FabSwingers.com forum: MF Singles as a Couple at events?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I voiced my concerns about going to clubs/events as a single fem to one of my playmates, and he said we should go as a couple instead, and play separately if we find peeps that tickle each other's fancy etc...

Just wondering if this is allowed/normal etc..., that's all

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

I'm sure you will get different answers, but..

In my observation it's not that normal as genuinely single men wandering around on couples only nights is frowned on. Most people see you arrive as a couple and expect you to play as a couple.

Some clubs will actually round up roving guys and send them back to their partners, its to stop the guys who bring a 'pass' to get in that has no intention of playing, or has be 'told' to sit to one side to wait for him.

That being said, if you're a single bi female you are in demand at any time. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure you will get different answers, but..

In my observation it's not that normal as genuinely single men wandering around on couples only nights is frowned on. Most people see you arrive as a couple and expect you to play as a couple.

That being said, if you're a single bi female you are in demand at any time. LOL

We agree,you saved us saying it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We intend to play as a couple for sure

And no, straight fem here, with no bi tendency!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends where u are going ???? they probably have some type of "house rules " on their website ,best to check that out before you get there ...as u dont want to be embarrassed on the night .ive been to clubs where the couples rule is the LAW!!!! u arrive together u stay together ...simple as !!!

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

yeah got tbh we hate seeing guys in play rooms on there own at couples only do,s, and have seen them been asked to leave on more than one occasion,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is highly unlikely we would go to "couples" only events, only those that have a mix of couples and singles.

Thanks for the info/advice btw, much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I voiced my concerns about going to clubs/events as a single fem to one of my playmates, and he said we should go as a couple instead, and play separately if we find peeps that tickle each other's fancy etc...

Just wondering if this is allowed/normal etc..., that's all

im a single female and usually go to clubs alone, i will go with guys if i like them, and i have no problem with them playing without me so long as they dont get huffy if i do the same, its allowed in most clubs, ive never had a problem playing separately when going in as a couple, only thing i dont like is guys who just use me to get thro the door cause its either cheaper or they cant get a single males membership, ive had that a few times whnere they have pissed off as soon as they have got thro the door

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

If you go to a couples only night then you'd have to stay together, mixed night wouldn't be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always nice to go with a mate hun, even if you both play separately, i always go with a fella that way i know if i have hassle i got someone to help me. have fun whatever you decide xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

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"If you go to a couples only night then you'd have to stay together, mixed night wouldn't be a problem"

I confess to having no knowledge of clubs in the UK but what happens if she fancies a gangbang and he gets invited to share another woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you go to a couples only night then you'd have to stay together, mixed night wouldn't be a problem

I confess to having no knowledge of clubs in the UK but what happens if she fancies a gangbang and he gets invited to share another woman?"

you wouldnt get that on a couples night, ive been using clubs for about 9 years now and honestly gang bangs on couples nights just dont happen lol if it was a mixed nights that would be fine, and to be honest on a couples night i doubt the guy with get approched by another women in my experience couples stay together couples nights, i guess thats why they choose to go on a couples night, i went to a club just last night with a male i have met a few times and we spent more time apart than together and it was fine, with it being a mixed night dont think anyone even noticed as there was singles in there anyway

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