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Which of the rooms do you find the friendliest???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya, as a reasonably new person on here, it's sometimes difficult to get any response in the rooms when you say hi. That does change after time, but for me, one room seems to stand out from the others, and for me that is the Midlands room. Have met some great people in there ( and in person too, you know who you are ) and for me, I vote it the friendliest room on Fab.

What's everyone elses thoughts and votes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean chat rooms or forums?

Chat rooms, Welsh, by far (though I am told Scotish chatters are lovely too, I've just never been in).....

In terms of Forums, I only realy post in the lounge, maybee in Swingers Chat. I find most of the usual sorts in both rooms.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, sorry, chat rooms. I have just found that the people in the Midlands room are more willing to accept newbies maybe and give them a chance? I don't know, but they win hands down for me.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't really use them, bit too fast and furious for me. prefer the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go "

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination. "
Which is why most people will advise you not to go into the directing rooms (or meat markets as many 'chatters' call them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination. Which is why most people will advise you not to go into the directing rooms (or meat markets as many 'chatters' call them)"

Makes me wonder if it's a swinger site or a voyeur site. lol. i do go in for a chat now and then, but I don't stay long, the comments are just a bit too much for me to handle for more than about 10 minutes at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination. Which is why most people will advise you not to go into the directing rooms (or meat markets as many 'chatters' call them)

Makes me wonder if it's a swinger site or a voyeur site. lol. i do go in for a chat now and then, but I don't stay long, the comments are just a bit too much for me to handle for more than about 10 minutes at a time. "

Dude........This is definately a Swinger site......Problem is (and this is nothing personal) some peopel think that being a swinger means that you are gonna get sex when you want it. Well you won't. This is not the place to come and have sex at the drop of a hat. If you want that go book an escort or go down the local meat market.

I am sorry to have to make it plain to you, but you have to work VERY HARD to get a meet from this site. I won't patronise you by telling you about ratio's or choice etc, but, none the less, that's the way it is........Feel free to PM if you wanna convo to get some things straight if you like, but complaining about not getting meets is not getting you further on towards getting some........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bedroom "
Which button do we have to press to get there then?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination. Which is why most people will advise you not to go into the directing rooms (or meat markets as many 'chatters' call them)"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to do'?

Sod that for a game of soldiers! If people cant cope with ignoring directions then the directing rooms arent for them.

If someone directed me to put my head in the oven, would I do it? No. If I go into directing rooms, I will do what I want, not what randoms tell me what to do. Im here to have a laugh n giggle not to be made uncomfortable!

Which is why I dont get it when eole moan about being directed in directing rooms, its not like the other users are forcing you to do something you dont want to do. Ignore or block is my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the directing rooms as I can have a giggle, and totally ignore those who ask me to get my bits out (which I have been known to do on occasions ).

I know its difficult for single guys, but I do try n respond to those who chat to me, and do chat more to those who stand out.

Good luck and keep giving it a go

And yet single men complain about not getting meets, no big surprise, they are worse than hyenas in there, demanding that women do this or that or whatever, some of the comments make me cringe and i'm no prude, not by any stretch of the imagination. Which is why most people will advise you not to go into the directing rooms (or meat markets as many 'chatters' call them)

Makes me wonder if it's a swinger site or a voyeur site. lol. i do go in for a chat now and then, but I don't stay long, the comments are just a bit too much for me to handle for more than about 10 minutes at a time.

Dude........This is definately a Swinger site......Problem is (and this is nothing personal) some peopel think that being a swinger means that you are gonna get sex when you want it. Well you won't. This is not the place to come and have sex at the drop of a hat. If you want that go book an escort or go down the local meat market.

I am sorry to have to make it plain to you, but you have to work VERY HARD to get a meet from this site. I won't patronise you by telling you about ratio's or choice etc, but, none the less, that's the way it is........Feel free to PM if you wanna convo to get some things straight if you like, but complaining about not getting meets is not getting you further on towards getting some........"
You misunderstand me. I'm not complaining at all, what I said was "And yet single men complain about not getting meets...". Besides, I've only been here almost 2 weeks, I'm in no rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like The Midlands room I have to say but then it feels more 'local' obviously. Have gone in to Northern but obvoiusly no one knew me so it was just different but not unfriendly.

As I said in another recent Thread I would suggest new chatters stay well away from the Directing rooms as they can be quite daunting even for 'an old lag' like me and they have little to do with Swinging. As the site supports them and they get around 300+ people each day then there is clearly a demand but to me they are for Cam-chat folk and those who want to enjoy all that that entails.

If you are looking for genuine meets then I would go to the other chatrooms.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to "

Now she tells me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If someone directed me to put my head in the oven, would I do it? No. If I go into directing rooms, I will do what I want, not what randoms tell me what to do. Im here to have a laugh n giggle not to be made uncomfortable!

Which is why I dont get it when eole moan about being directed in directing rooms, its not like the other users are forcing you to do something you dont want to do. Ignore or block is my advice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like The Midlands room I have to say but then it feels more 'local' obviously. Have gone in to Northern but obvoiusly no one knew me so it was just different but not unfriendly.

As I said in another recent Thread I would suggest new chatters stay well away from the Directing rooms as they can be quite daunting even for 'an old lag' like me and they have little to do with Swinging. As the site supports them and they get around 300+ people each day then there is clearly a demand but to me they are for Cam-chat folk and those who want to enjoy all that that entails.

If you are looking for genuine meets then I would go to the other chatrooms."
Agreed in full.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bedroom Which button do we have to press to get there then?"

Ask me again on yer birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bedroom Which button do we have to press to get there then?

Ask me again on yer birthday "
ffs I gotta wait till January? See I said you gotta work f**kin hard on here!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to

Now she tells me "

Oops sowwi. Iim just disobedient

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to

Now she tells me

Oops sowwi. Iim just disobedient "

Yes and I am dressed in leather Lederhosen

Damn those directors

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to

Now she tells me

Oops sowwi. Iim just disobedient

Yes and I am dressed in leather Lederhosen

Damn those directors"

*gets whip and german dictionary out*

Yaaaa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But just cos one goes in a directing room, does it mean they should do what they are 'directed to

Now she tells me

Oops sowwi. Iim just disobedient

Yes and I am dressed in leather Lederhosen

Damn those directors

*gets whip and german dictionary out*

Yaaaa?"

Try: "Bitte gib mir deine Schwann. Danke"

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over a year ago

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