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By *arkside2698 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

There are very few things left for me to tick off my fuckit list but a gangbang is one that I'd love to try. Recently I saw a couple looking for guys so after a few messages I was taken off site. I was told an approximate location, date and time and that there would be an entry fee of £100 per guy. Now I'd be more than happy to contribute towards hotel costs but £100 seems excessive to me. After all, a room in a Traveloge is only about £50. I couldn't make the date anyway but is this normal? It seems more like a commercial enterprise to me and when I actually get the opportunity to attend a gangbang, I'd like it to be because that's what the people are in to, and not to make a few quid. If only five guys turned up, that must be a right little earner. I know if you know where to look you can pay to attend these sort of things but they're done with escorts and it's really not my thing at all. I'd like it to be about fun and the experience, not someone going through the motions to grab some cash. Thoughts?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Gangbangs are probably the worst type of meet for single guys not turning up so charging them upfront might be a way of ensuring attendance.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Avoid.

I've discussed this on the forums before. Many will say it's to cover costs, hotel, food, drink etc. Personally I've never had to pay to attend a gb, couple or single. So when I see that contributions of any sort are expected I tend to avoid. That's not to say I wouldn't take a bottle or cake for a couple or single meet.

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

What does it matter if you pay £100, a tenner or free at a club night? Sounds like by your calculations you are only willing to pay a tenner (5 guys, one £50 Travelodge).

But seriously I suspect part of the reason is to make sure you turn up and that everyone who said they are going is serious as I've heard it's very common for guys not to turn up at the last minute.

Just to put it in perspective, even without staying overnight the average cost for us to go to say the VA on a Friday night is a minimum of £100 inc. petrol, entry, drink etc.

It's all a question of perspective, so if you are looking for a bargain then make them an offer but that may not get you very far!

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe they're planning a swanky hotel suite with a champagne buffet for the guests. It's interesting that you automatically assume it will be a dingy Travelodge room.

I think it's a case of finding out more information and if you feel it's not for you, then it's not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thinks fur sure.90% of single guys are absolute flannels. Lose their bottle all the time and let you down. I'd fed.mske them.oay if I organised one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave up trying to organise one on here

Go to a greedy girl party

Guaranteed attention

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Arrange at a club (when they open obviously). Everyone pays their own entry and no need to charge anyone anything then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thinks fur sure.90% of single guys are absolute flannels. Lose their bottle all the time and let you down. I'd fed.mske them.oay if I organised one."

Flannels

I like that

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"One thinks fur sure.90% of single guys are absolute flannels. Lose their bottle all the time and let you down. I'd fed.mske them.oay if I organised one.

Flannels

I like that"

made me smile as well!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"There are very few things left for me to tick off my fuckit list but a gangbang is one that I'd love to try. Recently I saw a couple looking for guys so after a few messages I was taken off site. I was told an approximate location, date and time and that there would be an entry fee of £100 per guy. Now I'd be more than happy to contribute towards hotel costs but £100 seems excessive to me. After all, a room in a Traveloge is only about £50. I couldn't make the date anyway but is this normal? It seems more like a commercial enterprise to me and when I actually get the opportunity to attend a gangbang, I'd like it to be because that's what the people are in to, and not to make a few quid. If only five guys turned up, that must be a right little earner. I know if you know where to look you can pay to attend these sort of things but they're done with escorts and it's really not my thing at all. I'd like it to be about fun and the experience, not someone going through the motions to grab some cash. Thoughts? "
. From my experience when I see a couple looking for 4-5 guys for a gang bang and I message for more details as soon as the message says £50 contribution and at a Travelodge then it’s a good chance it’s a escort. I know this as this has happen to me.Sex with a swinger and sex with a escort are two different things but when you are new it’s easy to get caught out.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

100% prostitution. They’ll tell you it’s to cover costs and all other nonsense that tries to Justify the money.

Your best bet is go to a club.

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"100% prostitution. They’ll tell you it’s to cover costs and all other nonsense that tries to Justify the money.

Your best bet is go to a club. "

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I could understand contributing to the cost of a room, but I agree that £100 is suspect.

I would avoid completely. As a girl who likes group sessions, I would be appalled to know men were paying for it without my knowledge. I usually tend to have a male friend set it up as I would crash the site with a post about a gangbang.

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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago

DERBY/Notts border


"There are very few things left for me to tick off my fuckit list but a gangbang is one that I'd love to try. Recently I saw a couple looking for guys so after a few messages I was taken off site. I was told an approximate location, date and time and that there would be an entry fee of £100 per guy. Now I'd be more than happy to contribute towards hotel costs but £100 seems excessive to me. After all, a room in a Traveloge is only about £50. I couldn't make the date anyway but is this normal? It seems more like a commercial enterprise to me and when I actually get the opportunity to attend a gangbang, I'd like it to be because that's what the people are in to, and not to make a few quid. If only five guys turned up, that must be a right little earner. I know if you know where to look you can pay to attend these sort of things but they're done with escorts and it's really not my thing at all. I'd like it to be about fun and the experience, not someone going through the motions to grab some cash. Thoughts? "
its not new quick way of making money and people pay but £100 seems alot even if shes fit why would you pay out when gangbangs are free i dont get it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gangbangs are probably the worst type of meet for single guys not turning up so charging them upfront might be a way of ensuring attendance."
it’s good idea but also best way to scam somebody

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"There are very few things left for me to tick off my fuckit list but a gangbang is one that I'd love to try. Recently I saw a couple looking for guys so after a few messages I was taken off site. I was told an approximate location, date and time and that there would be an entry fee of £100 per guy. Now I'd be more than happy to contribute towards hotel costs but £100 seems excessive to me. After all, a room in a Traveloge is only about £50. I couldn't make the date anyway but is this normal? It seems more like a commercial enterprise to me and when I actually get the opportunity to attend a gangbang, I'd like it to be because that's what the people are in to, and not to make a few quid. If only five guys turned up, that must be a right little earner. I know if you know where to look you can pay to attend these sort of things but they're done with escorts and it's really not my thing at all. I'd like it to be about fun and the experience, not someone going through the motions to grab some cash. Thoughts? "

I would suggest, attending your local clubs a few time (get your face known) and let the staff know you would like to attend one, they will be more than happy to help you, help people looking to organise one

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