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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey people!

I was just wondering if people are interested in younger men on here? I’m super new to all this but what I’ve gathered so far is that younger lads are seen as immature and not worth while. Please tell me if I’m wrong!

Yours truly,

Someone learning the ropes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP. The "yours truly" got me, so polite. People will go for all ages and types once they fit what they're looking for. If you message and click with people, age most likely won't matter. Enjoy the site. I hope you have fun. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some, your age will be an issue. They may have kids around your age and feel weird about it. They're not for you.

For many of us, age isn't much of a factor.

If you're decent, polite and honest you can't go far wrong and you'll probably find plenty of people who are happy to meet guys your age.

Good luck

Lu

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Welcome op.

I've seen threads started by men of all ages saying that nobody wants men of their age . I think a lot depends on attitude

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

When looking we found we had a lot of let downs, lots of younger people just want to meet now, and will not take the time to get too know you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for such a lovely response!

I really appreciate it! I wish I could post more pictures but due to my work it’s impossible thank you for the kind words, I’ll take it on board xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also...

I was 18 when I joined fab and started swinging. My age was never an issue for me.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for such a lovely response!

I really appreciate it! I wish I could post more pictures but due to my work it’s impossible thank you for the kind words, I’ll take it on board xx"

You could always take a discreet pic (bums always work well) for your profile pic and keep others in your friends only gallery. People will find that much more appealing than a silhouette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a basic saying, but age is only a number. All comes down to personal preference, not everyone likes young, some do mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!! "

Just be honest mate, try present your profile well mannered, don’t send dick pics constantly & I think you’ll just get on fine mate.

Happy Holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!! "

You have a great attitude by the sounds of it!

The forums are a great place to get stuck in and get to know people

If you click reply+quote we'll know who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!!

You have a great attitude by the sounds of it!

The forums are a great place to get stuck in and get to know people

If you click reply+quote we'll know who you're replying to "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!!

Just be honest mate, try present your profile well mannered, don’t send dick pics constantly & I think you’ll just get on fine mate.

Happy Holidays "

Thanks mate! Appreciate that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!!

You have a great attitude by the sounds of it!

The forums are a great place to get stuck in and get to know people

If you click reply+quote we'll know who you're replying to

"

Thank you!

God I feel like such an amateur

I genuinely really appreciate the tips!

You two look amazing by the way!!! X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ago can be just a number. If the guy is attractive by his personality, looks and interests, then it doesn't matter.

You're wise to focus your efforts on those of us who are open to guys of your age. If the others have decided that they won't find you of interest, there's no need to consider them.

Some people may be deterred if they have kids of our ages. Others may have no interest for other reasons. You have limited time to invest on some of the thousands of people here,,just use it wisely, to make it count.

And use your efforts to learn how to improve your chances here, such as getting your profile to sell you well.

Remember it's difficult for all of you single guys here. And that the virus is stopping people from being interested in meeting

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By *oee25Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Ago can be just a number. If the guy is attractive by his personality, looks and interests, then it doesn't matter.

You're wise to focus your efforts on those of us who are open to guys of your age. If the others have decided that they won't find you of interest, there's no need to consider them.

Some people may be deterred if they have kids of our ages. Others may have no interest for other reasons. You have limited time to invest on some of the thousands of people here,,just use it wisely, to make it count.

And use your efforts to learn how to improve your chances here, such as getting your profile to sell you well.

Remember it's difficult for all of you single guys here. And that the virus is stopping people from being interested in meeting "

Great advice, finding this a good page for advice (i’m a similar age to OP)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely appreciate all of the amazing advice on this thank you!! It sounds like the attitudes people have towards younger people comes from a genuine place!

Thanks for making me feel so welcome!!

You have a great attitude by the sounds of it!

The forums are a great place to get stuck in and get to know people

If you click reply+quote we'll know who you're replying to

Thank you!

God I feel like such an amateur

I genuinely really appreciate the tips!

You two look amazing by the way!!! X"

We all start somewhere!

You'll soon find your way

Thanks very much

Happy to help

Lu

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hi OP, welcome to fab and the forums! Like others have previously said, a pic of your bum, arm etc as your profile pic will help. You come across as being very polite and I'm sure some will want to meet you. There's advice on my profile should you wish to use it and good luck to you on here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs isn’t interested in me anymore but she still loves young cock

She wants me to find one or two for her

Please message me if you want to volunteer - preferably local but also up for cam or phone

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I think that how you come across on your profile is far more important than your age. There are some really successful younger guys. The fact you don’t have any pictures on your profile will likely hinder your efforts though.

There aren’t many of us who are happy to share our faces publicly, but we still have pictures. Discretion is expected. There are people from all walks of life on here, with all kinds of jobs. If you want to really want to connect with people you need to join in.

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By *oee25Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I think that how you come across on your profile is far more important than your age. There are some really successful younger guys. The fact you don’t have any pictures on your profile will likely hinder your efforts though.

There aren’t many of us who are happy to share our faces publicly, but we still have pictures. Discretion is expected. There are people from all walks of life on here, with all kinds of jobs. If you want to really want to connect with people you need to join in."

Do you have any comments for my profile? alway appreciated x

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I think that how you come across on your profile is far more important than your age. There are some really successful younger guys. The fact you don’t have any pictures on your profile will likely hinder your efforts though.

There aren’t many of us who are happy to share our faces publicly, but we still have pictures. Discretion is expected. There are people from all walks of life on here, with all kinds of jobs. If you want to really want to connect with people you need to join in.

Do you have any comments for my profile? alway appreciated x"

You need to start your own thread. It’s bad manners to hijack someone else’s

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By *oee25Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I think that how you come across on your profile is far more important than your age. There are some really successful younger guys. The fact you don’t have any pictures on your profile will likely hinder your efforts though.

There aren’t many of us who are happy to share our faces publicly, but we still have pictures. Discretion is expected. There are people from all walks of life on here, with all kinds of jobs. If you want to really want to connect with people you need to join in.

Do you have any comments for my profile? alway appreciated x

You need to start your own thread. It’s bad manners to hijack someone else’s "

Sorry I didn’t mean to be rude x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much for the lovely feedback! You’re all such amazing people!! I have taken on all the advice and have two pictures pending approval **insert terrified emoji** haha I genuinely Appreciate the supportive response

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Thank you all so much for the lovely feedback! You’re all such amazing people!! I have taken on all the advice and have two pictures pending approval **insert terrified emoji** haha I genuinely Appreciate the supportive response "

It’s very nerve wracking sharing pics. But definitely part of the game. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all so much for the lovely feedback! You’re all such amazing people!! I have taken on all the advice and have two pictures pending approval **insert terrified emoji** haha I genuinely Appreciate the supportive response "

You've got your first fab now...

Kick start the rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you all so much for the lovely feedback! You’re all such amazing people!! I have taken on all the advice and have two pictures pending approval **insert terrified emoji** haha I genuinely Appreciate the supportive response

You've got your first fab now...

Kick start the rest "

Thank you darling!! You’re an absolute star!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all so much for the lovely feedback! You’re all such amazing people!! I have taken on all the advice and have two pictures pending approval **insert terrified emoji** haha I genuinely Appreciate the supportive response

You've got your first fab now...

Kick start the rest

Thank you darling!! You’re an absolute star!! Xxx"

I know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that how you come across on your profile is far more important than your age. There are some really successful younger guys. The fact you don’t have any pictures on your profile will likely hinder your efforts though.

There aren’t many of us who are happy to share our faces publicly, but we still have pictures. Discretion is expected. There are people from all walks of life on here, with all kinds of jobs. If you want to really want to connect with people you need to join in.

Do you have any comments for my profile? alway appreciated x

You need to start your own thread. It’s bad manners to hijack someone else’s

Sorry I didn’t mean to be rude x"

You didn't come across rude. You've genuine interest in this thread as you're in similar situation as the OP. No harm getting advice. Like your profile, sexy pics. Defo a bum pic needed as this gets me going and others too, lol. Nice attitude and you're polite, so message away and enjoy Fab. Mrs x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For us age is not terribly relevant. Attitude is far mire important.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Would say its more right place, right time, right people.

We don't go for below 35 but there will be plenty that will.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"My Mrs isn’t interested in me anymore but she still loves young cock

She wants me to find one or two for her

Please message me if you want to volunteer - preferably local but also up for cam or phone

"

Looking at your profile Gary, it looks like your after the “young cock”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say no

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

From a personal point of view, some would say “selfish”, I really don’t want / like young guys joining Fab. Go out and find your way and love in the wide world. Leave Fab to old farts like me.

Actively encourage women of all ages to join Fab of course, as apart from not liking ‘competition’ I do like plenty of choice.

Good luck OP - and enjoy Fab.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In easier times I would suggest joining a club. It's a relaxed atmosphere and polite, respectful guys of any age are welcome and usually see action. I've played in clubs with both far young guys and far older men and never found age a factor in my enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi leedsladtwo. Great post btw.

To be honest, I'm 42 and Polysexual, so I tend to be attracted to any combination of gender regardless of age, so long as they tick my boxes (at that particular time) and I find them attractive then I'd be into them - not literally, lol.

You definitely seem as though you're approaching things in a really polite manner, so kudos to you and keep doing what you're doing.

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