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Fuck Buddy!! why does she want to get serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got myself an older fuckbuddy in her late forties who likes dressing up in stockings and boots.

It was all good at first but now the cougar is getting upset if I don't go over to hers and fuck her all the time.

She gets angry with me like we are in a serious relationship, when all we started out as was fuckbuddies because I told her I was a swinger and suggested she tried it because she wasn't getting much action.

Any advice on what I can do?

Tonight is ok because I've said I was off out with the lads to watch the boxing

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

DUMP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest again and this time make sure she gets it!

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By *on101bristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Send her a link to this thread in forum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/110079

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Send her a link to this thread in forum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/110079

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only checked the link, you gits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older fuck buddy... Cougar... Not getting much action........"

You sound like a total dreamboat. Heartwarming. Clearly doing your bit for the elderly, good for you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why does dressing up in stockings and boots figure...

actually, mention you prefer tights and flats...

end of, she won't darken your boudoir again

next.....

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

You're fucked!

Talk it over or knock it on the head or this will end badly - it always does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B*gger! I can't see the link on the mobile but for what it's worth, the lady has obviously developed feelings for you, despite what you've said. You need to spell it all out again to her & if she still doesn't get it, let her know you won't be round again. No need to be harsh, none of us know her & her circumstances - and YOU don't need a bunny boiler scenario....

Just my tuppence worth

Mrs GT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"B*gger! I can't see the link on the mobile but for what it's worth, the lady has obviously developed feelings for you, despite what you've said. You need to spell it all out again to her & if she still doesn't get it, let her know you won't be round again. No need to be harsh, none of us know her & her circumstances - and YOU don't need a bunny boiler scenario....

Just my tuppence worth

Mrs GT"

thanks at least this is real good advice

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"I only checked the link, you gits...."

I did too haha.

However, on a more helpful note, you really do need to sit her down and ask her where she sees this relationship as you only see this as nsa fuck buddy and she is ruining the pleasure for you by being so possessive. As another poster said, if she can't accept nsa then you will be going, never to return xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bugger i cant get the link either!

Ive heard it said by others, that swinging with the same people all the time isnt always a good thing.

perhaps time to 'kindly' ditch and find new playmates.

sometimes its difficult keeping emotions out of this stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her that you both need to meet other people.

otherwise its just like being married.

you will get bored with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition of Fuck Bud is someone with whom you skip the serious and get right down to the fuck. Find a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy and possessiveness can destroy a relationship, even for NSA ones.

Time to move on I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AM I the only 1 in here who read the Ops post and noticed it isn't about commitment?

She wants MORE sex, not a key to your place or romantic dates.

To be honest, she only has sex with the Op because she probably thinks he is the best she can get. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to be honest with her and tell you what you want from her and what you don't want, if she does not feel the same then time to move on - fuck buddies are supposed to be just that no strings attached

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Introduce her to this site .. she will get a fair bit of choice then and let you off the hook..

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"AM I the only 1 in here who read the Ops post and noticed it isn't about commitment?

She wants MORE sex, not a key to your place or romantic dates.

To be honest, she only has sex with the Op because she probably thinks he is the best she can get. LOL "

Maybe he can't keep 'up'

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By *weetcheekstooWoman
over a year ago

southampton


"Send her a link to this thread in forum

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/110079

class funny as you like she will get it

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid before she kidnaps you and smashes your ankles with a sledgehammer

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Got myself an older fuckbuddy in her late forties who likes dressing up in stockings and boots.

It was all good at first but now the cougar is getting upset if I don't go over to hers and fuck her all the time.

She gets angry with me like we are in a serious relationship, when all we started out as was fuckbuddies because I told her I was a swinger and suggested she tried it because she wasn't getting much action.

Any advice on what I can do?

Tonight is ok because I've said I was off out with the lads to watch the boxing "
give her one of your porn movies to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the risk with single people (Men or women).

Keep them at cock length, but no closer...

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