FabSwingers.com forum: Conditions before meeting someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This isn't a question to encourage anyone meeting, but I'm curious what some of you look/looked for, especially, before meeting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulse!

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Brain...

Has to be able to hold a conversation otherwise an absolute no no for me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A willingness to meet us

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

There must physical attraction for us if it's for a social that we think may turn into naughtiness

but we have met up with people just for a chat a few drinks knowing there's no attraction on both ends

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"Pulse!

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulse!

lol"

What can I say, my preferences are getting lower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends

If it’s a man then it’s physical attraction as that’s just pure sexual

If it’s a woman more personally I want to get to know them beyond the bed room even if it’s just sex I still want to get to know her for her so more like a date type thing with maybe a little extra at the end

So if it happens it’s a plus if not well so be it heck at least I still had a good night out with someone

For couples if a mix off both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pulse!

lol

What can I say, my preferences are getting lower!

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulse!

lol

What can I say, my preferences are getting lower!

Wow

Fan can do that to a single man!

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Phone call to see they exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic and at least some evidence that everyone is happy with what might happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All depends

If it’s a man then it’s physical attraction as that’s just pure sexual

So if it happens it’s a plus if not well so be it heck at least I still had a good night out with someone

For couples if a mix off both

I like the way you've put this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulse!

Look at you Mr Fussy pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation is a must. Why would you meet someone you weren't sure you clicked with? Easier said than done on here though lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

An engaging conversation that makes me want to spend time with the person and listen to them once they become a withered, husk of who they once were. If they can make me laugh it's extra quim points.

That frisson of excitement whenever I think about potentially kissing them/ receive a message from them aka fanny flutters.

A sign they are as interested in me as I am in them - I like feeling desired and because I'm narcissistic to the nth degree, it makes me desire them more. If I don't feel that, I move on.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not "conditions" as such but with everyone I've met through the site I've just "known" they were someone I'd like to meet through a variety of means - forum interaction, getting to know them via messages, a sense of connection etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very natural if you know what I mean? You take the 1st step and if that works: you take the next step and then the next... You should never fell rushed or obliged. Nor should you judge yourself be yourself and remember as Dr Seuss said: "Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulse!

Look at you Mr Fussy pants

Doctor Fussy Pants, if you don't mind!

I'd go lower but I don't know any clairvoyants!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They have to be interesting, conveniently located, appear sane and have a pulse

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"They have to be interesting, conveniently located, appear sane and have a pulse

Plus low standards on their part

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m not meeting for the foreseeable but if I was here is my list:-

A man with:-

A brain in his head, not in his dick

Own teeth

Own hair

SoH

Good personality

Handsome

Clean

Respectful

Punctual

Non smoker

Polite

Gentlemanly

Good listener

Nice teeth

Smart dresser

I could go on......

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

telephone conversation with the female od the couple or if a single lady obvioulsy her, just to make sure its not guy pretending.

The biggest thng i go by is gut feeling, it will never lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few things I look for -

Face pic

No one pushy

Hold a conversation

Somewhat intelligent

Physical attraction

Common kinks

Live nearby

There's probably far more I've forgotten

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hopefully we have covered it most of it on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulse!

Look at you Mr Fussy pants

Doctor Fussy Pants, if you don't mind!

I'd go lower but I don't know any clairvoyants!

I met one a couple of years at a wedding ... if I could remember her name we could arrange a rather odd 4sum

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"Pulse!

Look at you Mr Fussy pants

Doctor Fussy Pants, if you don't mind!

I'd go lower but I don't know any clairvoyants!

Still warm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction and trust

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