples"

I agree... if your bonkers more than likely you will be grand... simple

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Interesting one this, as a single man that’s had the fortune of joining a couple, I think that it’s one of the most complimentary things that a couple can do. In my eyes, they’re taking all the risk and they’re offering you a chance to join them to make their relationship stronger and enhance their sex life. If they want you to have a massive cock, then fair dos. If they’re looking for someone they can be friends with outside the bedroom then fair enough. Loads to f single blokes don’t realise or don’t give a fuck about how much that couples put on the line on here"

We recently opened profile and amazing how the vadt majority can't read or understand and first line confirms this. Then we give up. But to add there are some genuine lovely single guys out there also.

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

I've met lots of couple and never been. Once asked about my size, what I love is the build up, The last couple I met down. In Plymouth had a wonderful house etc so I came in, chatting coffee, she already was dressed and the three of us got on.. Once we started, the Hubby loved to watch it was great, Hotwives are definitely the best, can't wait to, start meeting again it's such a Buzz and some couples are amazing,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with single guys.

Great in a threesome if they know how to please a female well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose some guys want to see their partners eyes go wide and the jaw drop. Maybe they want to see them destroyed. Some girls are greedy but most like seem to like someting they can manage . Work up to it and most people can take a fist so I suppose if you feel up for it ,why not

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

A as single guy it’s so so so hard to meet a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A as single guy it’s so so so hard to meet a couple"

A little tip.

Make your profile more interesting.

Say something about yourself.

Also most couples are bored with looking at cock pictures. Put a set of glasses on it or a bow...

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville


"A as single guy it’s so so so hard to meet a couple

A little tip.

Make your profile more interesting.

Say something about yourself.

Also most couples are bored with looking at cock pictures. Put a set of glasses on it or a bow..."

Now that's constructive advice!

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

single looking to mingle post covid

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Normal average man here who enjoys meeting couples

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

size unimportant to us its the person we have to like get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love meeting single guys!

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Intelligence and wit as well as being attractive on the eye are attributes we look for.

If they happen to be VWE.... Well that is a bonus.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Im waiting

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I suppose it depends on what couples are looking for, porn star action or a trusted friend where size is less important. Good luck if you find both!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

We don't but suspect you're right.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

We arnt fussed on size as long as couple easy going with a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking this post

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By *ronigMan
over a year ago

Holyhead

There's little chance of meeting anyone in Northwest Wales, no matter what they are lol

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By *ronigMan
over a year ago

Holyhead


"There's little chance of meeting anyone in Northwest Wales, no matter what they are lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's little chance of meeting anyone in Northwest Wales, no matter what they are lol"

Why is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same problem. I'm no oil painting and not the biggest in the world but I'm a decent bloke who isn't pushy.... Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not us. Well, girth yes but length no, 6 to 7 inches tops is just right, any longer and Babygirl girl just finds it hammers her cervix and is more pain than pleasure.

She can take 8inches anally but we are not looking for anal only meets.

Guys who send us pics of their 9inch dongs tend to just get deleted.

"

Exactly the same! x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Normal guy here. Girth over length. More on info on request

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

For us it's all about the guy being right for our desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi couples

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it me or do all couples prefer any single guys they meet to be vwe, notice those that do meet single guys all seem to want vwe now 8s this the female asking or the male half asking for it

Just wanted to put it out there "

Most couples are more concerned with whether the guy will actually turn up. Similarly for me; I look for whether a couple is genuine, or just a guy fantasizing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice chilled respectful guy is key, someone we both like

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"Nice chilled respectful guy is key, someone we both like"
we agree ... size and skill can be important but also charm and style

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

As long as the guy can give her an enjoyable fuck, size is unimportant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this is the place to look for what you want, and to be picky about it if you like. If couples want VWE, I'm more than happy to pass them by and find one that's looking for a three inch pencil instead

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s extremely rare that anyone asks about the size of my cock. If they do I have my reply ready if anyone wants to ask. Lol.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"It’s extremely rare that anyone asks about the size of my cock. If they do I have my reply ready if anyone wants to ask. Lol. "
So

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice chilled respectful guy is key, someone we both like we agree ... size and skill can be important but also charm and style"

Totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking about using a Fab ruler or a regular one?

They tend to differ and I can’t recall the ratio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice chilled respectful guy is key, someone we both like we agree ... size and skill can be important but also charm and style"

Size isn't a huge concern. Rather some one we like and that there is a chemistry where we are all relaxed. Leads to a fun time all around... Think it's gonna be a while though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife likes to get what she don’t at home when having a meet. For example big cocks or just a fat one will do m! She loves to be stretched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best I can do form here is a tribute or fun online anything considered. God I hate lockdown. Pm me if interested x happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on the look out for a regular male. Well hung is way down on the list. Personality looks body all come before how hung they are. If there is a connection it’s good.

Unfortunately a decent male on here is hard to find.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"We are on the look out for a regular male. Well hung is way down on the list. Personality looks body all come before how hung they are. If there is a connection it’s good.

Unfortunately a decent male on here is hard to find. "

I dont doubt what you say is true but... Given the numbers.. Ie the huge numbers of guys on here..compared to females or couples.. And given I know I'm a nice, decent guy... And that I know a fair few similar on here.. It always amazes me that one and tuther are not able to find eachother and connect... Presumably the wall of mediocre dross gets in the way...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on the look out for a regular male. Well hung is way down on the list. Personality looks body all come before how hung they are. If there is a connection it’s good.

Unfortunately a decent male on here is hard to find.

I dont doubt what you say is true but... Given the numbers.. Ie the huge numbers of guys on here..compared to females or couples.. And given I know I'm a nice, decent guy... And that I know a fair few similar on here.. It always amazes me that one and tuther are not able to find eachother and connect... Presumably the wall of mediocre dross gets in the way...? "

There are a lot of factors. Distance ,looks,personality,body,age so on and so on. So it’s not as easy as you think.

Especially with all the fake profiles and time wasters. Unfortunately they ruin it for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here! Looking for a proper bull family friend for a long time now! So difficult !

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

I'm just above average but will turn up if invited

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Never been with a couple would love to meet one and try this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us size does matter for sure the wife likes a guy to be biggdr than me.. I kinda like it also her odgasms are definitly more intense with larger guys but thats just her suppose everyone is different

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