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An honest question for trans woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is an honest question for trans women... ps in no way is this a judgement just I'm curious to know... so here goes..

If your trans and you are full time trans so to clarify you act dress and identify as a woman regardless if younhave had the operation of not---

Why would you not just say your a woman why the need to state your trans ???? As I have said this is a honest question no a dig in generally curious to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you would have a cock between your legs

Women tend not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because you would have a cock between your legs

Women tend not to "
not all trans do and that's not what I was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s to be transparent and upfront , some do choose not to say that but I mean we all have a past so...

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

Depending on the situation there can be a legal requirement to do so before sex.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm a woman

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Because you would have a cock between your legs

Women tend not to not all trans do and that's not what I was getting at"
some, of us do though. I'm a, t girl and proud of it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It can very much depend on the individual's choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a difficult choice to be sure and it seems that whatever you choose someone thinks you’re wrong for it.

I choose female as that’s what I am and if there was a trans woman option I would choose that but I don’t feel the tv/ts option describes who I am if that makes sense?

There seems to be so much interest and acceptance here for trans folk and that’s so great but it does seem like that interest stops post op

I leave a little footnote at the bottom of my profile if anyone cares to read that far lol

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have a question so a trans who hasn't had an operation where would they fall in being gay or straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question so a trans who hasn't had an operation where would they fall in being gay or straight?"

A trans person’s sexuality would fall in exactly the same category as any other person of their acquired gender

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"It’s a difficult choice to be sure and it seems that whatever you choose someone thinks you’re wrong for it.

I choose female as that’s what I am and if there was a trans woman option I would choose that but I don’t feel the tv/ts option describes who I am if that makes sense?

There seems to be so much interest and acceptance here for trans folk and that’s so great but it does seem like that interest stops post op

I leave a little footnote at the bottom of my profile if anyone cares to read that far lol"

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have a question so a trans who hasn't had an operation where would they fall in being gay or straight?

A trans person’s sexuality would fall in exactly the same category as any other person of their acquired gender "

So they could be straight or guy then?

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By *ocumornottocumMan
over a year ago

pontypool

Just been checking you out... Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they could be straight or guy then?"

I don’t want to be “that person”, (I’m absolutely terrible for typos and autocorrects ) but I presume you mean straight or “gay”?

If so then you’re absolutely correct, there’s so many variations on the trans spectrum and just as many sexualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been checking you out... Wow "

Well if you’re talking about me then thank you

If it was someone else, then oops, I’m embarrassed lol

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"I have a question so a trans who hasn't had an operation where would they fall in being gay or straight?"
.what about another option... Bisexual. That's me

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So they could be straight or guy then?

I don’t want to be “that person”, (I’m absolutely terrible for typos and autocorrects ) but I presume you mean straight or “gay”?

If so then you’re absolutely correct, there’s so many variations on the trans spectrum and just as many sexualities.

"

Sorry yes the damm auto correct is on doesn't recognise gay have to manually click plus in bed not got my spec's on so could be either learn something new every day

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Here is an honest question for trans women... ps in no way is this a judgement just I'm curious to know... so here goes..

If your trans and you are full time trans so to clarify you act dress and identify as a woman regardless if younhave had the operation of not---

Why would you not just say your a woman why the need to state your trans ???? As I have said this is a honest question no a dig in generally curious to know "

I (he) take a slightly different approach. A trans male or female are just that, a 'trans', so why identify as male or female? Surely you're trans female or a trans male. I don't understand the requirement to insist on being identified as the sex you're not born as.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Depending on the situation there can be a legal requirement to do so before sex."

This is not true

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't dress to be a woman I have a woman's brain I get hormonal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great and informative answers

And it seems like so many things there seems to be no right or wrong answer. I'm guilty of treating many of the trans women that I chat to on the forums as women as that is how I view them and I hope that doeant cause any offence to them or others

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Some great and informative answers

And it seems like so many things there seems to be no right or wrong answer. I'm guilty of treating many of the trans women that I chat to on the forums as women as that is how I view them and I hope that doeant cause any offence to them or others "

OP, from my observation, you treat us like any other human being, with respect and very nicely.

That is what many are looking for and for me, it is definitely good enough.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Some great and informative answers

And it seems like so many things there seems to be no right or wrong answer. I'm guilty of treating many of the trans women that I chat to on the forums as women as that is how I view them and I hope that doeant cause any offence to them or others

OP, from my observation, you treat us like any other human being, with respect and very nicely.

That is what many are looking for and for me, it is definitely good enough."

What she said

^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great and informative answers

And it seems like so many things there seems to be no right or wrong answer. I'm guilty of treating many of the trans women that I chat to on the forums as women as that is how I view them and I hope that doeant cause any offence to them or others "

With respect and that’s good! But yes I’d say every trans woman feels like a woman so. I think adding the Info about being trans is purely for transparency and being clear (nothing else really)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some great and informative answers

And it seems like so many things there seems to be no right or wrong answer. I'm guilty of treating many of the trans women that I chat to on the forums as women as that is how I view them and I hope that doeant cause any offence to them or others

OP, from my observation, you treat us like any other human being, with respect and very nicely.

That is what many are looking for and for me, it is definitely good enough."
thank you x

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"Depending on the situation there can be a legal requirement to do so before sex.

This is not true"

It is and I'd give you the source but I can't be bothered. Look it up yourself.

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"A trans male or female are just that, a 'trans', so why identify as male or female? Surely you're trans female or a trans male. I don't understand the requirement to insist on being identified as the sex you're not born as. "

First you have to understand that sex does not equal gender, they're different things. (even though sex informs gender pretty heavily)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depending on the situation there can be a legal requirement to do so before sex.

This is not true

It is and I'd give you the source but I can't be bothered. Look it up yourself."

From memory the cases where this was an issue ( in the UK at least ) revolved around people that did not identify as another gender but admitted that they pretended to be another gender to entice others ( I.e. cat fishing).

Anyone in possession of a grc had absolutely no legal requirement to provide information for n their former gender, in fact the opposite becomes true in that it becomes illegal for anyone to disclose any such information without the authority of said person

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