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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's a sexy topic!

I'm sure there must be the odd vicar's wife or school headmistress on here. There's a thought, headmistress at work...mistress at home!

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont know if I hit all the points here but I am a single mum with a prominent career.

As for people knowing, I am promiscuous so it wouldn't shock many people I think. Well not those closest to me.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t go to church, but people from my everyday life would be very surprised about my Fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life"

Definitely tick that box, stable relationship, professional jobs, all my friends think I’ve never even had a one night stand...... what they don’t know is that my favourite thing is to get fucked by a VWE guy, 10-15 years younger as husband watches on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lets just say i (kim) dresses very smart for work life, wife and family person. But once for a birthday suprise le boudoir club in London arranged my party. Select single guys were invited for my pleasure alone, literally just me. Hubby and 11 fit hing guys ha ha

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Everyone thinks my wife so prim and proper and wouldn’t say boo to a goose .they would get a shock if they seen her at the club or party’s lol

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

My Mrs LOL....if only the boys at her work knew her swing life...they think she is a prude LOL....when they ask her what she did at the weekend she keeps a straight face

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By *ackie slut99TV/TS
over a year ago

derbyshire

Well i can assure you that looks and actions can decieve greatly as i have a second cousion who appears to be very dippy shy boring straight laced mummys little girl type.

But so so wrong she first found out about me crossdressing 30 years ago and it drove her wild and still does to this day.

More if wanted.????

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

No one would ever know

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By *ull_on_4_funCouple
over a year ago

Close to you.

What a fantastic question. I am certain that our little community would be a trifle startled by my wife's habits.

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By *bbott24Man
over a year ago

Devizes

I'm sure we have freinds who play but we will never know, just the same as they won't know about us, bit of a shame really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great replies all! As a follow up do any wives have some secret little cross overs they leak their naughty side into their prim and proper side? Like suspenders to work or Louboutin heels to a family party?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Im regarded as a somewhat posh lady with very conservative and proper views.

The contrast is exciting to me , never mind anyone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who is a beautician. But in her private life she likes guys to piss all over till her hair is drenched.

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve been with my husband since I was 14 I’m a married stay at home mum of 3 and no one has a clue! I love that Monday to Friday I’m lunching, making school projects and I also make Disney hair bows and clothes and on weekends I’m taking 5/6 men. ( well I was before coronavirus)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what excites me about what we do. In my normal life I’m very subtle and no one would ever have a clue how rude I can be.

But I do love to have the odd normal situation where I put on sexy underwear or wear my jewel out for coffee.

It’s a huge turn on. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be frog marched out of the WI.

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By *i-cuckold-coupleCouple
over a year ago

carryduff

Snap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life

Definitely tick that box, stable relationship, professional jobs, all my friends think I’ve never even had a one night stand...... what they don’t know is that my favourite thing is to get fucked by a VWE guy, 10-15 years younger as husband watches on! "

Soo hot... love that..

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire and Hampshire


"Im regarded as a somewhat posh lady with very conservative and proper views.

The contrast is exciting to me , never mind anyone else lol"
Similar here

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I go to church

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be frog marched out of the WI. "

Pull the other one, we’ve seen the calendar! I think you aren’t the only WI kinkster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be frog marched out of the WI.

Pull the other one, we’ve seen the calendar! I think you aren’t the only WI kinkster "
I suggested doing that again but was out voted by a very large majority, went for a bazaar and jam sale instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One of the best replies was sent to us privately as poster didn’t want their name and location sharing.

“We can’t comment on the forums as people might recognise her but my wife is a funeral director and well known in the local area amongst all the local churches etc. Coffee mornings with vicars and art competitions in the day, 4 man gangbangs at the weekend”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the best replies was sent to us privately as poster didn’t want their name and location sharing.

“We can’t comment on the forums as people might recognise her but my wife is a funeral director and well known in the local area amongst all the local churches etc. Coffee mornings with vicars and art competitions in the day, 4 man gangbangs at the weekend”"
Pallbearers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life

Definitely tick that box, stable relationship, professional jobs, all my friends think I’ve never even had a one night stand...... what they don’t know is that my favourite thing is to get fucked by a VWE guy, 10-15 years younger as husband watches on! "

If only I was 10-15 years younger, I’d never wash it again if I had a meet with you.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Depends on who you ask for me, lots of people get in instant vibe, but then lots think I'm a young unsuspecting lady who loves walking her dog.. I've been getting lots of questions about what my hobbies are, I've had to start making things up! My family were growing concerned that I was being a lazy bum all weekend

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By *uzzardballsMan
over a year ago

lancaster


"I don’t go to church, but people from my everyday life would be very surprised about my Fab life. "
crumbs, you’re lovely!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Great replies all! As a follow up do any wives have some secret little cross overs they leak their naughty side into their prim and proper side? Like suspenders to work or Louboutin heels to a family party? "

I'm not a wife, but I do like to wear beautiful underwear to work. The more stressful I'm expecting the day to be, the fussier the underwear, frills and bows and yes, stockings and suspenders.

Nobody in work would suspect - I wear trouser suits and flat shoes, sometimes safety shoes depending on where I'm working on a given day.

I am very inappropriate at times in work but everyone just laughs it off, nobody takes it seriously. I do like to play with people's expectations of me.

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By *roop69Man
over a year ago

St Columb Major

Me and the wife has dabbled several times over the years and we both work at a school

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By *evensnipeMan
over a year ago

Dinbych

My late wife and I were swingers. Both of us worked in Local Authority Children's Services. We had a D/s 24/7/52 relationship. I chose her work clothes each day including specific coloured sets of underwear which represented certain bedtime activities for the evening. She was a Team Leader and had about 25 staff in her team. A demure, democratic but driven individual and manager at work she was the slave at home. At work she wore a necklace/choker that represented her acceptance of submission. Those singles and couples who knew us all those years ago enjoyed using her. Being not far from Birmingham she enjoyed being used by large black Dommes for their pleasure. She performed well at all assigned tasks. Couples enjoyed her as did MMM combos as a slave being used. No one ever knew of this side of her life, nor would they ever have suspected that of her when they heard she was the village Sunday School Leader.

Happy days. Sadly she died of breast cancer 10 years ago. Very many happy memories of those times.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ve been with my husband since I was 14 I’m a married stay at home mum of 3 and no one has a clue! I love that Monday to Friday I’m lunching, making school projects and I also make Disney hair bows and clothes and on weekends I’m taking 5/6 men. ( well I was before coronavirus) "

That’s standard practice for Hull hot wives, especially when the trawlers are back in

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss


"Everyone thinks my wife so prim and proper and wouldn’t say boo to a goose .they would get a shock if they seen her at the club or party’s lol"
Claire's the same but wait till she get going girls beware n men be very afraid lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a great thread and rather hot too. I always play the game of does she swing when out and about....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the best threads we’ve seen.. with some hot couples as well!!

This is absolutely us.. Both in professional careers, family, etc.. nobody would have any idea that we lived this lifestyle and that I love older guys with big cocks whilst watching Mr play with a sexy lady and making her squirt xxx

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By *illpeopleCouple
over a year ago

High Peak

Such a hot thread!

Our friends and family would be utterly shocked at our past time. They think we are the most normal of people yet we have been fucking with other couples for the last twenty years not to mention our dozens of mucky photos that have appeared on the internet!

We have also met with many other couples who seem so ordinary until we get them into the bedroom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great thread, Well done op. It goes to the heart of swinging in that it shows that the people you work with, live next door to, known for years, might be swingers as well. In general, we're a discreet lot.

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

I think some of our closer friends would guess, but Mrs P is management in the corporate world and is very well behaved at work. I often think if only they knew! All the younger people at her office are so vanilla compared to her! They have no idea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a great thread, Well done op. It goes to the heart of swinging in that it shows that the people you work with, live next door to, known for years, might be swingers as well. In general, we're a discreet lot."

Thank you! That’s what it was about really- the essence of swinging is the juxtaposition of these lives in a very British ‘you’d never guess’ idea. People who are outwardly and overtly sexual that’s great but it’s the respectable people with the secret life that really thrill us.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm am a well qualified, professional and well respected woman with a high-flying job. No one would ever guess that I'm a swinger, but when it came up in conversation with a long standing and lovely vanilla girlfriend she was so excited she invited us to go straight back to hers for some fun. Some of the resulting picturrs are on our profile.

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

I am similar, professional, educated and as far as all vanilla friends are concerned, I’m the last person they would expect to be in this lifestyle ( as they would think about hubby)

Sometimes I would love to tell them to shock them but will not take the risk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am similar, professional, educated and as far as all vanilla friends are concerned, I’m the last person they would expect to be in this lifestyle ( as they would think about hubby)

Sometimes I would love to tell them to shock them but will not take the risk x"

This sums us up perfectly. Also I don’t think most of our vanilla friends really know what swinging is - they just titter and mention car keys! I’m sure they don’t think we’d ever ‘partake’. I belong to a Bookclub (no comments please) and I once had to miss a meeting because the book was about swinging - I decided I’d probably never quite hit the right appropriate note with that one!

And Mr T works away a lot. I go to social events on my own and am so fed up with boring men hitting on me in d*unken moments. Sometimes I wish I could just say “come on then” and see what they’d do. They have absolutely no idea what I’m like and can do - and it amuses us both immensely! Xx

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Great replies all! As a follow up do any wives have some secret little cross overs they leak their naughty side into their prim and proper side? Like suspenders to work or Louboutin heels to a family party? "

Yes exciting to be a bit risky at times in normal situations although occasionally let indiscretion lead to interesting development with my wife at times too. Even though we have been a respected business couple known locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to regularly meet a mature letting manager that I worked for. In public shy and quiet, polite etc but behind closed doors she was the filthiest woman I ever met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can we go further- are there respectable professions for wives that hide sexy secrets? Doctors and nurses seem common on here but I do wonder about lawyers!

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

School lunch supervisor.... respected mum and after school club organiser too... Looked smartly dressed and "ordinary"...under the clothes were sexy undies and a slut who'd do anything you wanted...she often went to lunch job after swallowing my load or with a pussy full of cum...

Dirty bitch...

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I love the escape that this lifestyle brings. In our day to day life we have so many responsibilities and restrictions. Swinging is a wonderful secret that Mr N and myself share between us. It is a special bond that we share. A few vanilla friends would be surprised but I'm sure after they thought about it they probably wouldn't x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I meet a married lady whose hubby knows and fully approves. To look at her you would see a very very respectable lady , mother, scouts leader, professional manager.

When we meet she is an insatiable sex crazed woman who drains me everytime!

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Responsible, busy job, prim and proper in work but loves fun with others when we can.she would surprise so many we know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is an academic. I do love the fact that I get to live the ‘sexy professor’ scenario for real occasionally! There is also a certain frisson when she discusses some of the students she finds attractive...

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Some of our neighbours think Jess is little Miss Prim and Proper if only they knew lol

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By *ike73300Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"One of the best replies was sent to us privately as poster didn’t want their name and location sharing.

“We can’t comment on the forums as people might recognise her but my wife is a funeral director and well known in the local area amongst all the local churches etc. Coffee mornings with vicars and art competitions in the day, 4 man gangbangs at the weekend” Pallbearers! "

Ballbarers, surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of you seem surprised that ordinary women enjoy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to church "

Why??

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Isn’t this one of the most delicious aspects of this lifestyle. The hidden secret life, the dark underbelly of society, the thrill!

I live in Edinburgh which during these dark months just seems to intensify the thrill. The city centre has a Victorian gothic feel when it gets dark, which seems like a staged backdrop to the sexual desires of the people in the shadows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some of you seem surprised that ordinary women enjoy sex"

It’s not that it’s the exquisite juxtaposition of the most respectable public persona with the most contrasting secret private persona. It’s delectable and enthralling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn’t this one of the most delicious aspects of this lifestyle. The hidden secret life, the dark underbelly of society, the thrill!

I live in Edinburgh which during these dark months just seems to intensify the thrill. The city centre has a Victorian gothic feel when it gets dark, which seems like a staged backdrop to the sexual desires of the people in the shadows. "

What a poetic contribution, we feel a weekend in Edinburgh after this is all over is required.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Isn’t this one of the most delicious aspects of this lifestyle. The hidden secret life, the dark underbelly of society, the thrill!

I live in Edinburgh which during these dark months just seems to intensify the thrill. The city centre has a Victorian gothic feel when it gets dark, which seems like a staged backdrop to the sexual desires of the people in the shadows.

What a poetic contribution, we feel a weekend in Edinburgh after this is all over is required. "
or a long weekend exploring the sites of Dublin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And the sights!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"And the sights! "
Both of course!

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Isn’t this one of the most delicious aspects of this lifestyle. The hidden secret life, the dark underbelly of society, the thrill!

I live in Edinburgh which during these dark months just seems to intensify the thrill. The city centre has a Victorian gothic feel when it gets dark, which seems like a staged backdrop to the sexual desires of the people in the shadows.

What a poetic contribution, we feel a weekend in Edinburgh after this is all over is required. "

It would be a pleasure to show you the city in all its gothic glory

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

My First FB was a leading police women, thats all i am going to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is us to a T.

Im a nurse, very proffessionsl. I help out at church charities and school board meetings.

However I love eating pussy....if only they new!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is my favourite thread

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

My better half shocked me

before we got into this a few years ago she was very shy and vanilla, but since we have explored things and made new friends she has become such a naughty little lady in a good way of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we go to a club we always feel like a contestant on stars in their eyes. You walk in in normal clothing, get changed and then you become who you really feel comfy with . For all I know I could be rubbing shoulders with an oil exec (doubtful I know but an example)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a nurse and Ad man

Only two of my female colleagues know. Guess how. Nights can be boring. My sister knows as we went out together years ago.

Himself has presented at meetings to people we know from playing with.

It’s so fun to know others who know when in a vanilla situation. Whilst others think you are prim and proper.

But as most people seem to be saying in the right environment my barriers go down very quickly.

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

This is something I love about the lifestyle... We can be from any walk of life but all still love being horny and naughty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always the quiet ones

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Pity that question is only posted for women.

I am.sure a lot.of men would suprise people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think this is my favourite thread"

Thank you! I think it’s struck a chord about what make this fun.

As for the comment about asking the question of men I don’t think anyone would be surprised about a man being a dirty bugger in secret.

It’s the way there’s a type of wife most people would assume is the least likely to do this when actually they lead parallel lives.

Any wives any examples of how they let little bits of the secret life leak into the normal life?

Fir us that’s Mrs S10 wearing things like leather skirt, black patent heels and sheer black stockings with suspenders and no knickers to the most respectable and vanilla of occasions like a 50th birthday party of vanilla friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this is my favourite thread

Thank you! I think it’s struck a chord about what make this fun.

As for the comment about asking the question of men I don’t think anyone would be surprised about a man being a dirty bugger in secret.

It’s the way there’s a type of wife most people would assume is the least likely to do this when actually they lead parallel lives.

Any wives any examples of how they let little bits of the secret life leak into the normal life?

Fir us that’s Mrs S10 wearing things like leather skirt, black patent heels and sheer black stockings with suspenders and no knickers to the most respectable and vanilla of occasions like a 50th birthday party of vanilla friends. "

Sometimes wear “Hotwife” thong or one that says “it’s not cheating if my husband watches” at work or when out and about. Been known to wear anklet with HW on it on night out too x

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By *ymo80Man
over a year ago

grimsby

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By *ymo80Man
over a year ago

grimsby

Great threat so I thought I’d comment, I’m not sure what the people I work with would think( prior to lockdown) I got talking to a couple who were in the are for a weekend, she ended up fucking me with a strap on while I sucked his cock , a very enjoyable evening

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Assuming you are like this? We are very much like it, Jasmine is so innocent in normal

Life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread! I've met many ladies and couples who appear very vanilla in their everyday life, but behind closed doors (or picnic areas at night)...

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Us. Honest people think we are so straight laced haha. If they knew about our private life i don't think they'd believe it. I'm miss innocent and S is mr outgoing masculine. Lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wife fucks a guy at work and he don’t know we are swingers lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think the thing is though for most of us, unless we are particularly outgoing and flamboyant it would come as a surprise to friends and family that we indulged in this lifestyle.

Or even putting the lifestyle aside, that we have particular links, fetishes or likes in the bedroom - it's not something you casually drop into the conversation down the pub or over Xmas dinner with the family.

One of the things I used to love about going to clubs was the wide and diverse range of people that went, both in terms of background, body shape, dress sense and more and would often find myself looking at someone in the social areas and thinking they didn't "look like" the type, yet half an hour later there they were in the middle of a heap of bodies have a whale of a time.

It all just goes to prove the old adage that you can't judge a book by its cover I guess

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


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Fir us that’s Mrs S10 wearing things like leather skirt, black patent heels and sheer black stockings with suspenders and no knickers to the most respectable and vanilla of occasions like a 50th birthday party of vanilla friends. "

This kind of behaviour drives me.inside, and Ruby knows it. Especially when she gives a little flash half way through the day. I can't wait until she starts being able to go out with her friends again to see what she's wearing underneath

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire and Hampshire


"It’s always the quiet ones "
Agreed!

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"I would be frog marched out of the WI. "

I would be too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello,

So many hot interesting ladies - this is my most erotic scenario.

Q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

If only you knew half of it, op. You pretty much described Mrs N to a T with your opening post.

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I would love tell people but don't think they would understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here both high jobs in NHS but sues inner slut is well masked to family and friends

Butter won't melt images

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

wife works for nhs our friends family think she just a hard working mum

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Well most definitely not a Laurel from Emmerdale but butter wouldn’t melt type of lady here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wife works for nhs our friends family think she just a hard working mum "

Bet she likes working on them hard ??

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

oh she loves hard ones

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Abingdon

We’ve had a number of guys on socials surprised about what comes out of Lily’s mouth when we’re talking.

Apparently she looks ‘too innocent’ to be saying such things!

- John

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I can't believe things I say during sex hubby obviously likes it

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Demure in vanilla life. Collared, plugged and on a chain during play.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

My wife is pretty prim and proper in normal life. No one would ever think she has an alternative lifestyle.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life"

Great point - when I first started meeting couples, I as always surprised how normal, respectable they were. Often they would walk into pub where I was meeting them - and I was “no, it cant be them”

As others have said, half the fun its the contrast between normal life and fab life.....what appears to be normal respectable lady actually loves fucking in front of her husband

As for church, i used to play with one swinging couple and her husband used to go on golf weekends..and i used to take his place in the marital bed. ONe Sunday, i was kicked out of bed by the lady because she had to go to church! I was genuinely shocked! But what a turn on!

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

My wife is the same all prim and proper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please expand- how does she appear in public, in what settings is she know that appear to be a million miles from sex parties?

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

If you are meaning us it’s normally a respectable long coat basque stockings and suspenders sometimes no knickers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yum! I mean what’s her vanilla life? Love to stories of the WI women who secretly take 2 cocks or the church warden who wears stockings and no knickers to church and has a gang bang after the Sunday roast

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"When we go to a club we always feel like a contestant on stars in their eyes. You walk in in normal clothing, get changed and then you become who you really feel comfy with . For all I know I could be rubbing shoulders with an oil exec (doubtful I know but an example)"

Think that is teh great thing about fab life. You meet people from all walks of life who just enjoy having uninhibited sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there is nothing hotter than the respectable very yummy mummy who wears very hot sexy lingerie under her clothes to meet that secret hot date. The woman who goes from angel to slutty at the popping of a shirt button.....

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Yum! I mean what’s her vanilla life? Love to stories of the WI women who secretly take 2 cocks or the church warden who wears stockings and no knickers to church and has a gang bang after the Sunday roast "

Well, I once player with a couple who were very respectable. The wife used to go to church after playing with me the night before! I remember her telling me to get up early on Sunday morning as she had to leave for choir!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Im regarded as a somewhat posh lady with very conservative and proper views.

The contrast is exciting to me , never mind anyone else lol"

Noting more alluring than a posh, conservative lady who is a hotwife behind closed doors...!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life"

our verifies allude to this..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life"

Stunning profile and pics. A true contrast, but so very erotic and very sexy.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I would be frog marched out of the WI. "

I have to say, i would guess there are faIr few WI ladies who have a secret hotwife lifestyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im regarded as a somewhat posh lady with very conservative and proper views.

The contrast is exciting to me , never mind anyone else lol

Noting more alluring than a posh, conservative lady who is a hotwife behind closed doors...!"

Indeed, my cock is twitching just reading this thread. It is exquisitly erotic to be sat in genteel surroundings discussing wanton fornication with an elegant lady.

Q

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By *ustforfun49Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life

Definitely tick that box, stable relationship, professional jobs, all my friends think I’ve never even had a one night stand...... what they don’t know is that my favourite thing is to get fucked by a VWE guy, 10-15 years younger as husband watches on! "

Well I've just looked at your profile pics and you definitely look like butter wouldn't melt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this dynamic very erotic. Whether its the proverbial girl next door look, butter wouldnt melt etc or the seemingly conservative (not political) pillar if the local community. Its definately the contrast s that make it erotic and exciting

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By *ettpairCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Must admit nobody would ever imagine us to be into this kind of lifestyle... especially my wife who is in a managerial role with very important responsibilities....we were in the pub on a Sunday afternoon with around a dozen of our vanilla friends when she wispered in my ear...totally out of the blue ...that she wanted to give our friend a BJ ( he's on here also ) so she devised a plan...as he was driving she asked if he could nip her home to get a phone charger...all I asked for was a sneaky pic....well ten minutes later my phone pinged...then ten minutes later they re appeared like nothing had ever happened...none of our other friends payed any attention at all...only the three of us knew...pic on our profile

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

My wife is the loveliest kindest sweetest person you could meet and a while ago she was also a brownie pack leader.

I do remember a few times where she had her brownie evenings and then a few hours later was having naked threesome fun with me and one of my best friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is the loveliest kindest sweetest person you could meet and a while ago she was also a brownie pack leader.

I do remember a few times where she had her brownie evenings and then a few hours later was having naked threesome fun with me and one of my best friends."

That is so hot

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Best thread so far, just proves no matter what professional roles we do, status or how we are respected in the community. We all love a good fucking.

I work in a professional qualified position, majority female dominated. The questions i get asked, why don't i have a girlfriend and if i go on any dating sites. I think my colleagues would be surprised to know about my sexual activities.

I can't help but have a grin on my face.

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Mrs L2 is very much prim & proper, very quiet...Few drinks & she is like real life porn star, can’t get enough of cock & pussy,loves gagging on cock, loves acting like a slut

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"I’ve been with my husband since I was 14 I’m a married stay at home mum of 3 and no one has a clue! I love that Monday to Friday I’m lunching, making school projects and I also make Disney hair bows and clothes and on weekends I’m taking 5/6 men. ( well I was before coronavirus) "

Definitely my kind of woman

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

I won’t reveal my job but it’s quite ‘sensible’ and people expect you to behave accordingly. I’m also a mother and have done all the mumsy things like PTA, school governor etc. (All very dull but you get roped into these things when people think you’re sensible!).

Everyone would be very surprised if they knew we were on here as we’ve been in a relationship together for many years and I think they see us as a ‘normal’ family. Real friends know we’ve got dirty minds and can be a bit naughty, they’d just be surprised it involved other people.

Lou x

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Best thread so far, just proves no matter what professional roles we do, status or how we are respected in the community. We all love a good fucking.

I work in a professional qualified position, majority female dominated. The questions i get asked, why don't i have a girlfriend and if i go on any dating sites. I think my colleagues would be surprised to know about my sexual activities.

I can't help but have a grin on my face. "

Similar to me : work in finance - and am very low key at work. At first people would ask what i was doing on weekend/or if i had a girlfriend...I always give vague answers. They would be totally shocked...

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Prim and proper in real life with a naughty alter ego is what makes it all the more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh this is so me.

Butter wouldn't melt face, professional job.

Standard mother, friend etc...

Little do they know I've gone shopping wearing no underwear.

Had lots of hot sweaty sex, in cars, hotel rooms, car bonnet.

And been to a club.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

No one would ever know

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

This is a really interesting thread - makes me feel better to know I'm in good company in my slutty private ways compared to my public life

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"This is a really interesting thread - makes me feel better to know I'm in good company in my slutty private ways compared to my public life "

You are definitely in good company !

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Brilliant thread and fascinating hearing people’s stories.

We fall into the category of normal family couple, no one would have any idea of our Fab fun and would be shocked to discover the things we got up to.

Always fascinated to know how people get into it in the first place xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for the amazing responses to our humble thread. I felt I’d struct on the essence of why this is different to just being liberated or promiscuous (if you want to be). The stories really have explained where the spark of electricity is to be found behind the routine and normal lives we appear to lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to everyone for the amazing responses to our humble thread. I felt I’d struct on the essence of why this is different to just being liberated or promiscuous (if you want to be). The stories really have explained where the spark of electricity is to be found behind the routine and normal lives we appear to lead. "

Thank you for starting a great thread. You are right, day to day life imposes limits while camouflaged carnal desires bubble away. You seem a really interesting couple whose spark seems to have lit a fire!

Happy Fabbing

Q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is a swinging wife who no one would suspect because their public life is so respectable- demure, refined, professional, mum, church goer etc but has a secret life even her closest friends don’t know about where she is a sex beast who dresses and acts so far from what her public image suggests. The wider the difference between the two lives the better!

Love to hear examples that illustrate the difference between the two sides of life

Definitely tick that box, stable relationship, professional jobs, all my friends think I’ve never even had a one night stand...... what they don’t know is that my favourite thing is to get fucked by a VWE guy, 10-15 years younger as husband watches on! "

You are one outrageously sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the best replies was sent to us privately as poster didn’t want their name and location sharing.

“We can’t comment on the forums as people might recognise her but my wife is a funeral director and well known in the local area amongst all the local churches etc. Coffee mornings with vicars and art competitions in the day, 4 man gangbangs at the weekend”"

Unreal

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

Hmmm that will be me then. Proper little goody two shoes LOL! Butter wouldn't melt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bluebird definitely qualifies. All of our family and friends think we’re straight-laced and probably quite boring! They haven’t got the first idea

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"One of the best replies was sent to us privately as poster didn’t want their name and location sharing.

“We can’t comment on the forums as people might recognise her but my wife is a funeral director and well known in the local area amongst all the local churches etc. Coffee mornings with vicars and art competitions in the day, 4 man gangbangs at the weekend”"

Dam that's great when we were first in this 1 meet in we went to a club in Bath. It was a quite night and only 4 cpls there. One if which were a younger cpl who were the most experienced. They were funeral directors! As for us pretty sure no-one has twigged our little hobby or the my wife has had 9 cocks spunking over her in one session!

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