FabSwingers.com forum: Has Fabswingers turned you bi?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else found that their bi side has only emerged since being on here?

I'm pretty sure plenty of guys like myself have only found themselves wanting to play with other guys since they joined.

Is it because it's easier to meet other men than it is women or could it be something else.

I never even thought about being bi before I came on here as a straight guy, agreed to meet a bi couple and now I love a nice cock!

That's not to say ladies and couples aren't at the top of tge list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs bi side has come out since swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i think it opened up my eyes to the world of guys

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By *hyguy187Man
over a year ago

Maybe near to you!

Absolutely it has! It's allowed me to be brave and get to know people whom I may never had before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, due to meeting some sexy bi couples and just going with the flow so to speak.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I can relate to this and think it is due to being in situations that would never occur in my day to day life.

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

"Mrs bi side has come out since swinging "
it's hard not to touch or have your cock touched,some men we've had as a MMF just linger with the touch ,exciting yes,still waiting for my Mrs to show her bi side

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By *traightrimmerMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes, defo turned from straight to wank and suck bisexual over the last few year. I’m wanting to suck my first cock soon....

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By *amb_ManMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It’s definitely opened my eyes up too. In a good way.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I think seeing people accepting of exploration and encouraging it is a benefit of the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we were both bi before coming on fab. Both of us had played with the same sex a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, being in those situations of extreme eroticism definitely opened my eye to erges that I didn't know I had... Looking forward to sucking my first cock..

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By *st-1982Man
over a year ago

Arundel

Yes but I was (am) gay before and it’s got me fascinated with pussy now. I will always be a slave for the dick but can’t stop thinking about pussy and watching straight porn now. Really want to go down on a girl and explore her pussy.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Nope. I always knew I was bi. Fab gave me the opportunity to explore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

It was guy I met off another site that told me about this place

I don't think he's on here any longer

Shame, cos his blow jobs were fkin awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the gorgeous girls on here, how could we not be a little bit bi

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

not in the slightest,its either in you or its not...ask yourself what brought you to fab in the 1st place & don't feel guilty about what you are....its like its fab's fault lol

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Fab didn't but Tiktok did

The lesbians on there are hot

Katie.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Ben here it’s got me thinking I have had a lot of offers from men to give me a blowjob and I must say have been thinking about it but that’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I knew years before joining this but it has enabled me to play with more ladies

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By *wansguy300Man
over a year ago

swansea

Wouldn't say it turned me bi, I had never given it much thought till I joined and it just made sense.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

No, I’ve always been bi and just love a sexy lady as much now as I did years ago before fab! Mr PC is straight and will never stray away from that, just not his thing! Everyone’s different right!

Miss PC xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope but has made me feel extremely horny

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I joined to make sure I really was bi and not just straight having tried it out the once.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, still 100% straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and loving it!

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By *uayside Glory HoleMan
over a year ago

Gateshead Quayside

I’ve tempted more than a few straight lads to try the gloryhole. Some become regulars and the ones that do invariable after 3 or 4 visits express a desire to either touch or suck my cock. When you’ve got a discreet safe space to explore with no fear of judgement I think it’s a rare person who won’t take the opportunity to at least try.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

If anything the opposite for me, have been bi all my life, but some of the messages I receive on here have made me less interested in guys, dont know if I just attract illiterate fools or most guys realy are as depraved as they seem.

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"I’ve tempted more than a few straight lads to try the gloryhole. Some become regulars and the ones that do invariable after 3 or 4 visits express a desire to either touch or suck my cock. When you’ve got a discreet safe space to explore with no fear of judgement I think it’s a rare person who won’t take the opportunity to at least try. "

they are obviously not straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but visits to our local club with my perv of a girlfriend has certainly let me embrace my bi side more

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By *x200Man
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes, I think it's because of how open minded the site is that made me open my own mind more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope alway been bi

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By *obra1967Man
over a year ago

Palmerstown

It hasn’t yet, but I can see why you are asking as I have a curiosity now about cocks I never had before. I do wonder what it’s like to stroke another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a grip pal they were never straight, they are either confused or in deep denial. Or just pandering to your fantasy pretending to be straight. No genuine straight male would stick his dick through a hole for another man to suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not in the slightest,its either in you or its not...ask yourself what brought you to fab in the 1st place & don't feel guilty about what you are....its like its fab's fault lol"

Exactly, just bringing out what is really there, even if deep down and unintentionally hidden

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes, the site has made me curious about being with another man. Not brave enough to have tried it yet though

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I used to groan with dismay at the endless requests from guys who wanted to know if I'd be willing to let them suck my cock as well as fuck their Mrs.

It got even worse when I discovered the concept of

c u c k o l d i n g

I finally got worn down by a cuckold and said I'd let him hold and lick my cock but he wasn't under any circumstances allowed to have the end of my cock in his mouth....

Oh how I laugh now

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

It was intrigue - watching women enjoy a cock and seeing erect cocks planted a seed in my mind. My bi side isn’t dominant but it can make some scenarios very erotic.

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I can relate to this and think it is due to being in situations that would never occur in my day to day life."

THIS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi by nature here but I'm working at converting the non believers

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Nop! straight as a fiddle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My craving for cock I think did it in the end.

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By *d_PrestonMan
over a year ago

Preston, Leyland, Chorley & Blackpool areas

"Nope. I always knew I was bi. Fab gave me the opportunity to explore it. "

I agree, I think I was always interested in having bi fun, fab just made it easier to have it... and there are lots of horny guys on here who want it too.

As others have said, Fab provides a generally open-minded environment where people can be honest about what they enjoy/want to try, so people talk openly about what they want and (hopefully) get it.

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By *ike oxard2018Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Definitely, originally joined as I was in a loveless marriage and hadn't had sex in 4 years, my profile was straight and I was wanting to meet with women but within minutes of joining I had about 20 messages from guys wanting to suck my cock. Got chatting with one guy who offered a massage and I went to his he massaged me sucked my cock and used toys in my ass, even blew me again in his shower before I left. within 2 weeks I'd fucked my first guy and never looked back, I'm bi and proud.

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

"I can relate to this and think it is due to being in situations that would never occur in my day to day life."

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I had some experience before fab with other lads but certainly found more since joining here and definitely other mates who I’ve got to join have had first time experiences on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had any bisexual feelings until I started swinging. I don’t really think that often about women at all.But at a party or in a club it is totally different and I love it

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think seeing people accepting of exploration and encouraging it is a benefit of the community

I recognise that lady and that room lol

I was bi before fab but I feel its definitley more common on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the amazing replies folks! I probably should have titled the question 'Did Fabs bring out the bi side in you?' rather than turning you bi.

The interesting thing I find is that away from Fabs, I don't have the slightest bi feelings towards guys.

That's what makes Fabs so bloody great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but it helped me to stop denying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It hasn’t yet, but I can see why you are asking as I have a curiosity now about cocks I never had before. I do wonder what it’s like to stroke another guy."

Much like stroking your own I imagine?

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No I started when I was young and before the internet existed lol

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth

It's much much easier for men to meet men rather than women or couples on here - at the risk of stating the obvious.

So if I want sex, my choice is usually "cock" or "no sex".

Not the end of the world, however. I've been lucky enough to meet some really nice guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Fab just gives greater exposure to the idea and makes it less taboo. Although there are still plenty of guys who publicly hold their 'straightness' as some sort of badge of honour, as if being anything else is deviant.

We all have preferences. I have no problem being touched or even sucked by some guys if the moment is right. But I'm not attracted to guys and feel no need to touch, suck or do anything else with them.

I think that just makes me more open-minded about enjoying physical contact rather than being labeled 'straight', 'bi' or anything else. For example, I modelled for a photographer guy who got a bit 'handy', and received a massage that was very sensual. They didn't expect reciprocation and I was relaxed about them enjoying themselves within boundaries.

Why do people get hung up about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from being on here, but definately from entering the swinging scene

Bi threesomes and orgies are just so much more fulfilling.

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

No and I wish blokes would stop asking to discretely suck my cock.... I’m not ashamed it’s just not my thing!

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By *uzzardballsMan
over a year ago

lancaster

For me it’s a combination of not having had sex for more than two years along with the e posture to the idea that has turned my head. I really want to be bi in a mmf but increasingly I’d settle for a mural wank with a good looking lad any offers?

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Yes, would have never dreamed of being with a girl, fwb brought a girl for us to play with, tied me down and told me to behave and do as I was told

I did and now I have a girlfriend!!!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I had my first MFF threesome years before joining here, but I am certainly more curious now than I was then. There is a welcome openness to exploration on here.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Has anyone else found that their bi side has only emerged since being on here?

I'm pretty sure plenty of guys like myself have only found themselves wanting to play with other guys since they joined.

Is it because it's easier to meet other men than it is women or could it be something else.

I never even thought about being bi before I came on here as a straight guy, agreed to meet a bi couple and now I love a nice cock!

That's not to say ladies and couples aren't at the top of tge list

I still wouldn’t class myself as fully bi as I rarely play with women alone and wouldn’t have an all night hotel meet with a woman or a relationship. I’m definitely bi playful though and find some women very sexy. Didn’t have many experiences with women prior to fab! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the pleasure part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m definitely bi playful though and find some women very sexy.".

I like the term 'bi-playful'. That sums it up nicely!

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It has turned hubby bi but that's what I like

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sue was curious ....not any more

...thank you fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a penis when I joined!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a penis when I joined!

Oh wow, that's amazing. You look bloody great for it too!

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

its definitely turned me shes still on the fence tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its definitely turned me shes still on the fence tho lol"
you can have a lot of MMF fun then

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

oh yes of course

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

Fabswingers has made me very Curious to explore new experience with couples and try things out I wouldn't have when I started 8 years ago.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No. I've always been fully bi. It's the main reason we first joined here.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fabswingers specifically but the lifestyle and clubs certainly has allowed me to explore my sexuality in a way i couldn’t before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a penis when I joined!

Oh wow, that's amazing. You look bloody great for it too!"

Fanks

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

No but it gave me an opportunity to explore my curiosity which I doubt I would have had without fab

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

It’s been an eye-opener for me to the range of ways people define and describe themselves (and the annoyance those descriptions cause others, sometimes with good reason). And the enthusiasm for bi-male activity from more women than I’d experienced than before venturing in here.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Not fabswingers specifically but the lifestyle and clubs certainly has allowed me to explore my sexuality in a way i couldn’t before. "

Yup, totally agree... feel more free tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely bought it out. Would like to try it with a bi couple

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I had no desire, or curiousity towards women until joining here.

I think having enjoyed one thing you never considered, leads you to consider other things with a more open mind towards possibilities.

Now I love playing with a gorgeous woman and the term bi-playful aptly describes where I'm at. I've been somewhat craving the touch of a woman in a MFF or MFFM since lockdown.

C x

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By *ob_bieMan
over a year ago

Bath

"I can relate to this and think it is due to being in situations that would never occur in my day to day life."

Absolutely agree, this has happened to me and it’s really opened up my eyes

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Yesss very

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Not so much this site but threesomes with a very good friend of mine certainly fuelled that fire for me.

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Think I was bi before we joined this has just increased my need for it

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

The minute I said yes to a man asking me to dress up like a girl I knew I was no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no for me (mr)

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

"Has anyone else found that their bi side has only emerged since being on here?

I'm pretty sure plenty of guys like myself have only found themselves wanting to play with other guys since they joined.

Is it because it's easier to meet other men than it is women or could it be something else.

I never even thought about being bi before I came on here as a straight guy, agreed to meet a bi couple and now I love a nice cock!

That's not to say ladies and couples aren't at the top of tge list

I think its prison syndrome no women available but still need sex so you go with what's available same here no chance of real sex but loads of horny guys who all need to cum do it's a compromise over being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else found that their bi side has only emerged since being on here?

I'm pretty sure plenty of guys like myself have only found themselves wanting to play with other guys since they joined.

Is it because it's easier to meet other men than it is women or could it be something else.

I never even thought about being bi before I came on here as a straight guy, agreed to meet a bi couple and now I love a nice cock!

That's not to say ladies and couples aren't at the top of tge list

So,you're saying because you can't get a woman on fab,you have sex with men

What about the 100S of thousands of women,millions,that aren't on fab??

It's not obligatory,being a fab member,to have sex with another fab member.

Life goes on outside of fab

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No. Our local swinging club did x

Mrs N x

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not turned, but helped me realise.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Gave me the opportunity to be honest about it.

And, to find a partner that accepted, embraced and encourages it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s a place that has opportunities x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Most of the messages I get are from straight guys that just want a quick bj. I guess a little bi fun is an option when the ladies aren't playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a bi couple really opened my eyes! On reflection I guess I was always bi but did nothing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fling with a married couple for 2 years, it was very straight but when we ran out of things to try (we tried everything!) the guy from the couple asked to suck my cock, at first it didn’t do anything for me but over the next few meets I relaxed a lot more and looked forward to it, my biggest regret is I never repaid the favour and fantasise about it all the time.

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By *irty workmanMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

It’s definitely opened my eyes and made me very comfortable in other males company and relax go with the flow very exciting

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By *lixerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh for sure.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope. Not bi in the slightest. Sorry.

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By *cepuncMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Was bi long before fab, but fab doesn't half make me want more. The problem is that it's a challenge to find suitable play mates near me

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By *itandSteveCouple
over a year ago

Stroud

Kit here. I was Bi but in a very staid marriage for many years with an Ex Husband who was far from adventurous.

I eventually left and discovered Fab and truly indulged with both M and F partners for a very hedonistic 5 months.

I met S on a conventional dating site and within weeks we’d opened up to each other about desires etc. Now he was “straight” but open minded and happy to indulge. Never forget his first time sharing a cock with me.

10 wonderful years later !!! Best of times xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Nope. It would be really easy for me to meet men to get my cock sucked, pretty much whenever I wanted! I'm sure the bi guys have a ball (no pun intended) in here, but me getting intimate with a guy just does not appeal, sorry

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

It's bringing Jane's bi curiosity out, Yee Ha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

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By *ethRyanCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Not really although has confirmed it!

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Most of the messages I get are from straight guys that just want a quick bj. I guess a little bi fun is an option when the ladies aren't playing "

they are obviously not srtaight ffs

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!"

its not...its called denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial"

Ah, the old "must be bi" or "can't be straight" argument raises it's head again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial"

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...

We've both always been bisexual.

Swinging has simply made it easier to explore our sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have definitely tried new things that I would never of done before Fab...

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By *obbiec976Man
over a year ago

London & Midlands

Fab has just made it easier to explore my desires. It opened my mind to what was possible - and made me realise that others shared my kinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else found that their bi side has only emerged since being on here?

I'm pretty sure plenty of guys like myself have only found themselves wanting to play with other guys since they joined.

Is it because it's easier to meet other men than it is women or could it be something else.

I never even thought about being bi before I came on here as a straight guy, agreed to meet a bi couple and now I love a nice cock!

That's not to say ladies and couples aren't at the top of tge list

It was Bi guys from Fabguys that were telling me about Fabswingers having a number of bi guys on here looking for men also, but also the added attraction of ladies in the mix. so here I am in both looking for both..

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Was bi before I joined the site, just gives me more options.

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I have been bi for over 40 years. This site, and others I have been on, had nothing to do with that choice. But I wish that we had had the Internet back then.

A bit like the only gay in the village, I thought it was rare.

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By *aughtyman45Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Fab hasn’t turned me bi it has facilitated it lol

I was bi before discovering fab. Kinda wish it was around years ago

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

No I’ve always been bi!

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By *ust fun9TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Just by meeting a bi curious couple it made me realise that it was all good to be bi orally playful.

Although apprehensive and actually unsure, the wife encouraged me and I wouldn't have experienced it had I not had the urge either.

It was amazing for everyone, just keep to your boundaries and limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wanted to fully try another girl as I had tried partly before but not fully.Just kissing and touching nothing else.

I joined looking for a Male and the guy I found I meet regularly and he has a gf that I now also meet regularly as we've become quite close.

So fab didn't turn me bi circumstances did if that makes sense

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

I'd love a cute trans girl or to be encouraged by a hot couple but a lady would *have* to be involved there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love a cute trans girl or to be encouraged by a hot couple but a lady would *have* to be involved there somewhere"

Surely the trans girl is a lady.

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"I'd love a cute trans girl or to be encouraged by a hot couple but a lady would *have* to be involved there somewhere

Surely the trans girl is a lady. "

I 100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But men's shitty, selfish nonsense is rapidly turning me lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love a cute trans girl or to be encouraged by a hot couple but a lady would *have* to be involved there somewhere

Surely the trans girl is a lady.

I 100% agree

Lol. Glad to hear it! I’m trans and I was a female before my op too

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Ah, the old "must be bi" or "can't be straight" argument raises it's head again."

in the real world there is no argument...wtf do you think the word 'straight' actually means?

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

not if their really straight they don't,it just wouldn't happen

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Yeah...I’ll blame Fabs for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

not if their really straight they don't,it just wouldn't happen"

This is why people say sexuality is a sliding scale.

Words are just made up things we use to describe things. There’s more to sexuality than straight, gay and bisexual. Some people don’t find both men and women attractive. For instance a woman may like boobs but be freaked out by vaginas. If you simply say ‘soz luv. You’re bi and that includes everything understood to be encompassed by the bisexual label’ she may think that a bit much.

Nothing wrong with giving a softer version of bi. Bi playful sounds good to me.

Sorry if that doesn’t fit your narrow minded criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah...

We've both always been bisexual.

Swinging has simply made it easier to explore our sexuality.

"
There’s plenty of exploring to be done

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

no but other way around, i have turned fabs bi

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

""I’m definitely bi playful though and find some women very sexy.".

I like the term 'bi-playful'. That sums it up nicely!

Happy to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I’m definitely bi playful though and find some women very sexy.".

I like the term 'bi-playful'. That sums it up nicely!

Happy to help!

"
*sits watches with a cup of tea

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

Possibly more bi.

Certainly had more access to same sex meets but still prefer the hete

exible tag to bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I can absolutely say not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

Quite. What a shame some people don't understand this and think in black and white terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no but other way around, i have turned fabs bi

'Fab-bi' ... love it! A nice counterpoint to 'Fab-straight'!

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By *inksplusoneortwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

not if their really straight they don't,it just wouldn't happen

This is why people say sexuality is a sliding scale.

Nothing wrong with giving a softer version of bi. Bi playful sounds good to me.

Sorry if that doesn’t fit your narrow minded criteria

its not narrow minded...where do you think the world would be if words don't mean anything?

T his idiotic "bi playful"nonsense is just another way for some to feel less guilty about their sexuality...

BTW i told my boss today that i am no longer a Graphic designer as i don't like labels....nah that would be daft....wouldn't it?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm gay and absolutely nothing could turn me bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm comfortably straight and have been all my life and I'm pretty sure that won't change. But I'm pleased for any people that have been able to explore any limits due to Fab. Shows the site works!

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By *hrees for meMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yes I'm sure it has. Not meeting at the moment but I'm watching porn and ,god am I looking forward to some cock play. Only with couples but God I'm getting turned on at the sight of one

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By *enuineCoupleCheshireBBWCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Simply yes but there again as a younger guy my mates and myself would often have a crafty wank in the woods and I knew I liked watching them pulling away before blowing their load as much as I like to watch women play with their own pleasure

Love to give head and have done now just be good when all this stuff blows over forgive the pun to get going again as a couple

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Simply yes but there again as a younger guy my mates and myself would often have a crafty wank in the woods and I knew I liked watching them pulling away before blowing their load as much as I like to watch women play with their own pleasure

Love to give head and have done now just be good when all this stuff blows over forgive the pun to get going again as a couple

Yep, we used to wank in our bedrooms (of legal age of course!) - used to love seeing other cocks go from soft to hard to spunking.

Considered myself straight when I joined Fab, but over the years got more interested in cocks.

And then before you know it I'm on my hands and knees with an erect penis drilling in and out of my anus

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Meeting a bi couple really opened my eyes! On reflection I guess I was always bi but did nothing about it"

Not bi till u try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me.... My curious side was aroused in mmf..

So yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, had not really considered guys before untill my first meet on here with a young bi couple. Was an amazing experience annive never looked back

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Nope and I've never had an inkling to play or to be played with someone of the same sex. Like all straight guys the idea of it turns our stomach.

Do what you want to do.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Started for me in Secrets, Devon. A big group play on their four poster when I found out that a guy was giving me a fantastic blow job.

Generally, I find now that guys are better than girls at cock play, less afraid of squeezing to hard.

Find now that group play with all bi players is just more fun

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

The term 'Bi playful' is perfect. Totally sums up what so man people feel.

Well done to whoever coined that!

its not...its called denial

Lots of people don’t get turned on by the same sex but if they’re already aroused find themselves open to things they might not otherwise do

not if their really straight they don't,it just wouldn't happen

This is why people say sexuality is a sliding scale.

Nothing wrong with giving a softer version of bi. Bi playful sounds good to me.

Sorry if that doesn’t fit your narrow minded criteria

its not narrow minded...where do you think the world would be if words don't mean anything?

T his idiotic "bi playful"nonsense is just another way for some to feel less guilty about their sexuality...

BTW i told my boss today that i am no longer a Graphic designer as i don't like labels....nah that would be daft....wouldn't it?"

Hello!

I think I’m the one who coined the term ‘bi playful’ - certainly on this thread anyway - not sure if I’m the originator though!

I’d like to assure you that in no way do I feel any ‘guilt’ about my sexuality. We’re I fully bisexual I’d be more than happy to admit that. It’s not about labels - it’s about honesty. By describing myself as bisexual I feel I’d be intimating that I’m as attracted to females - both with regard to sexual predilection and to a potential relationship - as I am to males - and this is simply not the case!

I wouldn’t contemplate being in a relationship with a female - and if I was propositioned in a club by a very hot chap and a very hot lady - unless they were up for a threesome (kerching

) I’d go for the guy - because he has the penis and they’re top trumps (though feminine lips and boobies are bloody lovely too - you see the quandary?

)

I also only play with women and couples in a club/party setting - whereas I’d happily spend a whole ‘dirty weekend’ (and have) with a hot chap!

So - ya see? Bi playful - not bisexual!

Huge hugs

Peachy

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Love to give head and have done now just be good when all this stuff blows over forgive the pun to get going again as a couple

Yep, we used to wank in our bedrooms (of legal age of course!) - used to love seeing other cocks go from soft to hard to spunking.

Considered myself straight when I joined Fab, but over the years got more interested in cocks.

And then before you know it I'm on my hands and knees with an erect penis drilling in and out of my anus

I found that description surprisingly hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting couples led me to consider then act on sexual contact between males .

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By *exyajmalMan
over a year ago

oxford

Yes it is definitely opened up my sexual fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has certainly got us thinking about T’s bi side.

Desperate for him to suck a cock this year

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Has certainly got us thinking about T’s bi side.

Desperate for him to suck a cock this year "

He will enjoy

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Bi playful a lot

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yes definitely I love it though

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By *isFabMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would say yes, started off her as you would say straight, but I've never had any hang ups and have always been open regards sexuality, each to their own, I played long-term with a cpl where the guy was bi and after a while our sexual relationship took what felt a natural progression to where we all had experiences with each other

That has led to me posting as bi now, I do like playing with both sexes when the opportunity arises ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just think how much sex there would be if everyone was bi?!

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

No, ...first occurred during teenage years in his case....during a club visit in her case...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah totally agree. My bi side became apparent when i arranged to meet with my girls panties.. Saw his cock get hard as he put them on his face... Loved cock ever since but dont generally find men attractive.. Strange haha

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

yes both me and my hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really, but I find myself looking at tv/ts since joining!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

No not in the slightest

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Yes but I was (am) gay before and it’s got me fascinated with pussy now. I will always be a slave for the dick but can’t stop thinking about pussy and watching straight porn now. Really want to go down on a girl and explore her pussy. "

Wow that seems quite unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since being on fab and now being single has bought the Bi side out of me , never thought of playing with cocks when was married ,but now have played with a couple of cocks oral only but like the feel of a nice big cock ,would ideally now like to meet a bi couple for cock and pussy play.

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

Well I am the same I came on here looking for some fun with couples and obviously I like to slip into stockings but I never regarding myself as bisexual but ever since I’ve been on here and been with a few couples it certainly has wanted me to play more with the husbands and the wife at the same time and now it is my criteria so I would say this site has made me bi A lot more than I thought I was

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

No I met my wife she was already Bi, explained the ground rules that she loves ladies as much as men, she would only play with me present and the other lady can be touched, licked and kissed by me but I was only allowed to be sucked by her, no full sex.

19 years on we are still going strong xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, had been thinking about sucking a cock for years and joined fab guys first. Came on here looking to fulfil my bi couple fantasy x

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By *ala40TV/TS
over a year ago

motherwell

Yes have became more curious since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I was bi-curious before - coming on here has allowed me to confirm it..

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I never thought of licking a women now can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys was first meet, but couple fun is preffered lol

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