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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Morning all. We’ve never been on webcam or attempted to gain a webcam verification BUT this has bugged me for some time...

When people go into the chat/cam rooms wanting a verification, please tell me that the people doing the verifying are cross referencing the cam with a face photo or distinguishing features within the albums on their profile?

Even if I have a face photo in an album, what does it prove anyway?

A cam verification to me just shows that you are alive and that’s it.

Thoughts anyone?

Ed

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By *etefromderbyMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’d would cam with u

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I’d would cam with u

"

Ha ha ha, very flattered.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just one step up from telephone verification that proves it's a live person

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Its just one step up from telephone verification that proves it's a live person

"

Yeah, I’m probably overthinking it but just find it a bit pointless.

Ed

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Cam veris should have gone the way of phone veris a long time ago.

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By *etefromderbyMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I’d would cam with u

Ha ha ha, very flattered.

Ed"

Ed sent me a friend invite please

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I’d would cam with u

Ha ha ha, very flattered.

Ed

Ed sent me a friend invite please "

Woah, slow down fella. We only ‘befriend’ actual meets only I’m afraid.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a webcam veri just means there was a video feed and a person was moving on it, probably of the same sex as the profile.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Someone could have 100s of cam verifications, and let you down for a meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But even when you meet in real life, its not like you genuinely know that person? !

Really what you are hoping for is that they are:

1) the right sex

2) either individuals or couple as stated

3) gonna turn up if something is arranged

4) be clean, respectful and fun

5) have integrity (not divulge personal info /photos etc )

6) not turn into a psycho stalker thereafter

... And you won't know 5+6 until you take the plunge and step off the cliff??

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Yeah a webcam veri just means there was a video feed and a person was moving on it, probably of the same sex as the profile. "

Exactly

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Someone could have 100s of cam verifications, and let you down for a meet, "

Very true

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"But even when you meet in real life, its not like you genuinely know that person? !

Really what you are hoping for is that they are:

1) the right sex

2) either individuals or couple as stated

3) gonna turn up if something is arranged

4) be clean, respectful and fun

5) have integrity (not divulge personal info /photos etc )

6) not turn into a psycho stalker thereafter

... And you won't know 5+6 until you take the plunge and step off the cliff??

"

Yeah, 5 & 6 is the biggest worry

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

I just don’t like getting veris from men when I’m on cam. I’m a straight male and don’t want them form male accounts is there a way to delete them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just one step up from telephone verification that proves it's a live person

Yeah, I’m probably overthinking it but just find it a bit pointless.

Ed"

All verifications are pointless really. They don't prove anything.

There's a live person behind every profile.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Most of the time all you see is genitals.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I just don’t like getting veris from men when I’m on cam. I’m a straight male and don’t want them form male accounts is there a way to delete them? "

Take it as a compliment, a verification that you’re a male is all that’s needed lol.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Its just one step up from telephone verification that proves it's a live person

Yeah, I’m probably overthinking it but just find it a bit pointless.

Ed

All verifications are pointless really. They don't prove anything.

There's a live person behind every profile. "

Some do appear to be half dead sometimes

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Most of the time all you see is genitals."

Haha and welcome to ‘Name That Sausage’...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just one step up from telephone verification that proves it's a live person

Yeah, I’m probably overthinking it but just find it a bit pointless.

Ed

All verifications are pointless really. They don't prove anything.

There's a live person behind every profile.

Some do appear to be half dead sometimes "

True

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We just use cams for fun, chatted to plenty of people who haven’t left us a veri and it’s not bothered us.

If we were traveling to meet a couple we’d want to chat on cam or phone for a bit as well. Not just to see if they are who they say, but also if they can hold a conversation.

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Stornoway


"I just don’t like getting veris from men when I’m on cam. I’m a straight male and don’t want them form male accounts is there a way to delete them?

Take it as a compliment, a verification that you’re a male is all that’s needed lol."

I do take it as a compliment but worry if a woman or couple check out my profile a veri form a male might put them of form talking to me. Even tho there is nothing I can do to stop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just means they're breathing.

Doesn't prove they are who they say they are in any way. Also loads of veris is no guarantee they won't let you down either. Verification is no guarantee. It is supposed to show they are who they say they are. Only a real face to face meet veris can do that. Ideally a few as a meet veris can be easily faked too.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"We just use cams for fun, chatted to plenty of people who haven’t left us a veri and it’s not bothered us.

If we were traveling to meet a couple we’d want to chat on cam or phone for a bit as well. Not just to see if they are who they say, but also if they can hold a conversation. "

Yeah, we tend to chat on here and then arrange a social meet (before this whole pandemic malarkey) and then go from there

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I just don’t like getting veris from men when I’m on cam. I’m a straight male and don’t want them form male accounts is there a way to delete them?

Take it as a compliment, a verification that you’re a male is all that’s needed lol.

I do take it as a compliment but worry if a woman or couple check out my profile a veri form a male might put them of form talking to me. Even tho there is nothing I can do to stop it. "

I kinda get it but you’re not publishing any veris from males at the moment anyhow. Just keep doing what you’re doing

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"It just means they're breathing.

Doesn't prove they are who they say they are in any way. Also loads of veris is no guarantee they won't let you down either. Verification is no guarantee. It is supposed to show they are who they say they are. Only a real face to face meet veris can do that. Ideally a few as a meet veris can be easily faked too."

Exactly this, we’re picky and then arrange a social meet. If they blow us out so be it. We’ll still have a great night out anyhow

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I only cam verify anyone if they have their face on cam that I can compare to a face pic viewable on their profile.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I only cam verify anyone if they have their face on cam that I can compare to a face pic viewable on their profile."

Which is textbook style. If only everyone was like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont bother with cam verifications. Waste of time in my view. I'll happily verify someone if I've met them, if not I dont bother with anything to do with camming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only cam verify anyone if they have their face on cam that I can compare to a face pic viewable on their profile.

Which is textbook style. If only everyone was like you "

Also ask them to do something specific like scratch their nose with their little finger and their left eye closed. People can use recordings of other people to catfish.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I just don’t like getting veris from men when I’m on cam. I’m a straight male and don’t want them form male accounts is there a way to delete them? "

I'm not 100% sure but if you block single men they shouldn't be able to leave you a verification

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Always viewed them as a complete waste of time. It doesn't actually tell you whether they meet or not. If someone has cam only verifications I tend to leave them alone as I doubt they ever meet, which is why I am on here primarily.

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By *ani87rMan
over a year ago

Boston

Hi, any woman or copule could help me make verification my profile by web cam???

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