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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx" You think you have a tough time, just wait lol...... | |||
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"Enough fakes on here please do not add to them " Yeah, that’s my feeling about it .. | |||
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"How would ypu feel if you made a daye with a lady who said she was 30...and it turned out to be a 60 year old bloke...i think youd ne annoyed. Tell the truth" Yeah, very true! | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx" Embrace being in the "50" club | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xxEmbrace being in the "50" club " I’ll happily do so so long as someone loves embracing 50 yr olds! Xx | |||
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"Pretty much every guy I've met or chatted to on here has shaved a few years off. Doesn't bother me " That's true, the majority we've met have too. So have the women mind you. | |||
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"I’m nearly 56 and would never alter my age. There is an old adage that “there is someone for everyone “ I forever live in hope”" As you know on here ....two types of hope ...Bob...& No....LOL | |||
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"Pretty much every guy I've met or chatted to on here has shaved a few years off. Doesn't bother me " I hadn’t realised til recently how common this is. Perhaps I should have lied too | |||
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"Pretty much every guy I've met or chatted to on here has shaved a few years off. Doesn't bother me I hadn’t realised til recently how common this is. Perhaps I should have lied too " When you look like you do, you seriously don’t need to! Xx | |||
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"If you choose to fake your age forecasting it on a public forum is not the wisest thing to do." .... is a very good point! But I’m happy everyone here thinks it’s not a good idea anyhow. | |||
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"Not all ladies are wanting younger men. I'm looking for more older men, the dad bods,the men you don't need to tell what you want they have been here for a long while and got the experience and know . So don't give up op or change your age. Many women are looking for your type of man. Good luck xxx " Thank you! I’ll stick to the faith xxx | |||
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"If it came out, I'd wonder what else you'd faked. This does remind me, though, I've got to ask a friend of mine, how ten years ago she managed to be older than me, but is now younger than me, according to her profile on here " Does she drive a DeLorean by any chance? | |||
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"Not all ladies are wanting younger men. I'm looking for more older men, the dad bods,the men you don't need to tell what you want they have been here for a long while and got the experience and know . So don't give up op or change your age. Many women are looking for your type of man. Good luck xxx Thank you! I’ll stick to the faith xxx" Good man! Mind you, if you weren't in Edinburgh and were therefore presenting competition in my age group and area, I'd say what the heck, knock 10 off and another 5 for luck | |||
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"If it came out, I'd wonder what else you'd faked. This does remind me, though, I've got to ask a friend of mine, how ten years ago she managed to be older than me, but is now younger than me, according to her profile on here Does she drive a DeLorean by any chance?" Or is she in show business? | |||
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"Pretty much every guy I've met or chatted to on here has shaved a few years off. Doesn't bother me I hadn’t realised til recently how common this is. Perhaps I should have lied too When you look like you do, you seriously don’t need to! Xx" Thank you x | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx" Just be yourself mate, and embrace your age. I have met two women from here, who purported they were 51, and they each turned out to be 60+ when we met face to face. I was not impressed to say the least....... Point to note; the dates on photos on peoples profiles are the date the image was uploaded to the site, and not necessarily the date the pic was taken! Be wary of this...... | |||
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"Pretty much every guy I've met or chatted to on here has shaved a few years off. Doesn't bother me That's true, the majority we've met have too. So have the women mind you. " When the woman who invited me round to hers for a coffee opened her front door, and my first thought was “Is your daughter in?” I was gobsmacked! Being polite (and slightly dazed), I went inside, and realised that I had fallen in to her trap, like a fly stuck in a cobweb, and wondered how many blokes had succumbed to her ‘charms’, because sex was there, on a plate....... I drank my coffee as quick as I could, and thanked her for her time........ It’s the back of their hands, their décolletage, and the neck (where an Adam’s Apple would be on a bloke), which are the giveaways to their true age...... | |||
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"As was said before embrace it only by doing this can we dispel the idea 50 is old " Well, I don’t feel old! I’m always basically 17 in my head ... | |||
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"The, actual person is much more important than any number. " I absolutely wholeheartedly agree with you, and would add the same regarding so many other attributes. But so many discard immediately using age filters that they will never get to find out. | |||
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"Never understood this. Let's say you change it to 42.. Why would you want to look like a 42 year old that looks 50? Arent you better to be 50 and look 50? " I’m actually not sure how old I look. I suppose it depends massively on what you’re here for. If you’re here “playing a role” of someone just wanting sex, then pretend to be 21 and wear a mask. If you’re here genuinely looking for likemindedly sexy souls, and you’re being yourself, then be your age, I guess. I’m genuinely regarding myself in the latter category! Xx | |||
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"Keep your age as it is op There's a few on my updates who seem to get younger rather than older and I'd never meet them, based on them lying. I always think if someone lies about their age, what else will they lie about. " Well quite. Catastrophe ensues! xx | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx" I honestly believe for everyone not looking for someone of a particular age there's someone else who is. We're both passed the 'dreaded' 50 and when we played as a couple found the interest did reduce, but those who did engage tended to be more serious about the lifestyle if that makes sense. | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx I honestly believe for everyone not looking for someone of a particular age there's someone else who is. We're both passed the 'dreaded' 50 and when we played as a couple found the interest did reduce, but those who did engage tended to be more serious about the lifestyle if that makes sense." It totally does. Thank you xx | |||
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"Hi all just turned 60 today there's still alot of lady's like this age group iv noticed " Happy 60th! | |||
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"Lie about something to improve your chances of getting sex? Never been done before , give it a try Seriously though it's really easy to tell if someone has knocked off more than about a year and very difficult to maintain the untruth. Often during conversation a reference will be made to something that reveals your true age then you just look silly. Accept that you're growing older and the limitations it places in you as far as fab is concerned and concentrate on the people who will meet men of 50 and older. Happy birthday " "Is your profile age your actual age? would be a great question to throw in to conversation....... | |||
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"You wouldn't be the first and you won't be the last " Sadly agree... best to be honest i think | |||
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"Hey Fab Hive Mind I’ve never faked my age, photos, or anything on here .. but I recently turned 50 and suddenly it’s very much harder to engage people in conversation. I’ve been on and off fab for maybe 8 years so I know the place very well. But are there people here who will take someone on their merits rather than the number on their profile? Ultimately, should I change my age to a fake one, and to what?? All ideas please! Thank you!! Joe xx" NO!!!!!!!!! I'd rather people be honest about everything including their age. | |||
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"Just be you. I turned 50 this year. Hasn’t made any difference, it’s just a number. J" Absolutely..I find that since reaching 50 it's an age that most won't want to engage in although I've been on and off since 47 and still nothing...love window shopping though | |||
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"Set your age to seventy OP I've had a great year! " You are the exception that proves the rule though Bobby. | |||
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"OP don't fake your age i'm 59 pushing 60 told i look much younger for my years. As one poster has said when at clubs or at a party something will crop up in a conversation which will back fire on you. I've always been up front about my age if asked which i think is the best policy, and had some great fun." You certainly do not look 59. You're hot!!! | |||
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"Turning 50 myself next year too. No hair and a bit of grey in my stubble but all my own teeth still " Me too Where the fuck did it go? | |||
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"You certainly do not look 59. You're hot!!! Thnak you for your comliment An English Rose " You're very welcome x | |||
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