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Biggest pet peeve

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Why do people not take no for an answer on here.

I try my best to send a polite no thanks if I am not interest in chatting and yet some people see this as a challenge to change my mind. Repeatedly contacting me to see if I've changed my mind and inevitably getting blocked.

Do people really think I'd willingly meet someone who cant accept a 'no' to messaging. Yeah I'd totally feel safe meeting someone like that in person one day...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

ignore them xxx

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My latest pet peeve ( I have many ) is the word “naughty” ... I find it ridiculous coming from men in my preferred age range .

As in “looking for naughty fun/lady”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens constantly. It is annoying. Ppl think that because you're nice, they can get away with it and just rip the pish.

I wouldn't dream of doing that to someone, if they said no then that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people not take no for an answer on here.

I try my best to send a polite no thanks if I am not interest in chatting and yet some people see this as a challenge to change my mind. Repeatedly contacting me to see if I've changed my mind and inevitably getting blocked.

Do people really think I'd willingly meet someone who cant accept a 'no' to messaging. Yeah I'd totally feel safe meeting someone like that in person one day... "

Us guys’ ego’s can sometimes be like a soufflé: all puffed up, whilst at the same time being very fragile. Not virtue signalling, but I hope that we’re not all like that. You must see it a lot, though

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Being on & off fab a few years has taught me one thing (well a few more but) you need to be cruel to be kind.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


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Us guys’ ego’s can sometimes be like a soufflé: all puffed up, whilst at the same time being very fragile. Not virtue signalling, but I hope that we’re not all like that. You must see it a lot, though"

See plenty of it. And occasionally I get a respectful reply back to contact them if I change my mind, which is much more favourable than constant pestering until i have no choice but to block people

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Being asked for a reason why I don't want to meet them.

I don't always have 1 or it could be a petty 1.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Curious to hear pet peeves from everyone, not just the women. I'm sure there are plenty and it might help some of us if its something we subconsciously do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont bite unless you want me to ???

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

My pet hate (Mr R) is when someone winks, fabs a load of your picks or even messages you, then when you message back they ignore you, why bother in the first place

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Friend request without even sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to hear pet peeves from everyone, not just the women. I'm sure there are plenty and it might help some of us if its something we subconsciously do"

Guys asking if I have a girl friend that can join us. Before I've even met them! That bugs me no end

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Curious to hear pet peeves from everyone, not just the women. I'm sure there are plenty and it might help some of us if its something we subconsciously do

Guys asking if I have a girl friend that can join us. Before I've even met them! That bugs me no end"

Not had that one yet.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

My biggest pet peeve is when profiles have ‘hung’ or ‘monster’ cock and then it really isn’t! Don’t over promise and under deliver! Average is fine if you just say it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking questions in a message when the answer is in my profile...

i.e:

- Are you interested in married men?

- Are you meeting?

- What are you looking for?

Friend requests sent when my profile says I only accept them from people I'm going to meet.

Men that kick off about not getting a reply to their message when my profile says I only reply to messages that interest me.

And breathe...

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Probably more akin to dating sites but still a little bit on fab....

Ladies who state they have "no baggage" but the previous list of 60 items in their profile suggests that not only do they have baggage, but its by Versace and has wheels with pull out handles and is a full set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked if I have a female friend for a FFM, as some guys think that I am playing with a woman in one of my pictures. Which if you look you can clearly see it not. X

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Happens constantly. It is annoying. Ppl think that because you're nice, they can get away with it and just rip the pish.

I wouldn't dream of doing that to someone, if they said no then that's it. "

Bonkers but it’s the site.. way to many ‘newbies’ just think a quick reply equals a shag sadly

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

You see someone interesting - after reading all the profile.

You contact them and they say "No".

Their decision.

Respect it and move on.

It isn't rocket science .... or at least it shouldn't be.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

People (always couples) fab your pics, wink, message then you message back, chat a bit, swap face pics, all good so connect as “friends” to stay in touch to arrange meeting in future and then...

When you write to them again they read message and ignore you. Not even courtesy of a reply! Circumstances change, we get that but have the balls to say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who ask how big my boobs are - its the first line in our profile. And men who say they are 8" but that are nearer to 6" or even 5" which is ok if they were just honest from the start.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Friend request without even sending a message. "

Even worse when it's from a hidden profile!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend request without even sending a message.

Even worse when it's from a hidden profile!

Mike"

Happens all the time

We just had a guy saying hello babe how are you.

Happens constantly.

It's a couples profile ffs not a single womans

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

On this site there a few obvious ones.

Pestering messages, not taking rejection well, abusive messaging.

Mine is those people who wink you/message you and then you have to carry the conversation as they seem limited to single word or one line responses.

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