FabSwingers.com forum: Since joining fab?

By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Do you feel as if you are losing touch with vanilla friends?. Sadly i think i am but feel more at home with fab friends and my new fab life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Or me I don't fab is a small part of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we keep our vanilla friends separate from friends on here.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just feel feel more at ease with fab friends. My circle of friends is very small but we are worlds apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always felt out of place with vanilla friends... Fab actually helps me to relate to them lol

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I've always felt out of place with vanilla friends... Fab actually helps me to relate to them lol"

I always felt out of place too. Now i feel at home.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

When with vanilla friends i feel as if i am putting on an act. With fab friends i can be the real me.

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

"When with vanilla friends i feel as if i am putting on an act. With fab friends i can be the real me."

Defo relate!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not really. They are completely separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love our vanilla friends and would always pick them first for a nice night out or simply a little chat on the phone.

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By *alerieCouple
over a year ago

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"We love our vanilla friends and would always pick them first for a nice night out or simply a little chat on the phone.

This

The "Fab lifestyle" is only a small part of my life , vanilla friends and family comes first . I'll add that my nearest and dearest are aware of my sexy antics anyway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 separate lives for me

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes.

Although I joined shortly after moving and shortly before lockdown. So that could be a coincidence.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I try to treat everyone the same but I find that Fab 'friendships' are rather transient. I think they either wanted a relationship or a fuck. Nothing else.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you feel as if you are losing touch with vanilla friends?. Sadly i think i am but feel more at home with fab friends and my new fab life."

No, not at all.

Mainly 'cause only a few non-fab friends know I like to dress up and... none of them want to fuck me.

This is a different reality for me.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope, and sometimes we are even thinking if they are really vanilla.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Separate lives between friends, work & fab. Has been an occasionally drifted with great results

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't really have any that I see or speak to regularly.

May sound weird but I moved from my home town where most of my friends were from my sporting team anyway, I'd defo catch up with them given the chance but it's more a "wish each other happy birthday via Facefuck" kinda thing now. It's been 15 years since we last saw each other.

When I moved it was to be with the dude who turned out to be an abusive twat, so I wasn't allowed my own mates, not that I knew anyone in the area anyway.

I made workfriends, that's about as vanilla as my friends go. We're close, and a good few of them know about the lifestyle.

Almost all of my actual mates are people I've met some way or another through the scene. So I'd say I'm not losing touch with vanilla friends, as I suppose I haven't had any for a very long time anyway.

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By *4damMan
over a year ago

Walsall

No not for me, Fab has given me the opportunities that I wouldn't explore in everyday life. I've mostly kept my work mates separate from those friends that I've grown up with. I believe life is less complicated by doing this and I'm an uncomplicated type of guy.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Friends are friends... simples

Fab or Vanilla.. a friend is a friend.. I never differentiate K xx

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

depends. i have few friends but they are solid not fair weather.

some also know I am into Fet/kink stuff too.

i dont really mind if they know or not tbh.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We are similar with our kink circle of friends.

We still meet and do things with our non kink friends, but our kink friends meet us on a different level mentally and socially, so its different but feels natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla friends are true and real. Fab friends are truly fab..

1 chap been a rock off here.. He knows who he is... 500miles away but still cares.

Guess just get the balance

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I think you need a mix of both. I can tell fab friends things I wouldn't tell my vanilla, but that also works in reverse. Some things I can't discuss with my non fab friends.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No definitely not. But we have vanilla friends who we often wonder if they would enjoy the swinging lifestyle x

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